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chuzan - 36-40 years old - male

Posted by chuzan
on February 13th, 2013 at 12:59 PM


Im seriously thinking about leaving my wife I dont think im in love with her and dont want lie been through really rough 5 years nearly died last year and its changed me as a person I have no malicious towards her and do love her but im not in love with her if that makes sense? 

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  1. Posted by An EP User on February 13th, 2013 at 1:02 PM

    I totally get it.

    You can't help it and it's not her fault. If you don't go you will both be very unhappy.

    Make your way on your own, for a new path has been cleared for you.

    May she live her life well.

    And all the best for you.

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 20th, 2014 at 7:32PM

  3. chuzan - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by chuzan Feb 13th, 2013 at 1:04PM

    We have a daughter 6 as well

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  4. DelicataAqueum - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by DelicataAqueum Feb 13th, 2013 at 1:17PM

    Do not stay because of your daughter. It is always the opposite of the "right thing to do" Your child will sense the loss of feeling and it will affect her into adulthood. your daughter matters, of course...but you sound as if you have been thru a life changing experience. Even if you went away for a while to see if that's what you want. Be fair to yourself. When you had the child you had no idea this would happen. You know in your heart what needs to be done in the best interest of all those involved.

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  5. uneasyaboutit - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by uneasyaboutit on February 13th, 2013 at 1:14 PM

    Sounds like your torn. I mean, clearly you care about her and you want her to be happy, but hun, are you sure you are truly done? I ask this because you don't want to have any regrets. May I ask have you found someone else???

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  6. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 20th, 2014 at 7:32PM

  7. chuzan - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by chuzan Feb 13th, 2013 at 1:17PM

    No but I cant say that if it was offerd that I wouldn't take it

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  8. uneasyaboutit - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by uneasyaboutit Feb 13th, 2013 at 1:27PM

    I just read your confession about your horrible childhood experience- I am so sorry u had to go thru this. Its ironic, I am in a VERY similar situation. I was 12, took me 9 years to tell anyone that it was actually rape, but it went to trial as molestation. I am currently in a 5 year relationship w my BF. We are engaged, but I have found that I have 'fallen out of love w him'. The spark just isn't there anymore. And worse, I have now fallen for a married man and we have been 'seeing' eachother for about 8 months. I don't want anything more from him, I don't want him to leave his wife. He just fills in the holes my BF cant seem to. I feel guilty all the time. but Im afraid to leave my BF because deep down, I do love him. Im just hoping that spark will come back......sorry, I totally just made this about myself, but I really understand what your going thru and how your feeling- I too have tried to kill myself, I still am dealing with what happened to me..........Does your wife know how your feeling?

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  9. Posted by An EP User on February 13th, 2013 at 1:14 PM

    I totally get it.

    You can't help it and it's not her fault. If you don't go you will both be very unhappy.

    Make your way on your own, for a new path has been cleared for you.

    May she live her life well.

    And all the best for you.

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  10. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 20th, 2014 at 7:32PM

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