I Have Issues With My Mother Stories of Experiences

How do you feel YOUR the victim? I don't get it...

How can you blame the way I felt about you on me? One can only give you a REASON to feel such a way... I have plenty of reasons...

8th grade prom- no mom

Freshman year admissions...

Shut up

SHUT UP

Because I'm allowed to feel whichever way I want

There is no excuse for anything that happened

No way to validate ABUSE

Because that's what it was

ABUSE

It was ugly and cruel and wrong

I shouldn't have to defend...

I am so pissed at her right now.
She never liked any of my bf’s. The first one she hated so much, that every time I came home she would yell at me, and be mad for no particular reason. I tried to talk with her about it. My sister...

Never was I allowed to have any problems without them being her problems. I sensed early on that I was supposed to keep out of the way and be on my toes so she could have it easy. If I was having problems, she seemed to think I was...

As much as I try and as old as I get I can't seem to shake off the issues i believe stem from the way I was raised by my mom. I can't believe that I'm 53 and still cursed by them.
All my relationships have failed, I am still very...

My mother thinks we have such a great relationship, but if she knew half of the feelings I've kept to myself, she'd know differently. She seems to be dependent of me, and she is pushing me away. Sometimes it feels like she is smothering...

I wish I could communicate with my mother.

Every time I try to share something with her she always has reasons why its my fault.

I wish she would just listen without judging.

I have been having a difficult time recently. As a result...

This is a very difficult thing for me to admit, even anonymously. I don't like the way my feelings about my mother make me feel about the kind of person I am. But...

I am 36. My mother is 64. She was never an abusive mother...

She loves me, because I am her daughter after all, but she doesn't love the bisexual part of me. She knows that I am, I have told her. In a not so nice way, but i told her because i was sick of the things she would say about all of my...

Okay, my Mom and have almost NEVER gotten along well... We can't be around each other longer than about 4 hours before fighting.. Housework has always been an issue with her and I. It seems like I'm always cleaning up after her. I have...

Recently I have made some really bad choices and im trying to hide them but its breaking me. Me and my mum have been arguing alot recently like everything we start ends in shouting, She says its my disgusting attitude and i need to fix...

That day we had some repairing work going in our house.
I helped the plumber and plus went with him to the store to buy some stuff.
That took about 2 hours to get over completely and then only I did rest my ass.
I took a wash and was...

My mother has always seemed to hate me, and hell she has said it before shes said a lot of things i'm miserable to be around, i am a bitch, i am a freak, i am always a disappointment a failure, i am always the bad guy to her, just...

I love my mom, she has done so mucho for me. But it's just never enough for her. She is always making me feel like shit, like I'm the biggest crap in this world, like I'm never enough. She makes fun of me, she insults me, there's no way...

my mum is like night and and day, she's so nice and caring sometimes and the next, a monster. it's like she was never there the real her. she tells me things to do and when i do them, she is never EVER satisfied with the results. i tell...

My mother and me fight all the time nothing stops it anymore I can't stand her and the way she is. She drinks and abuses me emotionally and has tried to physically once. It started when I was little the custody battle and all of her...

ok guys, now those of you with add/adhd some of us have different ways of doing stuff like homework and stuff. 2nd quarter was really a pain in the A** for me mostly because first I had an elleergic reaction(missed one week) and one...

My mother and i are completely different from each other , like she likes orange color but i hate orange color... we fight almost once a day ... when we go out we cant decide what are we going to eat...which goes all to her idea !
today...

I am the youngest of 4 daughters in my family, i'm 18. From the time i was a little kid growing up till now, i have always known that i wasn't exactly the "favorite" if anything i felt like i was the complete opposite of that.
In 5...

I have issues with my mom.

I long ago gave up any semblance of getting what I wanted from her, which was unconditional love and approval.

But yes, I still have issues with her.

I cannot change her. I can’t. I don’t want to...