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I A Step Mom

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    I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We are crazy about each other and although we are a new couple we are very sure we want to spend our lives together. theres only one problem, him and his ex have a 4 year old daughter. the relationship ended last year but...
    elfmunn elfmunn 26-30 4 Responses May 19, 2010

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    I Am The Step Mom Of 3 Grown Children

    I have been married for over 20 years, the stepchildren are 31,33 and 36 and we have 7 grandchildren. The kids: The youngest - the boy and the oldest a girl have always been problems.  They both have mental health issues, though the boy was only treated for 2 years when his...
    isabellaga isabellaga 51-55 May 28, 2012

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    Baptism Of Fire!

    At 26 I inherited 3 children a 5 year old step daughter and 9 and 11 year old boys. They were a total mystery to me!Almost 11 years on they are some of my best friends and make me feel like I suceeded in being a Step Mum....but yes, I enjoy being an Evil Step Mum too!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Just Call Me Mary Poppins...

    I am a mother of two adult children with a bf/fiancee of 2 young children. I met him just after his exwife decided to work the system and charge him wth everything under the sun to be able to a)keep the house and b) keep the kids as an income. we started off as friends..he...
    dulliath dulliath 46-50, F 2 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Need Help

    Hello! I am 31 years old and the mother of a great 7 year old daughter. I have raised her by myself for the last 7 years since her father left me while I was pregnant and never showed up again. Don't worry, it was not a big loss. He was abusive and would probably be abusive to...
    acoutlee acoutlee 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    Blind-sided

    I am a step mom to three daughters.  Well, not a legal step mom, but I have been acting like it for three years now.  I watch them every other week and do all the things a parent does for their child, I cook, clean, do laundry, homework, take them on bike rides...
    leftylocks leftylocks 26-30 4 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Total Crazyness

    My husband of 8 years has a son that is a MAJOR problem!  He lies, steals(money, etc from other kids in the house), and manipulates his father to get his way!  Every time that someone in the house says something to my husband he immediately yells and blames everyone except his...
    exhausted123 exhausted123 36-40 Nov 7, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I am so upset with my step mom right now! I made a new friend yesterday at a party, and we were talking about everyone there and I brought her up. And my step mom just started...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    When i was little my mom and dad got a divorce,well soon after my dad found a nice women and married her,my mom did the same. When i would get in trouble with my step mom she would...
    Dps1 Dps1 13-15, M Jul 1

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    First, I hate that term "step-mom", no matter how you say it, it always sounds negative. I have known my fiancé and his son for almost 7 years, and we have been "together" for the...
    annewiora annewiora 26-30 Jul 11

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    My step mom is the most evil person I've ever met. I know that most people say that children/teens have trouble accepting their step parent because they feel as if they are trying...
    jay524 jay524 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I really really dislike my step mom.... she's ALWAYS getting mad and starting fights with me and my older sister for the stupidest things. For example: forgetting to pick up a...
    hellobriannaskye hellobriannaskye 13-15, F a week ago

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    Yep. The group has the main gist of what I have to say. But it's not incredibly accurate. It's not that I don't like her.. I used to, but my opinion of her is rapidly changing. She...
    IntenseCookie IntenseCookie 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am so frustrated. I went on some sites to find out some tips and techniques for being happier with having step kids, but all I seem to find are women who feel exactly as I do...
    jasminelyse jasminelyse 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I want kids so badly but feel terrible that I may seem ungrateful to my husband since he has given me three stepsons. We have been trying to get pregnant but I don't think I can...
    Shart0517 Shart0517 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    I have two twin stepsons they are 14 now but I have been a part of their lives since they were 8. I don't get along with their mother, as instead of sharing her concerns she flies...
    sugarplumsandgumdrops sugarplumsandgumdrops 31-35, F Jul 16

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    I'm 32, my mom and dad divorced when I was 2, he remarried, mom didn't right away.. Dad ended up having 4 children with his new wife.. I feel like my entire life I've been forced...
    kourtneysligh kourtneysligh 31-35, F Jul 8

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    My mom died when I was 7. A few years after my dad married a great woman. I get along great with her and love her so much. She has two kids with my dad twin girls that are 3. I...
    boba729 boba729 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    Ok so my step brother and I don't get along very well, and I know that I don't start the fights because even my dad has told me that he gets in his nerves and he is a very...
    geneticgeorge geneticgeorge 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    So, I already posted this story before but in another Teen Mom comunity, but I decided to post it here too. Just saying because maybe you've read it before? haha idk When I was 15...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F Jul 11

