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LonelyGirl322 - 22-25 years old

Posted by LonelyGirl322
on November 24th, 2012 at 11:29 PM


I AM so sick of having pity parties and feeling sorry for myself. and wanting attention. I used to be better then this...how do I get over feeling not worth it? I have pity parties all the time wishing I was a hotter girl for someone one. Some days are good others are just horrible.
Adivce would be good 

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  1. EmptyInACrowd - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by EmptyInACrowd on November 24th, 2012 at 11:36 PM

    If you get any good advice, let me know. I am the exact same way. I USED to have good days and bad days but since my last breakup its all been one long bad day.

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  2. Posted by An EP User on November 24th, 2012 at 11:40 PM

    Honestly, the tool I found most useful was self-hypnosis: after reading a book on it, I made a tape of suggestions to build my self-confidence, and fell asleep listening to it every night for several months, and it helped me immensely. Sounds loopy, I know, but think - most of why you feel so badly about yourself is because your internal dialogue, the voice in your head, repeats negative thoughts and emotions over &over, so you convince yourself of their truth. This sort of re-programming yourself is a way of counter-acting that.



    Oh and BTW if that is a photo of you, you look quite lovely enough to make anyone else happy to have you in their life.

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