I Absolutely Hate Being Ignored

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    I absolutely dislike being ignored.

    I get way angry about it. It's one of the worst feelings in the world to me. Specially when my boyfriend intentionally, I swear does it on purpose. Makes me mad just thinking about it. How do I not get bothered by it, or how do I get him not to want to ignore me anymore. It's...
    littlejxoxo littlejxoxo
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    I do. But I am also fond of a little

    calculated risk. Like, for example, posting in this topic with the high likelihood of getting no replies whatsoever. It's a bit like making a syntax error in a grammar nazi topic I suppose. Which I have also done..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 13, 2015

    I don't like being ignored.

    Feels like no one cares. Its not a Game when feelings are hurt. And leaves you confused.
    badgirlbee badgirlbee
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    yes i dont like to get ignored,

    its not like i always want to get attention but ignoring someone for no reason , i dont think is good
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 16, 2015

    I am sick of people just Ignoring me like I am

    not around. The other day I was walking the my local shops when I went to walk past the entry doors their was two guys standing in the way and I said can you please move and they kept talking and talking, I said hello anyone their, can you move and they didn't even stop to look...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    I think being ignored by someone

    who is suppose to love you is about them most devastating feeling in the word...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 10

    Its so frustrating when im online

    and have been chatting with someone and i send a msg to them and see they are online but never get a reply..... A little courtesy goes a long ways and if your already online why not reply. Even if the response is im not interested, its still a response.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015
    TikaTikaTika TikaTikaTika
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Oct 13, 2015

    I don't understand people

    when I email them, and they don't email back for days on end?? Especially when they say they'll email me back on a certain day and they don't. It makes me feel like they're ignoring me. When I am being ignored, it makes me feel worthless and a piece of ****. Then I feel two...
    noaht43 noaht43
    41-45, T
    Jul 27, 2015

    Feel so miserable. Was talking to a girl on

    here. I liked her, she said she liked me. We talked bout meeting but hadn't made solid plans. Then she disappeared for 20 days. I see on her profile that she's been on in the past couple of days but hasn't messaged me or even answered my messages to her
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015

    When a man tells you he has a love connection

    with you, and then ignores your texts? What is that? Frustrating, confusing, not a love connection.
    Lizzie074 Lizzie074
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014

    It really hurts when someone i like doesnt want

    to talk to me. It feels like i really ****** up and than i get that mind set "everything i do is a mistake" and i feel down for a while. I wish some people would be more considerate
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    8 Way to Ruin Your Relationship.

    ...notice #8 is 'ignore your partner' http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2010/09/20/8-ways-to-ruin-your-relationship/
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 19

    I'm one of those people

    that ignore others for days and sometimes weeks. But that doesn't mean i don't like the person anymore.
    DrowningQueen DrowningQueen
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I don't like when people ignore me.

    Sometimes I want to ignore them but I know it's not on purpose. I don't ignore their call or texts. I really hate when people ignore me when I need them.
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2015

    I CAN'T, for the life of me,

    STAND BEING IGNORED!!! Not that I need attention 24/7, but there are times where I want to be noticed and when I'm talking to you I'd realllllllly appericate if you would give me your attention.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    ever notice how when you are with someone.

    ..they are always on their phone.. but the second you two are away, it takes forever to text back? or even try anymore. f that. i gave up a long time ago.
    danna223 danna223
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 11, 2015
    lazl0wjrr lazl0wjrr
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 9, 2015

    I hate it , cause its just

    so disrespectful , every time im just so ignored its like i don't exist anymore. Even when im ignored i get depressed , i have emotions i cry at night. i have headaches at night.
    seraazimi seraazimi
    26-30, F
    Oct 13, 2015

    I think it's one of the most rude things ever,

    to be honest. Like, if you're doing it to someone on purpose. Friends, family, significant other. It's so annoying. To me, being ignored is probably one of the worse feelings.
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Jan 3, 2015

    it ****** me off when the girl I'm in love with

    will sit in the chair next to me watching a movie and she's more into ****** snapchat and her phone than me. then wants to ask me ,"WHATS WRONG?" ***** WHAT DO YOU THINK?
    bgr68 bgr68
    18-21, M
    Jul 27, 2015

    You say you are my best friend,

    so why do you ignore me You say you are my best friend, so why have you forgotten me? You say you were my best friend, so why have we become strangers?”
    DrMATRIX007 DrMATRIX007
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 23, 2014

    This is probably one of my biggest pet peeves.

    I try to be a good person, to help others, to not judge or get angry but people that ignore me (when I know they are) really **** me off. It eats at my very soul. I can't comprehend why someone would do such a bad thing as to ignore someone, especially when you were just talking...
    Mrmysterio13 Mrmysterio13
    70+
    12 Responses May 20, 2014

    You think it's alright to leave me with myself.

