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I have read many of the stories here, and many seem to run along a typical theme. I am going to add my thoughts to those who are living in a sexless marriage, as I am, but who also speak of love and friendship with their partners...

ORIGINAL STORY (2007): Reading all the posts here, I guess I represented the other side. I hadn't been having sex with my husband because I didn't want to. All he thought about was sex, but not just with me. He had adult...

For the first ten years, it was pretty standard fare. I wanted, and she refused. I wanted desperately, I tried everything and anything. I really loved her, and wanted things to work at any cost. I couldn't understand why things weren't...

I just wanted to share something that gave me a good laugh this morning. It was posted in the "best of craigslist" section of craigslist. I thought somebody else here may find it funny, too. I have found it is easier...

It seems many people come to this site looking for advice on whether or not they should marry someone that is not interested in sex. The stories usually tell of the wonderful attributes of the fiance and how they are so much in love. It...

So you live in a sexless marriage.  There is no sex (or very little sex) and your relationship lacks intimacy and emotional connection.   As a "sex person" you miss this badly and have tried, without success, to address the issue in...

My wife was sexually abused as a child.  This has caused devastating effects on our marriage and her life.  Deep down, my wife is afraid to love.  She grew up in a home where if you didn't take care of yourself, you weren...

i fell in love with my lover, even though we are both married. i was the one that broke it off finally, after we did incalcuable damage to our marriages. but now many months later, i'm so heart broken i don't quite know what to do with...

I am a regular EP member but for anonimoty I agreed with her to create a new username so that I can write our story. This happened six weeks ago.
Through a thread on the forum, I was contacted by an EP member who was travelling overseas...

I just came across this quote today
"A Platonic Relationship develops after two good friends are tired of screwing each other"
For thos of us in this experience, we need to edit it a bit.....
"A Platonic...

I've been married for 2 years, we have had sex maybe half a dozen times since the wedding, only once in the past 12 months.  Before we were married we had a very good sexual relationship, but once we moved in together it slowed...

Tonight we went to a formal for her company. She wore a fantastic dress and I wore a suit. I was attentive, stayed with her and we had a pretty good time.

So when we walk through the door and go into the bedroom, I know how this...

Nearly all woman are simply beautiful to me. The only turn offs I have are bad hygiene and bad attitudes.

So ladies, please allow me to tell you about men like me. Some of you might now be aware we are out there because we SURELY are...

Sorry, I will let all you men throw your rotten tomatoes at me, but here is some advice for the ladies from the sexless marriages who have decided to outsource. This is going to sound harsh to my male EP friends but to hell with it...

Withholding sex in a "loving" relationship is Emotional Abuse. Denying one's partner the bond which cultivates closeness and intimacy with them is Emotional Abuse. Whether their refusal is due to mental illness, passive/aggressive anger...

After the 500th time I brought up the conversation of the unfairness of this marriage she used a word that made me really think, "expectations".
During that conversation I asked her (again) why it was so easy for her to take from me...

The Club edited to post

I have a true story, I thought might be of interest, about a club I started.. I am not entirely sure how we managed it we just kind of met and after discussing of mutual interest and problems decided to...

Yes it is.
Here is the recipe…
Just teasing, this isn’t the magic pill. This isn’t the answers for all the issues faced in a struggling marriage.
Could it possibly be a jumping off point…a start...

Is anyone else in this boat?? My kids are 10 mos and 4. I'm afraid that by me leaving my husband and splitting my family up, I am being selfish because of the hurt that it would cause my beautiful babies.

Do I stay and sacrifice my...

I was talking to a married friend over the weekend, gossiping about celebrities and what not. She starts gushing about how a certain celeb guy "is so fine/rocking body/wants to touch him" and I jokingly said "look at you, willing to...