I Cant Change the Past But I Can Change My Future Stories of Experiences (Page 65)

I'm 4 years old roughly, the flat is all painted white, there is just 2 rooms a bathroom, and the kitchen, living room and bedroom are all rolled in one, anyway we have only just arrived but he says its bedtime, so I change into my...

I know that I can't be the only one that feels this way sometimes. In order to move forward in life you must make changes, sometimes they are small adjustments and sometimes they are huge and frightening. I always seem to be stumbling...

Unrequited Love

I am being forced to walk away.  It took so much of my time and energy, that I could not (or maybe would not) see my life for what it is.  A most beautiful love bestowed upon someone most unworthy.  I...

Im at a crossroads in my life. Im graduating college. Im moving from a life that I have made here and not moving back to the life I had before. Im re-thinking everything I thought I knew for certain. Im revisiting every kernel...

I know the past is something I can’t change nor forget. My life was damaged and had been destroyed at young age, when I was about 7 I was sexily abused by my close cousin and my neighbor. My family didn’t know...

I will not lie.  This is a very complicated story with so many odd twists and turns.  Oddly, enough, it is hard to tell this story even now, because sometimes I have senses of regret.  In fact, you can say that this also overlaps...

My past is not pretty. My dad was an alcoholic and my mom had major anger problems and there was both abuse and neglect. I was also molested when I was about 3 by a neighbor. These were things that twisted me in unfortunate ways. I'm...

I am wanting to get out a a very unhealthy marriage. I don't want to keep re-living the hurts of the years gone by. I want to move ahead and learn from them all. I can only do this if he leaves. He is mentally ill, depressed and...

I know i cant change wats already happend. But i cna make it  through to the day when the past will be a meer tickle in the back of my head. I was molseted as a child. And my biological mom didnt do anything about it. And i never...

When I was in the old I had sin and hurt and abuse many bad things. Some I brought on myself most actually, but some thing made me the victum.  I asked the Lord into my heart and became new again! He died for my sins and wash my...

before in the past i had no friends no girlfriend now i do so i changed the future by acheiving what i got if i ever think its falling apart i will runaway do the same

I can't change the past i have come to terms with that. when i was younger i was raped by my brother more than once. and fooled around with by my other brother. i dont know what happened. i dont know why. some days i still feel like i...

I have always lived my life in fear of displeasing people around me.  I have always feared I would be judged because I didn't live up to certain expectations.  You can say my mom raised me to have the fear of God in me...

I'm really enjoying reading the stories in this group but i'm struggling to find my own way of changing my future . I know i need to change alot of things beginning with a major one - it being a relationship one of course . No matter...

Not being brilliant with people has led me to make many mistakes in my life. Basically, I'd not been given the best guidelines of how best to interact with people and made a lot of mess ups. It's like the world had a secret coded...

Have you ever seen that movie The Butterfly Effect?

Ashton Kutcher is in it, realises he can go back and change events in his life but each ultimately changes the life he's living.

I often think about the decisions ive made...

Now

What I am saying is, that in order to "change or better the future" we have to have a Positive outlook on it that we CAN

Have you ever just felt somebodys eyes on you and when you finally looked they were smiling sweetly at...

Yeah i agree you can not change the past but you can change the future.

though it's important to change the way you look back at the past.

thats when real healing takes place.

learn from expierence and be honest with yourself...

I was abused as a child from the age of 7 by a friends father.  He did so much damage to me that I can't have any normal relationships and the dream of having my own family went out the window when the damge he did me resulted in...

i cut myself and i still do and i regret it but i cant stop