I Live In a Sexless Marriage Stories of Experiences

I assume being with someone you love is better than being alone your entire life.

I'm done living in a sexless marriage. I've decided I'm going to do something about it. Life is too short. I'm going to find someone who is just like me and in need of sexual comfort. I want to feel a woman in my arms and feel her touch...

So, I lay in bed last night feeling the huge chasm between us. The fact we never touch - we lie as far away from each other as you can get. Wanted to cry - wanted to hit him for not wanting me.

Then started to wonder - how many of...

I want to ask around this
I assume some (maybe most) are leaving a marriage with no sex.
Some are outsourcing but this is not something to fill the hole.
A motel-room, a ringing phone, lies after lies and some sporadic sex as reward...

This week was fairly decent, but I discovered something horrible: The wife was sexually abused as a child and has a lot of problems getting over it. She admitted to hating sex and sexuality and having it expected of her...

So yeah...

I hope that some of this may help someone else living with a p/a narcissist. And I lived with mine for nearly thirty years. We know 'what' they do and 'how they do it. We don't know 'why'.

To cope, we need to build up our personal...

I wish i can go back to April 2012 and change everything. I love my husband, but I don't like the idea of being married. I was happier before. I was free.

I never thought i'd be one of those women who lives in a sexless marriage. I don...

I always feel conflicted about reading and/or posting at ILIASM. I feel guilty for staying married when our relationship is dysfunctional. But I can never stay away from ILIASM for very long. It's really lonely being with someone whose...

Have been married 25 years to a wonderful man with a very low sex drive... and zero interest in intimacy. The sex has always been great... just ever often enough.... about 2x a month the last several years. It was always me initiating...

I find EP is a place to enjoy chatting with people, on many different levels. However, I find at times,common sense is lacking, when it comes to EP. Please feel free to share any of your tips, you have.
Please note, this is just my...

now entering 12th year of mostly sexless marraige, after lots of reaching out, acting out, NOTHING HAS CHANGED

I so desperately wanna believe that someday my marraige can be different than this sexless initmateless reality....and I...

MLAAW: My Life As A Wife
I realized today that #10 and #7 have edged out all the songs that only have 2 or 3 recent plays. Painful, but empowering.
1. Don’t Wait Too Long (Madeleine Peyroux) – Recent Plays: 6
2. How To Save A Life...

Hello friends,

Well, since I last posted, still no sex. Those of you who are regular readers of this section won't be surprised by that one, huh? I didn't get a repeat of the whole "Here, have a vibrator" scene at least. Only because I...

so i have been married (mid 40's, with kids) for 15 years and the last 3-4 years the intimacy has tapered off to at best once a month. My wife is my best friend but she says she no longer has those kind (sexual) feelings for me but...

Hi All,

I came across this site and thought I'd join.

I adore my husband, and am in a 23 year marriage, but haven't had sex with him in about 4+ years.

It started with his erectile dysfunction. We tried pills, and that worked for a...

"What's your emergency," you say? I've been hit by a truck! It had 'Marriage Counselling' printed on the side. Please send help immediately. I'm lying in the gutter, shaking my head, wondering what just happened.
(kindly bring vodka)

i want sex all the time,in some form or another and cannot get it.older is sexier but the older they get the less they want it.messed up.Why cannot you have it like you want it or need it?why can't they be like it used to be?excuses is...

Here I am, feeling sick to my stomach. The first of May I went to go and see a lawyer, those of you that have read my stories will understand what I'm talking about. I got home and told my husband what has been happening. He got his...

I get asked this question from time to time by my roommate who is also my wife. I just look at her in amazement and cannot believe she's that dense. My youngest son recently has moved out which leaves a spare bedroom at the house...

I need a friend. I am so tired of being silent and feeling like no one knows my story. I moved to Texas five years ago. It has been so hard for me to be away from my close friends and family. I was so lonely. There was a guy that I...