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toba122 - 18-21 years old - female

Posted by toba122
on November 22nd, 2012 at 10:01 PM


Get over it. We exist.
I don't need some one pitying me like I have a problem, and I sure as hell don't need some one's "advice" to go out and socialize.

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  1. HipHop4Life - 18-21 years old

    Posted by HipHop4Life on November 22nd, 2012 at 10:02 PM

    we r on the same boat.but sooner or later we r gonna have to face the world

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  2. Melody063 - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Melody063 on November 22nd, 2012 at 10:03 PM

    Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

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  3. toba122 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by toba122 Nov 22nd, 2012 at 10:05PM

    Exactly! Going out with some sort of plan to "socialize" just creates awkward and uncomfortable situations. Socializing should just come naturally on it's own. That's how I've made all my friends. Not with some plan to go meet "people". Lol, you just can't force these things. I wish my family would understand that.

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  4. SocialyAkward - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by SocialyAkward Nov 22nd, 2012 at 10:12PM

    if you force yourself it can do more damage then good and they need to understand that. the only person i dont feel award or uncomfortable socializing with iv know for about 14 years and it took half of that to get to a point where I wasn't awkward or just disliking being around them for to long. then other people i was forced to be around because my family thought it was weird to hang out, well lets jsut say inow not only hate beig around them but after being forced on them i drew back even more so. so if heey do wnt you to become more social (And you do as well because if not then you should have to try) they will get that you need to do it natural.

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  5. SocialyAkward - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by SocialyAkward on November 22nd, 2012 at 10:06 PM

    im exactly the same way. im so sick of people (namely my family) telling me that im unheathy just because i prefer my art and the compute as company then a bunch of annoying friends. I have 2 close friends and though we arnt 'together' a lot they are all i need. I'll admit that i have a bit of a phobia of certain social situations but for the most part i just really dont like people as a whole.

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