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I A Wife That Left Me After 20 Years of Marriage

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    Wishing U The Best

    i know 1st hand exactly how you feel - there are days that i am certian it is possible to die from a broken heart - everyone keeps telling me the pain will ease with time - i hope for your sake and mine that is true best of luck
    startingoverat41 startingoverat41 41-45, F Nov 22, 2009

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    Not Quite 20 of Marriage But Been Together21

    we started dating young and we've been together ever since ! been married 14 years and now my only friend confidant lover mother of my children id unsatisfied. She has had a lot of problems in her life and needs to work through them. I don't know what to do but my friendship...
    cd1farley cd1farley 36-40 3 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    My Wife Left

    my wife had an affair about 10 years ago and we worked it out lately she has Ben acting odd i caught her in a lie next thing she tells me she doesn't want to be with me
    hardtotake hardtotake 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Wishing U The Best

    i know 1st hand exactly how you feel - there are days that i am certian it is possible to die from a broken heart - everyone keeps telling me the pain will ease with time - i hope for your sake and mine that is true best of luck
    startingoverat41 startingoverat41 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    Devasted And Lost

    Let me start by saying i never thought i would ever visit a site like this   I dont even know where to begin. The pain, anguish, heartbreak, and so many other emotions im feeling are so overwhelming i am trying anything to help for some relief.  I am 42 years...
    grfins grfins 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    My husband is my best friend. We were high school sweethearts but lost our way. We both married others, had kids, and lived life. His wife passed away. I got divorced and we found...
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    Frankenzombie Frankenzombie 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hi Folks Well, in 2009 while working to try and get through a work-related (and marriage-related, although unbeknownst to me at the time) burnout, I wrote my fist post on...
    Mrcellophane Mrcellophane 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I think my husband is with me because his life would be worse if he left. He tells me he loves me but that's just a routine as he never shows it. He isn't romantic or flirty. If...
    Dollymixture2 Dollymixture2 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I get a lot of messages asking if I'd share my wife. So there you have it: NO, never. Every one does with it as he pleases, but to me sharing my wife would be disrespecting myself...
    Luckyguy1970 Luckyguy1970 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm not sure what to make of my marriage at this point. I thought I was marrying my best friend, but instead of being a wife she has become another mother. I've mentioned this...
    RNMedic RNMedic 26-30, M 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    brokencowboy brokencowboy 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 21

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    Where to begin. Been married 14 years. Last 7-9 have been a living hell. My wife and I both work full time, and have a 14 year old daughter. Our parenting styles are night and...
    Drummmer78 Drummmer78 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    A while back I wrote out a long post going over all kinds of stuff. I later felt uncomfortable with it and deleted it. I kinda wish I hadn't but oh well. At present I would have...
    SummerBirdsong SummerBirdsong 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    Refusers are not necessarily mean people. Mine happened to be. I was tricked countless times into believe my Ex was a good person. I should have taken the time to scratch the...
    PinkJeanie1970 PinkJeanie1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    What's with Military MAN marrying women moving them around and then treating them like **** after 10 years of marriage? Divorcing and finding women without kids? Must be nice. I...
    LisaMeToo LisaMeToo 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I don't know what to do anymore, my wife is a real life Katy Perry song, she is always hot and cold then yes and no. A little bit about us, we have been married for 3 years now...
    NvPantieLVR NvPantieLVR 26-30, M Aug 19

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    I have been struggling with sexless marriage for years. Recently, I have been telling my husband to separate because I really don’t want to stuck on something is not going to...
    AwesomeLucy AwesomeLucy 31-35, F 10 Responses Aug 19

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    I hate that I am jealous of my husbands ex. I used to think I didn't like being spoiled or getting gifts but when I see what my husband did for her it makes me feel like he loved...
    bchp1963 bchp1963 18-21, F Aug 19

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    This is my first post for an experience so I hope I am doing this the right way........ My wife and I have been married for 4 years. For the most part it was a great relationship...
    MarcusAur12 MarcusAur12 31-35, M Aug 18

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    After 30 months of counseling and 18 months of separation my wife says she is willing to work on somethings if we live together. (Married 13 years.) She has never been able to kiss...
    spiritualiron spiritualiron 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    For years I have been writing about my horrible and scary marriage. I have finally left him a few months ago.The big event that finally made me leave is? The last argument we had...
    Mikkimacoroni Mikkimacoroni 31-35, F Aug 18

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    I'm basically at fault for everything. We had troubles, she wanted to leave, I bucked up my ideas... But it's like I fixed my side of the garden, and hers is still full of weeds...
    uuugh uuugh 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 17

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    My wife and I have been married for 13 years and she wants to leave. She says she feels empty inside and cannot live in a marriage without intimacy. While I knew things between...
    LonelyGuyHere LonelyGuyHere 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 17

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    Whilst in my marriage, I used to question myself, why it wasn't working. Not matter how hard I tried, and boy did I try! It always felt like an uphill struggle, or like I was in a...
    despondant despondant 51-55 1 Response Aug 15

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    Last time I posted here it was when my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer and was very ill. She passed away in 2012. I went with her to my country because she wanted to...
    littlesadgirl littlesadgirl 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I've been married 14 years We have 2 kids ( 10&12) and have basically coexisted for the last 5-10 years. He has always put us on the back burner, I felt like I was chasing him...
    starr6345 starr6345 36-40, F 16 Responses Aug 15

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    It's been two aging years and each year I want to put a gun to my head and pull the trigger. Today is out two year anniversary and let me start by saying that she is five years...
    qwerty350 qwerty350 26-30 1 Response Aug 15

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    I messed up when me and my husband were dating, he lost a lot of trust for me. This was November of last year, we got married in March and now he's deployed. The other day he told...
    SunnyRaye SunnyRaye 18-21, F Aug 15

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    Last time I posted here it was when my mom was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer and was very ill. She passed away in 2012. I went with her to my country because she wanted to...
    littlesadgirl littlesadgirl 18-21, F Aug 14

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    This isn't about my current relationship with my new fiancee, whom I love dearly and who is NOTHING like my ex. This is about a miserable experience I had with my former wife. We...
    yanholing yanholing 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 14

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    When I was working out yesterday, I was thinking about Unjusted's recent post. It was such a good read. During my run, I pondered that while my Ex seemed to be so easy going, just...
    PinkJeanie1970 PinkJeanie1970 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    To give everything you have for 20 years, and wake up next to a stranger, one has to wonder why. To literally, grow up with this person, and yet be two completely different people...
    HeartOfPoetry HeartOfPoetry 36-40, F 58 Responses Aug 13

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    I've always been attracted to smart women. I'm not attracted to weak willed women. When I met my wife I found someone who was both smart and strong willed. I'm a strong willed man...
    G0dzilla G0dzilla 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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