I Am In An Almost Sexless Marriage Stories of Experiences

Its horrible, i feel unwanted, needy, desperate for the touch of a woman, i feel ugly, i am full of passion and love to give and so so desperade.

Hoping just sets you up for heartache and frustration.

I'm currently having sex with a married man. See he's not attracted to his wife. He avoids sex with her at all cost. The wife is under the impression that's he has erectile dysfunction. He doesn't, at least with me. We fuck like gods. I...

We had sex 4 times in February, while we were attempting the 10 day challenge, but the last time we were intimate was Feb 23 ... so i guess we have gone back to the once a month plan. Although we both have a very full schedule for the...

SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE ON MY OTHER STORY!!!!!!

I was discussing the lack of sexual frequency in our marriage with my wife, and to prove to her that some women actually do pursue sex, I told her about the marriage blogs I read that talk about women who have higher drives tan their...

Last night, my wife and I were enjoying a quiet evening in. My wife was sitting in her chair doing a crossword puzzle, one of her favorite things to do. It got late, and I decided I needed to go to bed so I could get up in the morning...

My wife and I very much desire each other, but she doesn't *make* time for us. We've gone from multiple times a week to *maybe* a couple times a month... and the few opportunities we get are always rushed because she wants to get it...

I have been monitoring this group as well as ILIASM, and I have never found a situation that quite matches mine. In a nutshell, my sex life is infrequent, predictable, and boring. However, the main problem is my chronic inability to...

I haven't had sex in 6 weeks.. We would normally have sex at least 2 x a week. For a little over a week, he's been in the spare bedroom.. Told him i need my space to figure things out and that I don't know if the marriage is right...

I found this forum looking for a bit of daily consolation and a tidbit to carry forward. Searching for help on these marital topics brings the reminder that our problems/difficulties are experienced the world over. Thanks all.
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I posted in ILIASM and also I am the refuser in a sexless marriage. I am not going to repost but i just want to say refusers can gradually change. In my case something jarring had to happen to wake me up to my husbands feelings. four...

The overwhelming negativity of the posts in experiences like this one is the reason why I have not read or posted much here recently. Two key reasons for that is that I don't need to be more depressed about my situation than I already...

I love my husband. He is a great father and a good husband. He cares about me and my needs except for sexually. We used to have a great sex life until he became ill and depressed. He is now better on both but he sex drive has never...

Is. Counseling really going to help with a sexless marriage. Would love to hear what experiences folks are willing to share.

My wife of almost 7 years have had a strained relationship for a few months. It is like her sex drive was turned off. I don't get a sense of physical desire on her part any longer. We hug and kiss, and here recently it has gotten...

I guess the term "almost" could mean something different for different people. To me it means very infrequent. It also refers to a general lack of intimacy and affection. It means sleeping alone frequently. It also refers to what...

After 35 years I've landed myself in not a sexless marriage but one with no intimacy of any kind. I've been angry and full of resentment. He doesn't talk to me, share feelings... nothing. We're roommates without benefits.

I found...

So now, I have read many stories on this site that have hit so close to the nail on the head, that it has literally resulted in a change in my attitude and my actions. I know what a "refuser" is, and how long ago she actually "checked...

Been married 35 years. No sex, kissing, touching for the past 3 years. I've asked him at least a hundred times what's going on. After the 6th time he said it was because he was tired of me saying no. Really? A little background is...