I Think My Marriage Is Over Stories of Experiences

So I think its about week three of the great return and still the ambivalence continues, should I be working harder to stay with my Husband, or should I take the chance and leave?
In corner one: The Husband
Trying hard to make changes...

So I have been living with my H again after our separation of a month (and I spent some time with the OM). Currently I am not in contact with the OM but I am beginning to miss things about him.

I look at my H who is trying so hard in...

I have been married for five years. My husband has not worked at all for the last three. He worked only part time the second year we were married. He pays no bills and our house is not very clean. He hoards toys and spends all day...

My husband has a Gambling problem his out all night at the casino comes home n starts fight for more money

We're 16 years in. We have 3 children 14 to 7. He has several children (28 to 20) from his first marriage who only speak to me since he was never a Dad to them before I came along. I think mostly I stay because I know how much worse...

Hello. I'm a young gentleman that's been married for almost 2 years now. I'm married to one of my high schools friends I met up after high school. I'm 22 and she's 21. We have no children. We met up and everything was great, she had a...

I and my wife are married for 4 years. In the first year, everything used to be fine by her, and I used to be enough, but after that time I fell unable to attend her demands. I am an engineer and all the expenses in the house are my...

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I am at the stage where I do not mind if my "Husban" finds this mail. I have been married 6 years and the first 5.5 of them were not that great. I can honestly stay i hate my husband. Im angry and unhappy in my relationship...

I have been married for 18 years and we have had out problems and no matter how bad we came through. He cheated and I forgave, he let me down I forgave. I think I have had a midlife crisis, I got to close to someone over email an I...

We have been married for 10 years.About 8 months ago I noticed my wife was always keeping her phone close by and texting alot.She never did that before.I confronted her about it and she admitted that she was back in contact with her...

My husband and I have been married 5 years in the last 5 years he has only worked maybe a grand total of 2 years. Over the past few years the arguements have gotten increasingly worse the first time he shoved me into a chair during an...

My husben and I have been together for more then 20 yr. we have not slept in the same bed in 3yrs. He love his computer and his privet time. I tried to tell him it was over and he gave me that line you are my best friend  and I love...

Hello,
I have been married for 6 yrs. I adore my wife. We used to share a deep connection. Both previously married we both thought we got each other. She took a job that requires a lot of travel. I have been very accommodating for...

Seriously, I really don't where to start.. I found this forum by searching online "I think My Marriage is Over" and I wanted an outlet.

Here's my story
I met this girl at work where both of us were traveling consultants at that time...

Let me start by saying that I absolutely adore my wife.  She is strong and funny.  Intelligent and motivated.  Wonderful to the kids.   My love for her is honest and pure.  But sometimes love just isn't enough.  Lately we have...

Just don't know where to start, theres been so many arguments recently it's driving me crazy. nothing ever seems to get sorted they just pile up on top of each other & I don't know how to change things. He won't talk a problem through...

We used to talk about it
Growing old together
Would we be like fruit?
You paused to consider
Sweetening as we ripen?
My eyes were your answer
That conversation is long gone
Replaced by bitterness
Fouling the air
Meat rotting in the sun...

My husband and I fight all the time. I'm just so tired of it. At least several times a week, we are fighting about something. I know it's not healthy for our daughter to be around that. I guess I just hate the fact that she will...

My husband and I have been together for 12 years.  Our love has been a fairytale from the beginning.  Together we set and accomplished so many goals and dreams.  We were soul mates, lovers and best friends.  We worked hard for the...

We cant be together for a day without fighting, bickering, having to escape to separate rooms.
Its always over stupid things, usually him finding fault with something small I did or said that SHOULD have been done or said another way...