23 year old virgin, Have never kissed a girl and afraid of touching a girl. Please read.

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Posted by Anonymous
on December 26th, 2012 at 3:38 AM

G'day. (Yes, I am from Melbourne, Victoria, Australia)
I am here to confess that I am a 23 year old straight heterosexual virgin (I will never be bisexual and I will never be a homosexual gay), I have never kissed a girl before, I am scared of touching a girl and I have never had a girlfriend in my whole entire life. I plan to never lose my virginity unless I get married and if the wife wants to have children (and after we have had the amount of children she would like, then we would continue having sex (because it is my belief and understanding that sex is a physical way of a couple to express their love for one another, is that wrong?), only if she would want to continue having sex with me) and only if the wife wants to have sex with me. I also plan on not kissing a girl until we are married and on the alter after we have said our 'I dos' (I am not married at the moment, I am pretty sure I will never get married and I am pretty sure I will die a virgin and die never having kissed a girl and die being scared of touching a girl), . Is this normal or am I just weird? I know it is normal to lose ones virginity and kiss a girl at least once and to touch a girl, but for some reason I do not want to do that because I am afraid I might get in trouble and I am afraid of hurting a girl unintentionally (I would never want to hurt a girl in any way, shape or form) and I am afraid that things might go wrong. I get teased by my family about this so there must be something wrong with there?

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  1. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by crazihilary on December 26th, 2012 at 3:57 AM

    okay, tell me how things goes with you.. are you afraid of talking to a girl? or you don't get your courage to speak to a girl? Is that you dislike girls or they dislike you? Didn't you find any girl who started a conversation with you but you didn't go along with it..??

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  2. TheAustralian - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by TheAustralian Dec 26th, 2012 at 4:11AM

    (I just joined so I could reply, I wrote this as Anonymous (now I joined as TheAustralian), also sorry I posted this twice, I thought the first time I posted it, that it didn't get posted, sorry) Thank you for replying. I can talk to girls (but not touch them, not even for a handshake), but I am afraid of females liking me more than a friend (in the past I could tell a girl liked me and that would make me very uncomfortable). I like girls, but I am afraid of unintentionally hurting any girl in any way, shape or form (I would never want to hurt a girl in any way, shape or form) and I am afraid of getting in trouble.

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  3. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by crazihilary on December 26th, 2012 at 4:16 AM

    I can tell nothing wrong with your personality.. It's the problem with your mind.. What you mean by hurting any girl?

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  4. TheAustralian - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by TheAustralian Dec 26th, 2012 at 4:24AM

    Thank you and yeah I guess there might be something wrong with my mind. It is hard to explain...for some reason I think girls are fragil (emotionally (mostly), psychologically, maybe even physically) no offense too any girls/women/ladies that may be reading. I know that girls/women/ladies are just as fragil as men in the real world, but yeah, cannot really explain it any better, sorry.

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  5. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by crazihilary Dec 26th, 2012 at 4:30AM

    Okay you don't start a relationship because you think girls are fragile and suppose you started liking a girl and then for some reason broke up, this will hurt her to death.... Dude, you think, you are not fragile, by suppressing your feeling to have a girl friend from years is not making you less fragile.. you are confessing it here cause you feel you can't keep it your self any longer.. stop hurting your self any longer and avoid thinking that you will hurt others.. remember you are the most lovable to you than anyone else..

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  6. Posted by An EP User on December 26th, 2012 at 7:36 AM

    did you come from a strict family background? do you have any history of abuse of any kind, emotionally or sexual from any family member or an older adult friend, teacher?

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  7. mara8 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by mara8 on December 27th, 2012 at 9:24 AM

    sounds like you just haven't meet the right girl .

    If you put too many expectations into a relationship then it will never work , like someone else said just go out in the world and meet girls and dont be afraid to kiss and touch them its a natural thing in life . Not all women act like blokes we just are more assertive and know what we want .

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