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hadyourchance - 31-35 years old - female

Posted by hadyourchance
on December 16th, 2012 at 4:42 PM


When you give something your all...and you put so much time & effort into it and try every which way to make it successful...only to have it tossed aside like it was nothing. :(

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  1. yumankumar - 26-30 years old

    Posted by yumankumar on December 16th, 2012 at 4:54 PM

    Experience is the name given to the no of mistakes you made in your life, more mistakes you make more experienced you are.



    I know it sucks if your effort goes to trash unappreciated, but it doesn't mean it will not be appreciated at other place.



    Be proud of on your efforts and abilities, your work should independent of appreciation, rather it is for excellence.



    If u r not getting what u want it means Universe is telling U- its time for a change



    Your Friend,

    Nachi

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 29th, 2014 at 12:58AM

  3. girlcapitol - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by girlcapitol Dec 26th, 2012 at 12:28PM

    Well said, Nachi.

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  4. NotLarryBubkiss - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by NotLarryBubkiss on December 18th, 2012 at 12:46 PM

    I am so right there with you. The worst is you give it your all and yet it's still not good enough.

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  5. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 29th, 2014 at 12:58AM

  6. Kohl - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Kohl Dec 18th, 2012 at 10:28PM

    It is not good enough, time to move on.

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  7. hadyourchance - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by hadyourchance Dec 19th, 2012 at 9:23PM

    Sometimes it doesn't even come close to being good enough.

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  8. jkitty93 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by jkitty93 on December 19th, 2012 at 12:35 PM

    I know how that feels, the hardest part is letting it go, whatever it is you've worked so hard on. But all that tells us is that we have something better to work for and this thing probably isn't worth our time. Even though we can't see it right now.

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  9. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 29th, 2014 at 12:58AM

  10. girlcapitol - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by girlcapitol Dec 26th, 2012 at 12:28PM

    You are so right!

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  11. Posted by An EP User on December 26th, 2012 at 12:34 PM

    Yes, it certainly is. There is disbelief at the insensitive response, and then some questioning of self and the possibility of misunderstanding or erroneous/irrational expectations. But what it comes down to is that, unfortunately, this is a thoughtless person in your life and you generously gave them the benefit of the doubt and the trust up front. It turned out they don't deserve it - yes, disappointing, but so much better to learn this now. I learned wayyyyyyyyyy too late, no, ACTED way too late twice but never again!!! Best of luck. You will be fine.

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  12. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 29th, 2014 at 12:58AM

  13. hadyourchance - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by hadyourchance Dec 26th, 2012 at 1:46PM

    Very true

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  14. idlewatcher - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by idlewatcher on December 26th, 2012 at 1:40 PM

    I believe that life is somewhat of a filter - through trials like these, we learn who is dependable and who to trust and unfortunately, we also learn who we can't trust. Hopefully you rebound soon :)

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  15. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 29th, 2014 at 12:58AM

  16. babygirl72 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by babygirl72 on December 26th, 2012 at 7:47 PM

    I know, first hand....over and over again. I haved learned but still letting go out of what I hoped for but know deep down it never was healthy. Time...

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  17. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 29th, 2014 at 12:58AM

  18. savetheglobe - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by savetheglobe on December 30th, 2012 at 8:14 PM

    Don't lose the faith: most successful people I know have failed their way to great success. A person who has never failed in life has never tried.

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  19. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 29th, 2014 at 12:58AM

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