I Was the Other Woman Stories of Experiences

Day 1: I broke it off. He left her, but not because of me and we never had a D-Day. He left because he found out that she was still harassing her ex-affair partner's wife.

Made it a week before he 'had' to spend the night over there...

We met on the internet after I posted a personal ad looking for a "dominant" male to help me learn about being a "sub" or submissive. It was a totally new journey for me. I was interested in learning about both the sexual power play and...

We were close friends since grade 7.. I was the outcast and he was the boy that got along with everybody.. He innocently flirted in highschool, mostly to creep people out, but he always had the same girlfriend so it never became more...

Days went by and it's almost two months now, almost nothing from him (he did email me a few times and I reply once only to break what's left oy heart) and I'm still with my stand of not starting anything either (hopefully for good...

So, first post here, where I finally have the will to admit it (kind off) that yes, it's over. He left me suddenly and I won't making any move to get him back. This kind of relationship shouldn't happen in the first place anyway.

I won...

I saw a question asked today about a husband having a three-year fling (I question whether three years could be classified as a "fling".) Anyway....
I saw answers...
...the husband has feelings for the other woman and doesn't love you...

I had an affair with a married man. I was 21 when it first started and I was 23 when he ended it.

I was devastated.

He told me that he loved me, told me that he wanted to have kids with me and that eventually we would get married...

When I had just became single I decided I'd go to on a lil vacation to New Hampshire to my first NASCAR race w my friend. J. It was more out of "just bc I can" thn really wanting to spend time w this dude. However..thru the five day...

I ended my 7 month affair about a month ago and I am finally experiencing moments of peace again. True belly laughs....happiness. I still get sad sometimes thinking about how easy it was for him and I to discard "what we had". I...

I've honestly stopped counting days etc and he was the one who broke NC. Now he's messaging me most days - random things - the way we used to chat before 'it' happened.

I am no longer his other woman, that is dead in the water - for me...

In 2005, I met a charming man at a gas station during the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. We were both hunting for gas and stopped at the same station only to realize it was dry too. Mutual frustration turned into conversation and so...

So i was fresh out of a rough relationship enjoying my freedom being single and a lot less stress able to enjoy life as a young woman and in the course me being out hanging again having fun with friends i met a guy that i felt was...

I had a two year, very intense love affair with a married man. We had daily contact, for the most part. I know it was wrong, I am beating myself up enough right now with the “stupid club,” so, I would appreciate it if others did...

How do you walk away for the LAST time? I have tried so many times.... A year and half with someone that has become your life.. You didn't plan it. You didn't intend for any of this $#!%. You were definitely not seeking someone that...

Oh he wants to yell at me for cheating?! how could you? you literally cheated on your girlfriend for 4 MONTHS and you yell at me when she finds out!!!!! UGH and you now that you two are done you come back for me? how do i know your not...

I can relate all too well to everyone who wants to either leave, cheat, or have an affair. I just need to know if it's worth it. I have always longed for a lifelong marriage with children and that "magical" relationship in which two...

Hey Girls,
Heres my story. 3, almost 4, years ago I dated this guy. I really really liked him, he was attractive, funny, sexy and a born and raised Kentucy boy. We had everything in common I really thought we'd be together for a long...

It was early 2010, and I was 17 years old. He was my neighbor, 19 years my senior and he was married to a woman I rarely saw, so I guess, being young and stupid, went along with the affair. He started out casually speaking to me...

I have to start at the beginning. When I met J, I was in a dying marriage. I had met him and he was new and exciting. I was smitten from day one. I felt that we were from the same cloth. I soon made the decision to leave my husband and...

Wishing it was me you were holding tonight, waking up to me! You two have been broken up over a year yet you have not separated yourself from her even though I have been in the picture for two. You say you don't want to be in a...