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    I'm 16 with a 4 months old daughter So, I already posted this story before but in another Teen Mom comunity, but I decided to post it here too. Just saying because maybe you've...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F Jul 11

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    My stepdaughter has been working all summer. She's made $400, and plans to work all year while going to school. I was happy to hear it. I thought getting a job would make her act...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I am my parents only child and they divorced when, I was 5 years old. My mother never remarried and until this day has always been single. My father remarried after my mother, and...
    Gray24 Gray24 22-25 Jul 10

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    Childless stepmom to a 9, almost 10, year old boy. My boyfriend and I started dating at 14. We were on/off for 17 years. At 22, he had a fling, and ended up with a child. His mom...
    CBradio0903 CBradio0903 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Okay this is the first time that I have written my story.... . Well typed it . It all started when my mom (who I love so deeply) got married to this man when I was 5 years old ! I...
    shy9723 shy9723 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I have a stepdad...I don't like him. It's not because I feel like he's replacing my dad or anything.Its just that my stepdad ignores me and acts like I don't exist..I try talking...
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I do love my step daughter, I've been married to her dad for 21 years, she's 27 so most of her life I've been there. BUT she is spoiled rotten by her mom & grandma!! She has 2 kids...
    Newlife48 Newlife48 46-50, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    So I just really need to get this off my chest as it is taboo to mention such things anywhere else! I hate being a stepmom!! Yes I hate it... I didn't say I hate my step kids... I...
    Unleashedmind Unleashedmind 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    Being 16 and having a daughter, this is how my life is now. I already posted an experience a few minutes ago saying how I found out I was pregnant, how everyone found out and...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 11

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    I am not a mom yet! But I met a sweet and caring woman that I will NEVER forget. Mom... :) I went on an English exchange. I had to spend 5 weeks in Victoria BC to improve my...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I love my stepkids, but I hate their mom(Who doesn't, I guess? :P). She is a drunk and she is miserable and wants everyone around her to be miserable. Last night she called the...
    justtakestime justtakestime 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I am so happy to have found this web site. I thought I was an evil b****. People don't seem to understand why you may hate your step kids. I feel so guilty over hating the...
    nrg917 nrg917 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    My stepchildren to be really dislike me they are jealous of the time their dad spends with me and the attention he gives me and the 2 older girls 9 and 12 have become very rude to...
    13Letter 13Letter 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    When I was in 11th grade my father got remarried.I got a new step mother and younger sister,she was about 15 while I was 17.Our relationship was weird for the first month or so...
    heywire heywire 22-25, F Jun 29

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    When I was 15, almost 16, I found out I was pregnant. My name is Violet (yep, it might look like a fake name but its not, my mom is obsessed with flowers names) and I live in GC...
    VioletandCaleb VioletandCaleb 16-17, F Jul 11

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    I'm a stepmom to 2 teenage girls and a bio mom to a 10 yo, 8 yo boy and an almost 2 yo baby girl. We are a blended family and at first everything was great. Now I'm finding that my...
    gr8csufan gr8csufan 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I just need to vent right now. I really hate my mom but love her too, cause she's my mom. But I'm tired of her constantly putting me down, trying to change my life choices, getting...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    For the longest time, the lady who was responsible for giving birth to me and I never bonded nor really had a relationship. It was a very difficult and poor relationship. She had...
    Spiritualhope Spiritualhope 36-40, F Jul 18

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    He'll then manage your baggage and start by opening the doorways to the luxury stretched car or truck. You are going to then be greeted using a complimentary bottle of an...
    Devon1739q Devon1739q 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Just had a screaming match with my stepdad. Who says he works to hard to come home and do anything like play with his son, cook, take the trash out, really just anything. It's mine...
    LifeRebel LifeRebel 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've been with my SO for 7 years, he has 2 kids, sd - 9 and ss - 8. They live with their bio mom full time, and we do visitations. I am still on the fence about having kids, but...
    justtakestime justtakestime 26-30, F Jul 3

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    Ever since I lost my step-dad to cancer I've been so scared of the same thing happening to my mom god damn it I even avoid cracks or just do weird stuff so I can "prevent this from...
    oOMissDiorOo oOMissDiorOo 13-15, F Jul 4

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    Hello 😊 Not sure if I really count as a teen mom since I had my son at 19 but I feel like I fit in more here. Ok so my name is Hailey and last year I got pregnant straight out...
    haileyara23 haileyara23 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    She has gone throgh a lot, and i think that is what made her the way she is, her mom is only for the money, and the guys, in one year she has dated 4 times the last one she moved...
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I need more control in my life. Being a stepmom and having my husbands children live with us full time and not being able to have my house the way I would like is frustrating...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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