I Live In a Sexless Marriage Stories of Experiences

Hi All,

I came across this site and thought I'd join.

I adore my husband, and am in a 23 year marriage, but haven't had sex with him in about 4+ years.

It started with his erectile dysfunction. We tried pills, and that worked for a...

"What's your emergency," you say? I've been hit by a truck! It had 'Marriage Counselling' printed on the side. Please send help immediately. I'm lying in the gutter, shaking my head, wondering what just happened.
(kindly bring vodka)

i want sex all the time,in some form or another and cannot get it.older is sexier but the older they get the less they want it.messed up.Why cannot you have it like you want it or need it?why can't they be like it used to be?excuses is...

Here I am, feeling sick to my stomach. The first of May I went to go and see a lawyer, those of you that have read my stories will understand what I'm talking about. I got home and told my husband what has been happening. He got his...

I get asked this question from time to time by my roommate who is also my wife. I just look at her in amazement and cannot believe she's that dense. My youngest son recently has moved out which leaves a spare bedroom at the house...

I need a friend. I am so tired of being silent and feeling like no one knows my story. I moved to Texas five years ago. It has been so hard for me to be away from my close friends and family. I was so lonely. There was a guy that I...

An Indecent I don't know whether to laugh or cry.

My man and I had a bad time Wednesday night. It was our scheduled night; it didn't happen; and on top of that, he said something that hurt my feelings. (What he said wasn't so bad, but...

things in my little corner of the world have been exceedingly difficult as per my last updates.

STBX swings from coldly nasty/argumentative spewing verbal abuse to "i love you." the total disconnect from reality and refusal to face...

It's been almost a year since I started taking my sex life seriously and making awkward attempts at embracing my insecurities, developing new coping mechanisms for my past, discovering how to seduce my husband, and allowing myself to be...

Leave your past behind! If you are in a new relationship, forget your problems from the past unless you want to repeat them. Don't keep that old baggage. Let it go and enjoy your second chance at a happy life!!!

I saw a lady on youtube explain how a women will natually lose sex drive and interest in sex after they give birth to thier children.   She seemed to indicate that this is natural and should be expected.  Will any women out please...

In a recent 700 Club program, Pat Robertson said that Recognize also, like it or not, males have a tendency to wander a little bit. The wife should create a home environment that is so inviting and loving for the man that he would...

So yesterday I took the first step in my plan to independence. I enrolled in university and will start part-time in July. As probably most of us are here I lack self-confidence so it's a big deal to me that I took a deep breath and...

The Final ActYou come to me in the night my little succubus shining and willingSeeking to lure me into delights that have been long missing from lifeI can almost feel your skin against mine as the mists hide you once moreHearing your...

Well after a 3-month hiatus in fighting about sex, we had another fight. I asked him if he would just consider taking medication or going to a sex therapist. Well now this is my fault because "when you ask me to take medication or see a...

In some stories posted over the past few weeks several ILIASMers have taken issue with the term "REFUSER". I can understand as it does reflect negative and often short sighted view of the intimately challenged persons in our...

Hi everyone, allot has happened since my last post. I did move out but continued with counselling and daily contact (working together) until the last month. I feel like I have learned allot but still understand so little as well. I...

I have been married 13 years now and my wife still holds back on the sex. I have been hearing now for many of those years "just give it time, my sex drive will come back." She gets these little spurts every so often that last a couple...

As you've blocked me I'll have to respond with my own story. Rather inefficient and i apologise for wasting space. 
It's not that I can't 'handle' your stories (trust me, there are some dark corners of EP that have stories I can't...

I've married almost 30 yrs now. Until 10 years ago we had a fantastic love life. We weren't always in tune, but it worked well for both of us. Very well.
Then she started having "female trouble", that in the end, led to a hysterectomy...