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Kimena - 31-35 years old

Posted by Kimena
on February 19th, 2013 at 11:47 PM

I have been hearing this topic a lot lately at work. People getting married and saying, "they can't wait to get their lives started", or "their lives will start as soon as they get married". This is a misperception. Life doesn't start when one gets married! Life started a few billion years ago! And "your life" started when you were born. 
This is another topic that really bothers me. Who says your life will start when you get married???? Why do people get married in the first place?  Are you waiting for something better to happen?  Do you expect your life to be better as soon as you get married.  Start your life NOW! be PRESENT!   What will happen when you are married and it's not what you expected? Will you life need to end then? Will you have to get married to re-start you life again?  This is ridiculous!!! marriage is nothing but a contract. Your life is not worse if you are not married. I don't like to go with what society tells me. i hate the woman at work who instigates and likes to know if I had a serious relationship, if I was married and when will I get married. Who cares! i don't want to answer all this questions, thank you very much! This is part of standing up for myself. 

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