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I A Step Mom

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 31 People

    Blind-sided

    I am a step mom to three daughters.  Well, not a legal step mom, but I have been acting like it for three years now.  I watch them every other week and do all the things a parent does for their child, I cook, clean, do laundry, homework, take them on bike rides...
    leftylocks leftylocks 26-30 4 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Just Call Me Mary Poppins...

    I am a mother of two adult children with a bf/fiancee of 2 young children. I met him just after his exwife decided to work the system and charge him wth everything under the sun to be able to a)keep the house and b) keep the kids as an income. we started off as friends..he...
    dulliath dulliath 46-50, F 2 Responses May 7, 2010

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    New To All This

    I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We are crazy about each other and although we are a new couple we are very sure we want to spend our lives together. theres only one problem, him and his ex have a 4 year old daughter. the relationship ended last year but...
    elfmunn elfmunn 26-30 4 Responses May 19, 2010

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    I Am The Step Mom Of 3 Grown Children

    I have been married for over 20 years, the stepchildren are 31,33 and 36 and we have 7 grandchildren. The kids: The youngest - the boy and the oldest a girl have always been problems.  They both have mental health issues, though the boy was only treated for 2 years when his...
    isabellaga isabellaga 51-55 May 28, 2012

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    Total Crazyness

    My husband of 8 years has a son that is a MAJOR problem!  He lies, steals(money, etc from other kids in the house), and manipulates his father to get his way!  Every time that someone in the house says something to my husband he immediately yells and blames everyone except his...
    exhausted123 exhausted123 36-40 Nov 7, 2011

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    Baptism Of Fire!

    At 26 I inherited 3 children a 5 year old step daughter and 9 and 11 year old boys. They were a total mystery to me!Almost 11 years on they are some of my best friends and make me feel like I suceeded in being a Step Mum....but yes, I enjoy being an Evil Step Mum too!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    Need Help

    Hello! I am 31 years old and the mother of a great 7 year old daughter. I have raised her by myself for the last 7 years since her father left me while I was pregnant and never showed up again. Don't worry, it was not a big loss. He was abusive and would probably be abusive to...
    acoutlee acoutlee 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    Str8boypantyme Str8boypantyme 13-15, T 5 hrs ago

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    Write about your experienceAny Ohio, Pennsylvania, West Virginia, Michigan, Indiana,Deleware or Maryland mom , mommy, daughter, aunt, sister sisters,niece looking for a boy trapped...
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    Alright here is quick, as quick as I can make it, story of how my life as a stepmother is. When I met my husband I honestly had no idea of his past, I didn't even know he had kids...
    btrflybelle btrflybelle 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm looking for a mommy or a daddy who I can tell things to and won't judge. but also be strict. text only msg me. I'm 14 going on 2 to 4
    aBottowPwees aBottowPwees 13-15, M 8 hrs ago

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    I just love my mom a lot. She came over to the apartment to spend the afternoon with me. We went to Walmart and got me some new clothes and shoes. And we got me some more make up...
    Katelyn02 Katelyn02 22-25, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I want an online mommy to confide in and her to tell me when I need a punishment and praise me when I am good
    spanko101 spanko101 13-15, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I want an online mommy or daddy to tell them stuff and they will tell me when I need to be punished and they will praise me when I am good
    spanko101 spanko101 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    Hi I'm Lilian I'm 18 and pregnant need a mommy to help me in any way I have craving for sex food etc husband away in Iraq lonely need a mommy plz message me as soon as possible
    Lilian143 Lilian143 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    my mom told me to get off the computer to do chores and i said no and she said if you dont get off the computer you're going to be spanked and i said fine ***** then she got really...
    nn12378 nn12378 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    my mom is ******* crazy. she is saying that because the neighbors next door park on the certian part of street they are stalking her and want to rape her. keep I'm mind she is a...
    abe15 abe15 18-21, M 19 hrs ago

