I Am Asexual Stories of Experiences (Page 12)

i am 16 yr old guy and have always been atracted to men but always found myself not wanting to actually sleep with them, as if it wasn't hard enough being gay; now i find that i dont want sex. the feelings sent me crazy (not litteraly...

I am attracted to guys sometimes, but I just don't have sexual appetites right now.  But also, I'm getting over depression, and I have an eating disorder, home stress, and am in college.  I just don't have room in my...

Haha.Everything started fine for me.I had sexual excitements etc.But all in my life i prayed to God to disable my sexuality.Because irritating.I felt always bad because when i sexually excited i never can get the girls. :) So with...

I'm 40 and have never been with a man.  I was 21 when I joined this cult-like church.  I had never been in a relationship with a man because I was very shy.  I joined this church mainly to learn how to have a relationship...

It is very frustrating when going out with a male just for a drink.  It is always a trying kiss at the end.  Why can we just be free and enjoy time without the paranoia of having sex?  It makes me run away from any...

I told my psychiatrist I am asexual and he said, "Like an amoeba?"  I told him I am the "human kind".  His response was that it is "probably easier that way". 
For my computer class, I have...

I found the various descriptions of asexuality that I've read confusing. Before I was aware of the term, I was describing myself as "celibate by nature most of the time." When I came across sites on asexuality, it seemed there...

but last night, when browsing net, I realised I am asexual...
I screwed up every single relationship because I never enjoyed sex. I find it boring, and just not natural. I never wanted to dissapoint my partners so I tried to force...

I'm asexual. I always have been. I kind of knew from about my earliest memories (around 4 years old), and I never really sweated it. I knew I was a bit strange because of it (especially once everybody I knew started going into puberty...

asexuality is not a disease but still we hide it , mostly cause people would not understand it . i am 40 and single , for me that is not a strange thing but for people that is odd , their first question is WHY not married . like if i...

I've known I was different for most of my life. Now I know I'm different, but not completely. There are people out there in this world that feel the same way that I do and I think it's awesome. I think the moment you find out...

No one understands me and I'm sick of it.
I think sex is disgusting, but I still fall in love with people. It's really annoying. I like them, and want them to like me back, but when they do I immediately stop liking them and never...

I am quite sure I am asexual. Life experiences have rendered this for me. I was abused when I was a teen. My father had just died. I am a female who does not like sex. I believe that the death of my father and my mother's...

I used to think I was asexual. Or well, others did, I didn't bother thinking anything either way. If I asked I would say I was quite possibly and not continue on in the discussion.
But now that I want some sort of identiy, not because...

I've know this for years now and I'm okay with it. I first thought I was straight but then I stated having second thoughts  when I was 13. I knew that I was asexual when everybody started getting boy crazy. When my best friend...

This is a huge problem for me. I want a guy friend but I don't want sex. As it is I don't trust the friends that I have and I feel lonely. Don't have anyone to talk to that I know because I'm reclusive because I'm...

In my late twenties a very good friend of mine offered a judgment of my nature that came to me through his brother, a tennis buddy. He had decided that I was “a fruit who didn’t know he was a fruit”. I was...

Thank you to all the members and guests who took the time to read the beginning of my story, "By Nature's Decree". And a special thank you to Tamara and Waiwera for your comments.
Obviously, at 55 years of age, I've had a...

OK, I'm starting to research this and the funny thing is, its starting to make sense as to why I havent felt normal. I am a female in my mid 30's and have rarely dated, am a virgin, rarely approached by men.  I know I'm not gay, I...

I recently started dating this guy who is wonderfull. I love being with him but I am asexual. I'm 22 and  just recently found out there was a name for it. I just thought I was weird. I have never had sex and I dont want to...ever...