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I A New Navy Girlfriend

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    My name is Natalie. And i need some advise, about 2 month ago I met this amazing guy, named Matt. We were both on the same swim team, he had joined to get in shape for his Navy training, and I was training to compete in sectionals. My coach realized that we pushed one another and...
    natalie0927 natalie0927 22-25, F Sep 27, 2010

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    Best feeling ever 😍 I am

    so lucky to have had so many calls from him!
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F Jul 1

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    I'm The Guy, She's The Girl, And She's In The Navy

    I have an amazing girlfriend, we've both agreed that our futures will be together and eventually want to settle down and get married. She is going through a nasty divorce and her recent enlistment in to the NAVY has complicated that. She left for boot camp about 2 and a half...
    Yakuza2979 Yakuza2979 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2012

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    New Navy Girlfriend

    I very recently started dating my sailor. We have been friends for almost 7 years now though, and honestly I couldn't be happier. He is amazing. So sweet, funny and might I say looks damn good in his uniform. He left 5 days ago for 2 and a half months. It has been kinda hard, but...
    medasist medasist 22-25, F Jun 17, 2012

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    I truly am blessed. I got another call from

    bootcamp and just got his address today....so much for two months of no contact :)
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F Jun 24

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    Beginning My Journey As A Navy Girlfriend

    My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year now. We're what some people would call soul mates; just overall perfect for eachother. We spent every moment we could with eachother. I've known he would join the Navy ever since 5 months into our relationship, when he...
    SammyGiggles SammyGiggles 18-21, F Aug 22, 2013

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    My Story

    Hey my name is Amanda. I have been dating my sailor for about a year now. I have known him for four years. He just recently told me he is getting deployed sometime soon. Right now he is Jacksonville Florida. I don't have any questions. I just want/need support. This is my first...
    ASailorsBoo ASailorsBoo 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Just Swore Into The Navy On 10/9/13

    I am very proud of my boyfriend! After months of studying for the ASVAB, passing the ASVAB, MEPS, and finally getting an available rate that was on our list of wants, my boyfriend swore into the navy as a Logistics Specialist. His ship date is currently set for July 2nd, 2014...
    littleblue530 littleblue530 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    New Navy Girlfriend

    My boyfriend is joining the Navy, and I like that this is new to the BOTH of us... But I would really like to have Navy girlfriends... Ones that have already been through the early stage and can help me out when the going gets tough. Even if you are still in the early stage of...
    byebyewonderful byebyewonderful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    My Mind Playing Tricks

    Me and my boyfriend who is in the navy and currently on deployment. Are really happy we have no problems were not fighting. He's daily telling me how much he loves me and how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He already asked my parents to marry me. Basically...
    MELISAG36 MELISAG36 18-21, F Jan 5, 2012

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    First Experience Post

    I guess I should start with a little history. My boyfriend is from Quebec but now lives in Nova Scotia which is where I am from and met him. I met him five months ago. He has been in the navy three years now. So me and my bf official started dating two months ago. He is gone a...
    CanadianNavyGirlfriend CanadianNavyGirlfriend 18-21, F Aug 11, 2013

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    Question About A School.

    ok so my bf is going to be in nuclear propulsion for A school. I know thats like the longest time frame for A school but i wa wondering if anyone knew if they get like mini brakes during it at all. Let me know plz.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 14, 2010

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    I Dont Miss Him... =( But I Should... Right?

    My boyfriend has just gone to basic about a week and a half ago. Its been really hard trying to hold this up because i do love him but we were fighting before he left and it didnt quite get resolved (big mistake)... so then after he leaves theres a whole heep of crap thrown into...
    MzYaya2010 MzYaya2010 18-21, F Feb 18, 2011

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    Just got a call from Brandon

    and I really needed it ... I was feeling so down and insecure and he called and just reassured me how much he loves me
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F Jun 29

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    What A Wonderful Way To End My Stressful Week.. 2nd Call And A Letter! ♥

    I get home and there was a letter in the mailbox! He said he's gotten all of his uniforms, got to shoot a 9mm pistol and a 12-gauge shotgun. He made sharpshooter! They begin firefighting this upcoming week. I had just gotten done writing a three-page letter when.. He called me...
    StayVenta StayVenta 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2012

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    Three Months Was All It Took.

    From the moment we met i knew that we would be enlisting in the U.S. Navy yet i didnt know that i would fall for him so hard and so fast. I never saw him as the perfect fairy tale guy but rather as something that i cant explain in words. I saw him as something real, we had...
    Johanna0904 Johanna0904 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    Ummm well i wanna be a navy girlfriend,

    lol. The navy is my favorite branch, so many cute sailors haha, and its a plus because their good swimmers and who coulfnt use a good swimmer around? I also loove air force guys too. 2nd favorite branch(; hopefully a cute sailor takes me to the military ball this year.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Check This Out Girls!!

