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I A Loner Anymore

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    I have had the most difficult year of my life. What was supposed to be a fresh start turned into a nightmare, one that I can't get out of. Moving overseas is not easy, you kinda...
    cursedswan cursedswan 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Ive always been labelled and agreed that I was a "loner" Im pretty happy with my own company (with exception of black dog) love thinking, quiet times..But somehow find myself with...
    Blondie1978 Blondie1978 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel myself getting distant from my family more everyday. I mean we still talk with conversations sometimes and they do have some valid points. I feel no more pleasure with the...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    I used to have friends. But it's because of them that I developed partial trust issues. Eventually I just broke off from any friendship ties and became a loner.I love being a loner...
    Zephyix Zephyix 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    A "shy", quite loner. That's what people describe me. I didn't choose to be by myself a lot, it just happens. Whenever I meet someone new I always fall for it and think I finally...
    AVN15 AVN15 13-15, F Aug 30

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    I have shut myself out from everyone. I do have friends, but it feels like I wouldn't particularly miss them if they weren't there. I would just be complacent about it. That's...
    Vi018 Vi018 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I never talk to my friends they never make any effort to talk to me or hangout with me anymore and I have no idea why
    Canadianblood Canadianblood 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I am quite content being a loner. Why does everyone think I'm miserable and suffering? What I can't stand is people meddling and trying to get me to do social activities. I'm a...
    ItalianEnzo ItalianEnzo 31-35, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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    I am an independent loner and I love it. But what is crazy is that I am a very social person. People love having me around and they call me for everything because I am very easy to...
    anonymousaquarious anonymousaquarious 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Im a loner by choice because i want real friends. Not semester friend
    tomasalmas6789 tomasalmas6789 18-21, M Aug 26

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    I don't choose to be. Seriously who wants to be alone? Nobody. I just don't have a lot of people that care about me to invite me anywhere. I have no choice, but to be a loner...
    seakissedjem seakissedjem 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I seriously have no friends and what lil family I do have, we don't socialize with each other. I enjoy being a loner. I can go out and have a whole conversation with a homeless...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 6

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    I miss having friends but I guess I'm just too much of a loner to have any. I try to make friends but I am horrible at keep up with the communication. I'll make a friend in one of...
    Robin1226 Robin1226 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Today i went walking, didn't care where my feet lead me. Was having a bad day. Wind up in some neighborhood with cute little houses. Sat on the sidewalk, and just watched these...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    i made myself a loner, i isolated myself from the real world . yenno i had girlfriends,friends, a LIFE . but then i started to get acne real bad and lowered my confidence and...
    Mihkowakayios Mihkowakayios 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm a loner, but I don't think that's a bad thing. I have a large family I hang out with a lot, and a couple good friends, but I spend most of my free time alone, willingly...
    PastaBanana PastaBanana 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Letting less and less knots loose. I wasn't meant to hold everything together. I look at myself and see the strength I've built up, through tolerance. Endurance of people I...
    sbomber25 sbomber25 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I made a pact with the only friend I have that listens to me, that we would not discuss our relationships anymore. Main reason is because it makes it awkward for us when we share...
    Krissy1029 Krissy1029 31-35, F Aug 29

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    I just recently found out that my husband is talking to several women online....in a very sexual way. He apologized and regrets it.... We talked it out and want to grow from that...
    Brownie27 Brownie27 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    This is what I'd written last night in my diary when I can't sleep. After crying like a pathetic fool I spent I don't know how long to write these words. 26 August 2014 Something...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    I found the card in his car, I went to you his sister, his allegedly doting sister for advice, forgetting you lie, you are selfish, you destroy everyone in your path, you MUST be...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 22-25, F Sep 4

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    I'm sleepy, sad, and upset I just don't want to feel like this anymore I'm tired of crying to sleep I'm tired of getting the urge to cut myself I'm tired of the suicidal...
    Hellokitty1313 Hellokitty1313 13-15, F Sep 8