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    Hubby & I have married 18 years, dated 4 years before marrying. He has one daughter who's mother wasn't in her life growing up. I was unable to have children & hoped we could...
    tinkerette tinkerette 56-60, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have a stepsister. I'll probably never get to meet her. she lives with her mom, which is my stepdads ex wife. the ex wife calls my mom "the other woman" (my brothers told me) and...
    sxvenfxld sxvenfxld 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Anyone else get super annoyed with SS brags about mommy every damn day? That's all I hear every time the kid comes over. Mommy's fav color, mommy's fav song, mommy bought him this...
    krazykristen krazykristen 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't understand why people feel that you have to love their children. I feel as though he should be content with the fact that I accept that he has a daughter. The fact that I...
    Jaymarie1008 Jaymarie1008 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    My stepfather is abusive. I can still contact my biological dad but he's abusive too. However, my stepdad is more abusive and makes me feel worse than my biological dad ever has...
    igetweirddreams igetweirddreams 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I feel so lost. I feel numb. And I'm not sure why. Why has it been all this time and I still think of him? It's like I've relapsed. I took a step forward, then 2 back it seems. In...
    Negrita13131 Negrita13131 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm not officially a step-mom yet and before anyone tells me that I shouldn't marry this man...I am going to someday. But...I cannot stand his children. His son, in particular...
    mmbvt mmbvt 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    UPDATE: I'm trying so hard right now to stay in my room and not have to go to war!!! I'm just sick to my stomach! OK I tried to talk to my husband while the kids were gone, but...
    jennymike28 jennymike28 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    He sucks. He makes everything hard for me. My relationship with my mom has been nonexistent since he came into the picture. I can't do anything without him telling my mom. He...
    curiouskitty23 curiouskitty23 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I found this on social media and thought it was funny yet true. I bet lots of us stepmoms have had the BM try to poison their kids heads and get them to dislike the stepmom. What...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hi my step father is 38 and hes a douche and i am 16 currently and i am Hispanic and hes white and to be honest hes a ******* fat *** and right now he arguing with my mom about my...
    alan1234348 alan1234348 16-17 Jan 29

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    I hate being a step mom. I made two different cakes for the family birthday on Sunday, took her to dinner and dessert last night for her birthday and today on her actual birthday...
    frecks6 frecks6 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    So I wanted to give an example of a normal day in my life! Things like this happen everyday and in the end I'm in the wrong!! I end up confused like how was this my fault. So it...
    jennymike28 jennymike28 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    Time for a quick venting. Your dad frequently sending you to your biological mothers house, being late when he's supposed to pick you up, or not coming altogether because it's what...
    IntenseCookie IntenseCookie 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    Venting again on this subject cause I just can't seem to escape it. We talked last night about how much I hate the fact that he has a child, & that like every other conversation...
    Jaymarie1008 Jaymarie1008 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 27

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    things don't always go my way my I have such an amazing family to make me get what I want. and I have amazing friends who I don't believe I deserve but others who don't deserve my...
    demitriaxoxo demitriaxoxo 16-17, F Jan 26

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    I tried making a story like I usually do. But, a friend summed it up. I'm too distracted to write stories like I use to. I use my distractions to write song lyrics. But writing...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 70+, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Okay so I'm really nervous to do this but I've decided to tell someone whats been going on. My mom has a boyfriend whose an awful excuse for a human being. He calls my mom a...
    Fal22 Fal22 16-17, F Jan 26

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    Hate is such a strong word and I dislike it very much!! But under the circumstances I'm starting to have just those kind of thoughts. I've been with MH off and on for 21 long years...
    jennymike28 jennymike28 36-40, F Jan 26

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    I feel utterly defeated. I love being a stepmom but am constantly walking on the eggs shells of the ex-wife. But last night was the straw that broke the camels back... The manic...
    robinfontaine06 robinfontaine06 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I got married to a woman who I've known for quite some time. When we were dating, we both knew that the other one had kids. I have a daughter and she has a son, and for the most...
    Stepdadoutside Stepdadoutside 36-40, M Jan 25

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