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I Accept The Consequences Of My Actions

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    There Will Always Be Someone...

    ...who gets hurt because of a decision you make. Every decision you make has a positive and negative consequence even if you are not directly aware of it. My current love interest said this to me today: "I haven't decided on a lot of things. I just know that putting others in...
    Mandaryn Mandaryn 22-25, F Aug 10, 2011

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    Always Do

    I have always accepted the consequences of my actions. In fact, some of my best choices I have ever made was due to consequences of wrong actions / decisions. I would not go back and change what I did and the actions I took. I am extremely happy with where my life has gone and...
    CableDawg CableDawg 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    I always get angry, depressed,

    and sad I push and hurt everyone away I just wish I weren't so broken but isn't not something that has warranty or just can be glued back together the girls who have broken me have thrown the pieces all over the galaxy they're lost.
    LGKolor LGKolor 18-21, M Aug 1

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    I Let Myself Be Brainwashed

    But "happily ever after fails" And we've been poisoned by these fairy tales ~ THE END OF THE INNOCNCE by Don Henley As one of the last generation of Southern women to be raised before the advent of Women's Liberation, I fully bought into the dream of Prince Charming, the white...
    Koiponder Koiponder 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    I Accept The Consequences Of My Actions

    I accept that my choice to leave a certain position on my resume has ruined my reputation at my current job. As consequence, I have a supervisor who thinks I made a stupid choice and finds pleasure in reminding me of it. As consequence, I'm at a position where people disrespect...
    nebulous123 nebulous123 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2012

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    If I have wronged someone, I will own up to it, no matter how humiliating. I will also apologize for said wrong. It really ****** me off so much to see a lot of parents that do not teach this to their children. I have two friends, one is a teacher and the other works in social...
    MissAdvised MissAdvised 41-45, F Oct 29, 2013

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    Well it is in my eyes total normal.

    If I do somehing I have to take responsebility for what I did and the consequences which awaits me.
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    What Other Choice Is There.

    I make my own decisions so who else is to blame? If I do well, i pat myself on the back and don't have to wait for the approval of anyone. If i make a mistake I have to schedule a re do day or simply apologize. This is not difficult. live and learn. It is how it all works imo...
    electedcarnage electedcarnage 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    A man (and woman) is not defined

    for his (her) origins or how he (she) looks outside, it's about the decisions we make that define what kind of person we are. I've made a lot of bad decisions in my life (literally tons) but instead of learning from them I choose to run from them and that led me into worse...
    EstebanSolano EstebanSolano 18-21, M Apr 26

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    Flinchingly

    Because consequences usually aren't "not so bad." They suck. Still, if it's my own fault that I am to suffer those consequences, then I accept them.
    Dyssey Dyssey 70+, F Aug 26, 2013

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    Wow !

    Ok, Ok, I'm in the group.    I accept the consequences for my actions. I LOVE that ring in the logo for this group.   Where did that pic come from?   I'm not even that into jewelry but that ring is gorgeous. I'm sorry.   I was having...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 9 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    NOT!I don't know how.

    My parents are crimnals.As an official told my father once after locating us in California,"I cannot wait to see how your children turn out! You and your wife are not teaching your children anything EXCEPT how to break laws and escape punishment. How to lie and throw tantrums...
    MessiahtheDon MessiahtheDon 22-25, M 1 Response May 18

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    I Do and I'm Sorry ...

    After I have decided to do something which I don't regret for doing it .. But my actions have hurted others intentionally .. Which I never meant to hurt anyone from my actions ... Unfortunately, actions are always related to many people ... But I'm dare enough to take all...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F Oct 27, 2010

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    A Question

    Everytime I see this group's logo, the same thought enters my mind.What exactly do I have to do to get this ring?I accept already !
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    I Do...

      I do accept the consequences fully. Whatever I do or have done, i will accept my fate of the punishment..altho who does like to get punished for their wrong doing??? But yep...if i did it, i did it...i'll own up to it (eventually LOL). 
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    My Depression Drives My Actions Depression

    boils down to: how you view yourself. There's a well known saying "trust your instincts...they'll guide you in the right direction"...I hate that saying. Because in my case my instincts are lying to me; my instincts tell me that I'm worthless. They tell me that I'm stupid. They...
    KingSnarky KingSnarky 61-65, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    HELP

    I am Craig and I just found out I am HIV poz....want to die....need someone 843-222-8274.....lonely and desperate....gun is here. Dread tomm.....have to tell parents.
    ncsadboy1 ncsadboy1 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    I Accept The Consequences Of My Actions Am Looking For A Female For A Loving Anr Or Abf Relationship In Tampa Bay, Fl.

    I am a Single White Male Searching For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . I am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in Tampa Bay, Florida. If you are out there give me a buzz so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 28, 2013

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    ????

