I Don't Need To Make Fun Of Others To Get "self-esteem" Stories of Experiences

I enjoy helping others. My greatest satisfaction comes from making other people feel good about myself. Is there anyone out there that would help others when it hurts yourself?

Please don't get me wrong. I am no saint. I have many...

She likes to gossip behind people's back about what she thinks people are to her, their flaws she thinks they have. If she's mad at you, she will instantly ignore you and let you know you're nothing to her. How? By not paying attention...

One day when I was on break at Walmart, the custodian came into the break room to clean. He was a young man in his mid 20's and was obviously mentally challenged. Across the room were two men that worked in unloading. While the young...

i feel bad for them. to be so unhappy with yourself or your life that you feel the need to try and make others feel bad about themselves. i mean don't you know we all have worth we all deserve love and respect. show that you are worth...

Self esteem comes from inside of yourself, it is knowing and feeling that what you do, what you think and what you feel are truly a reflection of yourself and that you are sure you are doing the right thing.

There is no need to compare...

It seems pointless and I want no part of it, but making fun of others to make me feel better is like dumping raw sewage on a perfectly good grape to make the other rotten grapes look more appealing. That's just the way I feel about this...

Who am I to want to make someone feel bad about themselves. At the end of the day we are different people and it's going to stay that way. Whether I like it or not. I just accept people how they are. Sooner or later I appreciate it. As...

Immature Thing to Do ... I will not do this just to get some form of Self Esteem in my Life. And, I don't like to advantage of them either. It's a dumb thing to do and destroys relationships that you worked hard for.

I used to be friends with a girl who did this... Sadly, she did it to her husband and even her kids. I hated it and would always basically tell her to not be so mean, act like an adult, etc. It got REALLY old. I always worried when...

As a kid i was always a loner, having red hair and freckles didn't help much. Add glasses and you have the perfect target. yet with all these drawbacks i never lashed out or retalliated, i never had to. i was happy with who i was. when...

I understand that some people need to vent about other people sometimes to feel better, but I don't understand why putting someone else down by either saying something humiliating about them, or straight up mean would make someone feel...

I think girls or boys who make fun of other people usually have problems with themselves. Like when someone talks about me but I don't automatically respond because maybe they are being abused at home. Same with bullies all they really...

well my "friends" (not me) love making fun of others and cursing others just because of the person's mistakes, the way they look, the way they dress or just by the way they speak. They like making fun of me by telling me that my boobs...

well my "friends" (not me) love making fun of others and cursing others just because of the person's mistakes, the way they look, the way they dress or just by the way they speak. They like making fun of me by telling me that my boobs...

I used to hang out with people like Keith smith and Kate Robinson and bec kirk and rick szwackowski and joyce poorter

I would hear them openly making fun of people or me -

I used to feel as if I was an alien like there was something...

Not my style.  I wouldn't do it to anyone.  I know, not everybody is the same as me and many would do it.  Lot's of people do it, cause they lack in something and it is certainly their self-esteem.  They act as if they got all of...

Having fun is different from bullying or making fun with someone. Some people might find it amusing to be sarcastic just to elevate their so called "ego". It is sad to contemplate on this: why do some people find happiness by being so...

i never make fun of others. I have loads of self-esteem anyway

My self-esteem (although up and down at times) is doing perfectly well.
I will never lower myself to the point where my self esteem comes at the expense of others. It's very cruel.
If anyone has stuck their head into the news lately...

"To Belittle is to BE LITTLE" ~ Some sign i saw in the mall the other day.