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I Adore Smart Men

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    They give me more ideas about this world we

    live in. They make me laugh. They can even criticize me (constructively). They introduce me to films, music, books, places, things I have never seen before.
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F Dec 10, 2014

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    I can't stand people

    that can't speak properly or just are generally unintelligent. I'm a very smart person and I like to talk to a guy that's going to be on the same level or close to it. If the conversation isn't at least a bit challenging it won't hold my attention and I'll get bored.
    LifeIsAChoice LifeIsAChoice 13-15, F Oct 23, 2014

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    No You Don't

    The admiration of intelligent men is, for the most part, conditional. You may like intelligent men, but you probably like them more because women prefer controlling, emotionally distant, manipulative users. The difference between intelligent men and the regular, ignorant...
    FallaciesAppease FallaciesAppease 26-30, M 51 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Nothing makes me interested in a man more

    than the ability to have an intellectual conversation, especially if it goes against common ideals and ways of thinking. Having long conversations is incredibly thrilling when the topic is right.
    WeMermaid WeMermaid 18-21, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I simply want to meet a man

    that I won't get tired of no matter what. Someone I would love to argue with for the rest of my life. #JustSaying
    cocolov3 cocolov3 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    No need to be too wise.

    Just enough to guess my moods, feelings. thoughts. .
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    One of my biggest turn ons is

    when I can have an intelligent conversation with a guy.
    Kathryn2093 Kathryn2093 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    There's nothing more

    than a man who can keep up a conversation and be intelligent at the same time
    PacificWanderer PacificWanderer 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 2

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    The way you think catches my attention more

    than the way you look....and it holds it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 27

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    Particularly if they are rich

    and well hung. :-)
    BarbarBabcox BarbarBabcox 36-40, F 19 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    Smart men are the best.

    Who wants to sit around looking at someone pretty who is dumb as a bag of rocks! LOL
    formermartin81 formermartin81 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    I have always enjoyed being around smart men;

    not an arrogant, wise-***, know-it-all, but a man with intelligence, common sense and wisdom. A man who can hold an intelligent conversation and stimulate my mind is attractive in my book. ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    I like talking with men

    who can make meaningful conversation and from whom I can learn a thing or two. It's such a big turn on. :)
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 24, 2014

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    I even fell inlove with one.

    A Wall Street lawyer who said no woman had ever tickled his brain like the way I did, mentioning that I had an agile mind. There's no dull moment neither dead air. We laughed, we joked, we became mushy while talking about the mundane and all until he said we're soulmates. I did...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I Love Smart Men

    Not just love, but adore them. Something about a smart man is very amazing. I do not like when a man simply abdicate a lesson at all. But when they give the full detail of an astonishing lecture, or even a simple story with the utter most detail, it is great. Fantastic even!. I...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    Smart Is Sexy

    I have dated enough good looking empty headed men to know that looks alone are not a turn on . Countless times I have sat there looking into a pair of handsome brown eyes or a perfect five o clock shadow and just have been bored to tears . I would find my mind wandering ,as...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 49 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    Smart men know when to flip you over,

    when to use 2 fingers, and not to get any in your hair. Who DOESNT love a smart man??
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    You melt me with your speech <3 You melt me

    with your knowledge <3 You melt me with your wisdom <3 You melt me..
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    cmia7 cmia7 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    I absolutely love and adore smart

    and intellectual males. I dislike boring and intelligent males. We have nothing in common so I ignore them like a plague.
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2014

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    because i like the challenge.

    .. and because brains are sexy.
    villagevixen villagevixen 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2014

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    OH MY GOD!!! Smart men are the sexist men ever.

    It's the fact that these men spend their time to be successful and they educate themselves it's such an admiring and attractive attribute. When a guy tells me how he wants to go into politics, physics, astrology, or become a mathematician or even be a teacher I just admire their...
    glomilk glomilk 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    Meeting Of The Minds

    I am usually, let’s be totally honest and say always, attracted to lovers who have a HUGE brain. This comes in handy when I want to discuss some literary find or we get together with friends to play Trivial Pursuit.  I think I hang around with smart men sometimes in...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 95 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Wise, but not a smartass.

    Intelligent, but not proud. Smart, yet still humble. That is a man worth adoring ♄
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    I do adore smart men-sans ego.

    I don't tolerate ego's well. I have found men with ego's tend to lack empathy or compassion. Just my two cents.
    H3al3d H3al3d 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Hay ladies I'm only smart in stem fields not

    liberal arts so any nerd girls out there I'm 17 and love engineering
    Youngnerd Youngnerd 16-17, M Oct 3, 2014

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    Smart is what Smart does.

    When there Action is Smart. Not selfish or Biased. Not very many men could go beyond themselves and ACT without being Judged, Biased or Self Interest. I despise Clever or FOX Personality Men.
    paradisequeen paradisequeen 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I'm attracted to the intellect of a smart man.

    I just wish I could find one that I could learn from. I think that is what is missing from my life. I've been craving a deep conversation. One that makes me really think.
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I hate the way a guy will hold a conversation

    with a girl only to try to get into her pants. If the only thing you have on your mind is sex,then you are not capable of thinking much further. Start a conversation,make it meaningful and you will get more out of a girl.
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    that I do! a man who can challenge my mind has

    the keys to everything about me. ;)
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    Intelligence is so sexy.

    I'd rather hear a man create with his mouth rather than with his hands.
    RelayedDeaction RelayedDeaction 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    Intelligence is attractive,

    I like a man to be bright and going somewhere. Obviously, that is relative to his aspirations but also to how he applies himself. This is always something a woman will consider in a man, his ambition is important like what he has to give, but also how he thinks. Narcissists...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    I love to have witty convos with people.

    I love to be challenge intellectually. I love puns and sarcasm and people who just don't get it..... It's just not worth it.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 18-21, F Oct 23, 2014

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    I would like to talk to single men my age.

    26-32 range. I tend to get along better with men than I woman. I'm a little too relaxed for some gals.
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2014

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    It is seriously so attractive

    for a guy to talk to me, and tell me things I never knew. Whether it's random facts, or things they know how to do in general. It's kinda hot.
    lovedownunder lovedownunder 16-17, F Jan 1

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    I would prefer the title to be 'I adore

    *intelligent* men'. It sounds more mature, more intelligent. But I do adore men who challenge everything they are told instead of blindly accepting it. Those who think abstractly, and prefer deep conversations over small, meaningless chit-chat. They are so hard to come by. But...
    anonymouslymysterious anonymouslymysterious 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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