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I Admire Wit and Intelligence

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    When you get to know someone ,

    all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You being to dwell in their energy , recognize the scent of their skin . You see only the essence of the person , not the shell . That's why you can't fall in love with their beauty or looks . You can lust after it , be...
    fiestychica fiestychica 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 25

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    (Drawing attached) The important thing isn't

    to arrive at tomorrow, it is to keep moving forward. As long as you're moving forward, you will get there, and there might be a lot different than how you planned it. Be good to yourself and don't give up. You are loved.
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 28 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    (Drawing attached) No matter

    where you are in your journey, no matter what you do for a living or even what you eat for dinner, you are loved. Just remember that. Good morning
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 20 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's nothing more engaging

    than having a conversation with someone of mutual intellect.
    pxybella pxybella 36-40, F 19 Responses Jul 2

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    (Sketch attached) My quick sketch

    for today. I guess in life, if someone criticizes you, take it as an opportunity to improve. If someone does better than you, see it as an opportunity to learn from them. If you fall short at something, realize you can get closer next time. Life is good.
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 26 Responses Nov 17

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    (Painting attached) After my mother passed

    away, I drew 23 portraits, knitted 3 sweaters, 3 scarves, a winter hat, and a sweater coat. I didn't speak to anyone for weeks. And at times it was hard to eat, and I lost a lot of weight. Grief is one of those emotions that have a life of their own. It carries every feeling...
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 23 Responses 5 days ago

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    Men who talk with sense are cool.

    Men who can make me smile and laugh are coolest. 👍
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 17 Responses May 24

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    I like people who can outwit me,

    but can be humble about it all the same. I also like being the person to outwit others, it's a 50/50 thing I like. I'll be humble about it no doubt. I also like people who are well spoken, about themselves and the environment around us. That doesn't mean to say I wont try...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 5 Responses Nov 18

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    THE GUY THAT I LIKE IS SO ******* AMAZING HES

    SO SMART OH MY GOD HE REMINDS ME OF LUCIEN FROM KILL YOUR DARLINGS
    cookingaubrey cookingaubrey 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    (Sketch attached) 11cm.

    Quick sketch, tiny drawing. Hope you like it. Life is just the way it is supposed to be: unpredictable, good, bad, ugly and great all rolled up into one incredibly short experience. Be happy, because life is good. Goodnight dear.
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 32 Responses 1 day ago

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    Don't be sad when something bad happened.

    We all know that nothing stays the same forever. Things happened. However, problems arise when we become attached to the way things are. But sometimes we need to accept that life is a series of ever changing events and situations and new opportunities will present themselves to...
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 22

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    In life, there is always going to be someone

    subjectively 'doing better' than you and if you judge yourself by those standards, you're never going to feel good about yourself. People will encounter different obstacles on their path to success and you can't truly judge your own worth by looking at someone leading a...
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 16 Responses Oct 27

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    It is more valuable to be able to describe

    something you know nothing about well enough to make others believe you than to fully comprehend few topics completely and utterly. Being capable of bullshit is how the world spins.
    TheAtheistAdvocate TheAtheistAdvocate 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I hAtE EinSteiN!!...he says the speed of light

    can't be broken. I mean was the Genius even thinking what effects his speech would have on countless Younger Generations. We would all be clones saying,'Yea Einstein was right,can't be done' and then we would sit on our behinds! Saying something can't be done is just wrong...
    Enlightener Enlightener 18-21, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Who's to say. I like those words.

    Who is to say. Who's to say anything? I don't value facts or opinions as pathways to ultimate truths. Then again, I don't know what I'm saying. In this moment, I suppose I am saying I value what is. I am also willing to say I don't even know what is. It's all a tangle of...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just came back Detroit,

    literally that is America's forgotten city.
    nameth88 nameth88 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Lets face it. I know the internet can be a

    minefield when it comes to that kind of stuff but on the internet what else do you have. Without being face to face with someone you have to rely on your words to convey what you mean. If someone starts a conversation with "Ey Gurl" they garner considerably less interest than...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I not only admire wit

    and intelligence, I find it highly attractive. To connect on a physical level is great, but to connect on a mental level too is far more rewarding. If you can combine the two, you are extremely lucky. What is better than an evening shared with someone that you can converse with...
    ThePhilogynist ThePhilogynist 36-40, M 11 Responses Aug 1

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    There's nothing sexier

    than someone who can delve inside themselves and hold a conversation from their soul. I have no interest in superficiality. I can see the world and its surface, I have no need to talk about the weather. Show me something from the depths, the abyss so to speak...wow me with your...
    LostinAtown LostinAtown 31-35, F 43 Responses Oct 15

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    (Drawing attached) Cara Delevingne A quick one.

    What do you think? Sometimes as human, we're so busy waiting for someone to love us that we've forgotten about the one person we need to love first- ourselves.
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 17 Responses 3 days ago

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    Every word has consequences.

