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Posted by Anonymous
on November 22nd, 2012 at 10:07 PM


Who am I kidding. Sitting around sad because I feel like I found the love of my life and I can't have her?! Even if she wasn't promised to another I couldn't have her.

I mean truly, what can I offer her?

Love....I could offer her love.

I am fairly certain I could offer her the kind of love they write about in fairy tales.

The kind that shines bright enough for the world to see.

I could offer her laughter. Tons even. I imagine we could keep each other in stitches. We are both clowns.

I can see us in the kitchen cooking a meal, or rather, you watching me cook a meal. ;) And the two of us in our playful banter full of sarcasm going round and round til one of us smiles and shuts the other one up with a kiss.

Oh yes. We would laugh.

I could offer you strength, sense I match you in being strong. I could be the safe haven for you to collapse into when you are having one of those days that you do from time to time.

But I can't offer you nice things. I can't be a trophy for your arm.

I'm pretty plain. I'm pretty simple. Not really much to look at or write home about.

I couldn't offer you much of anything.

I could just be your best friend that you fell in love with.

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  1. Sicklyromantic - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Sicklyromantic on November 22nd, 2012 at 10:09 PM

    no one wants love anymore im afraid. if they did i would be with the girl i love

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  2. foreverklaus - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by foreverklaus Dec 2nd, 2012 at 6:57PM

    aww that's sad..

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  3. whispersinthewind - 70+ years old

    Posted by whispersinthewind on November 22nd, 2012 at 10:12 PM

    I think any real person would say that was more than enough. Good luck.

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  4. Posted by An EP User on November 22nd, 2012 at 11:06 PM

    Sounds perfect to me.

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  5. dollysworld - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by dollysworld on November 23rd, 2012 at 1:56 AM

    One thing you have so wrong. In the case of 90% of women (maybe more) what a man looks like has nothing to do with it. Its the way a man treats us that makes a man the most handsome in the world and have eyes for no other. Sounds to me like you have alot to offer. Don't sell yourself short. If she doesn't love you for who you are then there is someone else out there who will and you will love her so much more for it. Remember the country song...Thank God for Unanswered Prayers? Good luck to you.

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  6. dfsalkdjewklkwjdmx - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by dfsalkdjewklkwjdmx on November 23rd, 2012 at 3:00 AM

    Nice things? Love, a best friend, laughter, happiness..?



    You're not plain or simple. Not much to look at? I can still see your smile.. I can still see you and I don't wanna stop seeing that.



    All I want is something real. That's all. I would be the proudest, luckiest woman ... you would be a trophy ...whatever.. boyfriend? husband? Whatever. You would be an effing trophy friend walking around with our arms linked because you're YOU. And uh, P.S.? You're hot. K, thanks.



    Anyway, it would be magical. It's okay if it never comes to be. I have a lot of reasons why I could be writing one of these about myself.. Can I say whether it would work? No! We both don't know each other.. but I can say that if I didn't do everything I could to make you realize that I'm for real and that I want you in my life.. that I'd always regret it. You don't know how hard it was to let you go. But even though I did, I think of you still. I wish you'd change your mind and be real with me. I'm not going to be mad at you, and I want you to forgive yourself about it too. But I can't sit here and beg.. if you want to try it out.. what have we got to lose?

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  7. Earthen - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Earthen on November 23rd, 2012 at 6:28 AM

    There is nothing plain and simple about the truest kind of love that makes her feel loved, needed and wanted. Don't sell yourself short. A plain and simple love is the best that is, and a girl that truly loves will see your love as a trophy and reward.

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  8. MsScarletwiththerevolver - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by MsScarletwiththerevolver on November 23rd, 2012 at 8:56 PM

    If she's promised to someone else, and you can't tell her how you feel, or be honest with her.. what do you have? Pretty sure what you've done isn't anything even close to love.. and haven't seen any real changes. I think you should cut your losses and find someone else. If you were truly best friends with this person, you could tell her.



    Tellin' it like it is, folks. ;)

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  9. IJustWantYouToKnowWhoIAm - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by IJustWantYouToKnowWhoIAm on November 25th, 2012 at 8:45 AM

    heres a little bit of truth - the other stuff does matter. sorry guys! maybe not your physical looks so much, as long as you make yourself look good, take care of yourself within the constraints of your genetic makeup. and of course what you can offer matters so much more, but if you're constantly in financial trouble you find there is less to laugh at. more - much more- to fight about. as you watch the people around you glide through life while you struggle, the laughter comes less easily, no? it affects your intimacy - which is really what you're writing about. feeling loved, feeling understood, all those good things you offer her are contingent upon her not feeling so unbelievably stressed because life is a constant struggle. good luck out there....

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  10. lovelywings - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lovelywings on November 26th, 2012 at 7:19 AM

    what does a woman need more than love?

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  11. Posted by An EP User on November 26th, 2012 at 8:47 AM

    i loved my ex, he had nothing to give but love. no money, few looks, long distance, mental problems, attitude problems, broken home, a lot of things that i still look over. and yet he tossed me to the side, it doesnt matter how much you love someone, once you get them then they begin to treat you differently. if they offer you unconditional love to begin with, it wont last. my perception of love is done.

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