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Re. I'm so disgusting

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Posted by Anonymous
on December 11th, 2012 at 2:02 AM


Don't think that way. Any man worth knowing will accept you for all you are. No one is perfect, lifes more than bodies, we are soul. Real men go through life with you as a partner, through thick, thin, undressed, dressed up, sick, well, down, happy, pert boobs, saggy boobs, they hug you when your baby is born and help you when you are weak, they lift you when you are down, they kiss all of you. If they are bothered by a hair I personally wouldn't be bothered too much with what is currently high on their agenda of important because its unlikely they will stick with you through the things you need them too. It's all about soul. Don't change for anyone. You will meet the right one for you in time, be patient and pray and in the meantime get to know and love who you are inside and out and then they will know how to love you to. You have to know your worth to fight for it. There are real good decent guys out there. You just have to make sure you portray who you are within and don't make yourself only about image so they can love all of you. Many men are conditioned to be all about looks but when personality lacks they are empty and unsatisfied. They need their hearts challenged to see life in full bloom and love. The best thing you can do is be honest, be you, be strong but supportive in helping bring out the best in them. Don't fight them but don't let anyone make you feel less for any of those trivial reasons. We are so much more than bodies. Beauty can be erased in a second, we have to go deeper or else we feel empty and hungry for more. We are always searching for more in the wrong places if we don't know who we are in our soul. Knowing that and being able to portray that is how you will be able to meet the man who stays with you because he will love the real you.

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  1. undisclosedone - 70+ years old - male

    Posted by undisclosedone on December 11th, 2012 at 8:23 AM

    Truth. And acutally it is the unattractive people who have been blessed in life. They see life from a different perspective and learn things attractive people rarely do.

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 25th, 2014 at 11:10PM

  3. AmIJustBeingParanoidNCrazyLOL - 26-30 years old

    Posted by AmIJustBeingParanoidNCrazyLOL on December 11th, 2012 at 12:56 PM

    i wish i could though. I can't be me..my defenition to that is seeing something i like in somebody elses life and try to mimick that. No matter what that is. For instance everyone laughed because when my frnd wanted to do cosmetology i wanted to do cosmetology. Whn my aunt became a nurse i wanted to become a nurse. When my cousin opened up a buisness and wanted to travel. I then opened a buisness. and said i wanted to travel. When my friends started a makeup and jewlery line. I wanted to do the same. See what is wrong with me i live in the shadows of everyone elses dreams. Ideas thoughts and ambitions. I even go as far as wanting what my sister has. Her underwear,her job,her husband etc. Maybe that is why my husbands love for me dwindled. He probably sees that i have no identity of my own. I know ppl say a marriage is through thick&thin. And im just the type of women that mimicks even my moms relationship. She could be beat hit cheated on disrespected and she still stays. Im one to be the same :(  

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  4. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 25th, 2014 at 11:10PM

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