    When I read the name of the group I got it, but with the avatar??  All I can think of is a consequence that involves an engagement ring, Unplanned Pregnancy.  Well I can just say that it the wrong reason to get married....to be trapped in something that is a consequence?  WTF...
    jcue1976 jcue1976 31-35, F Oct 11, 2011

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    It Ain't No Video Game

    Deal with the consequences of your actions, 'cause life ain't no video game.             -- Takayuki Ikkaku, Arisa Hosaka and Toshihiro Kawabata, Animal Crossing: Wild World, 2005
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 4, 2010

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    I Accepted It And I Admitted To It

    I accepted the consequences of my actions but the punishment does not fit the crime.
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2010

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    I Have To Every Effing Day

    It can be so taxing on my emotions sometimes because there is no one else I would point the finger at even if I wanted to. I am fully responsible for the consequences of my decisions and the actions that followed every decision I ever made, be it a good or bad one. I will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    This Can Be A Difficult And Confronting Thing To Do..

    I think it takes a lot of self belief and strength to take responsibility and ownership of everything you to... to live fully in truth.. It's also amazingly freeing - and a great gift to give to yourself!!
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F Dec 13, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Nobody is perfect but when I make a mistake I owe up to the mistake. I do not like people that can not accept responsibility for stuff they do and the consequences of those...
    galdran galdran 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    From everything I've done in my past to what I may do in the future, I know what I've done wrong and I will always take full responsibility for it. There's no excuse for the things...
    Tazzu Tazzu 22-25, F a week ago

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    Something precious was stolen from me. But I learned to accept it and live my life to the fullest. I can't erase the memory. On the other hand, it has made me a better person.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I am a Muslim. I believe I have 2 angel on my each shoulders. They keep the tally of my actions. And the one in Above, He keeps action of my heart, Intention. Where is I even have...
    phenna45 phenna45 70+, T 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I wonder in which way I am being tested whenever I go through troubled times.I really liked this story I read a long time ago.Once there was a great king named Harishchandra who...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F Jul 22

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    My parents believe in discipline.My father still spanks me!I can avoid discipline, and a spanking, by accepting responsibility for my own actions.
    Shintaro95 Shintaro95 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 27

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    Whatever I do, whatever I try, whatever I say, whatever I buy, I take the responsibility I have for my own actions deadly seriously!I am genuine in what I do, calculating yet...
    Catram21 Catram21 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    Most of the time I do accept responsibility for my own actions. However if something might reflect badly on me I just lie about it and avoid taking responsibility for it.
    ikasia ikasia 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm 28, and I accept responsibility for my own actions, but that seems uncommon to me. In the last couple of years I've done everything I can for those I care for and they have...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 5

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    And because of this, I am able to move on with my life and better myself. For so long, I thought taking responsibility for faults and mistakes made me appear stupid. It wasn't...
    JaidIsAWildflower JaidIsAWildflower 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It seems I continue to update lessons in life that I have learned along the way, including but not limited to the following:....You cannot nor should you try to sway anyone to do...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I do my very best to take responsibility for my own actions, but what is hard for me is when people judge me and talk behind my back then I get very angry and say things it is...
    Krimsonraine Krimsonraine 41-45, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I have made a lot of mistakes in life and I accept that but sometimes I just dwell on those mistakes which makes it hard for me to move forward and progress in life
    thequ3enpree thequ3enpree 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Liars don't accept that because there afraid of speaking the truth
    coolgirl244 coolgirl244 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate superficial people that judge others base on tattoos, piercings, hair color, skin color, clothes, brand of shoe, flawed teeth, blemished skin, too thin, too thick, etc. I...
    theworldisdark theworldisdark 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've always believed that actions are a better indicator of a person than their words. Words are easier to fabricate than actions (although both can be). Words are much more easily...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    My ssibblings do not treat me good and I know it all boils down to my mother. I have always been the scape goat in the family. All I want is their acceptance but she treats the...
    pristinebeauty pristinebeauty 41-45, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I've made some pretty dumb decisions in my life, and I've probably said "I'm sorry." about a billion times in my lifetime. One thing I've learned in my life is that saying "I'm...
    SpecialKind SpecialKind 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I am Muslim and was raised to judge people with their intention and actions. I do not count actions of Passion.
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    Actions that speak louder than words: punching someone, hugs, sign language, sex, flipping someone off, kissing. When done, there is more depth to them than in any sentence that...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Actions. They speak way louder than words. You can tell someone that you love them until you`re blue in the face but if you don`t prove it to them then it doesn`t mean anything...
    MeraStanley74 MeraStanley74 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Words without actions are hypocrisy!
    kkarimah kkarimah 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Don't just tell me you love me show me! Actions speak loudest! Words can seem cheap if often repeated, or if honey are used at the wrong time or in reaction to something else...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    well living life and being through some negative experiences taught me to stop believing what people tell me. and to pay attention to their actions to see if they match with what...
    mylordandmysaviour mylordandmysaviour 22-25 4 Responses Aug 7

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    No one should have to change for anybody - the expectation in itself is a severe stressor in a person's life (ie. the one with the expectation). Like many other women before me I...
    Polly73 Polly73 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    Yes I do. A person should be measured by their actions. Words are easily passed and easily broken
    Bound34 Bound34 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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