    There is this great facebook page that has so many other girls going through the same things as you!! Feel like you want to connect to those kind of people? Then come on over to Those Who Wait on facebook. Its a great site just like this one!! The girls are fantastic! More than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 10, 2012

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    How long did it take some of you guys to adjust

    to your long distance relationship with your sailor? Or when did it start to get easier?
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F Jun 12

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    I have been watch my phone expecting

    that calls that once came pouring in but they have stopped coming. So last night I was at my girl friends house and we were drinking and at 10:44 my sailor calls me and I'm drunk. I feel awful I cherish ever phone call and I was talking on the phone with him but I couldn't think...
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F Jul 20

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    Every where I look on the internet it is saying

    that long distance navy relationships never work out....does any one have any positive stories that have ended happily? I could really use some positive energy right now.
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    Question For You Ladies

    Had a quick question i was wondering if the navy had a magazine that you can buy cloths and what not from like the marine co does its called sgt grit. thanks ladies
    ashleyolsen1919 ashleyolsen1919 18-21, F Jan 11, 2011

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    Well I Am An Idiot

    I have been getting telephone marketers a lot lately so when I don't recognize the number I ignored it. well I just checked my voicemail and it was Keegan. I can't believe I missed his phone call. Even the brief voicemail it was so good to hear his voice than i stupidly deleted...
    nonamealy nonamealy 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 10, 2010

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    New To This...

    I have been dating my man for almost a month.  He is in the Navy and is a culinary specialist.  He just got deployed a little over a week ago... (months in my book) to haiti to help with the relief efforts over there.  Have no idea when he coming home they think...
    iheartmysailor4ever iheartmysailor4ever 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2010

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    He Left Today

    Tuesday was our last night together before he left for basic training in Illinois. We had the perfect night of farewell, we both cried and it was very hard for me to drive away. I sobbed pretty much all the way home. Yesterday I got my phone call from him, and he's already...
    thomasb3 thomasb3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    Only 48 More Days...

    Until I see my new Sailor graduate from Basic Training<3 I'm sad and scared about his being gone, but at the same time, I'm proud and happy for him. I can't wait to be in his loving arms again! Will anyone be at the Navy Graduation on October 11th by any chance?
    SammyGiggles SammyGiggles 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2013

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    So Deep In Love!!

    So we met on March 13 2010 at a club, I didn't think I would fall in love with him. He told me he was in the navy so he didnt want a relationship, because he was leaving in a few months. So I was ok with that, we spent time together more and more. Then it seemed like I was...
    Melissavcatampa Melissavcatampa 26-30, F May 2, 2011

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    New Navy GF

    hi everyone, i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now even though i know him for a few years. i'm having a hard time adjusting to the new setup being his girlfriend. i'm a nurse and he's in the navy we both work at days but when i get home to talk to him over skype he's...
    cherryloveyy cherryloveyy 22-25, F Aug 28, 2013

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    Stage 1;

    I titled this "Stage 1" because this is just the beginning of it all. My boyfriend is going to boot camp for the US Navy in September. I still question how I feel about this sometimes, but I'm supporting him for it all. I am a little insecure about him cheating on me while he's...
    tiffanyyz tiffanyyz 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    My boyfriend came back last month from a two

    month deployment. Now, he's being deployed in November until July. To top it all off, he's stationed in another state. It's a pain in the ***, I can't go see him off, but I will see him before he deploys. I've never been with anyone who has been in any branch of the military...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    New Navy Girlfriend Looking For Advice

    I met my Navy boyfriend through a close friend at school. We meet in September 09 and really hit it off. Both of us have very traditional values and morals which is hard to find now a days. We starting dating at the end of September and oh how time flys! He is preparing to...
    JesSLeora JesSLeora 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 1, 2010

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    A Great Change...

    Well first I would like to say thanks for even having the time to click on my story and read it. Well I have been through a lot when it comes to males. I have been "dating" or what I thought was dating since I was in the sixth grade. Obviously I didn't know any better. So almost...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28, 2013

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    anyone in the NY/CT area?

    Im new to the military life and would like to make some new friends :)
    smRose smRose 18-21, F Apr 16

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    Any suggestions on how you guys got your mind

    off things while you sailor was away.... I feel so depressed
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 11

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    My boyfriend of one month is going to leave

    for bootcamp soon. I'm struggling with deciding if it's better to start distancing ourselves a little more now, since we spend every day together, or if it's better to soak up every moment until he leaves. Does anyone have advice? I'm already freaking out and he hasn't even left...
    hkiss hkiss 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Help! Im New To This!

    Justen and I started out as highschool friends.. He decided to join the navy and him and I would drink together and would talk .... I was dating one of his bestfriends in highschool so him and I never went to the next level or talked to eachother about liking eachother. Back in...
    JustensGirl JustensGirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    Wounded Heart

    Ok its me again.. yes the one that said i didnt miss my boyfriend. WELL... now im a wreck!! I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO!! it was fina as long as he was in basic. he couldnt talk to me or anything so i was slowly feeding off the many memories we had. i was doing a good job until the...
    MzYaya2010 MzYaya2010 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19, 2011

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    I'm Scared..

