I Am Newly Separated Stories of Experiences (Page 2)

I recently separated....hard to say that out loud. There are many reasons for it but basically felt I was on my own emotionally for SO long that I fell out of love w my husband besides other things like infidelity. I tried for so long...

But we were as good as married in so many ways. The relationship was...is...complicated. Fact of the matter is, I'm not handling the fact you may never walk back through that door very well. I'm going to shrinks. I can repress it and...

My husband of 15 years left on a Sunday morning and sent me a text to tell me to consider myself single, i am devastated and feel sick, the panic and feeling sick just wont go away.
Tells me he no longer loves me, tells?  Texts, 8...

I am 36 and have been married 9 years. We have a an 8 year old daughter. Sunday my husband said we needed to talk and then he dropped this bomb on me. He's lost and needs to find out who he is. He's felt this way since his father died...

We had been together for 28 years a few ups and downs, he had previously said he was going to leave on 3 separate occasions first time the kids were babies, upsetting, but he didn't leave, the second time he said it the kids were about...

....married on 9/04/06, after dating/living together since 1995. Ahhhh!
We go to St.Petersburg, FL. One of our favorite spots....a great condo, right on the beach side....etc etc!
I wait patiently...first night, no.
Second night, again...

We are in the beginning stages of a divorce and I just moved out. I feel shame, anger, loss and also exited about the future. I feel like I am on a roller Coaster.

Hi, I am 31years old and I am newly separated from my husband. We knew each other 4 months and we got married. I know dumb right? Anyway, I loved him more than I had ever loved anyone in my past. He has done so much for me. The problem...

I have been separated from my husband of 10 years for about 6 months. He has been my best friend for 11 years. I asked him to leave, because although he has many admirable traits, he refused to maintain employment. We have had years...

Recently I found out that my husband was not happy. He did says he didn't feel loved and recently met a girl online who makes him feel alive. So one night I was sitting and watching tv and he tells me that he wants to leave. My mouth...

Two months into my separation. Still know I made the right decision, saving up money for the retainer for the attorney.
Feel like I live in limbo, not yet divorced, but separated from my husband. I would so like to have a non...

My story is not sad and horrible. My story is about smiling for me and being proud of me. I married a very controling unemotional man. I stayed in this marriage for 12 years and had three children. Towards the end of the marriage I was...

I'm waiting for my divorce to be final in July. Waiting for my STBX to change/grow up/let go/move on.. We have a precious 4 yr old little boy and the ex is mad at me for leaving so he tells him terrible untrue things about me :(
I'm...

This has been hard for me, for some reason. Telling mutual friends about the separation. You don't want them to feel like they have to pick sides, but how do you announce, he and I are separated? It's an awkward situation, for me. I...

My husband and I have grown emotionally distant from one another over our seven years together. I have asked him to go to counseling in the past, but he always refused. We finally started going to counseling at the beginning of...

My wife and I have only been married 6 months and this is already where we are. We had a plan, we had an agreement, a set date and a tentative duration. We had rules, it was on good terms for both of us. This seperation was suppose to...

My husband and I had our ups and downs. I really thought we could survive just about anything. We lasted four deployments, he had three affairs during them. We worked at it, talked, stayed honest, and tried to stay devoted to loving...

So I guess this is where I start.
My husband and I have been together for 7 1/2 years and married for 5 of those years. When we met we were both in the military and doing well in our careers. Our entire relationship started off as a...

Just got the last stuff out of my STBX's house. Feeling a mix of relief, anxiousness, sadness, grief, just don't know what it is. Actually cried. I am not even sure why. I wouldn't go back. Ever. But I cried just the same. Had two beers...

I have not been married for that long. I was married in the summer of 2011 by November I was separated and living on my own this is my story.....
I married the man that had been my bestfriend for 10 years what a perfect match is the way...