I Live In a Sexless Marriage Stories of Experiences (Page 4)

It's been almost a year since I started taking my sex life seriously and making awkward attempts at embracing my insecurities, developing new coping mechanisms for my past, discovering how to seduce my husband, and allowing myself to be...

Leave your past behind! If you are in a new relationship, forget your problems from the past unless you want to repeat them. Don't keep that old baggage. Let it go and enjoy your second chance at a happy life!!!

I saw a lady on youtube explain how a women will natually lose sex drive and interest in sex after they give birth to thier children.   She seemed to indicate that this is natural and should be expected.  Will any women out please...

In a recent 700 Club program, Pat Robertson said that Recognize also, like it or not, males have a tendency to wander a little bit. The wife should create a home environment that is so inviting and loving for the man that he would...

So yesterday I took the first step in my plan to independence. I enrolled in university and will start part-time in July. As probably most of us are here I lack self-confidence so it's a big deal to me that I took a deep breath and...

The Final ActYou come to me in the night my little succubus shining and willingSeeking to lure me into delights that have been long missing from lifeI can almost feel your skin against mine as the mists hide you once moreHearing your...

Well after a 3-month hiatus in fighting about sex, we had another fight. I asked him if he would just consider taking medication or going to a sex therapist. Well now this is my fault because "when you ask me to take medication or see a...

In some stories posted over the past few weeks several ILIASMers have taken issue with the term "REFUSER". I can understand as it does reflect negative and often short sighted view of the intimately challenged persons in our...

Hi everyone, allot has happened since my last post. I did move out but continued with counselling and daily contact (working together) until the last month. I feel like I have learned allot but still understand so little as well. I...

I have been married 13 years now and my wife still holds back on the sex. I have been hearing now for many of those years "just give it time, my sex drive will come back." She gets these little spurts every so often that last a couple...

As you've blocked me I'll have to respond with my own story. Rather inefficient and i apologise for wasting space. 
It's not that I can't 'handle' your stories (trust me, there are some dark corners of EP that have stories I can't...

I've married almost 30 yrs now. Until 10 years ago we had a fantastic love life. We weren't always in tune, but it worked well for both of us. Very well.
Then she started having "female trouble", that in the end, led to a hysterectomy...

I sent my husband a link to a discussion on a Catholic website about SM. I thought it was fairly tame. No one suggested the person who posted (who shares our situation) should "outsource." But there was agreement that refusal in this...

I have been married 2 years in a few days and with my husband for 3 years. When we met he couldn't keep his hands off me. It was great,and I felt love that i've never experienced. Honeymoon was over within a year but I just thought we...

Oftentimes I read stories by spouses who, for one reason or another, have taken on the role of caregiver/"parent" to their spouse.

These people are often worried about how cruel it would be to "abandon" their ill spouse.

I just want...

I haven't posted in a while, but things are just about the same. I get 20 minutes twice a month if I'm lucky.

Yesterday one of our cats got hurt and had to go to the vet. Luckily, it was something minor; but both of us were pretty...

Today's the day.. Husband has started the new job, gotten all his paperwork signed. MIL is keeping daughter overnight tonight, so the divorce conversation will be happening this evening once baby is asleep. If he freaks the f out, I'm...

Finally, after years of taking care of her endless crises, financial difficulties, etc I am FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Free, free at last.

So I'm re-reading one of my favourite books by one of my favourite authors, Margaret Laurence's "The Diviners", and realize this book also covers SM & PA! (sexless marriage and passive-aggressive behaviours).

The main character, Morag...

Email discovered. I've been tattled on. I've been confronted. He cried. He said that he didn't think I would ever do such a thing. I felt terrible. Guilty. Sad that I hurt him. He asked lots of questions and I honestly answered...