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I Admire Men Who Can Lead

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    I am an only child and I grew up with my Mom

    although I live with my Grandparents now. My Mom dated a lot when I was younger and some of the guys were not that great. She had a type, domineering, controlling and untrustworthy, some scared me a bit too. It may be why I am kind of shy and nervous around Men now. But there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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    Take my hand my lady

    and I'll lead you right onto my bed...I'll take total control over your body and you'll never want me to ever let go.....
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Apr 3, 2015

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    It all starts with dancing,

    you know. I love wen who are confident enough to follow.
    GenesiusRedux GenesiusRedux 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 17, 2015

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    I was kinda having a bad day today.

    .and it seems as tho when your day starts going bad..... it just gets progressively worse.... but.. almost at the end of my very bad day... (which was rounding out a very bad week).... I got a note. And this is what it said. Dear.. (me), You are beautiful, in every single way...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 10, 2015

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    I am a very submissive person.

    I've always been in a relationship where the man is in full control. But now I'm with my soon to be husband and he is completely different from the guys I've been with before! I love him and love how sweet he is but I can't help but miss being completely submissive like I use to...
    Foreveryoung90 Foreveryoung90 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    My dad didn't really lead.

    My mom did more of that but she made sure Dad lead sometimes. i probably got my stubbornness streak from my mom cuz my ex bf said to my mom your daughter is too much work. Too stubborn. She stood rigid and said good for her. At least she can make the right decisions for herself...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2015

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    I defintley like a guy

    who isnt controlling or rude by any means but one that can like take a leadership role sometimes and instead of me always picking out where we go for a date or whatever i think it would be nice if the guy was like "ok i have something planned for us" if ya know what i meannn.
    Coco98 Coco98 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    I've always have been a leader.

    Learn to be very responsible at an early age.Was a very successful retail manager for over twenty years.Was offered district manager job but turned it down to keep my kids in the school district I live near.Also as a single divorced father I needed to be closer to home to take...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 28, 2015

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    Every time I see you is the first time.

    Your kindness. It's like meeting a stranger, over and over, and all I want to do is get to know you again. I want to kiss you goodbye like it's the last time, I want to say goodnight to you like it's the only one. When I go know that I'll be gone forever, but while I'm here I'm...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2015

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    My father was a leader,

    and my husband is a leader. There is nothing wrong with letting men be men!
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3, 2015

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    Without a doubt, women strive to be at the top

    but when we get there we realise it ain't as great as being a leader was portrayed to be.
    sweetangel20 sweetangel20 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 31, 2015

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    sirnatural sirnatural 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 1, 2015

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    I like smart dominant men

    who know how to take charge.
    Babybellaaa Babybellaaa 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

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    Obviously... As a submissive I look to a man

    who is a leader...not a follower. A man who doesn't hide behind others... A man who doesn't have others fight his battles for him...who doesn't hide behind lies and deceit. I admire a man who stands tall among others...who isn't afraid to say what's on his mind. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2015

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    To my love... I was awed by your loving

    commands the other day. The deepness in your voice, the commanding tone, the love poured out. ' I want to be a better leader for you and our children. I am vowing right now, to strive to be what you deserve.' You want me to surrender. You want me to allow you to be the leader...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    "In the hands of the right man,

    a woman is a hundred different women, limited only by imagination and his willingness to make her feel safe and lead her."-Chrissy Miller
    Daydreaming2 Daydreaming2 41-45, F 4 Responses May 31, 2015

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    There are so few natural leaders in the world

    today. There are no De Gaulles, no Kennedys, no Churchills. The times are hard, and politicians are too concerned with being elected rather than serving their nation. Men who lead in business seem hidden to, since the world economy is so choked. Natural talent has been hidden...
    Desartes Desartes 22-25, F 1 Response May 12, 2014

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

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    Leadership implies that there are those

    that follow. Follow, not dragged or forced, willing if you will. I am impressed by these men that inspire others. Anyone can bully another into compliance, that isn't difficult. What takes true strength is finding the positive in others and drawing that out, developing that...
    GoodLyndi GoodLyndi 41-45 1 Response Jul 16, 2014

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    Nothing brings me to my knees faster

    than a Dominant Daddy who treats his little girl with honesty, integrity, love, and respect. When he leads and disciplines me from a place of strength, encouragement, and guidance, I trust entirely and let go completely. This is the man that makes me truly feel like his special...
    Honeytime Honeytime 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 27, 2014

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    .....without beingba bullyor a control freak

    about it. then yes, I admire men who can lead
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31, 2015

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    A Love Story Continued

    Song of Solomon 2 2 “I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys.” 2 “As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters.” 3 “As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 5, 2013

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    I don't want a man who tries to lead,

    I want a man who KNOWS HOW to lead! An intelligent man with a strong personality.. without arrogance.
    LilMsSubmissive LilMsSubmissive 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 7, 2015

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    I love alpha men who know what they want

    as well as have a good understanding of how to be successful in life. I love a strong man who understands his family, is dedicated to them and leads them with wisdom.
    Skna31 Skna31 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    A group of students have gathered in Kolkata to

    celebrate the works of Alfred Hitchcock.They are doing this to celebrate his 116th birthday.
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F Aug 17, 2015

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    A man that comes beside you

    and does not see himself as your better. A stoic man. A man who has a sharp mind. That man I would follow anywhere. Even to the gates of hell.
    Olympias Olympias 18-21, F Nov 13, 2015

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    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho 18-21, M Jun 10, 2014

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    I like men that can move forward,

    laughs louder, works harder, play hard, accepts his mistakes and corrects them.
    Karinamvedo Karinamvedo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8, 2015

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    Women are better leaders

    than men, but it is nice to see men trying.
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jul 22, 2015

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    More of a shield maiden looking

    for 1 man I don't have to support or review their resume as I pull them through their career they couldn't plan. preferably in a cold area as I have Vegas covered. Fuzzybears preferred.
    HouseMouser HouseMouser 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2015

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    I appreciate and admire men

    who can lead in their chosen professions. This would be at work, church, government, and so many other areas.
    susanbornin1969 susanbornin1969 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2015

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    A Confident Man

    I admire a man that is strong enough and has enough faith in himself to take the lead. When a man has that much confidence it is a turn on. When you know that no matter what you encounter or who you are safe with him. Mmmmm, that is a great thought, lol. Peace
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    I am sick and tired of seeing people, who believe that they have power, belittle the ones that are not as fortunate as them. It makes my anger rise to a whole new high. I refuse to...
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    i really do but most times they don't approach me. it's always someone coming to tell me that white guy has been staring or like me. another time they just want sexual experience...
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    If your not being yourself.. who are you being ?
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