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I Absolutely Hate Being Ignored

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    I hate always having to message people first.

    Especially those who barely reply, so if you want to be in my life, I'm done being the one putting forth all the effort. It's your turn now.
    freeyourself123 freeyourself123 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I think it's one of the most rude things ever,

    to be honest. Like, if you're doing it to someone on purpose. Friends, family, significant other. It's so annoying. To me, being ignored is probably one of the worse feelings.
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 3

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    Honestly, I don't mind being ignored,

    I won't care, I'd rather be alone.
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    Especially when I am trying to be social with

    other people. I may talk to others with a soft voice but I am pretty sure I'm loud enough for them to hear me but some people want to be so engrossed in their "exciting" conversation they chose to ignore me. just plain rude and I hate it. I by myself keep to myself most of the...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Sometimes it is way better to hear out the

    worst truth such as "I'm cheating on you" or "I don't want you anymore" or "I don't want to have anything to do with you anymore" than plain cruel ignorance. You are left wondering with gazillions scenarios of what had happened that made you deserve to be ignored or things that...
    MienaMena MienaMena 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    You get a text and feel really good to hear from

    that person. You respond with sincerity and they however put you on hold for ummmm 10 min? Really?
    manusundr manusundr 46-50, M Jan 4

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    All my friends at school ignore me.

    I'm always third wheeling. But the other day my best friend was holding her boyfriends hand and I was walking behind them and I grabbed their and was like "okay leggo." And they just look at me like "k" and keep walking.
    SleepingWithMyChemicalVeil SleepingWithMyChemicalVeil 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 1

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    there are only a few people in the world

    that it actually bothers me when they ignore me.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    One of things I hate the most in life!

    I would rather have someone tell me " I don't want to talk to you anymore" than simply get cut off constantly or straight up ignored for no ******* reason people like that are fake and whom I don't need in my life if you act like you can't hold a simple conversation because you...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F Jul 26, 2014

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    Its so frustrating when im online

    and have been chatting with someone and i send a msg to them and see they are online but never get a reply..... A little courtesy goes a long ways and if your already online why not reply. Even if the response is im not interested, its still a response.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 30

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    I hate it when someone finally accepts me

    and let's me in and then ignores me without warning..like if you didn't want to talk to me or be my friend then just say so, don't hurt my feelings
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 16, 2014

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    This is probably one of my biggest pet peeves.

    I try to be a good person, to help others, to not judge or get angry but people that ignore me (when I know they are) really **** me off. It eats at my very soul. I can't comprehend why someone would do such a bad thing as to ignore someone, especially when you were just talking...
    Mrmysterio13 Mrmysterio13 26-30, M 13 Responses May 20, 2014

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    Ugh I cannot stand it one bit!

    Especially if I really wanna talk to that one person 😕 :c
    Batchick420 Batchick420 18-21, F 3 Responses May 13, 2014

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    That's why I'm happy being a loner No Facebook,

    Twitter, Instagram, any social media No friends Just go to work, school, gym, sit at home and watch sports, repeat
    FortyTheRapper FortyTheRapper 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Omg! I hate it so much from those I care about.

    Makes me feel like they don't care.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F May 4, 2014

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    I HATE being ignored yesterday at school I

    asked someone a question and all he did was... Well NOTHING and I have a bit of a temper!!! Anyone else hate being ignored???
    FunnyBunny6129 FunnyBunny6129 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 29

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    One thing I hat the most is

    when people say they will be back or they are talking to you and then bang they don't respond. It makes me angry and I get really annoyed about it and then a tend to spam till the answer with hi or hey and it makes me more angry because they act like nothing happened what so...
    tjwolfe tjwolfe 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    it's most definitely 1 of the things i hate the

    most , i can easily kick a person out of my life for ignoring me,without hesitation ,those who ignore me don't deserve my time
    mistywillow mistywillow 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I wanna be done with you soo bad right now.

    All the **** I do for YOU. and you ignore me.
    AlyssaDurham AlyssaDurham 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    sometimes I feel so ignored .

    I feel like I'm invisible ;-;
    NightmaresBecomeReality NightmaresBecomeReality 70+ 1 Response Feb 28

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    This time I am being ignored

    for Kingdom Hearts. Like What? This game makes me hate Goofy, Donald, that anime looking kid with big *** yellow goofball shoes, and King Mickey. I just want to shove that stupid magic key they keep waving around right up his...You know what? Two can play that game. Let me go...
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F Jan 10

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    I think that's my greatest fear.

