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    When I was sexually violated- my father got wind of it from my violator- who lied and said we were in a relationship, and that I willingly messed around. My father believed him...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    Before I was born, my mother was pregnant with my brother and decided to marry my father for the support. She stayed with him for twenty years until now to raise her children...
    bubbleteax bubbleteax 16-17, F 11 hrs ago

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    I'm a step dad. I'm reading your posts because I want to see how other kids feel. It's hard being a step dad, too. I get a lot of accusations thrown my way by my step kids but when...
    FutileFather FutileFather 46-50, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    My parents were teenagers (17). When my mother was pregnant with me, my father's parents moved (with him) to another state. My grandma kept his correspondence to my mom and left my...
    aakkiii aakkiii 41-45 Dec 8

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    It was years ago, but it still hurts as if it were yesterday. I knew it was happening. I was in school, college, and I was doing very well. Our lives had diverged, it seemed...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 18

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    Help please. I have come to this place where I have made an appointment with a lawyer. I'm just tired. I wanted so badly to keep our family together so that I could see my babies...
    Regrets1230 Regrets1230 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 19

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    Wouldn't you call the person who keeps on putting down your father a jerk .!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I cant stand someone who would do this to me. Its not my husband its his mother but my...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Nov 23

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    Even When I Didn't Deserve Him-I was just a 18 year old country bumpkin from the Deep South when I met and soon married my husband of now 27 years. My family didn't like him and...
    SexiChox SexiChox 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I am having an affair with my father in law. He's sexy, good in bed, better than my husband, sometimes my husband records me f**king his dad and him and I watch it together and...
    Oralqueen4you Oralqueen4you 46-50, F 16 hrs ago

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    To be honest, I love being a house mom. I love to keep everything in order, wake up 5 am to make a good breakfast and dinner everyday. Cleaning the house, helping my daughter with...
    iamasuperwoman iamasuperwoman 26-30, F Dec 3

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    He has NOT once helped me during Christmas in 7 years now. When I worked, I paid for my side and some of his. Now, I do have to rely on him for my side. There's around 50 people on...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    He is my Prince Charming, a true and devoted family man. I feel so blessed to have him as my husband, the father of my children and the head of our home.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    OMG I want to scream been planning my daughters birthday party Booked the party at a frozen yogurt shop Sent out invitations Made fresh chocolate cupcakes with buttercream icing...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 6

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    I love him. There has been many times over our twenty four years of marriage that I have cried for him, yearned for his attention, even cursed him in every way. None of that...
    Mendmyheart Mendmyheart 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 8

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    Actually I don’t think I have hated anyone ever. But if I have done, it was my father. He was the most pathetic turd piece of meat I’ve ever known. My grandma told me that...
    tazx tazx 46-50, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    We have been together for 5 years, married for 2. I fell hard in love with him, he said he did too-I moved out west to be closer to him and have worked hard to rebuild my career...
    Lrockclimb Lrockclimb 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    I thought I wrote this here before, but I guess I was mistaken. It’s probably buried somewhere on my hard drive. Either way, it's on my mind and I'm going to write about it again...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M Dec 8

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    It's a long story, but I rejoined this site specifically to talk about this. I'm so confused right now. I love my husband, he's not a bad guy, but the passion and the 'in love...
    JustSymone JustSymone 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    I see my ex-husband everywhere. His face appears in my dreams, I see him in the check-out line at the Bay, or while waiting for the subway. I am constantly thinking about him...
    chatonenamour chatonenamour 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I see my ex-husband everywhere. His face appears in my dreams, I see him in the check-out line at the Bay, or while waiting for the subway. I am constantly thinking about him...
    chatonenamour chatonenamour 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Well I know my father but for so long I've seen him as little as once in two years. But to be honest it never got to me, I never held a grudge against anyone. But right now there's...
    damnitsover damnitsover 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 3

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    I was very fortunate to have an adoptive mother. My birth mother never married my dad. He got married to someone else when I wasn't even born yet. He had two other kids with a...
    SKDel SKDel 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have fathered 2 lovely children, watched and helped my wife give birth to them. Oh what an experience and shock to look up and see all these people in the room after they were...
    Ozdharma Ozdharma 56-60, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I am scared of my father. I'm not quite sure why. Every time I hear his car pull up in the drive way I get very anxious and feel like he's going to tell at me for no reason, but...
    helloimxxxxx helloimxxxxx 16-17, F Nov 17

