I Am a Woman In a Sexless Marriage Stories of Experiences

I am in a sexless marriage. I love my wife and she is a great mother and a caring wife. The problem is that everything comes before our relationship. The kids should come first and so should her health (she recently lost a lot of...

Hello All,

I am relatively new, and I came here because I want to find some kind of support and friendship among others who were experiencing the same kind of situation that I am currently living in.

I was told by another forum member...

Hi All,

I've been hunting high and low for a woman in a similar situation as me, living a sexless life who has a blog I can follow and share her experiences. So far, all I have found are a few news articles and the odd post. I've...

Part One: Death of the Libido
I didn't sign up for the no sex thing. It happened, much to my surprise, just after conceiving our 1st child. My man and I have been in this relationship quite some time but for roughly 7 years I can count...

Well I'm 54 considered nice looking 5 7 165 lbs 31 inch waist, great smile and I can't get mywife to EVER initiate sex with me. I have 2-5 women a week flirt with me and it gets harder to keep not reacting when they flirt with me. MY...

When me and my husband first got together, I never had trouble getting him to bed. In fact in the first year of our relationship I don't think I even initiated sex once. He was always the one who initiated, although I never didn't want...

Here I am in bed alone again! Husband down the hall sleeping! I am a good looking woman and in great shape! Workout all the time and here I am alone! WTF>]?

My husband constantly gets comments and compliments about me. "Wow your wife is beautiful". I dress very nice for him but recently it's like Whatever. You would think that someone with a sweet, neat and beautiful wife would have a hard...

Want to have one! Just to feel like a women again. Cant stand to live like this. Its Saturday and on the weekend its sader for some reason. Over two years no sex! I am a Christian and it goes against everything I believe in...

I have been married about ten years. Together thirteen. I feel I am wasting my life on this man. I have no emotional connection with him. We haven't had sex in two years. He moved down the hall to another bedroom. We share...

Since my marriage is not good, it goes as well with my sex life. I was looking forward to try this thing so called sex with him but it turns out to be a failure as will. It is a matter of degrading part on myself because I feel less as...

Just dont know where to begin or how to start. all i know is, that it is all so great and painfull to even break down my story. It feels all to much to tell. Ive only had 3 years with my girlfrend and sex some time last year i think...

That's what I'm always told. But we dont. I've been married now for over 7 years. And have maybe had sex 5 times. With none in the last 2. The first year and a half while we dated was wonderful. We couldn't get enough of each other...

Quick history on us. We have been married for almost 3 years and have a 2 year old together. We got married when I was a few months pregnant, yes now I believe that is the reason he married me. We have been to marriage counseling and it...

i've been married for 3years and a half
my husband never initiate sex with me, i know he wants it but he never asks for it!!
when he is horny all he does is to lay in bed on his back waiting for me
i've never had my orgasm with him
he...

A simple act - sewing the tattered remnants of the baby blankets back together once again. It takes a couple hours - he sits in the chair watching hockey. As usual, they don't talk. It could be 5 miles between them not five feet...

Okay so I did the whole filling thing and whatnot. I told my refuser husband I'd filed for the big "D". I kept it all above board and clean, I didn't hide my motives, I didn't prevaricate...
So now we have a situation and I'm severely...

I'm only 25. And it hasn't improved...and he knows my frustrations. I feel as his lack of affection and sexual passion sets me up for failure. Women are created to feel sexy and desired..and when my man doesn't make me feel sexy and...

I do not need or want the victim label, no pity party and please do not feel sorry for me. Just a few tears while I try to get over my disbelief. You see after the kajillionth talk with the only thing different being no filter engaged...

It's hard for me to even sit here and read so many of your stories and admit to myself that I've had the exact same thoughts, feelings and experiences, but here goes....
I'm 28 years old and have been married to the love of my life for...