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I Adore Smart Men

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    And I Can't Stand Them Any Other Way - To me, a non-smart man is the biggest turn off in all the world.  A man who is smart and can converse shows me several things. He can...
    blackdress blackdress 51-55, F 20 Responses Feb 9, 2010

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    I Value Your Mind, Let Me See What's On The Inside. - I value intelligence in general. I am a very smart woman. I am inquisitive and well spoken and I am proud of that, and so I...
    RoselynnMagnolia RoselynnMagnolia 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    I can't seem to love or respect a man unless he is at least somewhat intelligent. If you can barely string a sentence together, I'm probably not interested.
    lookwhaticando lookwhaticando 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I Enjoyed Mark Gungor's Theory On The 'nothing Box' -   I shared this with everyone and they loved it! Does anyone knows his contact, I like to be his circle of fans...
    sugarnspice4u sugarnspice4u 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2010

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    Smart Is Sexy - I have dated enough good looking empty headed men to know that looks alone are not a turn on . Countless times I have sat there looking into a pair of handsome...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 49 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    Always Have, Always Will - They say when a girl is attracted to a guy it’s because he reminds her subconsciously of her father. Well, *blush-blush* I think all intelligent...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 27 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    Michio Kaku - I adore him. He takes complex issues and gently and simply explains with the utmost coherence. For example, time travel is often debated and declared...
    imathinkin imathinkin 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2010

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    Admirable - I admire them by simply saying the right words They are so deep, intense, always make sense I won't stop reading their minds. They make me see vivid colors They are...
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    Yes. - This is like the looks vs smarts thing I write but I CANNOT GET OVER THIS!!!!! Men that have 'the' intelligence are extremely sexy! Also, I say that it is a plus when they...
    CowgirlMagic CowgirlMagic 18-21, F Nov 26, 2010

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    I really want to talk to someone smart and kind on here. Intelligence is sexy.
    Pandacchi Pandacchi 18-21, M Dec 27, 2013

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    Mister Smarty Pants - Yes I do adore smart and wise men, for example great minds like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, and even Jim Morrison. Because we all know Jim Morrison was a Rock and...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Feb 1, 2013

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    Domains Of Intelligence - I have a very close friend who has 3 doctorate degrees, he is a brilliant, engaging man. I can talk to him for hours about psychopathology and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 29, 2009

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    Smart men know when to flip you over, when to use 2 fingers, and not to get any in your hair. Who DOESNT love a smart man??
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    4th Sept 2010 - These dates are important to me They are: 14th November 2009 4th Dec 2009 20th Mac 2010 28 Mac 2010 1 May 2010 7 May 2010 8 May 2010 21 May 2010 6nd June 2010 11th...
    sugarnspice4u sugarnspice4u 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 4, 2010

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    A Seasoned Gardener.... - A seasoned gardener knows things A seasoned gardener knows when to plant A seasoned gardener knows where to plant A seasoned gardener tills the ground...
    openwindows openwindows 41-45, F Jan 17, 2013

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    Smart But Not Too Cocky - I adore smart men, especially those into arts, music and humanities. It revs me just nicely....long discussions into the night over alcohol or tea in the...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    Smart Or Wise? - I believe I was selective and chose only smart men. But those men were anything but wise. I believed I was smart. Now I think I am just not a wise woman. Here is...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 1 Response May 7, 2011

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    Intelligence Is a Huge Turn On. - Men who have a good sense of who they are and can discuss any topic with an open mind really get me going.  I love intelligent humor in a man...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    No You Don't - The admiration of intelligent men is, for the most part, conditional. You may like intelligent men, but you probably like them more because women prefer controlling...
    FallaciesAppease FallaciesAppease 26-30, M 51 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    His Mind Is The Cherry On Top... - I simply adore intellectual guys, the way in which they express themselves is simply divine and the cultured lifestyle they bring with them makes...
    romantik romantik 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2010

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    It's Not Enough... - ...to connect physically...   emotionally...   I need to connect intellectually too... Someone said recently that so much of sex is...
    FriendofPromise FriendofPromise 51-55, F 10 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    E=mc2 - There is something about a man who can hold a conversation, but there's a whole lot more to a man who holds one while challenging you intellectually as well. I can only...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 31, 2010

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    Fuddy Duddy Charmers - A man who knows a lot about everyday things..how to do this and that. A jack of all trades.He's trustworthy and dependable as far as my experiences go.Men...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Smart Men - Smart men,I adore 'em,You should too.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Sep 1, 2012

