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I A Husband and Father

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    For The Love of Sage- All troubles in my 17 year marriage begin with a little girl called Sage. She is the mixed race child my husband fathered during his 1st year in America...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I have got married 6 months back . My husband mostly talks abt his father who doesn't help me or my husband either physically or financially he has rented house in his native , he...
    vidh vidh 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I am recently married to the most amazing man. He goes to college and works full time to provide for us. I stay at home. I am a house husband and everyone thinks it is easy care...
    1plus1isUs 1plus1isUs 18-21, T 12 hrs ago

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    My mother suddenly died two years ago at age 57 and my father started dating again shortly after. It was understandably an incredibly horrific time for my father and it was...
    SisyphusGirl SisyphusGirl 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has...
    marcilossy marcilossy 36-40, F 7 hrs ago

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    MY NAME IS JANICES WALLOCKS FROM HOUSTON,TEXAS.I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS OR MAGIC UNTIL I MET THIS SPELL CASTER ONCE WHEN I WENT TO AFRICA IN DECEMBER LAST YEAR ON A BUSINESS...
    jm60centjmartins jm60centjmartins 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    When I got pregnant at 17 my then boyfriend forced to live in their house which was a hell cause his father is an alcoholic dickhead. I've tried many times to leave my husband but...
    alivia25 alivia25 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I know I need my husband's control and guidance just like I needed my father's control and guidance growing up. Your father and your husband know what is best. I may not have such...
    Genae82 Genae82 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I have been married for 24 years. I have two children in college. My husband doesn not text, call , email or even talk to me. A little background info, his father died last year...
    jobop13 jobop13 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I am 27, I lost my father to lung cancer 3 weeks ago he was 67, i feel so sad and alone and i feel that there's nothing to live for anymore. what breaks my heart more is that i...
    DadysGirl DadysGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    So today I finally hired a PI. My instinct should be proof enough.. But I need real proof. Feel like I'm having déjà vu. He is such a douche bag! For over a year had to...
    Hamnamatata Hamnamatata 41-45 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    This is new ... My husband took off of work last night and snuck in the house thinking I had someone here ... Really ??? Talk about paranoid ... just cause he has a guilty concious...
    AngelinaRosa AngelinaRosa 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I have recently found out that my husband of 10 years has met a woman that is 12 years younger than me who lives out of state. He has purchased her bus tickets and met her for 2...
    heartbrokeninwall heartbrokeninwall 41-45, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I can't believe I'm in this position. He seemed to be the antithesis of the things that worried me most about my father. They say you tend to marry your father and my father was...
    TennesseeTina TennesseeTina 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am spending the afternoon at poolside listening to the sounds of the afternoon, the birds calls, the crickets chirp, the noise of the nearby traffic, while observing the...
    Rusham Rusham 66-70, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    My father used to be my idol when I was small, but know I hate him with a fiery passion. When I was 8 years old I found out that he sleeps with other women. I found this out...
    Yasora Yasora 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I wish I had had a real Father. A dad that loved and cherished me and my brothers. My dad is an emotionally abusive man. He is also a severe narcissist. I stopped speaking to him...
    Howyahorse Howyahorse 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    My father has not been around much throughout my entire life. I am currently 24 years old and almost turning 25 in less then a week. He over criticizes me and compares me to my...
    jezebelx jezebelx 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F Apr 13

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    My Husband shouting on my three years boy the boy become anger on me say no to me , and afraid of his father nerves most of time when my husband is around what I have to do this...
    Dinimimi Dinimimi 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I notice when I got into husbands Email he had a number of replies on I had an affair, he was writing about me but did not give the whole story. He did not say how he left on...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F Mar 23

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    I have been dating my husband 11 yrs before our marriage in 2011. I always knew he was different than most men, a great listener, sensitive, eager to please and extremely nice...
    carmen2014 carmen2014 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    My husband of 10 years is very insensitive towards me and my feelings. He just doesn't care at all. Two days back we had a fight and I left home at 9 in the morning (I am stay at...
    MITheOnlyOne MITheOnlyOne 31-35 1 Response Mar 30

