I Shut People Out When They Hurt Me Stories of Experiences

To cut people off from my life.

I used to be this cold person when I was younger. If a person would hurt me in indescribable ways that really shook me to the core, I would simply just not talk to them, email them, call them...cut them...

i am hurt and its borthering me

I Can'T See The Issues Being Resolved With Relatives Etc

By: Me

Written on May 8th, 2013

I just want to meet new people who have nothing to do with my relatives because they always give a false view of who I am and put me down...

Yeah. Fuck you people. You can go straight to hell. If I don't matter to you, then you don't matter to me. Action is character.

Time heals all wounds, but time does not rid us of the scars. The sight of them turns my stomach. I wish instead of history repeating itself, people actually had genuine feelings for one another once again. Too many evil desires have...

I've found friends (which now I'm not terribly good) and I've let them in.

Showed them my feelings.
My likes and dislikes.
My home.
My life.
My heart.

Then when I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to finally have someone who...

Now, I could go on for days and write novels about how my life has been but I don't want anyone's sympathy or admiration. I'll sum up my life as fast as possible. I was born with a mental condition. It's been called many things, nothing...

This Actually Happens: Setting a Date For Your Breakup
by Jo Piazza on April 09, 2013

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We’ve been talking aplenty about breakups – specifically, about a condition called FOBU, or Fear of Breaking Up. Read all about it, find...

You tell me your drama free when you make a big deal out of nothing. You need to grow up

You insult my family, you may as well just walk the fuck out of my life. I may not be the smartest person on the planet but leave them out of it...

I really hate the fact that there is someone I would do anything in for. But what good does that do me? Not a bit of good. I am serious the slightest change in someone, and I am ready to head for the hills. I am too loyal to those who...

Well its not a good night tonight. I am afraid it's trying to happen. I mean seriously, I never cry, ever. And then there's tonight. And now I am. And i guess it's my own fault. I don't want to shut people out, but I just get an...

Perhaps it is my pride that allows me to feel justified in my disengagement of a person that has hurt or wronged me.

It is very difficult for me to imagine myself allowing that person to be close with me again. I find it easier to...

I can still remember the day when everything changed, when you destroyed my entire life, my best friend, you changed everything. Now, I can't trust anyone properly, and I spend my whole life shutting people out, all because you chose to...

I always wonder why same people keep hurting me...

My fault.....

This is my form of helping myself.

I do shut people out when they hurt me. I think its natural to need to close off from that. But I also notice I soon forget that need to shut people out and I open up maybe more afterwards.

I don't let pain from someones actions take...

When someone hurts me I get mad. Sometimes I will talk about it. But for the most part I will become quite and withdrawn. I need time to myself to think. Before I act but at times I am trapped in my mind. Its hard to get the thoughts...

I am always hurt... Happens a lot...

So I build walls between us, but the time makes it higher..

So please, start breaking it out as early as you can.

I live at home with my parents. I moved back last May after I graduated. I went back to school for my masters and I got this great paid internship so I decided I would stay living with my parents until I was done with that.

Nothing...

I put too much weight into something that was nothing more than a façade of a ‘relationship’
Conventional or otherwise, I gave all of myself.
Maybe that is where I f**cked up?
I won’t be a matter of convenience for anyone.

Well, here's one way to get back at your cheating spouse!

Last weekend, an unnamed Canadian woman took to Craiglist to advertise a "Lying Cheating Sale" -- essentially, a garage sale in which she planned to sell all of her unfaithful...