    Every silence too.
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's sad. I know people don't mean any harm

    when they have a hard time believing I'm just a 16 year old girl on here. I know how I speak and know I am great with words. It's just maybe if this generation didn't act so ignorant maybe adults would expect a little more of us: thus being respected for who we are.
    UnderworldNymph UnderworldNymph 16-17, F 18 Responses Sep 7

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    thelonelysoul thelonelysoul 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 18

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    SKiesterly SKiesterly 41-45, F 33 Responses Aug 23

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    DorkyGuy90 DorkyGuy90 22-25, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    pleasantlyanonymous pleasantlyanonymous 22-25 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I became an educator

    because I loved to see people grow and succeed in difficult tasks. When a student "jewel" showed wit and intelligence, it made my vocation so rewarding.
    wuzgnu wuzgnu 61-65, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Really good coverage of the Ferguson incident.

    Never expect anything less from Amy Goodman and Democracy Now. (11-25-14) http://www.democracynow.org/shows/2014/11/25 (11-26-24) http://www.democracynow.org/2014/11/26/rev_sharpton_legacy_of_civil_rights
    ebolarama ebolarama 26-30, M 8 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    It takes nothing to be good looking

    but it takes a lot for people to have wit and intelligence. I'm not just some pretty face who only looks at what's on the outside I look for what's on the inside. It's what matters the most. Everyone ages and looks fade.
    hugsandkisses26 hugsandkisses26 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 10

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    There is nothing sexier

    than an intelligent man. There is however one caveat to this.... He must display humility and thoughtfulness. The man who is intelligent enough to respect life and values doesn't entertain the idea of cheating on a spouse, for example. This is precisely why I lost all respect...
    lorem7ipsum lorem7ipsum 36-40, F 38 Responses Aug 12

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    (Quick sketch attached) It hurts

    when people accused me faking my skills and drawings. May god blessed who ever you are. I'm not here to argue with anyone, I'm here to be your friend. Goodnight.
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 45 Responses 2 days ago

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    (Sketch attached) Quick sketch

    for today. Hope you like it. You are not who you were yesterday and you are not who you will be tomorrow. So, make peace with that. Life is full of second chances. We are always in a state of evolution. Good morning from London. :)
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 24 Responses 2 days ago

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    (Sketch attached) My latest micro sketch.

    Done in 30 minutes. Do you like it?
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 22 Responses 6 days ago

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    A man in good shape is nice,

    but if there's a great mind and sense of humor attached to it it is irresistible!
    ultimatebeanstalk ultimatebeanstalk 36-40, F 23 Responses Aug 2

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    It's true. If there were two people,

    one that was a true beauty but was stupid, or one that was... "meh" but was really clever, I'd definitely pick the clever one. It shows you how hard they work, if they pay attention at school and just a number of things. If they're clever, more often than not they are trying...
    JoshuaRants JoshuaRants 13-15, M Nov 18

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    I'd say I did a pretty good job

    for somebody going for a programming degree
    DorkyGuy90 DorkyGuy90 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I thought this was as good of an experience

    group as any to post this. Random men who have written no stories, no comments - nothing that gives me a glimpse in to who or how they are messaging me to say "Wat up?" should consider doing more than collecting friends and joining a thousand experience groups. You're more...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 48 Responses Sep 3

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    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 51 Responses Nov 13

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    Man's sharp mind makes him irresistible.

    Show me a man who talks with sense and surely I will admire him. A man's beautiful mind is really a turn on ....
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 36 Responses Jul 13

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    The most attractive man

    for ME is the one who is INTELLECTUALLY HANDSOME.
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm so glad to have finally found someone

    that has loads of both :). Absolutely amazingly stunning and captivating platypus you is ;)
    Axelerator3000 Axelerator3000 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Physical attraction is quite nice.

    But what's the use of muscles or a handsome face without brains to back it up? Just sayin.
    TheNerdYouLove TheNerdYouLove 31-35, F 38 Responses Aug 1

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    (Drawing attached) "The great gift of human

    beings is that we have the power of empathy"- Meryl Streep Pen, pencils, ink and charcoals on paper. 8.9cm x 6.5 cm Hope you like it.
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 25 Responses 6 days ago

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    (Drawing attached) It took me almost three

    days to finish this, ( last July) and one of the hardest. You can visit my deviantArt or my tumblr for more. "Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love." -Albert Einstein True love is not generated by our brain, it is a matter of our heart. Goodnight.
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 37 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sorry to say this. But

    if you wanna be a head surgeon or a famous surgeon please keep your attitude in check. Last time I had a talk with the head of surgeon , he was a kind humble man with a big heart and bigger compassion. And you're nothing like him. Wanna be head make sure you earn the respect...
    Amaze16 Amaze16 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    theres a guy in my school

    and hes so intelligent and so amazing and hes not that attractive but every time he talks i just want to listen to him forever hes so right with his words and he has so much so light in him he just cant see it he never smiles unless hes with a certain group a people in our...
    cookingaubrey cookingaubrey 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I literally find a new experience everyday on

    this site that shocks me more by the day. WTF. I just saw an "I want fat kids" page, and to my amazement, there were many experiences posted by people who quite seriously wanted to fatten up their children. Is that some sort of sick joke? I am so done, some people are that...
    urlaame urlaame 18-21, F 30 Responses Nov 1

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