I Adore Smart Men

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    Someone who can not only stimulate me physically

    but mentally, that's something a girl can only dream of!
    EsmereldaWentz EsmereldaWentz
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    Wise, but not a smartass.

    Intelligent, but not proud. Smart, yet still humble. That is a man worth adoring ♥
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 29, 2014

    My husband is brilliant.

    It was one of the things that attracted me to him in the first place.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    Aug 24, 2015

    I can't stand people

    that can't speak properly or just are generally unintelligent. I'm a very smart person and I like to talk to a guy that's going to be on the same level or close to it. If the conversation isn't at least a bit challenging it won't hold my attention and I'll get bored.
    LifeIsAChoice LifeIsAChoice
    16-17, F
    Oct 23, 2014

    I simply want to meet a man

    that I won't get tired of no matter what. Someone I would love to argue with for the rest of my life. #JustSaying
    cocolov3 cocolov3
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2015
    drmery drmery
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Being intelligent and having the skills to hold

    an intelligent conversation is more important than looks will ever be. Intelligence will always trump vanity
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    It is seriously so attractive

    for a guy to talk to me, and tell me things I never knew. Whether it's random facts, or things they know how to do in general. It's kinda hot.
    lovedownunder lovedownunder
    18-21, F
    Jan 1, 2015

    I hate the way a guy will hold a conversation

    with a girl only to try to get into her pants. If the only thing you have on your mind is sex,then you are not capable of thinking much further. Start a conversation,make it meaningful and you will get more out of a girl.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015
    BambooChic BambooChic
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    Intelligence is so sexy.

    I'd rather hear a man create with his mouth rather than with his hands.
    RelayedDeaction RelayedDeaction
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 23, 2015

    Thinking before you speak,

    really pondering, tantalizing people with your thoughts, your mind. Someone who plays your conversation like a game of cat and mouse. Those are only the beginning perks of truly smart men.
    Yeahbaybey Yeahbaybey
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 25, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    i don't know if he's smart.

    .. but i like the way his brain werks.... i love his writing... theway he thinks.... but i do not want to meet him.... i'm afraid of him..
    TheaRhyss TheaRhyss
    31-35, F
    Nov 4, 2015
    Rockstar0125 Rockstar0125
    26-30, F
    49 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    I love having intellectual conversations with

    men Intelligence is sexy to me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    Talk science with me

    and I'll swoon.
    lovenlight77 lovenlight77
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Jan 1

    mostly I like the guy very kind,

    humble simple and responsible person
    gloryglory1984 gloryglory1984
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2015

    There's this guy in my class he's really smart.

    We studied once together and he was hella attractive. It's just what I like. Appear smart and I'll end up wanting you. 😋👍👍
    megantamba megantamba
    16-17, F
    Jan 1

    I like talking with men

    who can make meaningful conversation and from whom I can learn a thing or two. It's such a big turn on. :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 24, 2014

    One of my biggest turn ons is

    when I can have an intelligent conversation with a guy.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2015
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    Feb 4

    Write about your experience sadly my dear boy,

    You aren't very... You say you aren't avoiding me but how might I think otherwise' ? I'm no fool, I have eyes and I'm quite overboard with the observant factor btw. I am the FBI,so,.... Yes, I know of your new profile, and it doesn't matter how quiet and careful you sneak...
    sofuckenbrokennow sofuckenbrokennow
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2015
    cmia7 cmia7
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 28, 2014

    because i like the challenge.

    .. and because brains are sexy.
    villagevixen villagevixen
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2014

    There's absolutely nothing better

    than debating back and forth with a guy who is just so passionate and heartfelt about the topic. Major turn on
    Cleopatra05 Cleopatra05
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    Meeting Of The Minds

    I am usually, let’s be totally honest and say always, attracted to lovers who have a HUGE brain. This comes in handy when I want to discuss some literary find or we get together with friends to play Trivial Pursuit.  I think I hang around with smart men sometimes in...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    92 Responses Nov 11, 2009

    I like men who make me think,

    who offer new experiences and take control!
    giggletree giggletree
    41-45, F
    Mar 6
    Scorpio4hire Scorpio4hire
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 20, 2015

    The way you think catches my attention more

    than the way you look....and it holds it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 27, 2015

    Smart men interest me.

