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I Absolutely Hate Being Ignored

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    This is probably one of my biggest pet peeves.

    I try to be a good person, to help others, to not judge or get angry but people that ignore me (when I know they are) really **** me off. It eats at my very soul. I can't comprehend why someone would do such a bad thing as to ignore someone, especially when you were just talking...
    Mrmysterio13 Mrmysterio13 26-30, M 13 Responses May 20, 2014

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    Dont you just love being ignored,

    makes me feel so happy about myself....not😓
    avxragxwhorx avxragxwhorx 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    I hate being ignored

    but I also like being alone sometimes . I think we all hate being ignored but like alone time also
    Runawaywithme123 Runawaywithme123 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Someone said to me during my college days is

    that no matter how bad or good, no matter whether you are rich or poor, no matter whether you are powerful person or ordinary person one thing is enough to kill you and that is people leaving you alone or ignoring you. The above statement is true as far as my experience is...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    especially by the person

    that I truly love.... Even worse if we're in the same class/place together for the whole day, 4 times a week.....
    clixt clixt 22-25, M Oct 16, 2014

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    I think it's one of the most rude things ever,

    to be honest. Like, if you're doing it to someone on purpose. Friends, family, significant other. It's so annoying. To me, being ignored is probably one of the worse feelings.
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 3

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    Especially when I am trying to be social with

    other people. I may talk to others with a soft voice but I am pretty sure I'm loud enough for them to hear me but some people want to be so engrossed in their "exciting" conversation they chose to ignore me. just plain rude and I hate it. I by myself keep to myself most of the...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    livia0830 livia0830 13-15, F Dec 15, 2014

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    there are only a few people in the world

    that it actually bothers me when they ignore me.
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    One of things I hate the most in life!

    I would rather have someone tell me " I don't want to talk to you anymore" than simply get cut off constantly or straight up ignored for no ******* reason people like that are fake and whom I don't need in my life if you act like you can't hold a simple conversation because you...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F Jul 26, 2014

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    I was in a relationship

    for three and a half years. We broke up five times for a multitude of different reasons. I had a miscarriage. We spent most of the relationship living at opposite ends of the country. We were engaged for a year and a bit of it. We've been through all kinds of hell that should...
    ImaginedTherapy ImaginedTherapy 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    You get a text and feel really good to hear from

    that person. You respond with sincerity and they however put you on hold for ummmm 10 min? Really?
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    Honestly, I don't mind being ignored,

    I won't care, I'd rather be alone.
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    Its The Worst

    i hate being ignored. i rather you tell me you can't talk at the moment than just totally ignoring me. or tell me your busy so that i wont text you every hour freaking out because you havent replied. ill think somethings wrong or that i did something wrong and all it is is you...
    crunchatizamecaptin crunchatizamecaptin 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    When a man tells you he has a love connection

    with you, and then ignores your texts? What is that? Frustrating, confusing, not a love connection.
    Lizzie074 Lizzie074 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    It fills me with so much rage

    when they ignores me like that. I Should just leave or I might just kill them one day 😔
    SunshineAnderson13 SunshineAnderson13 22-25, F Nov 29, 2014

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    I hate when I text him

    and he doesn't answer. I hate knowing I'm not the only one. I feel like he doesn't treasure me. I hate feeling like I am just a booty call.
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    This time I am being ignored

    for Kingdom Hearts. Like What? This game makes me hate Goofy, Donald, that anime looking kid with big *** yellow goofball shoes, and King Mickey. I just want to shove that stupid magic key they keep waving around right up his...You know what? Two can play that game. Let me go...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I am sick of people just Ignoring me like I am

    not around. The other day I was walking the my local shops when I went to walk past the entry doors their was two guys standing in the way and I said can you please move and they kept talking and talking, I said hello anyone their, can you move and they didn't even stop to look...
    Mary4you Mary4you 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    Ugh I cannot stand it one bit!

    Especially if I really wanna talk to that one person 😕 :c
    Batchick420 Batchick420 18-21, F 3 Responses May 13, 2014

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    Omg! I hate it so much from those I care about.

    Makes me feel like they don't care.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F May 4, 2014

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    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    One of the things that causes me a a great deal

    of grief is when i am used to talk to someone everyday and out of the blue they stopped keeping in touch , mostly because they no longer need me as they used to and i have been replaced . missing my Halley's comet . my ex supervisor , my brother and my only friend . I miss...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    By my best friend. He does it to basically

    EVERYONE and he doesn't even know he is hurting people by NEVER answering texts or reply to the pics people send.
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I hate it when someone finally accepts me

    and let's me in and then ignores me without warning..like if you didn't want to talk to me or be my friend then just say so, don't hurt my feelings
    savvy1998 savvy1998 16-17, F Dec 16, 2014

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    So rude when u try to message

    or text ppl & they jus don't answer u
    Afrodaddy Afrodaddy 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    That's why I'm happy being a loner No Facebook,