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    After my parents got divorced when i was 12 my father has been a heavy drinker. My mother moved out with my little sister (Lily). When my father started drinking he would only...
    Alexjones12 Alexjones12 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    Oh, where to begin... I'm not sure if he has NPD or if he's just very narcissistic, but he's definitely not an easy person to live with. I experienced abuse as a child from my...
    chococat159 chococat159 18-21 Nov 23

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    My dear father, Ever since you left I've been suppressed by all of these tears My heart still feels bad, part of me died I think of you much more than I should You would still...
    BeautifulPetal BeautifulPetal 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 25

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    This morning my husband had said he would take our teen son to the top of the road where the bus stops. I didn't even ask him to. I noticed my husband seemed to be running late for...
    Ladyscorpioz Ladyscorpioz 36-40, F Dec 1

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    He always favorited my younger sister more than me, if my sister and I got into a fight, I'd be physically punished (no not with a whip) I'd be thrown/pushed/etc sometimes told I...
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    He always Favorited my younger sister more than me, if my sister and I got into a fight, I'd be physically punished (no not with a whip) I'd be thrown/pushed/etc sometimes told I...
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F Dec 5

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    A priest I know once said (and I'm paraphrasing): "A father has the task of representing God's love to his children. If a father doesn't do a good job of conveying his love to his...
    kenalan932 kenalan932 22-25, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had been married for 23 years when I fell in love with another man. I had felt disconnected from my husband for a lot of years but thought I was doing the right thing by staying...
    Alucia66 Alucia66 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    The Bible teaches that the husband is the head of the home but there is a considerable amount of misunderstanding about how that leadership role is to be fulfilled. The husband is...
    sunnycaramelo sunnycaramelo 46-50, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My father died at the age of 79. I was 58 years old when he passed away. In all of that time, my father only said something nice to me one time. Luckily it was not long before...
    leedee55 leedee55 51-55, F 1 day ago

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    A brand new store has just opened in New York City that sells Husbands. When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance: You may visit this...
    Ivan7X Ivan7X 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    Was a caregiver for father-in-law would be more precise. He has since passed. He had Parkinson disease and I didn’t even know what that was till he had it. That was before we saw...
    lasergraph lasergraph 61-65, M 3 Responses Nov 20

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    They really are. Talking from experience when i say that if they are absent in a kids life then that kid will never will fully grow up. Still in the child hood mindset because mine...
    whoscarlo5 whoscarlo5 18-21, M Nov 26

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    I skyped with my father today. We are beginning to have a relationship. I can't dwell on the past anymore. I always think that his ex wife had a lot to do with the fact that we...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    So you always hear about bad fathers, so are then bad moms. I only one I can think of is my aunts friend who takes care of his daughter on his own. I will raise my children unlike...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    I worry day in and day out if I do enough for my son. I dread the day he asks me about his "dad". What will I say? Oh, son, your father was seperated and after we broke up he went...
    lostinmommyview lostinmommyview 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    My mom has always said my father was a man named Craig. I tracked him down and he told me he had known my mom in high school but that he had never been intimate with her. He seemed...
    naknuwisha naknuwisha 41-45, F Dec 7

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    So yesterday my father and I had another big argument. We were going to somewhere special for me as a whole family and I had the nerve to tell him his outfit he had on looked bad...
    MyHoudini MyHoudini 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    Well this Saturday December 13 will be two years and I'm dreading it. I miss my father but I'm also mourning my mother who died in April of this year. I'm grieving both parents and...
    cicisays13 cicisays13 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I haven't heard from my son's father since he was 3 months old. He's about to be 4. A few days ago I decided to type his name into the search box on facebook. He's been...
    lostinmommyview lostinmommyview 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    My mother got pregant with me her senior year at romeoville high school in Illinois. She graduated with the class of 1995. Her name is Cynthia Timm (Russell). Half Way through the...
    vr242424 vr242424 18-21, F 5 days ago

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