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I Admire Wit and Intelligence

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    Men who talk with sense are cool.

    Men who can make me smile and laugh are coolest. 👍
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 17 Responses May 24, 2014

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    We live for those that wait

    for us all while we long for those that wrong for us.
    Milesfromyou Milesfromyou 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Gabster27 Gabster27 18-21, F Jan 19

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    Man's sharp mind makes him irresistible.

    Show me a man who talks with sense and surely I will admire him. A man's beautiful mind is really a turn on ....
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 35 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Dont bring a knife to a gun fight.

    ...as such dont come to me ill prepared and full of hesitation. In terms of wit and intelligence, sweetheart, this isnt even an arms race, im already at the finish line. Tell me what I won!
    SoCalKat SoCalKat 26-30, M 6 Responses Jan 4

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    I not only admire wit

    and intelligence, I find it highly attractive. To connect on a physical level is great, but to connect on a mental level too is far more rewarding. If you can combine the two, you are extremely lucky. What is better than an evening shared with someone that you can converse with...
    ThePhilogynist ThePhilogynist 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    It takes nothing to be good looking

    but it takes a lot for people to have wit and intelligence. I'm not just some pretty face who only looks at what's on the outside I look for what's on the inside. It's what matters the most. Everyone ages and looks fade.
    hugsandkisses26 hugsandkisses26 22-25, F 17 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I absolutely adore this group; much less

    spelling mistakes and grammatical errors in posts and comments. :D
    Reapixx Reapixx 22-25, M 27 Responses 4 days ago

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    In life, there is always going to be someone

    subjectively 'doing better' than you and if you judge yourself by those standards, you're never going to feel good about yourself. People will encounter different obstacles on their path to success and you can't truly judge your own worth by looking at someone leading a...
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 14 Responses Oct 27, 2014

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    I do not necessarily believe

    that there is a reason for everything. I do however believe we are given reason to at least 'regard' everything. Perhaps, therein lies the answer... We have it all backwards.. Therefore.. I suggest.. Paradoxically, it isn't up to us to get God, maybe it's the job of God...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    There's nothing more engaging

    than having a conversation with someone of mutual intellect.
    pxybella pxybella 41-45, F 19 Responses Jul 2, 2014

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    I find wit and intelligence

    such a turn on in a partner
    annierosi annierosi 51-55, F 9 Responses Jan 4

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    One of the hardest things

    for me to come to terms with is the fact that others will treat me however they want, regardless of how I treat them. I used to think that if I were kind, people would be kind back, which is partially true, but in reality, many end up taking kindness for granted, as if it were a...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 22

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    It's hard for people with a good moral

    conscience to accept that others might not have the same level of awareness. This is why I ruminate and obsess over how someone could knowingly treat me so poorly. Then again, surely they have a good moral conscience if they know what they're doing is wrong, and perhaps it is...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 43 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    And then he said something

    that made me realized and I said to myself .. " OMG, it's not the face but his intellect and smartness that make him so handsome.
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I admire men with balanced IQ

    and EQ. Men who won't easily get upset and most of all, men with kind and compassionate hearts. They are not so many but they're a treasure to keep. ❤️
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 17 Responses Aug 11, 2014

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    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Seduce my mind, and my body will follow suit.

    Nothing excites me more than raw attraction, an electrified conversation that stands my hairs on end. I want to feel like this smile on my face is impermeable, and I want laughter that erupts from my stomach. I want to feel electrified by your presence. A beautiful face shys in...
    bowlofsurreal bowlofsurreal 18-21, F 22 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I think I admire these qualities in people

    because I do not think I have much of them. Naturally I like to be around people that help me be part of a team. A good team has a balance of this and that. Since I have this, I seek out people who have that. Especially when it comes to picking an SO. I enjoy the company of...
    untamablekitty untamablekitty 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    The most attractive man

    for ME is the one who is INTELLECTUALLY HANDSOME.
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    SweeetKiester SweeetKiester 41-45, F 33 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a smart man!
    yourvoluptuousbaby yourvoluptuousbaby 46-50, F 21 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    I like people that can be funny

    when the time is right and smart enough to also have a good conversation with.
    kindlaura kindlaura 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 20

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    And the peaches and the mangos That you could

    sell for me... What do you think my brain is made for Is it just a container for the mind This great grey matter Sensei replied, what is your woman Is she just a container for the child That soft pink matter Cotton candy Majin Buu Close my eyes and fall into you My God she's...
    QuixoticConquistador QuixoticConquistador 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    Physical appearance does matter,

    usually the primary attractant. If wit and intellect are present as well, the attraction level skyrockets.
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to share because I have a friend here on

    EP whom embodies the kind of witty, intelligent person that anyone would want to be around. Foldedunfolding is a highly articulate, intelligent, artistic and witty woman. She is a kind of beautiful that is multidimensional and transcends mere appearance. Not just an...
    LEBsCreations LEBsCreations 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I like to think of myself

    as a smart person. I have been told that I am quick witted. Sarcasm is also a huge sign of intelligence. I really admire these traits in a person. Most of my friends are witty and practically geniuses in different kinds of smarts. I have some genius in street smarts, book smarts...
    MoMolicious93 MoMolicious93 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    It's one of those things you

    either have or you don't. If you have it you use it, if you don't then you wouldn't have gotten the point anyways. Then there are the really special ones.... I'd offer to match wits with you, though you appear to be unarmed.
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 1

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    Guys have told me that they love my witty

    and intelligent comebacks. But I've never met a guy I could say the same back. Never met a truly witty guy...
    izzi2011 izzi2011 18-21, F 49 Responses Jan 6

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    A sense of humor is so important.

