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I A Mother of Four

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    No one really can make you understand how hard life can be.  When we are children we react differenly to the way are parents act and how they deal with life and the short comings of the things they want for us and themselves.  But once we become parents we see what they were...
    missamberlawrence missamberlawrence 31-35, F Dec 4, 2011

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    I spoke to her, she is morally against LGBT, Also the rest of the government... *table flip*After about four hours of talking.. not progress...
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    I am a mom of four teenagers. My fifth is 11 years old now. I am extremely busy being a taxi cab for my kids. I dearly love all my kids very much.
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    Tarahkins Tarahkins 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I'm sure this is the question everyone asks: How do you maintain to yourself that your mother is narcissistic? And now background (convoluted tldr imminent): I have a mother whose...
    rootlesswind rootlesswind 26-30 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I am 21 pregnant with my second child, I am a stay at home with my son and my fiancee's son(whose mother cannot get her priorities straight long enough to take care of her son...
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    I was reminiscing about the terrible years after my partners father passed away and his mother became even more horrible and I thought I would share some of my experiences. It...
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    More of me venting than anything else... I do not celebrate holidays or my birthday or any other such holidays. It isn't that I am dull and boring, but I find it extremely...
    duhibrokeit duhibrokeit 31-35, M Nov 9

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    I honestly believe my mother hates me...I've actually always felt it. I remember the first time I really realized it. I was about 4 or 5 yrs old, I was just waking up from some...
    HelenBak HelenBak 46-50, F Nov 9

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    I hate mothers that have sons. If you are a mother with a son, block me. Never talk to me. I dont want to hear about how you think you're son is handsome and how you love him in a...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 14

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    If you just glance at the stories I've written here, you manage to take one thing away: I hate my mother. I don't even consider her my mother. More like an older woman who kept...
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    I am not going to start with "My mother is a *****!" or "I HATE MY MOM!!!", because everyone will say about how its not true and how she does everything out of "my best interest...
    BleuSmith BleuSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Hello, I'm almost 14 years old and I'd like to share my experience. I always had a ruff time with my mother growing up. She was very quick to anger and really only had one way of...
    flowergirl115 flowergirl115 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 4

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    I decided to join this website after being a mother for 30 years I finally want to share my story. You hear and see of families being HUGE, but here's my story. I am a mother of...
    LouiseAddamss LouiseAddamss 41-45, F 6 Responses Nov 8

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    "Unhunch your shoulders! You're 6'6" but jump at the drop of a hat! How are you gonna protect Mommy like that?" My mother says randomly while I am following her around the local...
    Nevalost Nevalost 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 9

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    I am a mother. Its my life. I love my children more than anything on this earth. I had my first child at eighteen. A would be adult take responsibility for my actions. Only my best...
    wynterflower wynterflower 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 14

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    I thought I was the only one who could genuinely hate their mom but glad to know im not the only one. I don't call her that anymore she's just Laurie. She was married to my dad...
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    My mother abused me all my life...verbally , mentally and physically. The abuse was there since I can remember. She constantly beat me and called me names , told me I was stupid...
    ToTiJeZivot ToTiJeZivot 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 16

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    I am beyond frustrated. Because of a divorce and some other personal issues (that were not my fault), I was forced to move back in with my parents. I am 43 years old and have a...
    cosmowoman13 cosmowoman13 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    britteller britteller 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 29

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    dragthewaters4 dragthewaters4 18-21, F Oct 29

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    jlmerritt jlmerritt 26-30 Nov 10

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    I don't want it to define me. I don't want this experience to define me for the rest of my life but I have to validate my anger and sadness. I don't let those emotions become...
    KelseyLeigh123 KelseyLeigh123 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I just want a mother daughter relationship, that's all I want with her. I just want her to come home to cooked dinners from her, warm hugs when I am down, be nice to me, kind, care...
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    heyabbott12 heyabbott12 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 29

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    wisdom26 wisdom26 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    MichelleM1988 MichelleM1988 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    gloriahughes gloriahughes 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 31

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    This is just one incident in the many my mother-in-law has pulled. For a little back ground on her: she is a practicing RN nurse, she works for Social Services. My mother-in...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 4 Responses Oct 31

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    Not just single mothers but also single fathers because I know they work just as hard as single mothers. I was/ am currently being raised by a single mother and think I am a better...
    Jessica4729 Jessica4729 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    Ever since I was a little girl my mother would always laugh at and make fun of me when I expressed my feelings so I decided that I wouldn't display them anymore.And I was always...
    aur532 aur532 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    My situation started with a coat. My mother bought me a coat that was £60 and I wore it to school and within a week I lost it. I was sure that I left it in a friends car and I...
    VanillaCupcakes VanillaCupcakes 16-17, F Nov 10

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    My mother is a special woman. I don't mean that sarcastically surprisingly. She is special- she just also did the equivalent of killing me. She is an awkward, emotionally confused...
    Anaihsohs Anaihsohs 18-21, F Nov 11