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    Abortion Is The Worst Thing I've Ever Done...

    I had an abortion On June 20th. I didn't want it but I wasn't strong enough to fight her father on the decision. When we got to the clinic there were protesters outside that made me really start rethinking my decision to abort. After we signed in they gave me a packet of...
    RIPMarieLynn RIPMarieLynn 16-17, F Jul 11, 2012

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    I had an abortion at 20. At the time I thought it was the right thing to do. But now I regret it. I could have a lovely child now. Makes me sad to think of it. And I still have the...
    23Crystal1991 23Crystal1991 22-25, F 36 mins ago

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    Why should I have regrets? Especially when I know that I made the right decision. At the time, I was in no place to be a mother. I also didn't want to be a mom. I didn't love the...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for a year now and I had my abortion about 3 weeks ago. It was honestly the biggest mistake of my life. Basically when I first found out I...
    beccabird beccabird 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    It's been nearly 8 years since my first abortion and 8 years since what I was told and made to believe would end my 'problem', actually opened a flood gate of never ending new ones...
    em2521 em2521 22-25, F Mar 30

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    If u r against abortion don't give me ur negative I'm a murderer bullshit Hope to find positive feedback 😊😕😭 N I feel like damaged goods- I had my abortion Dec 13th of...
    Lovemy7yrson Lovemy7yrson 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am 26 years old, happily married, and have no children. As far back as I can remember, I've never been in any hurry to have children. It's just never been a desire in me, as...
    AbbeyRoad2 AbbeyRoad2 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Things You Should Already Know: Having an abortions does NOT make you a bad person You can have another baby after an abortion There is life after an abortion You are not alone...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had an abortion and is in recovery. Been in recovery for 2 years. But I still feel that emptiness. You know that emptiness? Like something is missing. I still feel a little...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F Mar 30

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    I had an abortion and is in recovery. Been in recovery for 2 years. But I still feel that emptiness. You know that emptiness? Like something is missing. I still feel a little...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I am a 30 year old woman, I recently had a medical abortion and wanted to post my experience online to help shed light on the subject. Most of what I found online in the way of...
    rkc1983 rkc1983 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    In the 1980's I had 2 abortions and 1 miscarriage and shortly after that found out I had cervical cancer. But this story is about the 3 lost children. I blame some of the reason...
    alcooper alcooper 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    It is time for me to speak up, I have thought more than once. I am now a mother with 4 beautiful children, but I still carry a secret. I had an abortion just 4 days after my 16th...
    secretstoryforlife secretstoryforlife 46-50 Mar 30

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    I'm a girl who had an abortion, I haven't really been able to talk about it, I didn't want to let down my now ex boyfriend, I wanted him to think I was ok, but inside it everything...
    nikkibc nikkibc 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I found out I was pregnant on April 1st. The irony. I had thought for a few weeks that I might of been pregnant and if I was I wouldn't be for much longer. I didn't make the...
    IMadeAChoice IMadeAChoice 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I want to give you a brief into my story - I tried to explain yesterday but just got all muddled as I am still struggling with this. I have a boyfriend & I completely adore him and...
    SYWlittlebutterfly SYWlittlebutterfly 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I had an abortion last Tuesday. And I don't regret it. People try so hard to make me feel bad about it but I really truly do not care. I don't like children, I'm too young, and I...
    xowillowox xowillowox 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I can't sleep, I can't eat. I think of things I didn't used to think about, like dying and being in darkness. I try to be happy but behind it all, when I am alone, I cry and I cry...
    jackkeee jackkeee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I just had my second abortion yesterday and I wish it was me who had their life taken away. I have 2 kids who are 2 and 4. The reason behind it was financial, emotional etc. Both...
    sn1011 sn1011 22-25 10 Responses Mar 29

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    Okay well let me start with a little about me. I am 20, when I was 16 I got pregnant and decided to keep my baby. The father did not stick around. It has been such a struggle being...
    kat12320 kat12320 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I inhale the positive and exhale the negative. I ignore the ignorance. I take my experience and learn from it. I have found the positive and know that I can live life after my...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    My first post a couple months was my first step to recovery. I finally owned and admitted what happened and played around with ideas about how to move on. Its two month later, and...
    kaitc kaitc 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I had an abortion four days ago. Was pregnant with my fourth child and it was the worst decision I have made in my life. I'm a mother of 3 autistic children two of which are...
    krucz krucz 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    To others who have been through it and feel conflicted (and only those people, because others feel very solid in their choices, and I acknowledge those women. However, those who...
    palimia palimia 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It's been 2 years since I had an abortion. I don't regret it, looking back it's the best thing I did. And I hate feeling like that, I hate remembering that my baby isn't here...
    Wallflower921 Wallflower921 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I am pro choice and sometimes abortion is because of medical issues, but I don't believe that it should be used as a form of birth control. I had to have one when my oldest wasn't...
    Lilmomma1617 Lilmomma1617 31-35, F Apr 4