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    We were together 17 years he was my husband, my best friend,my soul mate, and the father of my children. He died suddenly with complications to a heart surgery which I had to make...
    kmcgloughlin kmcgloughlin 41-45, F Apr 3

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    In a few days my husband and I will have been married for 30 years. He is a GOOD man. Neither of us have ever cheated on the other. He doesn't drink. He's never been abusive...
    ThisiswhatIwant ThisiswhatIwant 56-60, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Where to begin. All I can say is although I have moved out of my fathers toxic home, I am still very nervous as I write this. I can literally feel the anxiety building up. Ok...
    rrrrandom rrrrandom 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I did something that was so hard for me to do a couple of weeks ago. I said Kaddish for both my father as well as my son together. It has been hard to say it for my dad for the...
    PerryGrosser PerryGrosser 51-55, M Apr 10

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    I have a step-father four years ago, and I don't like my step-father. First, I thought I don't like him because he's the one that my mom had affaire with and he's the one that...
    Fearlessheart13 Fearlessheart13 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I have tried for over a decade to live with him.... He is mean and spiteful. My son is so messed up because he is an *******. But I will have to quit my job find work from...
    itsme3333 itsme3333 36-40 Mar 23

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    Cant leave him and dont want to be with him either...hardly gives me any happiness...just makes me work like an *** and then make me feel that i have no attached value..have...
    mishakapoor mishakapoor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    how can a father say your a peice of **** then hug your cousins like nothing happend how can a father say he loves you when he puts every one else above you how can a father...
    fkfh fkfh 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I want to leave him for my freedom and my kiddos freedom. The freedom to have friends, lunch, time with my family, money, a place that I can call my own. He doesn't hold me hostage...
    jennadventurous jennadventurous 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's been almost 3 months since he passed... I miss him more and more every day. He was my best friend , love of my life, father of my children. He was big man with a badge with an...
    shannonb78 shannonb78 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate living with my ah!! He does not think he has a problem and it's killing him!!! I just looked under the bathroom sink and threw out 15 bottles of tequilla!!! He has destroyed...
    debidebv debidebv 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think it's disgusting how the role of the father seems insignificant to many people. Scorned women often bring their kids up to resent their fathers which is wrong. Not all...
    thisisanick thisisanick 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I could not think of a more perfect father than mine. Born as the oldest child of 8 sisters, my dad and his family grew up as a lower-class arabic family, at one point even...
    bassamelali bassamelali 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 14

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    He's been in my life for 12 years. He has been more of a father to me then my own dad is. My own dad thought being a great father was just handing my brother & I money every time...
    16countrygirl 16countrygirl 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    My father left one week after I was born, he called once when I was in third grade but it was meant for my uncle about money. My grandparents hated him and always said things about...
    osnitrapzi osnitrapzi 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Some people may find this hard to relate to. However, the memories of our fathers fathers stay within us. They are part of us, whether we like it or not. The memories become...
    LesFennecs LesFennecs 18-21, M Mar 28

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    Having a father is having a parent, but it's a whole new person to explore. So many people have so many experiences with their fathers that are beautiful. My parents were very...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    http://news.yahoo.com/two-moms-baby-legal-first-u-gay-marriage-124540293--finance.html Are fathers going the way of the dinosaur...
    Bonnie1934 Bonnie1934 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I am 29 years old and have been told my entire life by other family members that my dad was not my father or my brother and sister's father either. It has been a rumor for years...
    sabrinaggbordelon1985 sabrinaggbordelon1985 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    Dear Tech Support, Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slowdown in overall system performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry...
    SinglesAdvice SinglesAdvice 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I have a torn relationship with my Father. Sometimes I day dream what my life would be if we had a "relationship". For years I have carried a masked on covering up the hurt since...
    ADonya ADonya 31-35, F