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I Admire Men Who Can Lead

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    I like smart dominant men

    who know how to take charge.
    Babybellaaa Babybellaaa 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Take my hand my lady

    and I'll lead you right onto my bed...I'll take total control over your body and you'll never want me to ever let go.....
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Apr 3

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    I was kinda having a bad day today.

    .and it seems as tho when your day starts going bad..... it just gets progressively worse.... but.. almost at the end of my very bad day... (which was rounding out a very bad week).... I got a note. And this is what it said. Dear.. (me), You are beautiful, in every single way...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I defintley like a guy

    who isnt controlling or rude by any means but one that can like take a leadership role sometimes and instead of me always picking out where we go for a date or whatever i think it would be nice if the guy was like "ok i have something planned for us" if ya know what i meannn.
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    Obviously... As a submissive I look to a man

    who is a leader...not a follower. A man who doesn't hide behind others... A man who doesn't have others fight his battles for him...who doesn't hide behind lies and deceit. I admire a man who stands tall among others...who isn't afraid to say what's on his mind. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 6 Responses Feb 8

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    I don't want a man who tries to lead,

    I want a man who KNOWS HOW to lead! An intelligent man with a strong personality.. without arrogance.
    Looking4ThePerfectDaddy Looking4ThePerfectDaddy 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I am an only child and I grew up with my Mom

    although I live with my Grandparents now. My Mom dated a lot when I was younger and some of the guys were not that great. She had a type, domineering, controlling and untrustworthy, some scared me a bit too. It may be why I am kind of shy and nervous around Men now. But there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    *sigh* This.I wrote something similar a little

    while ago, but I read my friend's poem tonight, and it took my breath away. She expresses this so very well.This. Just. This.The KnowingHe looked at her and knewwhat she needed.He let her feelhis eyes on her as she mingled,and smiledwhen she met his eyes.He moved...
    livelaughlovedream3 livelaughlovedream3 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 13

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    Women are better leaders

    than men, but it is nice to see men trying.
    glossylipstick glossylipstick 36-40, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    A Confident Man

    I admire a man that is strong enough and has enough faith in himself to take the lead. When a man has that much confidence it is a turn on. When you know that no matter what you encounter or who you are safe with him. Mmmmm, that is a great thought, lol. Peace
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    My dad didn't really lead.

    My mom did more of that but she made sure Dad lead sometimes. i probably got my stubbornness streak from my mom cuz my ex bf said to my mom your daughter is too much work. Too stubborn. She stood rigid and said good for her. At least she can make the right decisions for herself...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    To my love... I was awed by your loving

    commands the other day. The deepness in your voice, the commanding tone, the love poured out. ' I want to be a better leader for you and our children. I am vowing right now, to strive to be what you deserve.' You want me to surrender. You want me to allow you to be the leader...
    mollyhearts mollyhearts 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    There are so few natural leaders in the world

    today. There are no De Gaulles, no Kennedys, no Churchills. The times are hard, and politicians are too concerned with being elected rather than serving their nation. Men who lead in business seem hidden to, since the world economy is so choked. Natural talent has been hidden...
    Desartes Desartes 22-25, F 2 Responses May 12, 2014

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    Nothing brings me to my knees faster

    than a Dominant Daddy who treats his little girl with honesty, integrity, love, and respect. When he leads and disciplines me from a place of strength, encouragement, and guidance, I trust entirely and let go completely. This is the man that makes me truly feel like his special...
    Honeytime Honeytime 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    It all starts with dancing,

    you know. I love wen who are confident enough to follow.
    GenesiusRedux GenesiusRedux 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 17

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    More of a shield maiden looking

    for 1 man I don't have to support or review their resume as I pull them through their career they couldn't plan. preferably in a cold area as I have Vegas covered. Fuzzybears preferred.
    HouseMouser HouseMouser 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10, 2014

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    Seeing you in a strange

    and wonderful dream was amazing, the last time I saw your face was in my dream, just before I got my sick time in the morning. I kept wondering how would you look like with a business suit and when you get your hair a bit longer, instead of always shaving it, and instead of your...
    VisionOfLove VisionOfLove 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    looking back at all my past crushes.

