I Don't Forgive and Forget Easily Stories of Experiences

I can't seem to forgive and forget easily...and quite honestly, I'm not sure I want to, at this point.

People always say that forgiving would benefit me, not him...but I am not sure I see it that way...

First of all, if he hadn't...

I hear this word a lot and what does it mean? It means letting go of all the negative feelings for someone so that you can both move past the pain that has occurred between you.

Why is forgiveness inevitable? is it compulsory? what if...

I try hard not to be like this, and it's something I will always work on. If someone screws me over once, that's it. Relationship over. I don't want to be around you anymore. It's just the way I naturally am and I wish I was more...

Thanks to you, i've learned an important lesson.
I've learned that it's okay to open up your heart, but then you have to face reality sooner or later.
I picked later.
I didn't want to face reality.
But it had to come.
There's no way...

These past weeks have been really hard for me. My best friend violated a trust that broke our bond and completely devastated me. I've been through so much already and I couldnt understand why he hurt me the way I did and left me alone...

Its not that I hold a grudge. I really don't. People can go on about their lives and I wouldn't give them the time of day. My anger or any other emotion feels too precious to waste on those people. But I'll always remeber who did what...

I was sleep in my bed and went to the restroom in the middle of the night then my husband started punching me in the face and blood started comming out my face and he wants me to say sorry

This is where forgiveness will be left, here on this blog post. I've been given this chance to become a great person, I have friends who love me and a life ahead of me.
I've given you a certain period of time to try and make up to me...

Oftentimes, I hear people say that they forgive but they don’t forget. I don’t believe in this idea; I believe that so long as you can remember what bad things people have done to you, you cannot really forgive. Once you have...

I am a true believer in forgiveness, but I also do believe that some things just can't be forgiven. Sometimes you hurt so bad, that you can't forgive it. Forgiveness comes from the heart and in order to give it, you have to feel it. I...

I try so hard to forgive and forget, but i just can't. early into our relationship, my boyfriend hurt me a lot. he flirted with other women, he wrote extremely hurtful letters about how i was a dirty whore, and he really didn't take our...

...Because I have a long memory when someone screws up and gets in my bad books. I may eventually find it in my heart to forgive that person, but I never forget what they did to me or my loved ones, and one day they will get theirs...

There are ghosts from my past that will haunt me forever, but I just want to forget everything. I want to start over. Sometimes I want to be somebody else. I wish I could forget all bad stuff so it won't weigh me down any more. I wish I...

About 20 years ago, a my husband's sister walked away from his family and started spreading insane rumors about her childhood that all of her siblings knew were untrue.  She stayed out of our lives  and even denied her father the...

I shouldn't give them that rental space in my head...I guess you could say I'm good at holding grudges

Once someone has wronged me, it first has to be significant enough. I don't let the little petty things get to me. But if its someone I've trusted then that's another story. If you wronged me by betraying my trust, lying to me and...

I Can't let go of them.  Oh I can with the guys or casual friends.  But if you are in my posse and you do or say something I think is disloyal I write you out of my life.  Disloyalty is the worst. Nothing wipes the memory away...

My daughter is know a stranger to me.I can never forgive her for what she is about to do.She has decided to sign away her rights to her own children.NO  REAL mother would ever just do something like that.And why is she doing it...

i really dont know where to start but i will keep it short.
i had a very strict father when growing up who thought nothing of using me or my older brother as a punch bag this went on for years for things like coming home ten minutes...

It's more of i never forget than forgive. I don't mind forgiving people, it's the negativity or embarrassment that sticks with me all my life taunting me. I won't forgive when people call me ugly like five years ago. All my bad past...