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I A Mother of Three

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    That one phrase that always got used when I brought up how controlling she was: "Would you rather not have anyone to love and take care of you, like I did? You should be thankful...
    eristwhile eristwhile 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I spent my childhood and teen years living as an extension of my mother. My thoughts, my feelings, my opinions, and even my needs were almost always discarded in place of my mother...
    malanxious malanxious 22-25, F 20 hrs ago

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    I am a single mom of three 2 boys and girl 8,6 & 4 I work my *** off to make sure they are taken care of along playing baseball and my daughter takes tumbleing classes my kids...
    Tashababyy90 Tashababyy90 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I spent my whole life feeling ugly and hated, even though I wasn't bad looking, my mother made me like that, she would insult me, humiliate me, telling me I'm not good enough, that...
    curiousdweller curiousdweller 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    They aren't "fine" It's just three words that everyone should take into consideration, next time someone looks upset and they say "I'm fine" THEY ARENT FINE, give em a hug or...
    BritishCat BritishCat 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    So having a narcissistic mother who never seemed to care about me enough, who used me as leverage to get what she wanted all of my childhood, and who ended up abandoning me when I...
    NatalieR13 NatalieR13 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Words are in abundance i have only three on offer.. Be Mine FOREVER..
    cynzia cynzia 51-55, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    We are married and escort as a couple so have lots of three ways. Recent meeting in comments...
    Darkside2698 Darkside2698 41-45, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey, I'm here as I no longer have a relationship with my mother. due to the effect her narcissistic behaviour has had on me, I made the decision that I could only be mentally...
    yogihope yogihope 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I've realised that the thing I crave more than finding a partner and becoming a wife or mother, is that I just really want to be a daughter to a loving mother. At 26 I should...
    yogihope yogihope 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My mother was raised by an insane woman, who happened to be my grandmother. The grandmother and the grandfather(who was a kind man) (my mothers parents)were 2nd generation...
    notPC notPC 56-60, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I try to have a relationship with my mother, even though I am nearly as intimidated by her as I was when I was a child. About a year and a half ago I changed my career, and she...
    greensapphire greensapphire 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Classic narc family occurence; I got a letter from my father asking me to un-remember recent put-downs from my narc mother on several calls between September and November. After...
    Decaturite Decaturite 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am 17. I attended a vocational program in high school and got my CNA when I was 16. I work very hard, I graduated high school early and I am now in nursing school. I work two...
    sarajacquelyn sarajacquelyn 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Obviously I am afraid of more than three things, but these three are huge ones. First there is my fear of heights. I always say I want to die with my feet planted firmly on the...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I can’t say no to this one as I don’t have a mum, there’s anice lady back in America who gave birth to me for a wedge of cash but she’s no a mother to me. What I have is my...
    DanteAsiir DanteAsiir 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    After several days of not hearing from my girl. Mom. My health is not getting any better. I just can't keep anything down. And goes on to describe her symptoms. She also states...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 2

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    I had a three-way recently and it was amazing!!!! It was with one of my coworkers who is bi. She has a thing for me but I always told her that I wasn't into girls but that never...
    Vintage45 Vintage45 18-21, F Feb 1

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    I haven't seen my mother fourteen years. When I was three my parents got divorced, on christmas day. She was a lazy woman, had my eight year old sister feeding and changing me and...
    Jess9798 Jess9798 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    I still am amazed, not only that I am a Mum but also that the three of them have turned out so well! I've three, two boys and a girl, all in their late teens, all independent...
    Mid40sMum Mid40sMum 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    My mother is a severe narcissist, and my Father, the severe enabler. It took me a while to realise how his inaction regarding my mother's abuses made him as guilty as her. It's...
    malanxious malanxious 22-25, F Feb 1

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    Hi so I'm posting here to write about my mother and how I'm affected with severe depression and anxiety because of her I don't like to point fingers or blame anybody but she is the...
    Pinkskiespinklove Pinkskiespinklove 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    My mother spent three days continuously calling me names and trying to press my buttons. She called me a ****, a “piece of Satan”, and a horribly sadistic person. She didn’t...
    JHicks28 JHicks28 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I am a proud single mother of four.That in itself is stressful. If I had to describe my parenting skills, I'd have to say "Old School" and because it's just me... They know that...
    MissingTrevion1020 MissingTrevion1020 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I'm hungry now, and the hunger distracts me from reading some papers about Higgs mechanism for gravity. I seldom eat three meals a day. It's because I seldom get time for getting...
    ExileMyself ExileMyself 26-30, F Jan 31

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    Promoting a Gender Reversed SocietyAs a radical feminist, I have many views that many would consider controversial. I am a huge advocate of petticoating and support any women...
    radicalfeminist radicalfeminist 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    When do I speak my truth? Or haven't I all these years? I'm going to be 42 years old. I have not spoken to my mother in 5 months and my father - about 4 (I went from low contact...
    thegirlwithnomom thegirlwithnomom 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I am a 27 year old third son out of four with NPD parents from New Jersey where I lived in my parents' house until I graduated from high school. I distinctly remember being 13 (and...
    dylster15 dylster15 26-30, M Jan 31

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    I lost my mother to breast cancer three years ago. Today would have been her 77th birthday. I had a dream about her last night which I haven't done in a long time. Happy Birthday...
    FlatbushGuy FlatbushGuy 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I have three boys but I am no longer a mom to them. my oldest I spent 3 yrs with then his dad my ex husband got full custody. he refuses to allow me to talk to my which in the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 31

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    I am a mother to three a mom to none I've had two miscarriages and because of circumstances beyond my control my child was signed for adoption the rest of you here are blessed to...
    Aloha2erhz Aloha2erhz 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 31

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    I have been dating my fiance for 9 months and were about to get married in May (I'm 19 she's 21 if that makes a difference with the story)..... but I ******* hate her mom. Oh my...
    ambs57 ambs57 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    Three nights before she passed away today, my mom hugged me very tightly and told me that she would always love me forever, no matter what. I hadn't felt so comforted by such words...
    HussaroftheSky HussaroftheSky 18-21, M Jan 30

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    I need to tell this to the world, hoping to find people that have the same situation as i do or give me some advice. My mother likes to call me a prostitute, a sl*t, a wh*re. She...
    tictactoe88 tictactoe88 22-25, F Jan 29

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    I am almost 16 years old and I left my narcissistic mother about 6 months ago. I am living at my dads with my stepmom, who is and was my only true mother because of all she did...
    kayla459 kayla459 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    does anyone feel like their (ex /current ) mother in law has destroyed the relationship with their partner? in his shoes I can't imagine being raised by the woman. her and I have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28

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    My husband and I have been married for 7 months, he recently went to Samoa to visit his mother who he has not seen in ten years, he wanted her to live with us and I told him no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    As I arrived at the nursing home, I saw my brother in the room at her bedside. She was experiencing apnea and had been given high doses of morphine by the hospice nurses on duty...
    Nightvale Nightvale 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I am having trouble navigating my relationship with my parents. I am very worried about going to see them. Lately my father has developed a very serious form of cancer, so my...
    Decaturite Decaturite 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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