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I Adore Smart Men

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    Wise, but not a smartass.

    Intelligent, but not proud. Smart, yet still humble. That is a man worth adoring ♥
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    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 4

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    piSAYERSmp piSAYERSmp 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    No need to be too wise.

    Just enough to guess my moods, feelings. thoughts. .
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 10

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    I would like to talk to single men my age.

    26-32 range. I tend to get along better with men than I woman. I'm a little too relaxed for some gals.
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Particularly if they are rich

    and well hung. :-)
    BarbarBabcox BarbarBabcox 36-40, F 19 Responses Sep 21

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    Smart men are the best.

    Who wants to sit around looking at someone pretty who is dumb as a bag of rocks! LOL
    formermartin81 formermartin81 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    They give me more ideas about this world we

    live in. They make me laugh. They can even criticize me (constructively). They introduce me to films, music, books, places, things I have never seen before.
    Alyeskaa Alyeskaa 26-30, F Dec 10

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    Define intelligence. It is something more

    than knowledge. Something including wisdom...
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    Nothing Sexier Than Wit And Charisma

    Nothing melts my heart quicker than a man who has a liberal dose of both these traits... don't get me wrong, I like men I find physically appealing on some level too but I could never love a handsome man who wasn't intellectually capable enough to hold his own in a discussion or...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I absolutely love and adore smart

    and intellectual males. I dislike boring and intelligent males. We have nothing in common so I ignore them like a plague.
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I surround myself around very smart men

    and women because I am a very smart or intellectual woman. Intellectual persons intrigue me and my mental abilities just keep flowing when talking to them. I love wit and a person with the ability to think on their feet because I do the same.
    heatherandbarbara heatherandbarbara 36-40, F 2 Responses May 3

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    that I do! a man who can challenge my mind has

    the keys to everything about me. ;)
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 10

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    because i like the challenge.

    .. and because brains are sexy.
    villagevixen villagevixen 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    cmia7 cmia7 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    Hay ladies I'm only smart in stem fields not

    liberal arts so any nerd girls out there I'm 17 and love engineering
    Youngnerd Youngnerd 16-17, M Oct 3

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    Meeting Of The Minds

    I am usually, let’s be totally honest and say always, attracted to lovers who have a HUGE brain. This comes in handy when I want to discuss some literary find or we get together with friends to play Trivial Pursuit.  I think I hang around with smart men sometimes in...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 95 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    I love to have witty convos with people.

    I love to be challenge intellectually. I love puns and sarcasm and people who just don't get it..... It's just not worth it.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F Oct 23

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    The "ideal" Man

    Yesterday evening a friend asked me what is ideal man. Uhm, I'm not the best person to write about it, because I can only speak for myself. But I dare to say that for me, the ideal man would be the one who takes initiative, able to have an open and diverse conversation, and the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    You melt me with your speech <3 You melt me

    with your knowledge <3 You melt me with your wisdom <3 You melt me..
    DiaLuz DiaLuz 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 15

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    Smart men know when to flip you over,

    when to use 2 fingers, and not to get any in your hair. Who DOESNT love a smart man??
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    lujocin lujocin 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    I Love Smart Men

    Not just love, but adore them. Something about a smart man is very amazing. I do not like when a man simply abdicate a lesson at all. But when they give the full detail of an astonishing lecture, or even a simple story with the utter most detail, it is great. Fantastic even!. I...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Always Have, Always Will

    They say when a girl is attracted to a guy it’s because he reminds her subconsciously of her father. Well, *blush-blush* I think all intelligent guys should veer clear of me! =P I love learning new things, discovering and understanding. I learn from a guy better than I...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 27 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    Since I Haven't Been Able To Find You, Soul Mate, I Have Decided To Write You A Letter.

    Dear Soul Mate, Forgive me for not using your actual name. It's not that I'm being impersonal or forgetful; I simply have no idea what it is. You see, we haven't met yet. Tell you what -- how ‘bout I just refer to you as Julie? I've always liked that name and I wouldn't...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    I like talking with men

    who can make meaningful conversation and from whom I can learn a thing or two. It's such a big turn on. :)
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    i really dont care about the looks,

    as long as i find him smart he will automatically look good for me. lol
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I have always enjoyed being around smart men;

    not an arrogant, wise-***, know-it-all, but a man with intelligence, common sense and wisdom. A man who can hold an intelligent conversation and stimulate my mind is attractive in my book. ;)
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    I even fell inlove with one.

    A Wall Street lawyer who said no woman had ever tickled his brain like the way I did, mentioning that I had an agile mind. There's no dull moment neither dead air. We laughed, we joked, we became mushy while talking about the mundane and all until he said we're soulmates. I did...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 22

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    Intelligence is attractive,

    I like a man to be bright and going somewhere. Obviously, that is relative to his aspirations but also to how he applies himself. This is always something a woman will consider in a man, his ambition is important like what he has to give, but also how he thinks. Narcissists...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    I can't stand people

    that can't speak properly or just are generally unintelligent. I'm a very smart person and I like to talk to a guy that's going to be on the same level or close to it. If the conversation isn't at least a bit challenging it won't hold my attention and I'll get bored.
    LifeIsAChoice LifeIsAChoice 13-15, F Oct 23

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    Smart Is Sexy

    I have dated enough good looking empty headed men to know that looks alone are not a turn on . Countless times I have sat there looking into a pair of handsome brown eyes or a perfect five o clock shadow and just have been bored to tears . I would find my mind wandering ,as...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 49 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    I Value Your Mind, Let Me See What's On The Inside.

    I value intelligence in general. I am a very smart woman. I am inquisitive and well spoken and I am proud of that, and so I look for that in a lover. I do however think it is misleading to say I find only intelligence in a raw state attractive. I find knowing about things like...
    RoselynnMagnolia RoselynnMagnolia 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    No You Don't

    The admiration of intelligent men is, for the most part, conditional. You may like intelligent men, but you probably like them more because women prefer controlling, emotionally distant, manipulative users. The difference between intelligent men and the regular, ignorant...
    FallaciesAppease FallaciesAppease 26-30, M 51 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    It's so strange how I'm attracted to them.

    Nerdy ones? Cute ones? The all not so attractive ones... I love their ways of thinking!
    curious4102 curious4102 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    Smart is what Smart does.

    When there Action is Smart. Not selfish or Biased. Not very many men could go beyond themselves and ACT without being Judged, Biased or Self Interest. I despise Clever or FOX Personality Men.
    paradisequeen paradisequeen 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    I want a guy that I can talk to

    and there are very few things that I can and like to talk about other than intellectual things
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    I am very proud of Violet, she is blooming into a wonderful mature young lady. Even though physically she isn't a lady at all, she has a very smart brain. One days ago my baby had...
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    Very funny.... A teacher was having a problem with a boy in her class of 3rd grade. The boy said 'Ma'am, I should be in 4th grade, I'm smarter than my sister and she's in the...
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