I Am The Other Woman Stories of Experiences (Page 3)

For seven years it was always him. I was helping him cheat on her, he was helping me cheat on them. Or at least the various others I had, they were never enough because I always wanted him to be my only.

He had convinced me that I was...

I must admit that I have been pretty much obsessed over the man I cheated with. I haven't talked to him in over a year since the truth about us came out. But everyday I think about him and wonder how he is, what he is doing, how his son...

I wish i could say i felt their pain. But i feel so selfish, only thinking of my gain. And what about me? How guiltless i feel for my responsibility.

Maybe i was blindsided, or maybe i just shut the blinds to my mind and what i...

It rained all day here. Throughout the day, I stood behind his office and looked outside the window. I love watching the rain, I always do, we shared one of the most beautiful memories in the rain together. We were so close but yet so...

That's all it took him to get over me.

I found an ad on Craigslist that I am 100% certain is him. I created a fake email account and replied just to confirm and I haven't heard back yet, but I know his writing style. It's him.

I'm...

He blames me. It was my fault, because I walked away. I broke his heart. I hurt him. That's his story, and he's sticking to it.
I blame him. He said i was the only one. He said he wanted to marry me. Have children together. But, then...

I'm starting to despite waking up around 2:00 am. I always seem to struggle going back to sleep, especially if its a cold night my mind tends to wander back to those winter memories with him.

I had such a nightmare last night...

I'm sorry to post so much, but it's been impossible to find anywhere to talk openly about these issues. Do you all have sympathetic friends you can talk to about your affairs?

I had a very comforting dream last night. In it, I had a...

It's funny. When the shoe was on the other foot, I didn't hate my husband's mistress. I knew my ex-husband. He's a salesman, and has an amazing ability to believe his own lies. The poor thing he took up with never stood a chance. I felt...

I am truly and unreservedly sorry for what I have put you through. Whatever the reasons, the result is that I took far too long to get freed up for you or to let you go.

I don't even feel like I gave you everything I could while we...

i want some people to tell me how long have they been married to there affair partner

We met online. I was bored and young so I made up a life. I didn't think anything would go anywhere with him. The more we talked, the more I fell for him and the deeper I lied about who I was.

I finally had to come clean that I wasn't...

Today is the first day I'm officially done with him. Yesterday on my way to class I saw him. Not just him alone but with him son. It was the perfect scene as if someone was directing it. He was there in the park playing with his son. I...

After reading a few stories here, I thought I'd share my own and hopefully people can share their opinions. (Good or bad)

I met a man in December last year. When I met him he was open about the fact he had a girlfriend and they had...

I don't know if I should even be writing on this forum anymore, I'm not part of it. If I'm honest I don't even know if I qualify to be torn up about something that lasted five minutes when some of you have been dealing with this for...

It's been close to 3 months now and I am feeling great. Sorry I haven't posted in a while but I've been on here daily, reading the stories and feeling each and every person's elation or heartbreak. I occassionaly think about him but...

The lyrics of this song totally echo my feelings at this moment.....so hauntingly sad.

When minutes become hours
When days become years
And I dont know where you are
Colours seems so dark without you

Have we lost our minds
What have...

I am the other woman. I live alone, I'm 27, and I know what is going to happen when this ends. I have no delusion that this will end with 'prince charming' coming to my rescue. He likes sex, he wasn't getting any from his wife, and...

Thanks to the tremendous help of another EP member I think I "get it".

I totally and completely thought I was in love. I maybe even was. I still care, and that is a form of love.

But the reality is that I loved the way he made me...

I'm so confused today... we have been broken up for a while now and since the break up hes been texting me none stop calling sending flowers. me being the prideful pain in the butt haven't replied to him or anything.
Two days ago he...