I Admire Men Who Can Lead

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    I am a very submissive person.

    I've always been in a relationship where the man is in full control. But now I'm with my soon to be husband and he is completely different from the guys I've been with before! I love him and love how sweet he is but I can't help but miss being completely submissive like I use to...
    Foreveryoung90 Foreveryoung90
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    I don't want a man who tries to lead,

    I want a man who KNOWS HOW to lead! An intelligent man with a strong personality.. without arrogance.
    LilMsSubmissive LilMsSubmissive
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2015

    I was kinda having a bad day today.

    .and it seems as tho when your day starts going bad..... it just gets progressively worse.... but.. almost at the end of my very bad day... (which was rounding out a very bad week).... I got a note. And this is what it said. Dear.. (me), You are beautiful, in every single way...
    SvveetKiester SvveetKiester
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2015

    There are so few natural leaders in the world

    today. There are no De Gaulles, no Kennedys, no Churchills. The times are hard, and politicians are too concerned with being elected rather than serving their nation. Men who lead in business seem hidden to, since the world economy is so choked. Natural talent has been hidden...
    Desartes Desartes
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 12, 2014
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2015

    It all starts with dancing,

    you know. I love wen who are confident enough to follow.
    GenesiusRedux GenesiusRedux
    51-55, M
    Jun 17, 2015

    Obviously... As a submissive I look to a man

    who is a leader...not a follower. A man who doesn't hide behind others... A man who doesn't have others fight his battles for him...who doesn't hide behind lies and deceit. I admire a man who stands tall among others...who isn't afraid to say what's on his mind. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    I like men that can move forward,

    laughs louder, works harder, play hard, accepts his mistakes and corrects them.
    Karinamvedo Karinamvedo
    18-21, F
    Jul 8, 2015
    sirnatural sirnatural
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015

    Nothing brings me to my knees faster

    than a Dominant Daddy who treats his little girl with honesty, integrity, love, and respect. When he leads and disciplines me from a place of strength, encouragement, and guidance, I trust entirely and let go completely. This is the man that makes me truly feel like his special...
    Honeytime Honeytime
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2014

    Leadership implies that there are those

    that follow. Follow, not dragged or forced, willing if you will. I am impressed by these men that inspire others. Anyone can bully another into compliance, that isn't difficult. What takes true strength is finding the positive in others and drawing that out, developing that...
    GoodLyndi GoodLyndi
    41-45
    1 Response Jul 16, 2014

    Every time I see you is the first time.

    Your kindness. It's like meeting a stranger, over and over, and all I want to do is get to know you again. I want to kiss you goodbye like it's the last time, I want to say goodnight to you like it's the only one. When I go know that I'll be gone forever, but while I'm here I'm...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2015

    .....without beingba bullyor a control freak

    about it. then yes, I admire men who can lead
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 31, 2015

    Women are better leaders

    than men, but it is nice to see men trying.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    A Confident Man

    I admire a man that is strong enough and has enough faith in himself to take the lead. When a man has that much confidence it is a turn on. When you know that no matter what you encounter or who you are safe with him. Mmmmm, that is a great thought, lol. Peace
    enchantress4ever2 enchantress4ever2
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2013

    More of a shield maiden looking

    for 1 man I don't have to support or review their resume as I pull them through their career they couldn't plan. preferably in a cold area as I have Vegas covered. Fuzzybears preferred.
    HouseMouser HouseMouser
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2015

    Young, loving DaddyDom seeking the last piece

    to His puzzle. <3 Seems sometimes that I almost have it all. I'm not too hard to look at, financially I'm living pretty comfortably; I have a job that I love doing and a strong ten-year plan. I live in a great apartment in an awesome neighborhood, I have good friends and...
    DaddyDoctorWho DaddyDoctorWho
    18-21, M
    Jun 10, 2014

    I like smart dominant men

    who know how to take charge.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    I love alpha men who know what they want

    as well as have a good understanding of how to be successful in life. I love a strong man who understands his family, is dedicated to them and leads them with wisdom.
    Skna31 Skna31
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 1

    A Love Story Continued

    Song of Solomon 2 2 “I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys.” 2 “As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters.” 3 “As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 5, 2013

    A man that comes beside you

    and does not see himself as your better. A stoic man. A man who has a sharp mind. That man I would follow anywhere. Even to the gates of hell.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 13, 2015

    To my love... I was awed by your loving

    commands the other day. The deepness in your voice, the commanding tone, the love poured out. ' I want to be a better leader for you and our children. I am vowing right now, to strive to be what you deserve.' You want me to surrender. You want me to allow you to be the leader...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 31, 2013

    I appreciate and admire men

    who can lead in their chosen professions. This would be at work, church, government, and so many other areas.
    susanbornin1969 susanbornin1969
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    My father was a leader,

    and my husband is a leader. There is nothing wrong with letting men be men!
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    Sep 3, 2015

    Without a doubt, women strive to be at the top

    but when we get there we realise it ain't as great as being a leader was portrayed to be.
    sweetangel20 sweetangel20
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    I am an only child and I grew up with my Mom

    although I live with my Grandparents now. My Mom dated a lot when I was younger and some of the guys were not that great. She had a type, domineering, controlling and untrustworthy, some scared me a bit too. It may be why I am kind of shy and nervous around Men now. But there...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2014

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