My lover's wife found out...

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Posted by Anonymous
on March 6th, 2009 at 9:53 PM

My lover's wife found out about his affair. Now all 3 of us feel like crap. She's hurting, he's hurting and I am, too. I am hurting for him and his family. I don't regret loving him; I only regret that I didn't tell him sooner. Maybe then, this wouldn't have happened. She sounded like Satan-alive and he cried like a baby, while i listened to the argument in complete shock over what was happening. It was a like a nightmare. I dreamed about her and would wake up with anxiety attacks. I spent a week in the hospital afterward-no one knowing what had put me there. I was practically a zombie for 3 weeks. I have been the cheated-on wife, and this has been an extremely more painful experience. Maybe because I love this man with everything that I am, maybe because he still makes me weak in the knees after 6.5 yrs. or maybe because I despise myself for causing such a disturbance in their lives. Whatever the case may be, I cannot stop calling him, thinking of him, wanting just to hear his voice, or feel his touch.

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  1. ShinobiJoe - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by ShinobiJoe on March 6th, 2009 at 9:57 PM

    People like you and your lover suck - and not in a good way. Good going.

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  2. LonelyChef - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by LonelyChef on March 6th, 2009 at 10:07 PM

    What are you Joe? Mr. Perfect? Or don't you have anyone that cares for you?
    Seems to me if he keeps on going with you, he doesn't care about his wife and should tell her he wants you. What a waste of life to spend it with the person you aren't close to.

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  3. ShinobiJoe - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by ShinobiJoe on March 6th, 2009 at 10:12 PM

    Oh look I drew you out, lol. I never claim to be perfect - check my profile quote: "I'm not perfect, but who are we kidding, neither are you". And look jerky, I have a lot of people who care about me, I just don't go around ******* with other people's lives and happiness. Karma ****** you, plain and simple.

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