    I am a lady with abandonment issues. I am someone who has been stepped upon, and used just to be left in the end. And that's not even the worst part. The worst part is not getting an explanation, that you aren't worthy of one. I can't be left alone, I know I'm clingy, I'm...
    QueenxChance QueenxChance
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 19

    If you ignore me. I'm done.

    I've been ignored so many times in the past that I can't help but just shrug a person off after that. If you don't want to see me, or talk to me then I don't want to see or talk to you either. Why would you want to force yourself on someone that doesn't want you around? That...
    PotPrincess PotPrincess
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 12

    Especially if I liked talking to you.

    Honestly, if I'm the last person to send a text and you never reply then I'm probably irritated with you and especially those who give me short replies and the answer of "lol" or "ah" or "hm". Like, are you serious? You do happen to realize that I'm trying to have an actual...
    NeonAf NeonAf
    13-15, F
    Jul 14, 2015
    livia0830 livia0830
    16-17, F
    Dec 15, 2014

    My bf only wants to play his video game.

    We work so much that when we finally have off I just want some time w him. I want him to want to talk to me, interact, act interested....but he just doesn't seem to be lately. It makes me angry and sad but mostly sad ): Ps. I get that we each need alone time but it's been a few...
    Violetliz Violetliz
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    i always expect a reply

    when i message u and always reply when u message me this is at its simplest, but when someone ignores me without any reason i hate it i mean how could anyone be so rude, the way you reply reflects ur behavior and so reacting according to the situation is the mot imp. part for me...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa
    13-15, F
    Feb 27, 2015

    Honestly I hate it's makes me want to grab his

    ear put him in a chair put glue so he won't disappear this is why I want to get engaged fast to him so he won't disappear.
    seraazimi seraazimi
    26-30, F
    Oct 16, 2015

    Dont you just love being ignored,

    makes me feel so happy about myself....not😓
    avxragxwhorx avxragxwhorx
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 2, 2014
    Elaina12 Elaina12
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    Ugh I cannot stand it one bit!

    Especially if I really wanna talk to that one person 😕 :c
    Batchick420 Batchick420
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 13, 2014

    It has been a rough week at work

    and the administrator and office staff is even ignoring me
    marinerob marinerob
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 12, 2015

    One of things I hate the most in life!

    I would rather have someone tell me " I don't want to talk to you anymore" than simply get cut off constantly or straight up ignored for no ******* reason people like that are fake and whom I don't need in my life if you act like you can't hold a simple conversation because you...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    22-25, F
    Jul 26, 2014
    nitram7917 nitram7917
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jan 2

    I hate being ignored

    but I also like being alone sometimes . I think we all hate being ignored but like alone time also
    Runawaywithme123 Runawaywithme123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2014

    Being ignored is the biggest problem I have.

    It is the thing that hurts me the most mentally. I grew up being ignored and with no one caring so when I get ignored it just really feels like you don't care. If you can ignore me and think nothing of it then you could easily replace me and never look back. Being ignored hurts...
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

    I hate always having to message people first.

    Especially those who barely reply, so if you want to be in my life, I'm done being the one putting forth all the effort. It's your turn now.
    freeyourself123 freeyourself123
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    One of the things that causes me a a great deal

    of grief is when i am used to talk to someone everyday and out of the blue they stopped keeping in touch , mostly because they no longer need me as they used to and i have been replaced . missing my Halley's comet . my ex supervisor , my brother and my only friend . I miss...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    Especially when they read my messages

    and don't reply. If you do that, I will either curl up into a ball and go into hibernation mode or start obliterating everything. Literally everything. If I come to my breaking point, I will ignore everyone and everything just so people can taste their own poison.
    jeanzie jeanzie
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I HATE being ignored yesterday at school I

    asked someone a question and all he did was... Well NOTHING and I have a bit of a temper!!! Anyone else hate being ignored???
    FunnyBunny6129 FunnyBunny6129
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    especially if your upset

    and in need of the person that your trying to contact,it makes you feel awful to not even be worth a response to be treated like your nothing.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Oct 13, 2015

    One thing I hat the most is

    when people say they will be back or they are talking to you and then bang they don't respond. It makes me angry and I get really annoyed about it and then a tend to spam till the answer with hi or hey and it makes me more angry because they act like nothing happened what so...
    tjwolfe tjwolfe
    18-21, M
    Mar 17, 2015

    I wanna be done with you soo bad right now.

    All the **** I do for YOU. and you ignore me.
    AlyssaDurham AlyssaDurham
    18-21, F
    Aug 8, 2014

    You know its highly irritating

    when someone sends you a private message and even sometimes photos and starts talking to you and chatting for a while and asks for a picture of you and when your finally comfortable enough to send them one even just a discrete photo and then they are offline or wont reply. Its...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015
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