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I A Woman Who Cheated With My Co-worker Husband

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    I was married for 8 years to my first husband and it was a rocky marriage from day 1 I feel looking back now. My ex husband was always a flirt especially with the younger women and...
    galaxy3 galaxy3 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    It's been about 6 years that I have feelings about my co-worker. Back then we both were single but she married and divorced. I have feelings about her even more but she sometimes...
    Mohsen467 Mohsen467 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 28

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    I actually had a crush on a female co-worker. To the point that I even wrote a short erotic story about us.
    rawrgirl90 rawrgirl90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I want to yell at the top of my lungs and never stop. Can't you see this is killing me and I don't know if I can survive this pain my heart torn to pieces my soulf shatted I wish...
    gem207 gem207 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I have been married to my husband for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years. I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 5

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    My husband of 25 yrs cheated on me , I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my...
    hizwife25 hizwife25 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I found out after I separated from my husband that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 30yrs and married for about 18yrs with 5 beautiful children. He venture to Philipine for business and love to settle there. He's got...
    angelsmile67 angelsmile67 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I in all honesty have no family except my child , I got engaged with my boyfriend after 2 years on Christmas Eve an since then our relationship has sucked , he's fooled around , I...
    sayumxo sayumxo 18-21, F Aug 20

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F Aug 17

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    I met my MM on location for a project at work... he is also my mentor and taught me a lot. He kissed me initially just to play around but things got serious and we fell in love...
    velvetnico velvetnico 31-35, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    September 17. New Relationship Behaviors. We talk much about new relationship behaviors in recovery: allowing others to be themselves without over reacting and taking it...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 16 hrs ago

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    OMG! I have a weird problem. Almost every man I've ever been with still has feelings for me. I'm not sure why they feel the need to even admit that to me, but the ones I still have...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Has anyone been following the Mark & Jenny Sanford divorce? If not, he was the former gov of South Carolina who was caught having an affair about 2-3 years ago. His marriage ended...
    Breeze62 Breeze62 51-55, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I am a very mature and responsible woman with a lovely husband and lovely children. I do what is expected of me, and I do it better than needed. I'm always there for everyone who...
    cheekyhannah cheekyhannah 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    If you asked me a few years ago, I would tell you how horrible an affair is and I looked down on people who had affairs. Now I am the person on the other side, and it's true what...
    Yalaboo Yalaboo 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I was married for 13 years to the man I believed would be with me forever. For the first 5 years, everything was good - I practically fell at his feet every single day out of my...
    kmdogmom kmdogmom 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    Do any of you ladies have a relationship with a co-worker? If so, what are the dynamics of it and are you able to conceal your affair around co-workers? Have any of you faced any...
    surfandturf surfandturf 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 25

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    A couple more signs of marital recovery. I keep telling the betrayed wives who message me, focus on actions, not words. My husband said all the right words when he cheated. But...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Aug 17

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    He's getting sloppy... And I caught myself letting him do it until I feel that it gets dangerous.... A few weeks ago my mm fell asleep after the end of our sexcapade.... I fell...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I thought my story had been written. I thought I would remain a single mother of 2 beautiful children and be plagued by a broken heart, pining for my mm who has told me he cannot...
    lyrics101 lyrics101 36-40, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    The other dAy at work... A co worker (who knows both of us but not that we are having an affair) said to me .. "You know he is in love with you. It's written all over his face and...
    MarieVon MarieVon 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 24

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    One of my co workers told me today and I quote "He's SINGLE so you don't have to worry about all that bs and drama". Aaaand she's right he is SINGLE and I don't have to worry...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    ** first, sorry it's so long. I have been waiting to stumble upon a place I could tell my story!! Yes, if that's possible, I am happy in my marriage just missing one piece and...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I am A God fearing woman, but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    Went to a movie last night with mm and it felt like old times!!!! We both laughed incredibly hard and were so comfortable! It felt like I really had my friend back...... The kiss...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I know this is a totally random poll, but I'm very curious and I must ask: How many OWs (current or recent) were cheated on by their husbands/boyfriends? I was. There seems to be a...
    celticwarrior96 celticwarrior96 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I know this is a totally random poll, but I'm very curious and I must ask: How many OWs (current or recent) were cheated on by their husbands/boyfriends? I was. There seems to be a...
    celticwarrior96 celticwarrior96 36-40, F Sep 9

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    I know this is a totally random poll, but I'm very curious and I must ask: How many OWs (current or recent) were cheated on by their husbands/boyfriends? I was. There seems to be a...
    celticwarrior96 celticwarrior96 36-40, F 24 Responses Sep 9

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    I read this about a year ago when my dad passed away and it was unbelievably helpful. Thank you whoever wrote it! Alright, here goes. I'm old. What that means is that I've...
    bigsar bigsar 22-25, F Aug 28

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    GEN.2:18 - THE LORD GOD SAID, IT IS NOT GOOD THAT MAN SHOULD BE ALONE; I WILL MAKE HIM AN HELP MEET FOR HIM ECCL.4:9-11 - TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE...THEY HAVE A GOOD REWARD ECCL...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Sep 5

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    Growing up my mother would go on about how men aren't normal, bad, untrustworthy, don't talk to them, etc my father was hardly around and when he was he would steal money, lie, and...
    paragra paragra 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Why do people not think thru all the steps of owning a puppy... Time commitment and responsibility!?!? A co-worker #1 got a puppy from a breeder who had the puppy fixed @3 months...
    68bbw 68bbw 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    So, I've been single for about 5 months, thanks to my ex-bf falling in love with my best friend. Is it just me or is it really hard to find another person to fall in love with? My...
    Awu0225 Awu0225 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Female Narcissists Are female narcissists different than male narcissists? Most narcissists (75%) are males and, in general, there are only minor differences between male and...
    mrennie61 mrennie61 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I just need somewhere to get this out. I moved house with my family, a long way from where we were, new life started very excited. I started to live, previously I had been very...
    Frankjoon Frankjoon 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I am so lucky! I got to spend most of the weekend with my MW. The only time I didnt see her was a few hours yesterday and then she went home around 2pm today. Not all of the time...
    newyork2687 newyork2687 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    For years I've been told that I'm admired for being a strong woman. Why? Because after my first husband I moved on and was a single mother? Because I had to find my own self worth...
    Phoenixsa71 Phoenixsa71 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    He's married with 3 kids (his wife was pregnant with their third one when we got together). I've been married 4 months but been with my now husband almost 4 years. My MM and I work...
    boinnkk boinnkk 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    Tysonlk318 Tysonlk318 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I am feeling very depressed with my infertility I just need some support from any if you who understands as even my husband is avoiding talking to me about it. My boss at work has...
    surfiehall surfiehall 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    So,I believe an update is in order.I married my fiancé on Halloween 2013.Mainly because I believed in Second chances.That and his sister in law told me I would never a part of the...
    Lp82 Lp82 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Well 40 years ago I knew what he was like, but he was fit, good looking and healthy and we both worked long hours so we only had the weekends. Even then I knew he would make an...
    Gaaaah Gaaaah 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    ...and I'm being cheated on too. My life is just one big twisted mess and I can't bring myself to make a decision over what to do. I didn't become involved with a MM because of...
    MaxineJosef MaxineJosef 31-35, F 7 Responses 10 hrs ago