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I A Step Mom

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 30 People

    New To All This

    I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. We are crazy about each other and although we are a new couple we are very sure we want to spend our lives together. theres only one problem, him and his ex have a 4 year old daughter. the relationship ended last year but...
    elfmunn elfmunn 26-30 4 Responses May 19, 2010

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    Just Call Me Mary Poppins...

    I am a mother of two adult children with a bf/fiancee of 2 young children. I met him just after his exwife decided to work the system and charge him wth everything under the sun to be able to a)keep the house and b) keep the kids as an income. we started off as friends..he...
    dulliath dulliath 46-50, F 2 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Blind-sided

    I am a step mom to three daughters.  Well, not a legal step mom, but I have been acting like it for three years now.  I watch them every other week and do all the things a parent does for their child, I cook, clean, do laundry, homework, take them on bike rides...
    leftylocks leftylocks 26-30 4 Responses Apr 27, 2009

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    Need Help

    Hello! I am 31 years old and the mother of a great 7 year old daughter. I have raised her by myself for the last 7 years since her father left me while I was pregnant and never showed up again. Don't worry, it was not a big loss. He was abusive and would probably be abusive to...
    acoutlee acoutlee 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2009

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    Baptism Of Fire!

    At 26 I inherited 3 children a 5 year old step daughter and 9 and 11 year old boys. They were a total mystery to me!Almost 11 years on they are some of my best friends and make me feel like I suceeded in being a Step Mum....but yes, I enjoy being an Evil Step Mum too!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    I Am The Step Mom Of 3 Grown Children

    I have been married for over 20 years, the stepchildren are 31,33 and 36 and we have 7 grandchildren. The kids: The youngest - the boy and the oldest a girl have always been problems.  They both have mental health issues, though the boy was only treated for 2 years when his...
    isabellaga isabellaga 51-55 May 28, 2012

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    Total Crazyness

    My husband of 8 years has a son that is a MAJOR problem!  He lies, steals(money, etc from other kids in the house), and manipulates his father to get his way!  Every time that someone in the house says something to my husband he immediately yells and blames everyone except his...
    exhausted123 exhausted123 36-40 Nov 7, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    It's hard enough being a part time stepmom, but it's absolutely frustrating and at times unbearable being a full time stepmom to two teens. And when husband doesn't follow through...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My step dad became my stepdad when I was 4 years old after my mom and dad divorced because of abuse. I welcomed him when I was little and wanted to call him dad and remember asking...
    Penalope33 Penalope33 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm a stepmother to a 3 year and have been for 2 years. We have full custody of her. She's recently started being ROTTEN, like throwing bad fits and talking back so mean and rude...
    firefly0116 firefly0116 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My mom really hates me.She has done so many horrible things.She did meth in the house with my two year sister home.She had an affair with a man who beats her horribly(He broke her...
    Alwaysalone101 Alwaysalone101 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I'm a soon to be step mom. I'm almost 19. my SD just turned 2. Is it better to have stepchildren that are younger or come into their life when they're older. I don't want my SD to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My soon to be SD just turned 2 on July 8th. My fiancee and me have almost been together a year. ( we've been together before before people think that's fast lol ). My fiancee is 20...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    This morning my dad asked me if I would run outside and fetch the morning paper for him. So being a good daughter I ran outside to the driveway to get the newspaper for him. My...
    olivia81401 olivia81401 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey everyone I'm new here. I have no children of my own, but I am engaged to someone with three daughters. We have been together for more than 6 years. He has three daughters who...
    stepmom2be1990 stepmom2be1990 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like my stepmom hates me, her and my dad have been together since I was 16 months old and I'll be 20 in April, she's the one who caused my parents divorce, but I've never...
    harliedanielle417 harliedanielle417 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm posting a lot about this b/c at this moment, it does consume me... I've held it in SO long and i have no one that can relate to for this and it's all coming out and I feel i'm...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hello I'm new but I really do need advice. I never thought I'd be a stepmom and I hate being one. I dated a guy and already knew he had a daughter from a previous relationship. He...
    AsianBlonde AsianBlonde 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was at a meeting today and something i ate definitely did not agree i kept stepping outside to fart cuz i had some horrible gas i mean my yoga pants were absolutely tortured i...
    lonelydancergirl lonelydancergirl 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Is the reality of this blended family stuff that we will never truly be a "family." I want a family, the traditional family. I want to look at my husband hug my kids and think damn...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My Mom is always talking about how I'm a failure and everybody else is going to become great and how I'll end up working as a clerk for some insignificant company. Every single...
    Nivi26 Nivi26 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    She is finally gone!! After 6 torturous weeks she finally went home yesterday. So this visit she had the cops called on her father because she reported to her therapist that he...
    roxmac roxmac 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Again, SK mom calls & asks husband if kids can come over (after county fair & rodeo) so she can go out. Meaning: she's looking for a man for the night, or for however long it takes...
    rrthompson rrthompson 46-50, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I am trying to figure out with my SD mother don't understand. She asked us to register my SD in our school district because she moved districts and this new district requires...
    kthomas12 kthomas12 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My mother lived with my grandparents when I was young - I never really knew my dad, though they had been married. Living at my grandparents' house wasn't ideal for any of us - my...
    alearninglife alearninglife 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    I'm not a step mom yet. We're getting married though. I love my stepdaughter, but we never get to see her and it's killing me. I want a baby so bad, and this is the only way I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Anyone who knows my story knows we haven't seen SD in over 3mos. Things are just A LOT smoother, I'm not considering divorce twice a week and kids are happy... Anyway husband has...
    MommyToMine MommyToMine 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I need to get this off my chest. I'm so annoyed with SS10! So the rule for him in my house is when you wake up: Take a shower (doing it right and not just stand there) Get dressed...
    AgatorW AgatorW 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'd hate being a step mom If I ended up in such an unlucky position. That's why I don't date someone with extra baggage from a previous relationship. The Mommy drama. The Kid...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I am a mother to two little girls a 3 year old and 18 month old. I have step daughters who are 18 and 13.... I have been married to their dad for almost 4 years. My husband...
    businessmom businessmom 26-30, F Jul 24

