I Accept People As They Are

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    Its OK if you don't feel amused at something I

    say or do. Don't fake a laugh. I get to KNOW its fake. And trust me I find it more hurtful than not laughing at all.
    infie infie
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 14, 2016

    People need realness,

    reality. People can sense when someone is being pretentious or fake. It's because you feel it; you see it in someone's body language.
    hazaramujahideen hazaramujahideen
    70+, F
    4 Responses Apr 12, 2016

    I dont get every time someone im close with

    said i dont like/love them . Like why am i With him at the first place ? Maybe its just emotional expression thing
    vivianescrooge vivianescrooge
    22-25
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2016
    vivianescrooge vivianescrooge
    22-25
    1 Response Apr 7, 2016

    Flaws and all. I don't judge someone based on

    what they look like, how they talk, how they feel. No one is perfect. We all have our issues. But it never seems to be reciprocated back to me so I end up hating and devaluing myself. It kills my self-esteem and confidence. I don't want to stop being open to people but what's...
    BernadetteAshley BernadetteAshley
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Mar 29, 2016

    I honestly love anyone

    for who they are. It's crazy for me to say because I used to be the most close minded person ever, which is such a bad thing to be. If we have fun together and laugh together than nothing else matters. I'm accepting to anyone always. Wish I was more like that before, but we're...
    giiannav giiannav
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2016

    Have you ever went through something in your

    life that changed your attitude and actions and those around you slowly faded out of your life? Could you blame them?
    1lisaonly 1lisaonly
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2016
    iwannabeakid iwannabeakid
    26-30, F
    Mar 20, 2016

    Honestly there are time

    where I am like "I don't get anything about you" but even when I don't understand someone. I still am like "I don't get this, but you seem happy so I will accept you". I don't know why but if I see they are happy then I can't judge them or think bad about them in anyway. I...
    MasterHatter12OZ MasterHatter12OZ
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 18, 2016

    I believe we are all different that's what

    makes us unique, but I wish people would not be so judgemental. Live and let live.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2016

    There's no need to hide yourself.

    I accept you for who you are. Not what others expect you to be.
    SecretsInYourHeart SecretsInYourHeart
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Mar 17, 2016

    I Accept people as they Are I know it's hard

    just to explain people who's a skeptical about " vampires" They do Exist because I know Because I Aim One of them lot of people always afraid and fear us in human culture, Everyone thinks everyone is special around here they think they are a perfect human beings likes to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    u should accept as who are just

    because they look different from u and don't have cool clothes like u doesn't mean anything
    skiaonfleek5519 skiaonfleek5519
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2016

    I don't judge people based on

    who they are buy on their actions. I was taught to love not like or hate. If you haven't heard it today or ever in your life. I am proud of you. I don't care about who you are or who you are attracted to. You are important! You are a wonderful person and will be someone one day...
    MyLove20 MyLove20
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    I am more forgiving of other people's flaws

    than I am of my own. I just don't think I should want to change people - they should want to do that for themselves. As long as I'm fully aware of the person they are, I think that I'd forgive them for anything. Maybe I am too forgiving. But I shouldn't expect perfection in...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 13, 2016

    my biggest mistake is thinking people are

    like myself , boy was i wrong . . . . selfishness will be the death of you!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Mar 11, 2016
    Rhengaar Rhengaar
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    As long as you don't take life too seriously

    and you love to laugh I accept you. **** it, I'll make the rest laugh and make them see the funny side to sorrow because a silent world is a sad world and I do not accept a sad world.
    gonegirl7624 gonegirl7624
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    yeah we all have flaws

    but we also have commonalities. i make an effort to focus on the commonalities otherwise id have no friends being a liberal who lives in indiana and all. im pretty sure we haven't even had one democrat for a governor
    Pangy54321 Pangy54321
    22-25, M
    Mar 6, 2016

    It's true. We're all different,

    and I accept most people for who they are. There are some, however, that I cannot accept, such as people who do harm to others. I don't care how bizarre your lifestyle choices are, if you're not hurting anyone, I accept you.
    Jononymous Jononymous
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    My only non kinky super predictable button down

    ex boyfriend/ now roomate drunkenly told me last night. " Your life is an imaginary reality in which u created inorder to cope with your insanity" whaaa?
    Deweylove Deweylove
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    why shouldn't I....lt people come in our life .

    no need to keep a mould with us. should accept their negatives and positives then only we can make a difference from others.
    retracted1992 retracted1992
    22-25, M
    Feb 28, 2016

    I have a challenge for a day

    for all of you and myself. Do a small or big one or two act of kindness.
    justmyfineself justmyfineself
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    "If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.

    If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile. But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me."
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2016

    You will never ever change

    who I am. What makes me think I will do the same??? I don't. I accept you just as you are. PERIOD.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2016

    I plant seeds of encouragement

    and hope here and there, hoping that when they bloom, you will see them. Maybe they'll work. Maybe they won't. But I hope it makes you feel less alone. You aren't, because although I am no longer there with you, I will always hope for you to have strength. So I hope when you...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    Just because i ACCEPT

    that this is the way they are... Doesn't mean I'll let them be AROUND ME !
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    Oh yes, imagine if we were all created the same,

    orderly and identical like machines. Not only that, I value the moments I can have deep discussions with others, hearing what they have to say on controversial topics. I love learning about different cultures, people with different disabilities, you name it. I only wish if we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 16, 2016

    I'll accept you for who you are

    as long as you're true to me.
    CharlenneDelaCruz CharlenneDelaCruz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2016

    If only others could learn to accept people

    as they are, for who or what they are. Therians, LGBT, people into bdsm, whatever.
    Nyx5 Nyx5
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 13, 2016
    CharlenneDelaCruz CharlenneDelaCruz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2016

    do you remember the first time you were called

    annoying? how your breath stopped short in your chest the way the light drained from your eyes, though you knew your cheeks were ablaze the way your throat tightened as you tried to form an argument that got lost on your tongue? your eyes never left the floor that day. you were...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    At times I find myself filled with questions

    and woe; enough to write a book or two. Despite those melancholic bouts, I can always vouch for one seemingly positive sentiment about myself- I'm utterly and selflessly accepting. The universal key to acceptance is divine understanding of what is: How thoughts/ideas of ones...
    Earthingxx Earthingxx
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 9, 2016

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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 6, 2016

    I have a crush on a cornstar(if you know what i

    mean) his name is Dane Cross. His voice makes my world go rounder 😏 his voice is exceptional plus his cute glasses that gives him innocent look.
    Etude Etude
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    Why do some people feel the need to attack

    others for asking simple questions? Just because you ask a question about something doesn't mean it represents your opinion on it, unless you actually express your opinion. Even then everyone is entitled to their opinions. What gives you the right to attack me cause I believe...
    NerdyBookQueen NerdyBookQueen
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Feb 5, 2016

    You will end up very disappointed

    if you grow up thinking everyone will have the same mind as you do.
    joyevaa joyevaa
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 2, 2016

    As long as you aren't like rude

    or rude on purpose just be yourself even if people think your weird? I kno I'm f-ing weird
    PreTeenSally PreTeenSally
    13-15, F
    Jan 29, 2016

    we are all different

    but the same. blows my mind
    hashbrown20 hashbrown20
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jan 27, 2016

    People don't change, they just become

    who they are really meant to be.
    joyevaa joyevaa
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 27, 2016

    I don't care what anyone does.

    As long as it's not while I am eating or watching football.
    Thisis4fun Thisis4fun
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jan 25, 2016

    My boyfriend is blind.

    Many people discount him as a potential date because of this. I didn't. Now, things are very rocky because he also has raging outbursts and lacks good listening skills as part of communication. I will probably leave him. Just like anyone else who is out of control and making my...
    hellpuddle hellpuddle
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jan 22, 2016

    Everyone is different

    and yet, no one is perfect. I accept you as you are, gay, bi, trans. Whatever. I have ZERO right to look at someone else's flaws while I am not perfect myself :( What the world needs is a little more acceptance and love and a little less insolence.
    bluesky1223 bluesky1223
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2016

    that's the only person they can be

    so why not accept them
    Nyalovesyou2016 Nyalovesyou2016
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2016

    Isn't it funny how we spent all our lives on

    judging people. I myself have experienced judging people sometimes in a negative way or a positive way. It's hard because I have struggled with my sexuality for years until I finally came out of the closet during my freshman in high school. Which was hard because I was afraid...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    Your such a beautiful person!

    Just by what you write! Its good to know we can accept each other flaws and all!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 20, 2016

    I have a friend that I know plays men

    but still fills the need to lie to me. Why, I don't know, because I love and except people for who they are.
    Akyra15 Akyra15
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    If you are pretending to be someone you are not,

    then you are withholding your true uniqueness. Drop the costume And BE YOU!👌
    joyevaa joyevaa
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    Five years ago I split from my husband he left

    me I was struggling with PTSD I'm sooo much better now he regrets it he is grieving the loss of me five years on and now it's too late he hurt me so bad I believe in marriage sickness and health and if the tables were reversed I would of stayed and helped I'm a committed person...
    earthandstars earthandstars
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 20, 2016

    I wanna work in the army,

    when I'm older
    Staystrong101xx Staystrong101xx
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 15, 2016

    Mmmmmm accepting people the way they are?

    That's as long as the good outweighs the bad I just don't accept anybody!!! And I'm not into so many things so if there's nothing much in common value systems etc o find it impossible to connect..and don't accept!
    earthandstars earthandstars
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 15, 2016
    mzarae mzarae
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 12, 2016

    i accept everyone as they are

    but that doesn't mean i can stand being around everyone, i wont hate u tho. i accept and respect you for who you are. i wont hate, i wont judge. bc i know there is a reason for why people are the way they are, i should know that. if i like your personality and want it more in my...
    SilverUniicorn SilverUniicorn
    70+, F
    1 Response Jan 12, 2016

    but i dont accept myself

    for who i truly am
    LittleGirlBlue14 LittleGirlBlue14
    13-15, F
    7 Responses Jan 12, 2016

    cutting people from your life isn’t always

    the end, sometimes you do it because you want them to care, if they want you, they’ll fight for you
    luckyshah luckyshah
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    I am not perfect, but no one is.

    Everyone's personality is different. But I accept people for who they are.
    ejoallen ejoallen
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jan 6, 2016

    To all the EP ers on her.

    2015 had come to its end. Thank you all for your entertainment. That includes the sexy ones. The horny ones. The self appointed EP police. The haters. The loveables. The sarcastic. The blockers. The fakes. The racists. The mothers and fathers. The Christians and atheists. The...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Dec 30, 2015

    I don't care what happens to me

    as long as you are happy i'm happy.
    Will200 Will200
    13-15, M
    Dec 26, 2015

    i accept most now theses days,

    have your ever heard of vore? eww!
    Thankyou1337 Thankyou1337
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2015

    Becoming a better human by cutting out all

    trash talk & gossiping. Whether it be with friends or colleagues, its all poison to the soul. Going 2 years strong :) :) :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Dec 25, 2015
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