    . I finally understood. they all have same similarities men with brain and who can lead they are awesome anyway
    jalanyanglurus jalanyanglurus 22-25, F Jul 9

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    Every time I see you is the first time.

    Your kindness. It's like meeting a stranger, over and over, and all I want to do is get to know you again. I want to kiss you goodbye like it's the last time, I want to say goodnight to you like it's the only one. When I go know that I'll be gone forever, but while I'm here I'm...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    A Love Story Continued

    Song of Solomon 2 2 “I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys.” 2 “As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters.” 3 “As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 5, 2013

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    I've always have been a leader.

    Learn to be very responsible at an early age.Was a very successful retail manager for over twenty years.Was offered district manager job but turned it down to keep my kids in the school district I live near.Also as a single divorced father I needed to be closer to home to take...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    Leadership implies that there are those

    that follow. Follow, not dragged or forced, willing if you will. I am impressed by these men that inspire others. Anyone can bully another into compliance, that isn't difficult. What takes true strength is finding the positive in others and drawing that out, developing that...
    GoodLyndi GoodLyndi 41-45 Jul 16, 2014

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    "In the hands of the right man,

    a woman is a hundred different women, limited only by imagination and his willingness to make her feel safe and lead her."-Chrissy Miller
    Daydreaming2 Daydreaming2 41-45, F 6 Responses May 31

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    I appreciate and admire men

    who can lead in their chosen professions. This would be at work, church, government, and so many other areas.
    susanbornin1969 susanbornin1969 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I am a very submissive person.

    I've always been in a relationship where the man is in full control. But now I'm with my soon to be husband and he is completely different from the guys I've been with before! I love him and love how sweet he is but I can't help but miss being completely submissive like I use to...
    Foreveryoung90 Foreveryoung90 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    I like men that can move forward,

    laughs louder, works harder, play hard, accepts his mistakes and corrects them.
    Karinamvedo Karinamvedo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I admire people who are themselves but am soooooo wary of people who use it as code to be destructive hateful anti-social narcissistic vengeful hyper-opinionated and contrary. Just...
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    I'm a white male, and my fantasy would be to be in a loving, communicative, expressive, and sensual (not just sexual) long-term relationship with a woman whose background and life...
    wuiop2 wuiop2 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ladies, if he doesn't respond to your texts but he decides to text you at 10 pm telling you how gorgeous you are, do not respond. If he tells you he misses you and still loves you...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    is there someone who will listen to me??
    abhishek96 abhishek96 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I'm quite sad my life us really messed up and I don't know what to do my parents got divorced when I was 7 I live with my dad and step mom I love music but my father hates it I...
    Imtrying1 Imtrying1 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    you can't respect others when you don't respect yourself .... #selfnote
    suni148 suni148 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    After this morning, I now hate all men. I just think they are all the same now. I've only got girls in my circle now except my brother, he's girly anyway so he's been looking after...
    LizzyFeet1985 LizzyFeet1985 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm one confused hurt messed up person.ny 27 years has been packed with hurt . The most hurt has come from the male species. I have studied them lately. I have read about their...
    uncontrollabledesire88 uncontrollabledesire88 26-30, F Jul 18

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    Mom was always drunk and would have multiple men over on a regular basis. On several occasions she would let them have sex with me. This started when I was 8. I Always new when it...
    Unionyes520 Unionyes520 31-35, M Jul 18

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    'Ignorant', 'too nice', 'weird', 'opinionated' etc. I admire those of you who are aware you have different qualities but don't give a flying **** to change it for anyone. It takes...
    anon0109 anon0109 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    What is with all the testosterone filled "men" harassing women and interjecting where they are NOT wanted??? Why are they allowed to be here??? Either understand that women are not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 17

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    I've been in an abusive relationship for over a year and every time I try to leave he won't let me. I'm ok for a couple of weeks then harassment starts. Abusive texts calls fake...
    littleangel47 littleangel47 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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