I Am Leaving a Sexless Marriage Stories of Experiences

So, I filed for divorce last week, and tomorrow i will see my soon-to-be ex-husband "T" since he is on leave for the next two weeks from Germany. I am not sure how to feel about this, as it has been nearly 6 months since i last saw him...

My ex had the sex drive of a nun. We were polar opposites.  I wanted sex twice a day.  She wanted it twice a year - if that.  After 18 years, it was time to call it quits.  I filed.  She was shocked.  Best thing I ever did!  Don...

Not so long ago I was one part of a relationship.
A relationship that suffocated me.

No touch. No hold. No giving. No love.
A very strange kind of relationship.
Especially since I am very warm.
And giving.

I am grateful she let me...

My wife and I are both 65. We are fit and well and have been married for 42 years. I think I have been a good husband have never cheated. We have one unmarried son 34. We live in a quiet part of the country in the UK. I am contemplating...

Hey everyone! I haven't been on this board for quite a while but just wanted to give everyone an update. I'm 4 months of 6 into my separation and it was totally worth it. Me and the W are still amicable save for a few incidents but all...

I married my friend. I've been with him for over a decade years. I thought because he was stable, kind, loving, reliable and an amazing father, I'd love him. Now, I am in a sexless marriage. We love one another have children and turns...

I came to the decision to separate from my wife while were apart this Christmas. I have been looking into the details and am not sure if we should separate first to cool off, ot just outright divorce. I don't see our relationship going...

My lady friend just filed divorce. they were married for 16 years, both works good job, no children. The husband was cheating, she caught it and she wants out.
When I brought up the idea of a second chance, she open up her heart to me...

I look back to how my life was a month ago and cannot believe how sad it was. Staring outside of my window out into the streets of Bamberg, Germany, I longed for the life i could be missing out on; instead, i was conformed to a sexless...

I have been married for almost 10 years. We were married in our mid 30's and after waiting for what seemed like forever I met my husband and we had a wounderful beginning. My husband is an alcholic and I knew this when I married him but...

I am slowly discovering my emotional triggers.

My marriage to my ex was rotten with control. I had to do everything with him. He determined what it was that we "enjoyed." He determined the when, where, and how of my life. He...

I am finally leaving my sexless marriage. Too little intimacy and too many tears. It's sad, exciting and sobering but I know it will be the best for the both of us. I thought i'd never get to join this group!

I am finally leaving a sexless marriage. It is giving so much freedom to do so many things I have wanted to do. And not one of them is sexual! I have freedom to watch my own movie, leave the dishes undone and put off the laundry for...

Our divorce is final next Friday. I am so ready to be rid of his emotionally numb, P-A garbage.

Today, for example. He agreed to take Max, our (now my) dog. My truck was loaded up, we were ready to leave.

He called, as I slipped the...

Am I afraid? Or am I hanging onto values drilled into me all my life such as commitment and responsibilities and using them as an excuse? How many of you have stayed in a sexless marriage because of uncertainty, whether that uncertainty...

My husband left 2.5 weeks ago for CA---I asked him to, because I was just at the end of my rope being unhappy and the only one doing anything to work on the relationship! At the very end, it seemed like maybe he had a bit of a...

So, it's been five days since the STBX moved out. Sleep and I haven't been speaking to each other much, except when I've come to a point of complete and utter exhaustion. Then I'll fall into more of a coma-like state, empty of dreams...

Friends, I think this should be our group's theme song:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jNlIGDRkvQ

I have made up my mind. If only I could execute my plan. I want to leave. I no longer have hope that things will change, and in reality I don't want things to change, as my feelings for this man are no longer the same.

But how can...

Well, it finally hit me. After three days of his absence I feel completely, absolutely, and utterly alone.

It started last night, after he dropped off the things he mistakenly moved. He left his keys and garage door opener, as well. I...