    Twitter, Instagram, any social media No friends Just go to work, school, gym, sit at home and watch sports, repeat
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    it don't take a lot effort to reply,

    not even a few seconds,
    bluesky52 bluesky52 51-55, M 4 Responses Jan 4

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    I hate being blown off,

    put off & ignored. I can't imagine anyone actually likes it - but perhaps some may not mind it as much as others. I despise it. When I send someone a message & that person does not respond, it makes me feel as if what I said wasn't important enough to warrant a response. It...
    xcryptic xcryptic 46-50, F 3 Responses May 13, 2014

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    When I've been talking to someone pretty

    regularly and then I don't hear from them for a while I always wonder if I did something wrong. It usually turns out it had nothing to do with me but in the meantime it drives me crazy.
    seewhathappens seewhathappens 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    I think that's my greatest fear.

    ..and greatest pet peeve. being ignored. If you want to upset me, ignore me.
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    I absolutely HATE it,

    when you make an effort to try and talk to someone, but they don't have the decency to respond, even if its just to tell you they don't want to talk to you #. It takes 5 seconds to type a response, id rather get a response than nothing at all. Or when you try and talk to...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    You say you are my best friend,

    so why do you ignore me You say you are my best friend, so why have you forgotten me? You say you were my best friend, so why have we become strangers?”
    DrMATRIX007 DrMATRIX007 26-30, M 2 Responses May 23, 2014

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    Being ignored by my spouse is the worst!

    Totally isolating. It makes me want to cry and scream and drive into oncoming traffic. How do I not let it bother me?
    pincher76 pincher76 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    it's most definitely 1 of the things i hate the

    most , i can easily kick a person out of my life for ignoring me,without hesitation ,those who ignore me don't deserve my time
    OccultumLapidem OccultumLapidem 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    i always expect a reply

    when i message u and always reply when u message me this is at its simplest, but when someone ignores me without any reason i hate it i mean how could anyone be so rude, the way you reply reflects ur behavior and so reacting according to the situation is the mot imp. part for me...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Many Friends But Still Lonely.

    Do you care about me ? Do people really give a damn about me? Are my friends only there for me for FUN? Nobody cares about me right? Well except my mom. Lol k.
    Rascalex Rascalex 18-21, F Nov 10, 2013

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    Being ignored is the biggest problem I have.

    It is the thing that hurts me the most mentally. I grew up being ignored and with no one caring so when I get ignored it just really feels like you don't care. If you can ignore me and think nothing of it then you could easily replace me and never look back. Being ignored hurts...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    Seriously though! If I make time

    for someone it sucks that they can't make time for me. My best friend drives me insane!! I'm very busy and so is she but when she calls or texts I always answer and when I text her she takes hours of not days to reply. People like that **** me off. But she is important to me so...
    lorem0313 lorem0313 26-30, F Dec 14, 2014

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    I honestly hate being ignored it makes me feel

    like no one cares and that I'm all alone. I'm not suicidal but sometimes I do think that if I die tomorrow or today who would really care honestly. It doesn't hurt to take a little time out of your day and to give that special someone or anyone who looks down a little company...
    AngelWithoutWingsx AngelWithoutWingsx 16-17, F Jun 19, 2014

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    My family ignore me so I ignore them right back.

    I don't wanna talk to them anyway! They never call either. Bastards!
    gaiamoon82 gaiamoon82 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    I hate always having to message people first.

    Especially those who barely reply, so if you want to be in my life, I'm done being the one putting forth all the effort. It's your turn now.
    freeyourself123 freeyourself123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Ok I think it's time

    for me to let go of this guy and back off. I haven't seen him since we got in this fight. Yesterday he was complimenting saying how beautiful I am, wish he could see my pretty face bla bla. Today I ask him a question and get completely ignored. I would say he's just busy but it...
    gymgirl71 gymgirl71 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29, 2014

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    there is a guy that I met on here

    who I thought was amazing. we got allot of things in common and we just clicked. it has been over a week that he hasn't respond to my text yet and it hurts :'( he's the only guy that I really like but I guess he doesn't like me back. life sucks...
    missnicething missnicething 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I wanna be done with you soo bad right now.

    All the **** I do for YOU. and you ignore me.
    AlyssaDurham AlyssaDurham 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    I CAN'T, for the life of me,

    STAND BEING IGNORED!!! Not that I need attention 24/7, but there are times where I want to be noticed and when I'm talking to you I'd realllllllly appericate if you would give me your attention.
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    What's with people walking into me all the time?

    You have no idea (well obviously you don't but just ride along with me here for a second) how many times i'll be walking along and someone just walks right into me and then just carries on like it never happened. It's as though I don't exist, it's really odd. A few weeks ago I...
    ThisIsMe83 ThisIsMe83 31-35, F Sep 20, 2014

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    ive been neglected a lot by my family

    and now i wanna be heard!!
    dragonshine dragonshine 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 14

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