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I Act Cold But I Have a Lot of Love and Compassion In My Heart

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    I am really not a *****.

    I have feelings and emotions. I would never intentionally hurt a person. Nor am I left unmoved when someone is in pain. Stop judging and acting like you know who a random internet stranger actually is deep down. Because we are just that, strangers.
    louisthepearl louisthepearl 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Love Is What I Got Baby

    Yes it's true I come off as cold hearted but let me say that I'm far from that, if anything I have a lot of love and compassion for myself and for others. But I come first of course, the thing is that I just don't show it that well to you. But believe me when I say I have a whole...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Jan 11, 2013

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    Cold

    I don't know why, but I've always been the mature, serious type. Even my mom says when I was like 5 I was pretty serious and quiet. I try not to, but most people see this as being cold and unfriendly. But I only act that way towards people I don't like or don't know. It's hard...
    DividedEyes DividedEyes 16-17, M Aug 10, 2011

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    Most Dont Know The Real Me...

    the real me likes to dance! not really, i just couldnt help but throw that joke in there. now that i think about it, i cant even remember where that joke comes from. anyway... as a man it seems that there are certain ways i am expected to be like. as a result i find myself not...
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2011

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    I act tough and emotionless wen deep down it's

    just a mask to cover up my sadness and grieve but sometimes I wish the mask became permanent, that I actually was emotionless. And I know I'm not the only one that's feels like this, or am I ?
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    yes i do but its cos of being hurt

    so much and but i really do have a huudge heart , im vary kind loving caring , and have so much love to give !!! so y is it so hard  find some 1 that wont reject me and love me for me !! ??
    pugdog5150 pugdog5150 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    At First

    when i first meet someone whether its a friend or someone else i seem to have a wall up for awhile. basically i seem like im cold hearted, and i dont care but really i do, i actually care a lot. im just afraid to show it.
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett 18-21, F 18 Responses Feb 12, 2010

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    A Learned Behavior

    I have never wished to come off as cold or uncaring. I learned to hide my emotions when I was young. Hiding my emotions doesn't mean that I don't have them.I have been told that I come off as a angry, cold, and heartless. However, these things were said by people that spent very...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Sep 14, 2013

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    I Don't Know Why

    I always act like I'm this cold hearted ***** who doesn't care about anyone or anything. I act like love dosen't exist because I'm too afraid to even look for it. Most of my friends think I'm this clinical mad person. And yes I am those things to an extent. But there is this...
    annesocial annesocial 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11, 2010

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    Yeah, I come across as this cold-hearted,

    angry, mean girl at first, but once you get to know me, I'm quite the opposite. I've just been hurt in the past, so I put up walls. I actually seem to act very guarded and distant around people I don't like and don't know very well. They seem to get the wrong impression. They...
    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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