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    Well this is true!!! But then in some parts I am. I turned 16 at the beginning of summer and I really feel like this has been such a huge summer for me. So much stuff happened to...
    KenzieluvsRupert KenzieluvsRupert 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    3:30am and I'm awake in tears, I can't stop my mind from throwing the recent past in my face. Dating a recovering drug addict is so hard especially when he has messed up and hurt...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I can't feel it anymore, it's great. When a person calls me a b**** i just don't care anymore. it's beautiful to be stronger. When somone calls me one i think they're a poser or a...
    SecretWraith SecretWraith 18-21, F a week ago

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    I just don't know anymore, nothing ever seems to go right for me. I just want to be loved properly instead of people pretending to love me. I hate everyday I wake up. I'm slowly...
    sademptynothing sademptynothing 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'm hiding behind my video games staying inside the house all day and sleep a lot. I'm hiding from the world...not knowing what to do anymore. I'm stuck in this lonely phase hoping...
    Supershoes24 Supershoes24 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    It's not fun anymore it just brings me more and more pain I can't stand it and no one is really helping except for a few people
    rushman5 rushman5 13-15, M Aug 21

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    since a year ago it feels like my life is falling apart. I used to be the happiest girl. I was always noticed for my constant smiling in school and questioned by my own friends as...
    livingwithdepression livingwithdepression 13-15, F Aug 22

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    Ok, time to vent. I moved to Idaho 3-4 years ago involuntarily, my mom wanted I be with her grandmother, we moved here, I learned to like it, love it in fact... I've lived here...
    KoolKandon KoolKandon 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I don't know what to believe anymore. People tell me not to give up, but others tell me I am naive and a stupid little kid. Maybe they are right, maybe I am a stupid little kid...
    BadassNerd BadassNerd 13-15, F Aug 23

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    I have a girlfriend who used to be there for me and make me feel somewhat special, and I used to do a lot of stuff to show her that I care but now she does nothing special at all...
    dlk21 dlk21 26-30, M Aug 25

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    Have you ever felt like you just want to break down in tears and you don't know why? Only to find you have no more tears left to cry? I feel empty - numb, almost as if existing...
    TaintedSnowflakes TaintedSnowflakes 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    It's true, I don't need my parents anymore. They still need me though, more than I would ever care to tell people. My mum needs me to be her rock, to help her through. My grandma...
    pygmypuff pygmypuff 18-21, F Aug 27

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    I'm done I'm sooooo done. I hate my life. I just can't take it anymore
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I just got fired. They had budget cuts and got rid of my position. There's other stuff going on in my life making it so I don't have a lot of self esteem or confidence. The only...
    SilentRider SilentRider 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    My reflection in the mirror can see right through me. She knows that my smile is forced and my heart is breaking inside. She can tell that I walk faster than normal, trying to...
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F Aug 30

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    I am 25 and have 3 children under 6. I have been with my husband since I was 14, married at 18, and started a family a few months into the marriage. I love my kids with all my...
    Mom1989 Mom1989 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    You grow up and have all these ideas about how life is supposed to be and then when you become an adult...nothing is how you pictured it. Love and marriage are not what is...
    shoxic shoxic 22-25, F Sep 3

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    Yeah so long story short.. I had my older brother live with me for almost 10 months.. Just to get him out of his most darkest hour of life.. Things are better with him now.. He's...
    musicvideographer musicvideographer 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I have had a great friend for many years, and a crush on them for nearly as long. Since meeting they came out as transgendered, and we continued to be great friends without any...
    Randomnomad Randomnomad 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I'd certainly fit the liberal mantra if I was American but being British.. I feel I've lost my liberalism. Or, more accurately, liberalism has lost me. I first became attracted to...
    Foreigntraveller Foreigntraveller 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    I have no will to go on anymore.
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I don't know who I'm anymore or why I'm here, and I'm scared of becoming the monster I was running from.
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F Sep 9

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    media is so twisted and messed up, i can't really trust it anymore so i choose not to watch the news
    pricilagudi pricilagudi 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I can't handle myself anymore. I barely even know who I am at this point. I can act one way but then flip the switch completely when something happens. I just feel like a soulless...
    jaden12345 jaden12345 16-17, M Sep 10

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    I genuinely believe at thus point that I have nothing to get up for on a mornings. Other people have ruined my life so much that I honestly just want to go to sleep and never wake...
    moonscapemonoxide moonscapemonoxide 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 10