    I see my Sailor on Friday at his graduation! I'm excited, but I'm scared too... is this strange? I normally get a letter every Wednesday.. today's Wednesday, no letter. But his mom got one, so I don't understand what's going on.... I can't wait for him to hold me and kiss me...
    SammyGiggles SammyGiggles 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    I Missed A Boot Camp Call Today...

    I literally only left my house for an hour today, around noon. He's only ever called later on a Friday and Saturday, and it's been more than 3 weeks. I had my cell phone on me, but he's only called the house. I sent him my cell phone number, but I guess he didn't have it on him...
    SammyGiggles SammyGiggles 18-21, F Sep 28, 2013

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    Be The Best Navy Girlfriend:

    1. Prepare yourself for bootcamp 2. Don't send depressing letters 3. Let him know your okay 4. Let him know you support him 5. Find hobbies 6. Talk about your sailor 7. Find people going through it too 8. Be patient 9. Be faithful 10. Stay strong
    brennaaa8 brennaaa8 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    Recently my friends have been asking me

    if I am worried if my sailor will cheat on me. I always answer that there is possibility for anything to happen but i have faith in us that we will get through the temptations that surround everyone.
    lizziekmark lizziekmark 18-21, F Jun 29

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    My Boyfriend Leaves For Boot In 26 Days :(

    Hey yall, I just joined this site yesterday and it is already helping a ton! So Banks and I have been together for 6 months (which honestly every time we say that we are like wow that sounds so short because we live together and are always with each other) and he is AMAZING. I...
    spbendall spbendall 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 11, 2012

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    New Navy Girlfiend...how To Cope With Distance And Limited Contact?

    I am in love with a navy officer and him with me, he has just gone away for a month, he's only been away for a week today, but it feels like ages, I'm finding it really hard to get on with things at home, I have exams next week so I really need to revise, but I find myself...
    cutemoose135 cutemoose135 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    I'm At A Loss. I Just Don't Want To Lose Him, Bit Of Venting.

    So I've been with my current boyfriend for a month, (we dated along time ago on high school though), anyways when we got together he was training to go into the Navy and just waiting for them to call him to go to boot camp, so we knew that this day would come, they told him this...
    deana6501 deana6501 18-21, F Oct 3, 2013

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    New Navy Girls Needing Support?

    Hey all!!My name is Amanda and I know a lot of girls on this site have gotten some support and advice from me!! I love being able to help you ladies when you are having a hard time with the military life. My friend and I have created a support site for all on facebook. We are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 20, 2012

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    Still Feeling Lost But Finding Hope

    After really having a hard time with him leaving and not knowing where we are with each other, I have found hope by coming across this website and my friend who has been through boot camp and knows what the other side is really like. I know he must be scared, I am. I know he is...
    deana6501 deana6501 18-21, F Oct 3, 2013

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    Today my baby messaged me on Facebook to let me

    know that he's ok. I feel so much better now :) knowing that he's ok that makes me happy :) I miss him so much😔see you in 21 days baby.
    claudiaruiz claudiaruiz 22-25, F Jan 18

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    I Have Given Up...

    I cannot do this anymore. I given up on him. I just want normal love life that makes me happy everyday
    honeyangel honeyangel 46-50, F Feb 25, 2013

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    Uh Oh !?! Just Met, Fell Hard And Now He Is Leaving..not Part Of The Plan !

    I met a Navy man...We both knew he'd be leaving after his specialty training (which was supposed to be in 1 year)...After one month he got the "call" and leaves tomorow..I have never had a long distance relationship and wasnt even looking for any relationship but we really wanna...
    VanessaVegas VanessaVegas 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2011

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    In Love With A Navy Guy

    I'm 21 and I've been dating this guy in the navy for a month now. We've been really good friends for over 6 years now. But I was just curious about where all of you girls are from and where your man is stationed at????
    Muffinhead231989 Muffinhead231989 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Boot

    So my boyfriend leaves for boot tomorrow and I have no idea how to handle it. I am sadly not able to see him tonight due to I go to school out of state. The worst part is I may not be able to see him when he graduates. Has anyone ever been in the same situation that I am about...
    vralph vralph 18-21, F Oct 2, 2013

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    He Is Always Busy

    I wouldn't say we are dating. We met online end of last year and we text each other every day pretty much all day long. We met up one time on his birthday in Jan. He has roommates and both of them came back in Jan also and he has been catching up with them. They used to be on...
    Feb 11, 2013

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    Havent Heard From Him

    My boyfriend is in Miami at MEPS to sign his contract and I havent heard from him all morning. His phone is off, I am so anxious. I have girlfriends whose husband is in the Military, and they all say that the worst part of it all is the waiting. I guess it has started already.
    byebyewonderful byebyewonderful 18-21, F Feb 8, 2010

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