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I A Mother of Four

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    No one really can make you understand how hard life can be.  When we are children we react differenly to the way are parents act and how they deal with life and the short comings of the things they want for us and themselves.  But once we become parents we see what they were...
    missamberlawrence missamberlawrence 31-35, F Dec 4, 2011

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    Just need to vent... We do not talk to my MIL for obvious reasons like how she said that my son was a mistake and told my step daughter about how I am not her mother and what...
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My mother is phenomenal. She amazes me with the heart she has. It's where I get it from. She raised me since I was a baby. ( my birth mother left) she took me in as her own and...
    freedom432 freedom432 31-35, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Champion Girls I have had the pleasure of knowing many tomboys in my life and thanks to my Aunt Donna hearing about dozens of my female forebears who made great sacrifices for all...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    my mother has always been too wrapped up in her depression to be a mom. she didn't get anything she wanted out of life and now she takes it out on me. I don't care if she's unhappy...
    ZenaMarie ZenaMarie 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    i think my mother hates me.. she's so mean with me and i feel like she dont want me and hates my existence ... cuz she's always happy until she see me , and nothing i do pleases...
    Rwnn Rwnn 13-15, F 23 mins ago

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    Why did it take me 33 years to realize this? Almost immediately after typing that question I feel doubt and shame not because I should have known years ago but because I feel I am...
    klaw25 klaw25 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    When I was four and a half years old I lost my Mother to Sarcoma. According to cancer.net, this year, 5,470 females will be diagnosed sarcoma in the United States. About 2,190...
    katmcc katmcc 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19

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    My Mother was the greatest woman in my life and it's been over year since she was call home to Heaven! There isn't moment in my day where this Lady isn't on my mind see was truly...
    gamma87 gamma87 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I am a mom of four kids; 2 and 2. Their ages are 12, 14, 16 and 18. All of my pregnancies were by one man and he is my husband and soon to be ex-husband.
    joanwilliams joanwilliams 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    Once again I stop in Wesson,Ms. to pay my respects to my parents on my way back to Tenn. and just sat at peace knowing they're near me with heavy heart tears flowing! Truly a...
    gamma87 gamma87 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am 21 pregnant with my second child, I am a stay at home with my son and my fiancee's son(whose mother cannot get her priorities straight long enough to take care of her son...
    stephaniewebs stephaniewebs 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    i use to have a black palaris 4/4 four wheeler but it got old and the mufler whould steam so i had to get ride of it but my dad just bout a artic cat 4/4 and i took it through this...
    kacey5533 kacey5533 13-15, M Dec 1

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    It's really remarkable to find so many people who I can relate too. My mother has been emotionally, physically, and verbally abusing me since I was a small child. I don't have any...
    WeOnlyHaveNow WeOnlyHaveNow 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I thought I was the only one who could genuinely hate their mom but glad to know im not the only one. I don't call her that anymore she's just Laurie. She was married to my dad...
    kwhite0718 kwhite0718 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 21

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    If you just glance at the stories I've written here, you manage to take one thing away: I hate my mother. I don't even consider her my mother. More like an older woman who kept...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 23

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    At this point I am unsure as to whether I have gotten better at dealing with not having my mother in my life or worse. I used to think I had it under control.. That was before my...
    indigopower indigopower 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    Turned My Sports Loving Son into a Prissy Girly Girl Here is an amazing letter from a one of my favorite petticoating moms Rhonda. Like most women she was not aware of the...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    Darlene Story - Another Successful Petticoating of a Little Brat Another great letter from my friend Rhonda. This time she tells the story of Darlene the boy she first witness...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 29

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    Unfit Isn't A Strong Enough Word!-"You had a little sister...." My paternal grandmother dropped a bombshell a few months ago. She raised me because my mother who was just 17 when I...
    Shemiel Shemiel 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    Hi everyone, I'm glad I found this website, and I'm now able to share my story with people who will not judge me or think I'm crazy to think my mother is a narcissist. We all know...
    noite noite 26-30, F Dec 6