    ..and greatest pet peeve. being ignored. If you want to upset me, ignore me.
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    You say you are my best friend,

    so why do you ignore me You say you are my best friend, so why have you forgotten me? You say you were my best friend, so why have we become strangers?”
    DrMATRIX007 DrMATRIX007 26-30, M 2 Responses May 23, 2014

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    yes i dont like to get ignored,

    its not like i always want to get attention but ignoring someone for no reason , i dont think is good
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16

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    Someone said to me during my college days is

    that no matter how bad or good, no matter whether you are rich or poor, no matter whether you are powerful person or ordinary person one thing is enough to kill you and that is people leaving you alone or ignoring you. The above statement is true as far as my experience is...
    FightingTillTheEnd FightingTillTheEnd 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    By my best friend. He does it to basically

    EVERYONE and he doesn't even know he is hurting people by NEVER answering texts or reply to the pics people send.
    Headlights Headlights 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I hate being blown off,

    put off & ignored. I can't imagine anyone actually likes it - but perhaps some may not mind it as much as others. I despise it. When I send someone a message & that person does not respond, it makes me feel as if what I said wasn't important enough to warrant a response. It...
    xcryptic xcryptic 46-50, F 3 Responses May 13, 2014

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    there is a guy that I met on here

    who I thought was amazing. we got allot of things in common and we just clicked. it has been over a week that he hasn't respond to my text yet and it hurts :'( he's the only guy that I really like but I guess he doesn't like me back. life sucks...
    missnicething missnicething 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I absolutely HATE it,

    when you make an effort to try and talk to someone, but they don't have the decency to respond, even if its just to tell you they don't want to talk to you #. It takes 5 seconds to type a response, id rather get a response than nothing at all. Or when you try and talk to...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I really hate when people ignore me

    after I have taken the time and effort to make contact or say hi!!!!!
    Orangeman2 Orangeman2 36-40, M Feb 28

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    When a man tells you he has a love connection

    with you, and then ignores your texts? What is that? Frustrating, confusing, not a love connection.
    Lizzie074 Lizzie074 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    i always expect a reply

    when i message u and always reply when u message me this is at its simplest, but when someone ignores me without any reason i hate it i mean how could anyone be so rude, the way you reply reflects ur behavior and so reacting according to the situation is the mot imp. part for me...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F Feb 27

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    It really hurts when someone i like doesnt want

    to talk to me. It feels like i really ****** up and than i get that mind set "everything i do is a mistake" and i feel down for a while. I wish some people would be more considerate
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    So rude when u try to message

    or text ppl & they jus don't answer u
    Afrodaddy Afrodaddy 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 3

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    livia0830 livia0830 13-15, F Dec 15, 2014

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    Being ignored by my spouse is the worst!

    Totally isolating. It makes me want to cry and scream and drive into oncoming traffic. How do I not let it bother me?
    pincher76 pincher76 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2014

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    I feel like people are ignoring me

    for no reasons. I think it's because of my Asperger's Syndrome. I never had many friends in school. I had friends but sometimes I end up being used or ignored. I have good friends now but still it hurts to be ignored. I feel like nobody cares. High school was okay but middle...
    lollipopchick lollipopchick 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I am sick of people just Ignoring me like I am

    not around. The other day I was walking the my local shops when I went to walk past the entry doors their was two guys standing in the way and I said can you please move and they kept talking and talking, I said hello anyone their, can you move and they didn't even stop to look...
    Mary4you Mary4you 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    I hate being ignored

    but I also like being alone sometimes . I think we all hate being ignored but like alone time also
    Runawaywithme123 Runawaywithme123 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    You know its highly irritating

    when someone sends you a private message and even sometimes photos and starts talking to you and chatting for a while and asks for a picture of you and when your finally comfortable enough to send them one even just a discrete photo and then they are offline or wont reply. Its...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30

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    It has been a rough week at work

    and the administrator and office staff is even ignoring me
    marinerob marinerob 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    Dont you just love being ignored,

    makes me feel so happy about myself....not😓
    avxragxwhorx avxragxwhorx 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    Fierrrrce Fierrrrce 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    I hate when I text him

    and he doesn't answer. I hate knowing I'm not the only one. I feel like he doesn't treasure me. I hate feeling like I am just a booty call.
    findingbeauty2468 findingbeauty2468 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I CAN'T, for the life of me,

    STAND BEING IGNORED!!! Not that I need attention 24/7, but there are times where I want to be noticed and when I'm talking to you I'd realllllllly appericate if you would give me your attention.
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    ive been neglected a lot by my family

    and now i wanna be heard!!
    dragonshine dragonshine 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 14

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