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    I know why I did it. I was only 16, even with my boyfriends help I would still need help. My family said they would "support me" meaning, they would pay for my baby and me as long...
    BlooRae BlooRae 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    The things I would do to feel you move in my tummy. The endless nights I've spent curled up in bed crying about the decision I made. I think back to the day I sat at Planned...
    mglosny mglosny 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I want to talk about recovery. Being in recovery doesn't mean, you are always doing well. And that you don't think about your abortion. We can all have good days. Or we can have...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F Apr 6

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    Abortion does not mean murder. Women that have abortions are not murderers. An abortion is a choice. It is a medical procedure. A difficult choice to make. You honestly think that...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    For as long as I recall, abortions have been legal. But it has also been equally legal for those who hold Religious convictions to speak against abortion. I personally think that...
    OnewithJC OnewithJC 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I just spent the last two hours crying my eyes out. Fellas I know your out their I've spoke with a few on here in this section. If a female tellers you she's pregnant man up and do...
    Hotpinkgirl1982 Hotpinkgirl1982 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    It's been almost 2 months since my abortion And I'm feeling a little down about it. I can't believe that I wasn't more careful and became pregnant by someone I thought cared...
    Hotpinkgirl1982 Hotpinkgirl1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I am getting a tattoo in memory of my abortion. I wish they had an abortion recovery symbol. I would get the tattoo on my left arm, next to my eating disorder recovery symbol. I...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    People need to understand the difference between an «embryo», a «foetus» and a «child». An embryo is a simple set of diploid-eukaryote cells in its earliest stage of...
    Avoutrye Avoutrye 16-17 1 Response Mar 23

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    After reading up on the abortion pill and coming across the numerous amounts of scary/negative stories, I wanted to share my POSITIVE one with people who may be feeling uneasy or...
    Jazzy301 Jazzy301 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    After reading up on the abortion pill and coming across the numerous amounts of scary/negative stories, I wanted to share my POSITIVE one with people who may be feeling uneasy or...
    Jazzy301 Jazzy301 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    When I was 16 years old of 2013 I had an abortion here's my story.... I was dating this guy and I though I was inlove with him so we had sex. During the 4 weeks since we had sex I...
    Ginger387 Ginger387 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    I was drinking way too much and Halloween me and my best male friend I guess had sex, not that I remember. I woke up and knew I was pregnant. I already am a single mother two year...
    noliesjustlovee noliesjustlovee 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    The closest I ever came to being involved with abortion is when my wife (now ex-wife) miscarried 3 times. Personally, I am against abortion. if anyone asks my advice, I'd advise...
    gingershuman gingershuman 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I already have a 1 year old girl who I love with all my heart. I'm sick, and suffering from chronic illness that makes everyday a struggle and I knew that I wouldn't cope with...
    bamc93 bamc93 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    It's been about 4 weeks, and I just can't get myself through this. I made this decision, because of what everyone was throwing at me. How financially I would fail, how my...
    CadyHeron CadyHeron 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    This is the first time ive ever written this down in all the horrible details.. It was 2 years ago and I was 18, and it was with a guy that I was only just getting to know, but who...
    rjc14 rjc14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I keep thinking I made the wrong decision. I know that's stupid, because I'm 19 with a part time job, and I have about 1k to my name, and in the end it would have been an uphill...
    CadyHeron CadyHeron 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 3

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    its been nearly 3 months and I thought I was fine. I mean im not doing terrible but I am getting sad and its making my days a little harder. I don't know what this feeling is, I...
    janeanne13 janeanne13 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had an abortion in January of 2014. At the time I got pregnant, I had been seeing two men for almost two years. Though it was apparent to me who I'd rather be with, I cared so...
    mitted mitted 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    The last few days have been really good for me it's been about 1 month and 1/2 since my abortion and I'm becoming ok with it! I never thought that I would be able to move past the...
    Hotpinkgirl1982 Hotpinkgirl1982 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I'm worried that I might be pregnant, again. I have a strong feeling, I am. I don't want to think about abortion but I am. I hope that thinking this way doesn't make me a bad...
    Sasha7 Sasha7 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 29

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    Today would have been my due date. It was a really emotional day. I had told friends and family I was dreading this day, but they all forgot except for my one friend who also had...
    palimia palimia 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I had an abortion on 3/28/14. As far as logical decisions come, this was one of them. I have Graves Disease which was barely getting under control when i became pregnant. The...
    MADREofDos MADREofDos 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    It wasnt complete yet. I went to the abortionist yesterday and she inserted a long orange rubber inside of my vagina. I was to return today but my inlaws are with me so i cant...
    Misty133 Misty133 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago