I Accept Responsibility For My Own Actions

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    I always have as found out

    as a kid it dose not work blaming others in the long run.
    Leylandlad Leylandlad
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    Things don't go well

    because I took a bad road? Well, my responsability. Party is boring? I have two options: to get out of it or to cheer it up myself! My mistakes are mine, and so are my victories, of course, I didn't put the conditions, I didn't choose the enviroment, but ultimately the road I...
    oneiric13 oneiric13
    26-30, M
    Feb 28

    I take full responsibility

    for my own actions and the person that I am. If I don't apologise for "hurting your feelings" it's because I don't see why I should- especially when you want to argue "in public" and act like a petulant child. Some people need to get over their ego and grow the hell up.
    KindOfPoisonous KindOfPoisonous
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    I noticed something today.

    We received a fresh layer of snow here in the Rockies. I was walking through it and I happened to look back and could see every step I took. I saw where I had to step over or around obstacles. I could see where I had stumbled then caught me balance. Then I looked forward to see...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Jan 8

    Ooops, I did it again!

    (no relation to Ms Spears song) But there's nothing un-natural about having 'him' again. A weakness we both possess.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 7, 2015

    Before taking responsibly

    for ones actions I believe one must accept and take responsibility for ones thoughts. A little less controllable than actions, and perhaps even more important because of this?
    didithurtwhenisaidno didithurtwhenisaidno
    46-50, F
    Nov 1, 2015

    No one is perfect, we've all made mistakes,

    are making mistakes or feeling bad about them. But it takes a big person to put their hands up and say "Yeah, I did that, I'm sorry". When I first started my job, you heard the stories that people got sacked for making mistakes (which is true if you make too many) it scares you...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    What I do is my business

    and not yours. I fully accept accountability and responsibility for all of my actions. When I make a mistake, major or minor, I am the first one to admit it and correct the situation. Yes, over the years, I have learned from my mistakes so I do not commit them and embarrass...
    redheadwearinglingerie redheadwearinglingerie
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Apr 24, 2015

    I will be 8 years sober at the end of this

    month. To anyone who is struggling, if I can do it, you can too.
    mmqc mmqc
    61-65, F
    22 Responses Jul 9, 2015

    I'm born in the wrong land

    and wrong continent which is most ridiculous and retarted Belgium Europe because creatures like me exists only in the states and the fun is that my creatures in the states made billions with the same ideas like I have AMERICA HAS MANY GOOD PEOPLE AND ALSO SUPERSENSITIVE...
    Egolikeme69 Egolikeme69
    46-50, M
    Dec 6, 2015

    I really haven't in the past

    but I think it is time I start. I take a lot of things for granted and can be kind of self centered at times.
    68justme 68justme
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 22

    I do. . And wish others would stop passing the

    buck and accept responsibility for their own actions..and work. This SMART workplace management program, designed to reduce stress, actually causes more stress in the poor sod whom the work is delegated to. Faceplam to that !
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 26, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    I live at home with my mother.

    She is 57 years old, so she is from a very different generation and she, almost all of the time, doesn't understand me. She calls herself an open-minded person. To me, though... She's a narrow-minded idiot who has less than average tolerance for things she thinks are bad. She...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 22

    My name is Anthony and I'm 23.

    I take responsibility for my own actions when I do something wrong. HONESTY IS KEY
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    Jan 18

    I accept accountability

    and responsibility for all of my actions that I commit in life. Yes, I have made mistakes in life but I learn from my mistakes quickly.
    blondemomathome blondemomathome
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2015
    blazing777 blazing777
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 24

    I dropped out of high school my first time

    around, so in my early 20's I returned, this time to an adult learning centre in Toronto. At that time I was writing a lot of short stories and reading and writing a lot of poetry. My English teacher noticed this and became very supportive. She encouraged me in many ways, like...
    sooooogoooood sooooogoooood
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Mar 15

    Why do my responsibilities like an adult

    and I don't like a ******* child. one of my friends that out to me over to my back like 5 months ago broken the leg part of it and then she apologized and she said she didn't mean to break the bed. My mom told her that she needs to pay $600 for the damage. and then I was asking...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 14

    Don't want to be a doormat?

    Get up off the floor. Note to self: You put yourself there, so get up and get a new position and quit leaving the door open to strangers.
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    I hope and pray that everyone will remember

    that Memorial Day is more than the the start of summer. It is time to be thankful for those who paid for freedom with their service.
    discipled discipled
    51-55, M
    2 Responses May 24, 2015
    venkatasatish venkatasatish
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 10

    I hate always being the bigger person

    and getting nothing for it. No one noticing it. I hate it and it's making me resent everything
    tallulahalex tallulahalex
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 23, 2015
    MY2centz MY2centz
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    I met him here, he moved me like no one else

    ever had. He made living in my unhappy marriage bearable. I fell in love with him, he said he felt the same. I never asked for more than we could share here online so no one would be hurt. Then one day he stopped messaging me, I sent messages for a week and no response. Finally...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    27 Responses Oct 20, 2015

    I am still very angry many years ago

    when my children were very young my husband left me I had no money he wasn't providing for us. l had to go on welfare I wanted to work but every time I was asked about my situation l broke down and cried. I was told I was not ready to go out and work to go on welfare. It...
    ElaineH123 ElaineH123
    70+, F
    11 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    I'm not afraid to say I did it.

    Because more than likely I only made a mistake which means that I am growing. Otherwise it wouldn't be something detestable because I try my best to live a trustworthy life.
    ErraticPredictions ErraticPredictions
    18-21, M
    Oct 31, 2015

    Not to sound self centered,

    conceited or arrogant, a true lady, like myself, always takes responsibility for her actions, and she also owns up to her mistakes and atones for them.
    NothingButASmile NothingButASmile
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    I like catching my own mistakes: So far I've

    made it to Jan 24th without mistakenly writing 2015 instead of 2016. How are you doing in that? Last year was the first year in forever that I made it all the way to Dec 31st without screwing it up. :)
    TheOriginalRandyD TheOriginalRandyD
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jan 24

    When you've been raped,

    whether you keep the child or not is a difficult situation to be in. I chose to keep my son - despite the risks to both our lives from my disabilities - because I felt I couldnt handle the persecution I would face from others for abortion on top of what I was already suffering...
    discotimelord discotimelord
    31-35, F
    16 Responses May 22, 2015

    Still, I'm not responsible

    for the misinterpretations or misgivings of others. ...and I'm not responsible for those who wounded my soul. They can take that up with Divine Spirit. I will tell the truth and will continue to respect the integrity that comes with being honest. I will keep tuning in to...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 4, 2014

    Hmmmm. I best own up.

    Driving home on the motorway with a we-vibe in place. I love driving 😃 Not the most responsible thing I've ever done. But - some things just have to be experienced.
    didithurtwhenisaidno didithurtwhenisaidno
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Nov 11, 2015

    In my nineteen years,

    I have made more mistakes than most who live to be eighty. I have come to terms with most of them, learned where I can and forgiven where I cannot. I have put on my bravest face when the world crashed around me, and I used my own two hands to rebuild relationships I set ablaze...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 27, 2015

    I have messed plenty in my life

    and have never blamed anyone else for what I've done...I am an adult who can accept responsibility all the time and it's a shame that not everyone will accept responsibility for their own actions
    positivevibes23 positivevibes23
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    I accept responsibility

    for my own actions regardless of what they are. If and when I have offended others, I will apologize to them and make things right for everyone.
    joanwilliams joanwilliams
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2014

    I feel nowadays kids are being raised to be

    legitimate tattle tails and NEVER owe up to what they did. Blaming someone influenced you to do something, or made you react is the weakest thing. These kids who are drug addicts at the age of 17 for example, will always blame their friends or the group and never sit and admit...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    I have currently shifted my aspects to a

    Humanity kinda disposition. As I knew I was going to be sharing with others life's experiences, I held myself accountable to the Truth of who I am and what I have come here to do at this time in my journey in the physical realm. By far am I no saint! I am human just as we all...
    FierceJourney FierceJourney
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 11

    Don't Blame Someone Else

    I take full responsibility for where I am today....In a sexless, loveless, affection-less, marriage. I won't blame him for my 20-years of pain and loneliness because I could have left at any time, and yet I am still here. There are several reasons why I chose to stay over the...
    Carissimi Carissimi
    56-60, F
    53 Responses Nov 28, 2011
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 4

