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I A Wife That Left Me After 20 Years of Marriage

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    My Wife Left

    my wife had an affair about 10 years ago and we worked it out lately she has Ben acting odd i caught her in a lie next thing she tells me she doesn't want to be with me
    hardtotake hardtotake 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Devasted And Lost

    Let me start by saying i never thought i would ever visit a site like this   I dont even know where to begin. The pain, anguish, heartbreak, and so many other emotions im feeling are so overwhelming i am trying anything to help for some relief.  I am 42 years...
    grfins grfins 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    Wishing U The Best

    i know 1st hand exactly how you feel - there are days that i am certian it is possible to die from a broken heart - everyone keeps telling me the pain will ease with time - i hope for your sake and mine that is true best of luck
    startingoverat41 startingoverat41 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    Wishing U The Best

    i know 1st hand exactly how you feel - there are days that i am certian it is possible to die from a broken heart - everyone keeps telling me the pain will ease with time - i hope for your sake and mine that is true best of luck
    startingoverat41 startingoverat41 41-45, F Nov 22, 2009

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    Not Quite 20 of Marriage But Been Together21

    we started dating young and we've been together ever since ! been married 14 years and now my only friend confidant lover mother of my children id unsatisfied. She has had a lot of problems in her life and needs to work through them. I don't know what to do but my friendship...
    cd1farley cd1farley 36-40 3 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    lookin at the number of people on this page I can say not a lot of people experience it... I do thou...been for a while now...gt extreme after my marriage almost fell apart...
    itlay itlay 22-25, F Dec 12

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    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    nocturne1980 nocturne1980 31-35 Dec 2

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    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    chatonenamour chatonenamour 31-35, F Dec 10

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    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 28

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    Chandler1929 Chandler1929 41-45 Dec 7

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