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I A Husband and Father

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 17

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    "The woman is mine for 5 years. The baby in her arms is mine and also the baby in her womb is mine." My stepfather insisted shortly after my 1st birthday. A 2 year separation...
    AlphahatesOmega AlphahatesOmega 18-21, M 20 hrs ago

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    I found my husband when I was so broken and so NOT looking. For two years he was my best friend and listened to me and encouraged me. He helped me believe in myself and asked for...
    scnpctk143 scnpctk143 41-45, F 17 hrs ago

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    Oh my beloved future husband. Where art thou? :| I wonder what you are doing right now. Wether you have a girlfriend or not. What kind of person you are, what kind of things you...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am not feeling well, waiting to have surgery... But I get up early every morning and make my husband lunch, I make dinner, I take care of the kids, I wash his laundry... The day...
    Mistakemaker80 Mistakemaker80 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    I'm scared of my husband... who stalks me all the time... It's almost like I have to be with him and for him all the time... Not even a mall visit on my own is ok... I have a kid...
    Sreeme Sreeme 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    The long and short of it, I was married 7 years to my alcoholic husband, divorced from him for 6 years and we recently remarried after he seemed to be clean and sober and dedicated...
    tracylpiatt tracylpiatt 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i took my youngest daughter to the doctor and before she could be treated i had to answer question after question! Are you her biological mother? are you married? is your husband...
    StillWaterRunsDeep StillWaterRunsDeep 31-35 Aug 18

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    My husband had a great paying, great benefits job in the Army & got out & took a job making less than half of what he was making. He works for his uncle & we moved into a house...
    Laurenannette Laurenannette 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I am 29 and finally admitting to myself that I don't like or really love my father. On paper he's the perfect Dad. Despite the divorce with my Mum and periods of separation he...
    wombattle wombattle 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I don't know much about him. People who were close to him said he loved me but he died before I ever had the chance to have a memory. I don't know what type of person he was what...
    kdc119 kdc119 22-25, F Aug 29

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    Well I wouldn't say hate but, I thought they were really weird alot different from what I am used to I remember walking into his house and noone that past by me ever said hello I...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F a week ago

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    My "real" father. When I was little. My father and me were very close. My family were. We are seen as a perfect family and i thought it is. My dad is Japanese and my mom is a...
    azyleak azyleak 22-25, F Aug 31

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    I am an only child to a strong willed and beautiful mother who has endured many hardships throughout her life. Almost from Day 1, my mom has played both parental roles, and with a...
    olinor olinor 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    He left us right after my younger sister was born, and my younger sister was born when I wasn't even a year old yet. Which means that I grew up without a father, without knowing a...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I've been estranged from my father 8 of the past 10 years. My parents divorced before my first birthday and my mother raised my older sister and I. When I was 3 my father...
    SomedayHeWillBeMine SomedayHeWillBeMine 22-25, F Aug 23

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    Well...I stayed and I am still in the same boat! Sitting here, he is passed out drunk AGAIN! AS USUAL! WTF is wrong with me? I let him fool me once again. I think I am scared. I...
    ShonieGETYOLIFE1 ShonieGETYOLIFE1 36-40, F Aug 16

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    I think to be a good father is more difficult than it seems to be at first sight. It is not only hard working to have money in order to ensure the kid they can have got the best...
    michalmos michalmos 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 16

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    My mother claims she doesn't know how to find him. She said after I was born she ran into him in the mall. He said "Cute baby" and she told him it was his and he denied it. Then...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    My relationship with my father stalled because of my mothers constant adultery, with his friends! I hardly saw him at all between ages eight and when I moved in with him at...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    My father has never been the type to show even a little emotion. He's a rock. Yesterday was his birthday and I wrote him a letter talking about the strength and bravery he's given...
    annoyedandinlove annoyedandinlove 18-21, F Aug 24

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    Have you ever had a hero? Have you ever had a role model that was also a parental figure? Have you ever had full trust in someone special and then all of a sudden it gets shattered...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I have never been terribly close with my father, though it probably doesn't help that even my earliest memories I have are bad ones. When I was very very young, maybe three, my...
    DemonFeyLove DemonFeyLove 18-21, F Sep 4

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    My father's friend lives apart from his wife and his children. He criticises him much for that, that he doesn't appreciate his family. My dad also says that his friend has to have...
    sandcaip sandcaip 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    My father was in my life,my mother's live in lover,until I was 11. That's when the State of Indiana kicked him out and it was no great loss believe me! A while before that he had...
    Bashka91 Bashka91 22-25, M Aug 16

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    I still am growing up without one. I can tell you that when I did have one, he was the greatest man I knew. I was really attached to him and loved him a lot. He was my hero. Some...
    Jessica4729 Jessica4729 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I am living at my mothers and I used to see my father every second weekend. I found out my father produces and deals with drugs 3 years ago. I told my mum and told her not to tell...
    itisjustmeok itisjustmeok 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Yes, as a father it is your obligation to provide us the brighter future thru sending us to a prestige school. When it comes with financial matters, I never questioned you because...
    imerosiie imerosiie 18-21, F Aug 18

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    So here's my sad little story. I've never met my father, nor have I ever had any kind of father to speak of (aka, my mom never got married). Not really a huge deal - I'm a pretty...
    Coffeelover90 Coffeelover90 22-25, F Aug 24

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    I have found this site and I have been reading everybody's situations about their biological father. I would love the input and advice that I can get in my situation. I was dating...
    meglb13 meglb13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I still have a hatred for my ex father in law even if he's dead! He sexually abused my daughter when she was a toddler. My ex stuck by his father probably bc he was sexually...
    ConBr ConBr 46-50, F Aug 29

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    ...but my father is a coward. He made mistakes as we all do, but instead of trying his best to protect his own from these mistakes, he blamed the very ones that loved him. He has...
    PricelessLegacy PricelessLegacy 31-35, F Sep 7

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    I am lucky to have a father who knows how to be a father. He worked all his life to provide for us. He paid for our education, food and needs. My father made everything to make...
    pinklipstick pinklipstick 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I do because my father decidedly ISN'T, nor ever will be. In fact, if I ever adopt kids, they will never, ever be allowed to be alone with him. If my mom wants to see her grandkids...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i've always been angry how my father raised me and i found it very hard to forgive him and our relationship has never been that good, but when i think about it now .. the way he...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Dear Future Husband, This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been...
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I admire ME cause I am knocking myself out being a good father newly separated. My experience ... There is not a single advantage being a single Dad. Newly separated and going from...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 18

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    Tomorrow marks the 14th year since my father passed away. He was 68, almost 69. The manner of his passing is not important any more. His being gone from my life is though. This...
    58Coot 58Coot 56-60, M Aug 20

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm 30 and recently found out I'm pregnant. I have two kids and I got pregnant from a close friend who I wasn't in a relationship with. I battle a drug addiction that had ruined my...
    Rosielocs Rosielocs 26-30, F Aug 21

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    Fück I hate this brand new hell of "co-parenting" our kids when as their father I see them 2 days a week. But I am clear about what I believe is their best interests. I am hoping...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    He was never really in my life and now that we live closer to each other, whenever we hang out it's incredibly awkward. We don't really say much. I try to ask him questions about...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I Lost my father 7 month ago, I still feel that Life is Not the same as before, I lost the person who loves me the most in this earth, he was always talking care for me, advising...
    chakibmhiri chakibmhiri 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F Aug 17

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26