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    Nothing Sexier Than Wit And Charisma - Nothing melts my heart quicker than a man who has a liberal dose of both these traits... don't get me wrong, I like men I find physically...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    And mine is extreme intelligent and has my adoration.
    littlebikiechick littlebikiechick 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    A Mental Affair - Intelligence in a man is like a magnet; it draws me in and refuses to let go.  I discovered pretty early on that I prefer to be the *dumber* one in the...
    Stephalump Stephalump 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    I really do adore a guy who knows basic knowledge. A guy who likes science , math , a history buff , someone who reads and someone who had proper grammar. I like men who aren't...
    CrushOnPhilBrooks CrushOnPhilBrooks 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    Good Night, My Love - Good Night, My Love I’ve lived my life as a miser --- you know: “He loves only Gold”. However, when I heard Gloria Estefan’s interpretation of...
    jim3130 jim3130 56-60 May 8, 2012

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    Gods Gift! -      You heard it right, and they are!  :) I enjoy sitting down and listening to a man who can enjoy talking about not only what is ...
    DraygenD DraygenD 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2010

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    Few Things Are Sexier - than a man with a well-endowed brain.  He becomes even more enchanting when he is committed to using his abilities to contribute to helping...
    Intangible Intangible 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    I find intelligence a major must-have in a relationship.. And smart men are attractive.
    SyddGraace SyddGraace 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 29

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    My Husband - He is so smart. Many people judge him on his looks and do not perceive him as intelligent, but he is. I feel sorry for him. He works so hard at two low paying...
    melymedina melymedina 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2008

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    Since I Haven't Been Able To Find You, Soul Mate, I Have Decided To Write You A Letter. - Dear Soul Mate, Forgive me for not using your actual name. It's not that I'm being...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Needle Me - Needle me with your scintillating words, and leave me wet slowly begging....
    lookingwindow lookingwindow 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    The "ideal" Man - Yesterday evening a friend asked me what is ideal man. Uhm, I'm not the best person to write about it, because I can only speak for myself. But I dare...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    I Find It So Sexy - My husband is an extremely smart man. I remember when we first met we began to talk about the books we read and he just started to tell me the long list of...
    crispycotton crispycotton 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2010

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    Wherefore Needest the Faerie? - Because they are... Fashionably intense. Vigorously quick. Practically shrewd. Calculatingly crafty. Unusually original. Brilliantly interesting...
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 16 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    My Mannnn. - He is very smart, he went to college for accounting but it really bores him. He actually works in a warehouse as an Inventory Control Specialist at the moment, I think...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    I Love Smart Men - Not just love, but adore them. Something about a smart man is very amazing. I do not like when a man simply abdicate a lesson at all. But when they give the full...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Smarties - By smart you mean either well dressed or intelligent. Both are adorable but the less smart in both senses can be just as attractive.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Sep 28, 2010

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    Yes indeed...always attractive when a man has sense and knows what he's talking about.
    twisteduniverse twisteduniverse 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    The Note Written To The Smartest Man I Ever Met....yet....didn't Know - Maybe? - How does one ever "know" anything? I HOPE i didn't offend my favorite warm soft warm eyes that...
    hiyaa2010 hiyaa2010 31-35 3 Responses Apr 7, 2010

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    My Guy - What makes him the cutest is matching wits!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2013

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    Smart men... They're so much better than dumb men... And if they're attractive too... Hubba-hubba ding-ding!
    MrAwesomeKyle MrAwesomeKyle 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    I like really smart men with big brain and they will challenge me to the core.I want a smart guy to procreate with sometimes looks it is not what it is all about.
    uzuri84 uzuri84 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Even though I am married, I have an open marriage. I am currently dating a young 21 year old black male and having sex with him as well. I love a well endowed BBC with lots of...
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    Has your age ever stopped you from dating a guy? Maybe you have found yourself attempting to date a guy who’s older or younger than you? How can you deal if there is an age...
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    The Favorable Decision awarded Melindo Persi $21,000.The clothing retailer also lately announced Middlesbrough model Josh Crow, 19, as being the Face of Socialstore.But TOMS Pop...
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    Dating an older guy can be flat out awesome. Something about capturing the attention of an older man just makes you feel so damn special! They’re more refined and experienced...
    GiuseppeGisriel GiuseppeGisriel 41-45, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Yes I do...They are one of the most loving,caring,passionate and beautilful creatations that God has put on this earth.Whether you know it or not.Women can endur more than us men...
    LadyPleazer98 LadyPleazer98 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    THE MODLY PEACHES "Anyone Else But You" You're a part-time lover and a full-time friend, The monkey on your back is the latest trend. I don't see what anyone can see in anyone...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F Mar 24

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