I Am a Woman In a Sexless Marriage Stories of Experiences

I have been married about ten years. Together thirteen. I feel I am wasting my life on this man. I have no emotional connection with him. We haven't had sex in two years. He moved down the hall to another bedroom. We share...

Since my marriage is not good, it goes as well with my sex life. I was looking forward to try this thing so called sex with him but it turns out to be a failure as will. It is a matter of degrading part on myself because I feel less as...

Just dont know where to begin or how to start. all i know is, that it is all so great and painfull to even break down my story. It feels all to much to tell. Ive only had 3 years with my girlfrend and sex some time last year i think...

That's what I'm always told. But we dont. I've been married now for over 7 years. And have maybe had sex 5 times. With none in the last 2. The first year and a half while we dated was wonderful. We couldn't get enough of each other...

Quick history on us. We have been married for almost 3 years and have a 2 year old together. We got married when I was a few months pregnant, yes now I believe that is the reason he married me. We have been to marriage counseling and it...

i've been married for 3years and a half
my husband never initiate sex with me, i know he wants it but he never asks for it!!
when he is horny all he does is to lay in bed on his back waiting for me
i've never had my orgasm with him
he...

A simple act - sewing the tattered remnants of the baby blankets back together once again. It takes a couple hours - he sits in the chair watching hockey. As usual, they don't talk. It could be 5 miles between them not five feet...

Okay so I did the whole filling thing and whatnot. I told my refuser husband I'd filed for the big "D". I kept it all above board and clean, I didn't hide my motives, I didn't prevaricate...
So now we have a situation and I'm severely...

There is no reason for your husband's mind to wander outside your marriage. And no reason for you, the wife, to feel lonely and abandoned. This is what I recommend to keep you both home at night and on the weekends... and loving every...

I'm only 25. And it hasn't improved...and he knows my frustrations. I feel as his lack of affection and sexual passion sets me up for failure. Women are created to feel sexy and desired..and when my man doesn't make me feel sexy and...

I do not need or want the victim label, no pity party and please do not feel sorry for me. Just a few tears while I try to get over my disbelief. You see after the kajillionth talk with the only thing different being no filter engaged...

It's hard for me to even sit here and read so many of your stories and admit to myself that I've had the exact same thoughts, feelings and experiences, but here goes....
I'm 28 years old and have been married to the love of my life for...

I got married June 2/2012. Our honeymoon was great and things kinda deteriorated from there. His sister and her 3 kids lived with us at the time which didn't help much. They were supposed to move out before the wedding but that didn't...

I'm 29 and was beautiful, literally, when I met my husband almost ten years ago. Now I'm a bit better looking than average and I cry several times a week because my husband won't/can't/doesn't want to/doesn't know how to have sex with...

Okay, so truth time. I have added a few couples in the past. Stopped adding them a while ago. Why? What do I have in common with a happy couple who has the kind of marriage I would like? Nothing. If I had what you had, I wouldn't...

I've been married for almost 20 years my husband got hurt aabout2 years after we got married . hes my best friend /love of my life .now hes given up on us
I feel we are roommates. I want him so bad ,if I get lucky I may get a birthday...

I've come to the conclusion that because I married my best friend, we are simply, friends. We sometimes fall asleep in the same bed, but nothing happens. He helps me with our kids, he helps me with my bills, he makes me laugh if I've...

'How on earth did I end up here?' I am asking myself. I have been with a pretty great man for ten years, and married to him most of that time. Before marriage I remember thinking we had sex far less than anyone I had dated before, but I...

I have seen this situation from both sides of the coin.

We were pretty well-balanced sexually when we got married, each having just about the same needs. Later, when she became pregnant, my level of desire flew right off the charts...

No one ever thinks they're going to be in a sexless marriage...especially as a 24-year-old female. My fiance came back from Afghanistan in April of 2012. Prior to the deployment we had a healthy sex life. Upon his return our sex life...