    It was time. My Mom and I hadn't really talked

    since my Dad passed. Today, we're right as rain. I am so glad I didn't wait until it was too late to talk. I love my Mom
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    I never like to blame anybody

    for my action.whatever the other person provoking or try to aggravate my anger.I strongly believe its all in our hand to deal with it.either get angry or keep calm My friends used to say that "ohh god is never showing mercy or why my life is like this..it is all because of our...
    maverika maverika
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 22

    "The only thing that stands between you

    and your dream is the will to try and the belief that it is actually possible." -Joel Brown
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    A few years ago, as I got out of my car,

    a big gust of wind blew my door into another car. It took me a while to locate the owner. We exchanged info and I paid for the damage. I got a thank you in the mail saying they could not believe that I didn't just leave while I had the chance. Here are the reasons I did not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    I was on EP last year

    and met a real nice guy. We had a great on line relationship for over six months. I told him at the time I wasn't looking for a physical encounter and I am still not ready for a one (that's another long story why). He tried so hard and was so nice to me it was the best time of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Dec 7, 2015

    When my parents learnt I was working

    as a nude dancer at a club in the city their reaction was different to what I had anticipated. They simply said they hoped I accepted the responsibility for my own actions. It sounded strangely unconcerned to me at first, but I realised they were showing me their acceptance of...
    Abellocath93 Abellocath93
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    I have always manned up to my actions.

    I have even taken the fall for friends, that I conned into doing no so good things with me.
    BadAppleBadSeed BadAppleBadSeed
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    I have been a drug addict

    for a long time. Though I'm recovering now, I will always be one, because I will always struggle with it. I've lost friends and family members because of it and I know that what I did was wrong. I've made mistakes, no one's arguing that. But I've also moved passed a lot of it...
    Bliink Bliink
    22-25, M
    9 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    I am a man of integrity.

    So I accept responsibility for my own actions good or bad. If I screwed up made mistake ill be first to admit and tell the truth.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    google: "Pattern Revelation: The Secret Of

    Science, The Secret Of Skill" Sir Karl Popper was the 20th century's preeminent philosopher of science. Now before you all tune out and start watching cats on YouTube, here's why that matters. Science produces knowledge with a precision and clarity that nothing else has ever...
    relevations relevations
    18-21, M
    Nov 28, 2015

    I love how you can write something on

    Experience and it be removed, but you cannot respond
    cbt13 cbt13
    51-55, M
    Mar 23

    im leaving work an hour early.

    ..... hmmm.......
    ocifersanchez ocifersanchez
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 27, 2015

    It gets so old listening to the blame game in

    our society today. In my opinion you had what it took to do the deed so be prepared to take responsibility if things fall apart.
    CherokeePrincess1019 CherokeePrincess1019
    56-60, F
    6 Responses Mar 15

    You live, you learn. We all make mistakes.

    We do things in retrospect that we might have done differently. But it happens. I think it's a big part of being a respectful person accepting the consequences for choices. I'm not proud of everything I have done or said but I have to own that they were my choices. :) x
    BeingHappi BeingHappi
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    just feeling lonely and scared,

    I'm 25 weeks pregnant the father and I have broke up. I know I'm going to be a great mother to this little one as I have 2 already and they are my world but this one I kept having mixed thoughts about
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    16 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    We all are humans and we all make mistakes.

    Personally, I think there is a huge line between doing wrong without intention and intentionally knowing something is wrong and doing it anyway. I do take responsability for my actions, and I learn this at a very young age. I am human, I make mistakes, but I will never do you...
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 12, 2015

    Great change brings palpable discomfort.

    Today, I made the statement to be released from my marital status in the most peaceful and constructive way. In anticipation of a rough ride, still I give thanks: orange light turns green -for hope. There is always a solution for everything, under grace. May things turn out...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Jan 1, 2015

    Really tired of complaining about the same

    problems & same situations I put myself through. It's my fault. I put myself through this vicious cycle. I'm fed up!!
    FreeSpirit02 FreeSpirit02
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Aug 28, 2015
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