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    I have always wandered and questioned what the relationship between myself and mother means to either of us. I have this over whelming sadness due to the fact that even though she...
    Sproetjies3 Sproetjies3 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    She Walked Away Whether She Admits Or Not- It is a complicated matter but my father traveled with my sibling and myself back to his homeland very young. To our mother he said it...
    Izaakhs Izaakhs 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    She Walked Away Whether She Admits Or Not- It is a complicated matter but my father traveled with my sibling and myself back to his homeland very young. To our mother he said it...
    Izaakhs Izaakhs 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am beyond frustrated. Because of a divorce and some other personal issues (that were not my fault), I was forced to move back in with my parents. I am 43 years old and have a...
    cosmowoman13 cosmowoman13 41-45, F Nov 22

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    Okay, I don't really know if this counts as emotional abuse or not but I want to let things out in a healthier way. My mother has 2 modes. Nice or mean. Nowadays, she's normally...
    Dove06 Dove06 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    To sons. I cant stand that they even exist. I hate thinking about them. I hate wondering what went through their disgusting head. I really hate them. I dont care whose mother we're...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    So, I had surgery on my knees recently and my friends took care of me EVER SINCE I've arrived at the hospital. My mom and dad abandoned me and never had any intentions of seeing...
    GanjaSmokingMetalHead GanjaSmokingMetalHead 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    My Mother In Law I remember the first I met my mother in law. The first thing I said was are you two sisters because you look more like sisters than mother & daughter. She looks...
    IVMBLVCKBEVRD IVMBLVCKBEVRD 22-25, M Dec 6

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    I lost my best friend. My mother and I have always been extremely close, she was the one person I trusted the most, the one person I could tell everything to. Sometimes she'd make...
    xxellis xxellis 18-21, F Nov 20

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    My mother told me she regretted getting married on her wedding night. It was supposed to be a romantic night between my parents and my father fell asleep. My parents were married...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I got to the point where I decided to just accept that my mother will never be the mother I needed and want. She will always be the victim taking no responsibility for her actions...
    valprewater valprewater 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 7

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    Single mothers are looked down upon for being in a relationship? Not all single mothers are looking for a guy, to replace daddy. Single mothers need love too. What's wrong with...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 9

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    (no we are not married, and dont know if i want be because of her mother) I do not know where to begin, I have been with this girl for 3 years. her mother is very controlling over...
    countryboyhyde countryboyhyde 18-21, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    My experience being a teenage mother. I got pregnant at the very young age of 15. I had found now I was pregnant a month after I moved 3 provinces away from my home. I moved...
    hailzmagailz hailzmagailz 18-21 Nov 20

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    It's been almost 7 years . It's easier at times but especially difficult at others . Especially right now . I miss her so much ! She wasn't my biological mother but my mom in every...
    DaddysCupcake DaddysCupcake 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    If fourthtot is so damned cool then why haven't they added me as friend?
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 1 Response Nov 27

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    This is my beautiful aunt. She was like a mother to me. On July 29th 2014 she passed away from cancer. I thought by now I would have healed a bit. There are some days I don't think...
    ladymedina ladymedina 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I would love to see a new member into my family soon, all my older sisters are married and had children, I'm the last in the line. I want to do my mother out there proud, wherever...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Why oh why was I cursed with a mother like mine. Hating her is an understatement, I have wished death on her more times than I can remember. She vents all her frustrations on me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 5

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    Its simple: I hate my mother and my mother hates me. We fight on a weekly basis. Sometimes she even chokes me and tells me how pathetic and worthless I am and she says how nobody...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F Dec 9

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    I absolutely hate my mother anymore. I can remember all of the horrible things she did to my as a young child from physically abuse, having me live in a filthy horrible environment...
    blmf1994 blmf1994 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Been sat here reeling after my last 'contact' with my mother three days ago. We hadn't spoken for two months after our last argument (which resulted in me screaming at her after...
    powderkeg powderkeg 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I doubt I'll cry when my mother dies. The only thing she has ever done for me is bring me into this world. The only important person I remember from my childhood is my dad. To me...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My mother has a lot of narcissistic attributes. I have done everything in life trying not to be like her. She is cold, manipulative, emotionally abusive and growing up physically...
    fieryfairy fieryfairy 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 17

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