Dreaming Of Other Men, Not My Boyfriend...and Thinking I'm In Love With Them! | Relationships Dream Interpretations

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For a long time now I will once in a while wake up and remember my dream. I usually can't recall what I was dreaming about, but usually about once a month I have a really vivid dream about someone. They are always male and I always know who they are. In the past it has been an old crush from highschool that I was friends with, came close to dating him but never did. I still am kind of in contact with him through myspace but haven't seen him in a long time. He was one of those guys that I thought would be an almost perfect boyfriend (of course no one is perfect). So what really made me find this site and start asking for help is the two dreams I have have the last two days. I had the first one about my ex that I dated in highschool off and on for 4 years (we went through a lot and now he is in prison...not for hurting me or anything I just wasn't going to deal with having an "in-trouble-all-the-time" boyfriend anymore) and in the dream, I felt like I just wanted to jump into his arms and I just felt this overwelming sensation that I really loved him again. Oh, and did I mention I haven't talked to him for over a year, and I have a boyfriend that I am with now who I love, but I can't help but ask myself over and over if he is really the one? I've known him for 5 years and we became best friends for 3 months before we got together last year, and I really WANT to be more sure of our relationship. It really upsets me that I am having these dreams and that is why I want to know why...The other dream was this incredible feeling towards Cameron Mathison (soap star that hosts "I wanna be a soapstar" and star in "All my children"--god i love this soap!) and I felt like I was in love with him...never was I really obssessed with him in any way or even THOUGHT that I had a crush on him, but now I do. HA! So if anyone has any idea what the hell is going on inside my unconcious mind PLEASE reply!!!!! I also would love to anwser any questions about my feelings or life if that helps anyone's insight on the subject. Thanks for reading this!!!! I SERIOUSLY appreciate it!

Dream Symbols from our Dream Dictionary:all my children | anwser | cameron mathison | contact | did i mention | i love | i wanna be a soapstar | long time now | myspace | obssessed

Dream Dictionary Type: relationships dream
Dream Posted on: 09/10/07
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Posted on June 16th, 2009:

I have had almost the same exact dreams as you! It's been bothering me for some time now and I feel so guilty when I wake up. I am also in a long term relationship, but I have dreams about my ex-boyfriend from years ago all of the time. He too went to jail for some time (not involving me) and I haven't seen him in about 10 years. So why am I still dreaming of him??? And in my dreams I am sooo happy to see him and we are so in love, it's very strange to me and I don't really want to talk to any of my friends about it because I am afraid my current boyfriend will find out and take it the wrong way. Also, I have been having very romantic dreams about someone famous, Brody Jenner hahahaha. I never even thought I had a crush on him or anything, but apparently I must :o) So even though this probably doesn't help you, I wanted you to know that maybe these dreams are common...but still an answer as to why would be very nice. It's so frustrating.

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Posted on October 3rd, 2011:
Dear Dani,

I think you are really unsure of your current relationship, that's why you keep dreaming of others. Your sub-conscious mind has the ability to redefine and rebuild what you cannot do or couldn't in reality.
About the famous guy, you might have just had a face to your fantasies that probably are not getting fulfilled with your current botyfriend. And this, not because the guy is bad at performing but probably because you are doubting him. Just ignore these dreams. Hope this helps...

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Posted on February 22nd, 2009:
I dreamed that my man of 3 yrs. made me have sex to another man in exchange of material things cause he didn't have the money to buy them so he paid him by making me have sex with him.
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