I Am The Other Woman Stories of Experiences (Page 2)

So I never ever ever thought I would be here. Ever. I mean I have never been the other woman nor have I ever written or asked for advice online. But all roads keep leading me to the same place and maybe some other peoples wisdom can...

I was 16, in a broken home, just a babe when I met him. We talked online- about politics and books and music and how much I hated my abusive home. We talked about sex- he wanted to be my first, and he wanted to do all kinds of awesome...

.....This doesn't mean that I haven't thought about seeing you or being with you. I have so much. I just know that I can't be like we were. And I don't want anything else for us that would mess up the balance of our real lives. So I...

Long story short, my OW stopped waiting for me recently. She "had coffee" with another man and has since been "spending time" with him. This was after she had been separated from her husband for 17 months. The dialogue with me (MM...

Two months have passed since I heard from him last. I was happy. I thought I was over him.

Last week I started to get missed calls from a blocked number. I wondered if it was him. But I ignored them. After all, I had blocked his...

It is very simple..........leave married men alone!!!

... It was only just beginning.

The NC continued until he started his work set; it was a text message as I had predicted. A particular, apologetic text message.

"I'm sorry I haven't been around much. There's been way too much...

Ok wives out there get ready for a story most of you are going to think is fictitious. Think as you must.
I am a 48 years young transvestic fetishist that is very good looking ( so I am told frequently ) sexy, seductive, sadistic...

To understand the situation please refer to my first story "Ready To Be Judged"

This falls before "Moving on"

I felt an over whelming feeling to reach out to the man I cheated with. Well not exactly to him, but to his son (my nephew...

MY Breakup with MM happened about 5 weeks ago. His wife found out for the 2nd time in 3 years... we've been together for 6.He called, we had an hour's conversation that ended when he told me he was standing down from our affair, as...

I've been with my MM for over 25 years, over that time I've had 2 failed marriages and he's currently with wife number 3. We lost contact for a while but fate again interrupted our lives and we've been 'back together' for over 4 years...

It has been an interesting day..full of emotion, lots of affection....really one of my better days in about a month.

Then I heard this song on the radio. And now Im wondering if I did the right thing.
"What Hurts The Most"

I can take...

I have read all the stories here and alas, its like me everywhere i look. It is a difficult and energy sapping task to be the other woman, i mean we invest our emotions, time, money, feelings and everything else possible into this...

For seven years it was always him. I was helping him cheat on her, he was helping me cheat on them. Or at least the various others I had, they were never enough because I always wanted him to be my only.

He had convinced me that I was...

I must admit that I have been pretty much obsessed over the man I cheated with. I haven't talked to him in over a year since the truth about us came out. But everyday I think about him and wonder how he is, what he is doing, how his son...

I wish i could say i felt their pain. But i feel so selfish, only thinking of my gain. And what about me? How guiltless i feel for my responsibility.

Maybe i was blindsided, or maybe i just shut the blinds to my mind and what i...

It rained all day here. Throughout the day, I stood behind his office and looked outside the window. I love watching the rain, I always do, we shared one of the most beautiful memories in the rain together. We were so close but yet so...

That's all it took him to get over me.

I found an ad on Craigslist that I am 100% certain is him. I created a fake email account and replied just to confirm and I haven't heard back yet, but I know his writing style. It's him.

I'm...

He blames me. It was my fault, because I walked away. I broke his heart. I hurt him. That's his story, and he's sticking to it.
I blame him. He said i was the only one. He said he wanted to marry me. Have children together. But, then...

I'm starting to despite waking up around 2:00 am. I always seem to struggle going back to sleep, especially if its a cold night my mind tends to wander back to those winter memories with him.

I had such a nightmare last night...