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I A Step Mom

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    Blind-sided

    I am a step mom to three daughters.  Well, not a legal step mom, but I have been acting like it for three years now.  I watch them every other week and do all the things a parent does for their child, I cook, clean, do laundry, homework, take them on bike rides...
    leftylocks leftylocks 26-30 4 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Need Help

    Hello! I am 31 years old and the mother of a great 7 year old daughter. I have raised her by myself for the last 7 years since her father left me while I was pregnant and never showed up again. Don't worry, it was not a big loss. He was abusive and would probably be abusive to...
    acoutlee acoutlee 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    Total Crazyness

    My husband of 8 years has a son that is a MAJOR problem!  He lies, steals(money, etc from other kids in the house), and manipulates his father to get his way!  Every time that someone in the house says something to my husband he immediately yells and blames everyone except his...
    exhausted123 exhausted123 36-40 Nov 7, 2011

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    New To All This

    I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We are crazy about each other and although we are a new couple we are very sure we want to spend our lives together. theres only one problem, him and his ex have a 4 year old daughter. the relationship ended last year but...
    elfmunn elfmunn 26-30 4 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Baptism Of Fire!

    At 26 I inherited 3 children a 5 year old step daughter and 9 and 11 year old boys. They were a total mystery to me!Almost 11 years on they are some of my best friends and make me feel like I suceeded in being a Step Mum....but yes, I enjoy being an Evil Step Mum too!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    I Am The Step Mom Of 3 Grown Children

    I have been married for over 20 years, the stepchildren are 31,33 and 36 and we have 7 grandchildren. The kids: The youngest - the boy and the oldest a girl have always been problems.  They both have mental health issues, though the boy was only treated for 2 years when his...
    isabellaga isabellaga 51-55 May 28, 2012

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    Just Call Me Mary Poppins...

    I am a mother of two adult children with a bf/fiancee of 2 young children. I met him just after his exwife decided to work the system and charge him wth everything under the sun to be able to a)keep the house and b) keep the kids as an income. we started off as friends..he...
    dulliath dulliath 46-50, F 2 Responses May 7, 2010

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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My step mom is the most evil person I've ever met. I know that most people say that children/teens have trouble accepting their step parent because they feel as if they are trying...
    jay524 jay524 16-17, F Jul 27

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    I really really dislike my step mom.... she's ALWAYS getting mad and starting fights with me and my older sister for the stupidest things. For example: forgetting to pick up a...
    hellobriannaskye hellobriannaskye 16-17, F Jul 20

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    Yep. The group has the main gist of what I have to say. But it's not incredibly accurate. It's not that I don't like her.. I used to, but my opinion of her is rapidly changing. She...
    IntenseCookie IntenseCookie 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 22

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    You have no idea how much i ******* hate my step mom! I wish she would die no joke ...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    My heart breaks when my step children miss their other family. But it breaks in a selfish way.... It hurts my feelings. Like I'm not enough.... like I'm insignificant, or unloved...
    Holly350 Holly350 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I am going to pull my hair out! I'm like going crazy trying to do the best I can with everything, but it's never good enough!
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I need help, I know I may sound selfish but please bear with me, I'm trying to get better. My husband cheated on me and his mistress got pregnant with his first child.. it's stuck...
    SilentRider SilentRider F 1 day ago

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    My mom died when I was 7. A few years after my dad married a great woman. I get along great with her and love her so much. She has two kids with my dad twin girls that are 3. I...
    boba729 boba729 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    I feel compelled to tell you my story. I am a step-daughter who made life very hard for my step-mom. I hated her, well not her exactly, I hated my dads partner. As I matured I...
    bannaj bannaj 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I think my marriage is over. I have been married to my husband for three years, but we have been together almost 11 years. His son is 10 years old, and honestly I have never tried...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 31

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    for six years I have had to live in a house where my step mom mentally abused me. Its always been about her two kids and i am just a leach on them. She would never include me in...
    gradyjellyneck gradyjellyneck 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 14 and my step dad is a f*cking d-bag. When I was 11, my mom told us as in me and siblings that my dad was having an affair so she brought us to run away with her to another...
    windyblue windyblue 18-21, F Aug 5

