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I Acknowledge the "Gray" In Life

Not everything is "black and white" 216 People

    LayDbug LayDbug 46-50, F Jan 7, 2013

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    Why Cant Life Be Simpler

    we often get into an argument of right and wrong, black and white, success and failures, etc etc. I wonder why we humans are so judgmental. I like the animals for reason, that say when I am hungry I eat, when i am sleepy I sleep and when I am horny I mate....even they are...
    amego amego 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    We're Trying To Make A Gray Moral Intermediary For Those Who Cannot Think In Absolutes, Kay?

    An such was da beginning of moral gray area cat... http://icanhas.cheezburger.com/lolcats/tag/moral-gray-area-cat
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 6, 2013

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    The Scale Of Life Has 99.9% In Shades Of Grey...

    Its not about where you are on that scale. Its about the direction you're facing!
    KathrynAintcrazy KathrynAintcrazy 26-30 1 Response May 20, 2010

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    I see the gray as well.

    Gray is my favorite color by the way. I think I like the gray because of all the possibilities it leaves. Gray is okay, gray is good.
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 2

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    I Admit It...

    For the longest time, most of my life, I lived a very "black and white" existence. Thing were merely put in categories, in my view... good vs. evil, right vs. wrong. My mother had often said, "One of these days, you're going to have to see the gray in life." I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    More Gray

    than black and white. for sure. :-) people who only see black and white scare me.
    passionateactorxox passionateactorxox 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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