I Am Passive-aggressive Stories of Experiences

Ok, first, I am not passive aggressive. But I am still reeling from a relationship with a man who is and won't talk to me and I have so many questions and thought I could get some perspective from all of you who are and this is the...

I just hate it, when i.m driving and people go waaaay toooooo slooooow!!!

I am for the most part extremely passive towards most people but if anyone says or does anything to insult me or one of my friends, that's when I get mean. Sometimes they're just too dumb to understand and think nothing of me...

I think I am one... and I don't know even know what exactly it means.Teehee. :D

Yes, I do have assertive problems, even though I have extreme anger issues in turn. Grr...It's annoying, but it is what it is, and I have come to terms with it, I suppose.

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I have for many years battled with my emotions. My mother died when I was 14 and my father was not very good at being a father. My father had affairs and this caused lots of arguments at home which I as a small child found hard to...

I've always been aware that I had a few issues around assertiveness. In fact it's so obvious that even when I was 13, other kids at school would tell me that I had to be more assertive (weird, looking back). I've recently been reading...

Hi PA people,
For years, I frequently suffered from bouts of depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts. On occasion, stress related illnesses flared up and seriously debilitated me. I seemed to be at the mercy of my emotions, and this...

The moment of realization, of finally apprehending a long standing problem which has blighted your enjoyment of life and devalued everything and everyone of importance to you, can be traumatic, it can be like being woken in the wee wee...

So, after years of emotional turbulence, creating a plethora of long lasting relationship and family problems, seeking help from professionals to stave off further distress and growing isolation, misdiagnoses and inappropte medications...

Hi, fellow PA sufferers.
8 months ago my PA finally destroyed my relationship with my long suffering partner, and I found myself homeless, jobless, alone, and facing a dead end at the age of 41. Now I am struggling to find a way to...

I am a passive-aggressive young adult male. After researching passive-aggressive behavior, I see it in retrospect. And I don't want to go through it again. I vent too much when something is deeply troubling me, but I can only do it in...

I want everyone to like me even when I don't like the other people.
Actually it's when others blatantly dislike me that I stick around to change their minds.
I have an enormous family, so all information is passed via gossip. I can...

Today I have finally admitted I am a passive-aggressive person.  Now comes the hard part.  I would love any adivce from anyone who can help.  I am feeling a little lost right now.Thank you.

Well I've been having problems in my relationship. We have been together for about four years but recently had a breakup about catching him talking to another girl. When he explained himself he said that he told her i love you but didnt...

I learned both from my mom: "If he pisses you off, and I mean not just any ol' thing, but REALLY pisses you off, just stop talking to him," she said, "It'll make him think about what he's done." So, I always kept that in mind. And it...

 My husband says I am passive aggressive and he doesn’t love me anymore.  He says he cares but there is no love left in him for me.  He says I have mentally abused him and that I am PA and I can’t change and it is too late with...

In the ten years that i've known him with all the on and off back and forth between us. I always tried to understand him and forgive him. I would be so angry and stuperfied by his inconsiderate behavior. Not answering his phone, not...

I've only quite recently become aware of this challenge in my life. Passive Aggressiveness, I realize, runs through my family. There were never any true moments of love or respect in my family life and growing up under an angry father...

but i've sent angry text messages out of nowhere... i once picked my friend's phone and deleted my number from her phone.. i was feeling ignored and didn't know what else to do.. she noticed a couple of days later and asked me why...