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    Alvera964pn Alvera964pn 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I just can't stand his presence. Because of him, I actually love school since I can get away from him and just have 8 hours a day with just my friends. In 7 years of knowing him, I...
    EvanTheWeatherKid EvanTheWeatherKid 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    And I feel like she's trying to control me... I know that we all have things we like and dislike, but we shouldn't shove it down each other's throats. I like manga, and I like...
    melodicnoodles melodicnoodles 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Like I said before if ur on his good side ur ok but when ur on his bad side........bad things will start to happen. this morning I was sooo tired, I slept for like an hour and then...
    AriaDream AriaDream 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    My stepdaughter is 12. She is on depression medication. Shes a good kid, but i have a few issues and im having trouble getting it across to my husband . He doesnt see it. I was a...
    totohead totohead 31-35, F a week ago

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    I have a son (almost 12) , a stepdaughter (almost 7) and a baby girl on the way. my son lives with my husband and I. We (unfortunately) only get my stepdaughter every other weekend...
    stepmomstruggles stepmomstruggles 31-35, F a week ago

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    Most of my friends that are stepmoms do nothing but complain about their steps. In my case the bio mom passed away so she is not in their lives, so I do think it's easier than...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Okay this is the first time that I have written my story.... . Well typed it . It all started when my mom (who I love so deeply) got married to this man when I was 5 years old ! I...
    shy9723 shy9723 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    It's back to school time again and unfortunately I don't have a job. My husband is the only one working and supporting this family of 6. The step kids bio mom does not have to pay...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    My stepdad is pretty cool. He has his moments where his anger gets the best of him. But he's usually chill and like a teenager himself. However. Sometimes I'm scared of him...
    Onyvk Onyvk 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I do love my step daughter, I've been married to her dad for 21 years, she's 27 so most of her life I've been there. BUT she is spoiled rotten by her mom & grandma!! She has 2 kids...
    Newlife48 Newlife48 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    SO I am beyond pissed right now! I really dislike my stepson's mom. Of course it's back to school time and every year my husband and his ex-girlfriend agreed to alternate when it...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My mother never loved me. To most outsiders, they would think she was perfect. I mean, she had four children, my youngest sister being adopted, my older brother going to Oxford...
    FullyReloaded FullyReloaded 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    My dad died in a car accident when I was young and since then my mom has talked with people on some dating sites and dated one person. My mom used to share stuff with us like when...
    roxashasthestick roxashasthestick 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Hi! I'm In desperate need of advice. 6 months ago I became an official stepmother to two awesome boys and a beautiful women in now her first same sex relationship. She's been...
    iNez14 iNez14 26-30, F Aug 1

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    I have always wanted to be a stepmother and a mom to grown up kids.. My partner has teenage kids and his eldest is just nearby. I was scared of how she will react to my...
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F Aug 5

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    So my mother had met a guy about 3 1/2 years ago and has been in our lives ever since. They had a baby together which I was very excited about but now I'm not so sure he's the...
    dessiebee dessiebee 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a stepmom to 2 teenage girls and a bio mom to a 10 yo, 8 yo boy and an almost 2 yo baby girl. We are a blended family and at first everything was great. Now I'm finding that my...
    gr8csufan gr8csufan 36-40, F Jul 23

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    Michael749y5lj9 Michael749y5lj9 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Tonight my daughter, Aria, kept telling me to wait a minute, when I told her to get ready for bed. After being told to wait the third time, my husband/her step father gave me the...
    emma5713 emma5713 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    My stepson aged 14 has been really hostile to me and my two new sons 14 & 16. My partner and stepsons dad split about a year ago (nothing to do with me). The dad of my stepson owns...
    derick113 derick113 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    He'll then manage your baggage and start by opening the doorways to the luxury stretched car or truck. You are going to then be greeted using a complimentary bottle of an...
    Devon1739q Devon1739q 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Just had a screaming match with my stepdad. Who says he works to hard to come home and do anything like play with his son, cook, take the trash out, really just anything. It's mine...
    LifeRebel LifeRebel 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    I do not want a donor!!! I will shamelessly come out and say that I want to be a mommy and get pregnant! You guys can hate on me all you want, but like I said: SHAMELESS! If I...
    BrittannyLynn BrittannyLynn 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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