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I Accept The Consequences Of My Actions

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    Because consequences usually aren't "not so bad." They suck. Still, if it's my own fault that I am to suffer those consequences, then I accept them.
    Dyssey Dyssey 70+, F Aug 26, 2013

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    It Ain't No Video Game

    Deal with the consequences of your actions, 'cause life ain't no video game.             -- Takayuki Ikkaku, Arisa Hosaka and Toshihiro Kawabata, Animal Crossing: Wild World, 2005
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses May 4, 2010

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    I Accept The Consequences Of My Actions

    I accept that my choice to leave a certain position on my resume has ruined my reputation at my current job. As consequence, I have a supervisor who thinks I made a stupid choice and finds pleasure in reminding me of it. As consequence, I'm at a position where people disrespect...
    nebulous123 nebulous123 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2012

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    ????

    When I read the name of the group I got it, but with the avatar??  All I can think of is a consequence that involves an engagement ring, Unplanned Pregnancy.  Well I can just say that it the wrong reason to get married....to be trapped in something that is a consequence?  WTF...
    jcue1976 jcue1976 31-35, F Oct 11, 2011

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    I Let Myself Be Brainwashed

    But "happily ever after fails" And we've been poisoned by these fairy tales ~ THE END OF THE INNOCNCE by Don Henley As one of the last generation of Southern women to be raised before the advent of Women's Liberation, I fully bought into the dream of Prince Charming, the white...
    Koiponder Koiponder 46-50, F 7 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    There Will Always Be Someone...

    ...who gets hurt because of a decision you make. Every decision you make has a positive and negative consequence even if you are not directly aware of it. My current love interest said this to me today: "I haven't decided on a lot of things. I just know that putting others in...
    Mandaryn Mandaryn 22-25, F Aug 10, 2011

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    Well it is in my eyes total normal.

    If I do somehing I have to take responsebility for what I did and the consequences which awaits me.
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    This Can Be A Difficult And Confronting Thing To Do..

    I think it takes a lot of self belief and strength to take responsibility and ownership of everything you to... to live fully in truth.. It's also amazingly freeing - and a great gift to give to yourself!!
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F Dec 13, 2010

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    I Have To Every Effing Day

    It can be so taxing on my emotions sometimes because there is no one else I would point the finger at even if I wanted to. I am fully responsible for the consequences of my decisions and the actions that followed every decision I ever made, be it a good or bad one. I will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    My Depression Drives My Actions Depression

    boils down to: how you view yourself. There's a well known saying "trust your instincts...they'll guide you in the right direction"...I hate that saying. Because in my case my instincts are lying to me; my instincts tell me that I'm worthless. They tell me that I'm stupid. They...
    KingSnarky KingSnarky 61-65, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I Do and I'm Sorry ...

    After I have decided to do something which I don't regret for doing it .. But my actions have hurted others intentionally .. Which I never meant to hurt anyone from my actions ... Unfortunately, actions are always related to many people ... But I'm dare enough to take all...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F Oct 27, 2010

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    Wow !

    Ok, Ok, I'm in the group.    I accept the consequences for my actions. I LOVE that ring in the logo for this group.   Where did that pic come from?   I'm not even that into jewelry but that ring is gorgeous. I'm sorry.   I was having...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 9 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    I Do...

      I do accept the consequences fully. Whatever I do or have done, i will accept my fate of the punishment..altho who does like to get punished for their wrong doing??? But yep...if i did it, i did it...i'll own up to it (eventually LOL). 
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2010

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    If I have wronged someone, I will own up to it, no matter how humiliating. I will also apologize for said wrong. It really ****** me off so much to see a lot of parents that do not teach this to their children. I have two friends, one is a teacher and the other works in social...
    MissAdvised MissAdvised 41-45, F Oct 29, 2013

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    HELP

    I am Craig and I just found out I am HIV poz....want to die....need someone 843-222-8274.....lonely and desperate....gun is here. Dread tomm.....have to tell parents.
    ncsadboy1 ncsadboy1 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    I Accepted It And I Admitted To It

    I accepted the consequences of my actions but the punishment does not fit the crime.
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2010

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    A Question

    Everytime I see this group's logo, the same thought enters my mind.What exactly do I have to do to get this ring?I accept already !
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    What Other Choice Is There.