    I'm watching some stand up on HBO and while the comic isn't what one may consider classically good looking, the wit and humor makes him attractive.
    been2 been2 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 6

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    There is really something to be said about

    people who can stimulate your mind. Yes, being drawn to people's looks is a part of life, but what keeps things interesting is what is in your brain.
    enviouseyes enviouseyes 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    I literally find a new experience everyday on

    this site that shocks me more by the day. WTF. I just saw an "I want fat kids" page, and to my amazement, there were many experiences posted by people who quite seriously wanted to fatten up their children. Is that some sort of sick joke? I am so done, some people are that...
    urlaame urlaame 18-21, F 31 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    45 Life Lessons, written by a 90 year old 1.

    Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short not to enjoy it. 4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will. 5. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need. 6. You don’t have to...
    LockieLeonard LockieLeonard 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    You to admire them because they are

    so rare. Finding them is like finding the chick from "50 Shades of Grey" - incredibly rare and you have to work like hell to prove to anyone that it really exist outside of a book or your imagination.
    jfar123 jfar123 41-45, M 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's nothing sexier

    than someone who can delve inside themselves and hold a conversation from their soul. I have no interest in superficiality. I can see the world and its surface, I have no need to talk about the weather. Show me something from the depths, the abyss so to speak...wow me with your...
    LostinAtown LostinAtown 31-35, F 40 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I had a crush on the funniest guy

    but he "got around" too much so I got over him by trying to beat him at every test.... Heart for weird comment for: you did something similar.
    HarleyMahLov HarleyMahLov 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I am starting this new thing called 'life of

    hope' which is where people can talk to me about thier problems confidently, and basically I give advice. I want to do this because I want to make a difference and change how people feel, well try anyway.. So this page is just for people to talk. I can be a friend to anyone. But...
    lifeofhope lifeofhope 16-17, F Jan 22

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    A witty and intelligent man/woman can be

    attractive and intimidating at the same time. It's so nice to have an intelligent and long conversation with someone that has knowledge on different topics; someone who can be fun and at the same time deep. Still, it can be so intimidating to find yourself totally lost and not...
    ayuayumi ayuayumi 18-21, F 19 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Nothing quite as attractive

    as an intelligent witty person.
    Myfairlady1 Myfairlady1 46-50, F 15 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    And a nice behind, which my wife has

    both a "smart" one, and a cute one. She has all four qualities, keeps me on my toes!
    pittdaddy pittdaddy 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There is nothing sexier

    than an intelligent man. There is however one caveat to this.... He must display humility and thoughtfulness. The man who is intelligent enough to respect life and values doesn't entertain the idea of cheating on a spouse, for example. This is precisely why I lost all respect...
    lorem7ipsum lorem7ipsum 36-40, F 38 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I didn't watch any TV last night

    and woke up feeling smarter today:)
    minnadt minnadt 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    It's sad. I know people don't mean any harm

    when they have a hard time believing I'm just a 16 year old girl on here. I know how I speak and know I am great with words. It's just maybe if this generation didn't act so ignorant maybe adults would expect a little more of us: thus being respected for who we are.
    UnderworldNymph UnderworldNymph 16-17, F 17 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    When you get to know someone ,

    all their physical characteristics start to disappear. You being to dwell in their energy , recognize the scent of their skin . You see only the essence of the person , not the shell . That's why you can't fall in love with their beauty or looks . You can lust after it , be...
    fiestychica fiestychica 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    People that care only about themselves

    and how much money they have or how beautiful is very unattractive for me. I like people who know allot about our world besides LOL and Starbucks and hashtags
    Lollipop948 Lollipop948 13-15, M 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Don't be sad when something bad happened.

    We all know that nothing stays the same forever. Things happened. However, problems arise when we become attached to the way things are. But sometimes we need to accept that life is a series of ever changing events and situations and new opportunities will present themselves to...
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2014

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    A man in good shape is nice,

    but if there's a great mind and sense of humor attached to it it is irresistible!
    ultimatebeanstalk ultimatebeanstalk 36-40, F 23 Responses Aug 2, 2014

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    Intelligence expands your horizons

    and perceptions. Wit keeps you on your toes and keeps you engaged. Together you have a recipe for euphoric enthrallment that makes for, to me, the best kind of relationships to have with other people. If you're someone who thinks they can offer this as much as I can, please send...
    ViewtifulMe ViewtifulMe 26-30, T 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Man's greatest weapon .

    .. His intellect 👍
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 19 Responses Sep 13, 2014

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    group as any to post this. Random men who have wr