    They are quite rare, which makes it exciting to discover them. They attract me, which is something that is so little in me these days. Not much catches my attention. A strong debate or a heated discussion, a guy that can take my competitive discussions, my weird...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2015

    They give me more ideas about this world we

    live in. They make me laugh. They can even criticize me (constructively). They introduce me to films, music, books, places, things I have never seen before.
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2014

    Smart men know when to flip you over,

    when to use 2 fingers, and not to get any in your hair. Who DOESNT love a smart man??
    StellaNoir StellaNoir
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2014
    mimiromy mimiromy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 17

    I would love to chat with

    and get to know a handsome 40-50yr old who is smart, driven and handsome. Are you out there?
    ladybell1 ladybell1
    41-45, F
    3 Responses May 10, 2015

    OH MY GOD!!! Smart men are the sexist men ever.

    It's the fact that these men spend their time to be successful and they educate themselves it's such an admiring and attractive attribute. When a guy tells me how he wants to go into politics, physics, astrology, or become a mathematician or even be a teacher I just admire their...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 3, 2015

    Men who know how sensitive

    and fragile women are... are so ADORABLE. :-)
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09
    46-50, F
    4 Responses May 23, 2015

    I've found an amazing,

    smart, and sweet man. We are both getting a second chance at love. He's accomplished in his field because he looks at things and says "Wait. I can do that better!" And he does. Some girls would probably be bored with him- he wants the periodic table as a shower curtain, and is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 27, 2015

    I will refuse to date someone

    if he doesn't know the difference between there, their, and they're.
    sighselly sighselly
    13-15, F
    7 Responses Nov 4, 2015

    that I do! a man who can challenge my mind has

    the keys to everything about me. ;)
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋💋❤️❤️
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 10, 2015

    My EX boyfriend is a smart guy

    who nows study in a well known university. I broke up with him telling him I dont feel the same way but the real reason is because I want him to pursue more in his passion and also that he will not have limits in his opportunities because of me.
    ellaxperience ellaxperience
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    Particularly if they are rich

    and well hung. :-)
    BarbarBabcox BarbarBabcox
    36-40, F
    19 Responses Sep 21, 2014

    I even fell inlove with one.

    A Wall Street lawyer who said no woman had ever tickled his brain like the way I did, mentioning that I had an agile mind. There's no dull moment neither dead air. We laughed, we joked, we became mushy while talking about the mundane and all until he said we're soulmates. I did...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jul 22, 2014

    I absolutely love it

    when they are eager to share knowledge that is useful to me.
    fla0range fla0range
    31-35, F
    Jun 11, 2015

    I have always enjoyed being around smart men;

    not an arrogant, wise-***, know-it-all, but a man with intelligence, common sense and wisdom. A man who can hold an intelligent conversation and stimulate my mind is attractive in my book. ;)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

    Smart Is Sexy

    I have dated enough good looking empty headed men to know that looks alone are not a turn on . Countless times I have sat there looking into a pair of handsome brown eyes or a perfect five o clock shadow and just have been bored to tears . I would find my mind wandering ,as...
    softkitti softkitti
    22-25, F
    49 Responses Oct 22, 2009

    A smart man is like a cake.

    One layer or two layers of the best ingredients. Intelligence, communication, wit, insight, and caring. Then comes the icing. Sometimes it’s not perfect looking but it doesn’t matter. It’s still going to taste good. Decorations, whipped cream, fruit…all nice extras but...
    Ravenwind43 Ravenwind43
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2015

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