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    Abortion Is The Worst Thing I've Ever Done...

    I had an abortion On June 20th. I didn't want it but I wasn't strong enough to fight her father on the decision. When we got to the clinic there were protesters outside that made me really start rethinking my decision to abort. After we signed in they gave me a packet of...
    RIPMarieLynn RIPMarieLynn 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2012

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    I am 7 weeks, abortion is the ONLY option for a girl like me. I have a good head on my shoulders & have a lot going for me. I told myself if I ever got pregnant, abortion is what...
    zoeeXO zoeeXO 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    i'm still emotionally healing. 8/28/14 was the day I had my abortion at 6 weeks 5 days pregnant. I go through phases of regret here and there but I know I did the right thing, for...
    janaeannette janaeannette 18-21, F 25 Responses Oct 29

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    I had an abortion about 9 months ago now, I know it sounds heartless but I don't regret it one bit, I was not in a position to have a baby, it wouldn't have been fair. Don't get me...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 28

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    I regret my abortion because I felt my fiancé talked me into it and I took my baby's life.
    307bran 307bran 16-17 2 Responses Oct 29

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    It is time to let go and move on. Life goes on and I have to keep moving forward. My past is my past. I have to live life and be happy for the daughter I have now. I can't help but...
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    There is Healing!!! I had an abortion 10-5-13. I don't regret the decision, I wasn't ready to a mother and the father would have been absent at best. The first year was hard. I...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 26

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    I am just a teenager who had an abortion trying to get by day in and day out without thinking of what I did. There is not a single day that goes by where I don't think about the...
    alyssa14 alyssa14 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    Hi I'm new here and I had an abortion, it's one of the biggest regrets I've made in life and I have supportive friends who were there for me throughout the experience but at the...
    Faith876 Faith876 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 10

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    I had an abortion... I don't regret it. The hardest decision of my life. I waited until I was 17 weeks. I thought I was honestly going to keep it. As I thought about it more not...
    Latricehar Latricehar 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I always regret having abotion i dont sleep at night i cry my self to sleep i file like Killing my self i need help plz
    snethemba snethemba 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    The first time I got pregnant, nearly 6 years ago, an abortion was never an option. My then boyfriend told me I had to, that he didn’t want a kid and I would ruin his life. I...
    tlk3581 tlk3581 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    Having an abortion does not make women with children, bad mothers. Having an abortion has nothing to do with motherhood. If you knew a women with children, that took very good care...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 50 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Once upon a time every single adult was a fetus, and none of them would be alive today if they had been terminated when they were a fetus. If they weren't human when they were...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    DOCTORS DON'T TELL YOU ALL OPTIONS! (LIKE GENERAL ANETHESIA) Making the decision if this is right for you is up to you. But, after you've made this decision like I did (at 36...
    InformedDecisionMaker InformedDecisionMaker 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    going on two years now. i am 8 weeks post partum with a beautiful baby boy whom i believe is and call my "forgiveness baby." i am currently in therapy to deal with my guilt over...
    embelina06 embelina06 22-25 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I haven't had my abortion yet. I am at a loss on what to do. I made this mistake of beginning an affair with a married man, so to clarify both my affair and I are both married...
    ScaredOfTheUnknown ScaredOfTheUnknown 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am against abortion in most cases. I do believe it is wrong to abort a young life if you got pregnant after a drunken night, yes. I always believe that adoption is best. I...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had an abortion after knowing the guy very little and learning he had Aspergers Syndrome, he didn't tell me, just thought he was shy, tells me after, we used condoms, didn't work...
    janedough334 janedough334 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 25

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    I am a 30 year old mother of 2, ages 11 and 6. I have been with my husband for 13 years. Last month, I cheated on my husband. I found out that I'm pregnant. From baby's...
    chantaliox3 chantaliox3 26-30, F 34 Responses Oct 29

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    even though there are some negative people here who leave rude comments… Sharing my story is helping with the healing process, yesterday I posted my story & received a lot of...
    janaeannette janaeannette 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 31

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    I was 14 when my father raped me again I truly believe he was the one to get me pregnant, but because he prostituted me out I can not be positive who was the father. They took me...
    squirllykid squirllykid 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 31