    I make my own decisions so who else is to blame? If I do well, i pat myself on the back and don't have to wait for the approval of anyone. If i make a mistake I have to schedule a re do day or simply apologize. This is not difficult. live and learn. It is how it all works imo...
    electedcarnage electedcarnage 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    'Guilt' brings so much burden and sadness, sometimes I doubt even if its useful at all. I accept responsibility for my actions, even if what I've done could not be taken back or...
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    I accept responsibility and accountability for my own actions. I wished others did so we could cutout all this BS about bulling and abusing both people and animals alike. It is...
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    I have always been someone who takes responsibility from my actions, weather it be, work, school, family, friends, or relationships. I always have a habit of taking on more than I...
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    Hey, everyone makes mistakes. We're human. Makes no sense in denying our flaws and imperfections. Taking responsibility for one's actions and admitting your wrong doings really...
    Realitea Realitea 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I was taught at an early age about taking responsibility and accounting for my actions. I learned a great lesson about that from my parents. I have passed that on to my own kids...
    birthdaypartyforme birthdaypartyforme 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Part of growing up is taking responsibility for ones own actions, but I guess we have so many people who don't want to grow up!
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 1 Response a week ago

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    Curious on this Easter ...................... is anyone willing to take responsibility for my actions? lol
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't believe that we are responsible for the things that befall us in our lives. For example, if someone is experiencing hardship, that does not AT ALL mean they are a bad...
    lifeisatest lifeisatest 22-25, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I can't seem to wrap my head around people who blame others for their mistakes & shortcomings. It just isn't fair at all. It so much more rewarding to simply accept what you've...
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Recently, someone said to me that they felt like if one truly cares for another then they should give another pretty much limitless opportunities to screw up without the...
    IamMarah IamMarah 31-35, F Mar 27

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    Yes I do, words no have no real power. People fool themselves into thinking other wise. Our actions are what we speak by, good or bad! Words are just words. Say one thing and then...
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Very true. I personally believe that your actions should reflect your feelings and beliefs. Your ideas and thoughts really have no value unless you put them into action. As the...
    HappyandSad20 HappyandSad20 18-21, F Apr 11

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    I really do wish people would realize the type of damage they can do to someone, the pain they can inflict with actions such as lying, cheating , stealing . whatever their dirty...
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F Apr 15

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    Trying to accept the things that we can change, the courage to change the things we can and the wisdom to know the difference comes form Accepting Reality as it is in the current...
    mlcockrell mlcockrell 36-40, M Apr 7

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    #6 because I only just remembered what I was originally going to write so this will be shorter We won't believe in ourselves properly. We don't. We believe in each other though...
    shadowgem shadowgem 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Or do I simply wish I did? No matter how hard we try not to judge, or how hard we try to accept people as they are, there will always be a small part of us that continues to...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 13 Responses Apr 8

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    I accept others very well in my opinion, I accept people who deserve to be accepted. The one thing that annoys me, is that I don't get it in return. I think it's because no one...
    AtticusAneamagus AtticusAneamagus 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    It's difficult everyday just looking at myself in the mirror. Currently I'm emotionally drained because I don't feel accepted by anybody and my family does not understand me so I...
    AngelK2010 AngelK2010 22-25, F Apr 4

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    Living in a country where I see gay and transexual people or even people with color suffer just makes me say we humans should accept each other more. Different doesn't mean bad how...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Ha! What a ******* liar I am! "I accept the end"......please! I never accept the end! I just keep on fighting and fighting and FIGHTING!! It's exhausting. All that fighting for...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    **** people who think that they are better than anyone. Everyone has qualities and flaws. But certain qualities or flaws won't make you a better person. Stand up for people who are...
    JesPB JesPB 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    This is what I do. I accept everyone. I don't care if your gay or a furry, if your 57 or 12, you can smell or look "ugly" but I will never judge you. Whatever you do you have a...
    BlankCanvas22 BlankCanvas22 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Sometimes I can't accept them cause I know the motives behind said compliments and that is quite different. For a time I was able to accept them and actually believe them,though...
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I realize how the concept of 'liking' on Facebook is directly related to a desire to be accepted but there's an opposite of liking without a button- the informal name is 'trolling...
    TomorrowIsNew TomorrowIsNew 41-45 Apr 4

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    I accept people as they are and wish the same in return. Please accept me, just as I am.
    Blodeuwedd1 Blodeuwedd1 56-60 5 Responses Apr 5

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Accept is the correct term, not believe, as it so often incorrectly put. Belief is irrelevant. Evolution is a scientific theory, which means it is supported by an enormous amount...
    Qataram Qataram 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Honestly I don't understand some people who can't accept others because of their sexuality… No dude! We don't fall in love with boys or girls specifically, we fall in love with...
    Annablake Annablake 13-15, F 10 Responses Apr 10

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    Yup I want to be accept but idk if it could happen !!!!!!! So yeah i am half accepted
    Iamnotperfect Iamnotperfect 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm not perfect, not event close... I've loved, lost and learnt... Learnt that we are all unique and our uniqueness is what makes us special therefore I've since than learnt not to...
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 24

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    I am weird I accept it, if only someone else did to.
    Ghrite Ghrite 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    dajah I accept u for who u are I would love it if we can hang outit a lot more I feel like we have a real connection with each other so let me know if ur down to hang out it more
    carsen carsen 16-17, M Mar 25

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