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    When I married my wife out of wedlock (thought I was doing the "right" thing)... there were several things I never thought of, even though I had read a couple of books on being a...
    afranzan afranzan 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    My previous post sheds light into why but what im seeking now is what to di...is it worth it?! I was a single mom for over 7yrs& i really honestly MISS it so bad! Am i only one? I...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    The whole topic stresses me out, but I have to pour my feelings into something. My step dad has anger issues where he isn't afraid to hit me, but I don't even care about that. I...
    whateverr10 whateverr10 13-15, M Jul 21

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    Okay so this is pretty weird. But I don't know what to think of this. So... I have a stepdad, I love him to death. He is one of the best things that has happened to me and my mom...
    Tmiller00 Tmiller00 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I just want him to stop being there. He makes my mom so controlling and completely changes her attitude and her life. He tries to be this perfect man but really all he does is...
    bt46 bt46 16-17, F Jul 19

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    My step daughter is 17 and lately I have been concerned that she is intentionally teasing me. She reminds me of a younger version of my wife (much younger) and is seriously hot...
    HornyandCurious2 HornyandCurious2 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 19

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    A couple months ago, it was snowing and there were many clear ice around. I don't usually slip on ice , but this time INFRONT OF THE SCHOOL i did. I was crossing the street and i...
    2fuckingturnt 2fuckingturnt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    The first few times when I was 14, it was really difficult and a shock. His hand was bigger and a lot harder than my mom's, and it was very embarrassing. As the time went by and I...
    LisaMurphy LisaMurphy 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 18

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    I have been a stepmom to two boys, who are now 6 and 10 for nearly four years now. I have my own biodaughter who is 12 and awesome. Neither my husband nor I look forward to our...
    whydopeoplelie whydopeoplelie 31-35 1 Response Jul 16

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    Ok, This is my first post and i really need good non judgmental advice from woman who have been there....I really want my family to work, I really love my husband..we have been...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    I hate him so much, I never know I had the ability to hate someone before I met him! he's a horrible father, stepfather and husband. he makes the kids and my mom clean the whole...
    SpideyAlyx SpideyAlyx 13-15, M 11 Responses Jul 15

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