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    A woman is more than a fetus. A law defining a fetus as a "person" and granting it rights superior to women is demeaning to every single woman in the world. Also, abortion is not...
    ChinterWolf ChinterWolf 13-15, M 5 Responses Nov 9

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    I am nearly 6 weeks pregnant and I suffer terrible anxiety...I have constant dizziness and I do not leave the house ...idarnt even leave the house to go to the doctors for a blood...
    worriedgirl1977 worriedgirl1977 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So this girl came up to me and said, let me quote, "pregnancy by rape is still a growing child. Abortion is pure evil! All the child knows is that it's growing safely inside it's...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 18 Responses 1 day ago

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    Top two favorite abortion quotes "Why is it murder when it's human ,but when it's a chicken it's an omelette." -George Carlin "If abortion is murder ,then a blo job is...
    onecutebubbles0729 onecutebubbles0729 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    Back in June I found out I was about 4 weeks pregnant. immediately I phoned my boyfriend (of 11 months) , told him I was pregnant. he said 'oh, we'll have to talk about this when I...
    hannahruby56 hannahruby56 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 28

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    It infuriates me that hateful, mean people come into this group and pester these women about having an abortion. !NEW FLASH! These people have come for comfort and support, not...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 29

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    I am so proud when I see that many of my lgbt brothers and sisters are against abortion. I am hoping that our heterosexual allies in the pro-life movement start accepting us with...
    jmmoosey jmmoosey 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 2

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    I'm against abortion, but I believe it should be legal. I believe women have the right to determines what happens to their bodies. Rape is against the law because a woman has the...
    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 8

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    I'm 19 years old, who still in university and got a full scholarship. I live in a country where religion's influence is really strong, and I'm not sure, but I think some people...
    hitbb14 hitbb14 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    While they are out there screaming "murderer", women are still going to the abortion clinics, terminating their pregnancies. Abortion is not murder because it is legal. You can't...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 14

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    I found out last week that I'm pregnant. It's still a shock as the father left me 3 months ago in favour of a party lifestyle. I'm too sick to have the baby, and have a lot of...
    lizzied53 lizzied53 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Since abortion is a medical procedure, women should get all their information from the professional doctors. Abortion is not something to be played with. So therefore, it needs to...
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    Having never wanted a child, i found that at the age of 35... I was pregnant. By someone I really would not have chosen to be pregnant by. That was MY mistake. When it was...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 41-45, F 44 Responses Oct 24

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    I had an abortion 10-5-13. The last year has been one of unbearable pain, change, acceptance, forgiveness, and healing. I've finally started to date again, a real committed...
    DizzieDazie DizzieDazie 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I started seeing a counsellor in July I think? I got to talk about all my demons with her and discuss the abortion and how I felt about the baby. She told me to write a letter and...
    sjt127 sjt127 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I never want to say I'm moving on or forgetting or letting go. Or that I'm over it. I will never let go of the guilt I feel when I think of the life of my child up in heaven, but I...
    Wallflower921 Wallflower921 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 27

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    I am having an abortion the day after tomorrow. It was an automatic choice for my boyfriend and I, we are both still in school and are not financially stable enough to support a...
    mego92 mego92 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 28

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    I am thankful every day that my mom had the courage of giving me up for adoption rather than having an abortion.
    doodlebug224 doodlebug224 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 28

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    I went to the free 24 hour clinic and got an abortion. Now no one I know has to know.
    CrystalBR CrystalBR 16-17, F 7 Responses Oct 30

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    Hi I'm 21 years only engaged to the fiancé who I plan on marrying next year... And I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm thinking on an abortion. I just feel like I am to young to...
    april16161616 april16161616 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    Last December, I had an abortion for all the right reasons. Today, my best friend had a baby. I have such a mix of emotions. I am happy and angry and sad and guilty. I just can't...
    paigiedee1 paigiedee1 22-25 6 Responses Oct 31

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    I'm completely against abortion. I hate when people get one and if you do I will never talk to you beachside you too a little tiny babies life before it even started.
    MeganDawnn MeganDawnn 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 1

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    10months on the 25th since I lost my little one, it's really hard to deal with this, I have no support, and I dislike counselling. My baby was just about to turn 9weeks before I...
    Bailey251 Bailey251 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 1

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