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I Adore Smart Men

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    I have always enjoyed being around smart men;

    not an arrogant, wise-***, know-it-all, but a man with intelligence, common sense and wisdom. A man who can hold an intelligent conversation and stimulate my mind is attractive in my book. ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 31

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    piSAYERSmp piSAYERSmp 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Always Have, Always Will

    They say when a girl is attracted to a guy it’s because he reminds her subconsciously of her father. Well, *blush-blush* I think all intelligent guys should veer clear of me! =P I love learning new things, discovering and understanding. I learn from a guy better than I...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 27 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    Nothing Sexier Than Wit And Charisma

    Nothing melts my heart quicker than a man who has a liberal dose of both these traits... don't get me wrong, I like men I find physically appealing on some level too but I could never love a handsome man who wasn't intellectually capable enough to hold his own in a discussion or...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I would like to talk to single men my age.

    26-32 range. I tend to get along better with men than I woman. I'm a little too relaxed for some gals.
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Smart men know when to flip you over,

    when to use 2 fingers, and not to get any in your hair. Who DOESNT love a smart man??
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I absolutely love and adore smart

    and intellectual males. I dislike boring and intelligent males. We have nothing in common so I ignore them like a plague.
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    cmia7 cmia7 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Smart men... They're

    so much better than dumb men... And if they're attractive too... Hubba-hubba ding-ding!
    MrAwesomeKyle MrAwesomeKyle 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    lujocin lujocin 31-35, M Jun 17

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    Intelligence Is a Huge Turn On.

    Men who have a good sense of who they are and can discuss any topic with an open mind really get me going.  I love intelligent humor in a man but also love it when I can get silly with them and share laughter.  Men who have a quest for knowledge are fascinating. ...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Smart is what Smart does.

    When there Action is Smart. Not selfish or Biased. Not very many men could go beyond themselves and ACT without being Judged, Biased or Self Interest. I despise Clever or FOX Personality Men.
    paradisequeen paradisequeen 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    My Guy

    What makes him the cutest is matching wits!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2013

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    I like talking with men

    who can make meaningful conversation and from whom I can learn a thing or two. It's such a big turn on. :)
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    In The Mind ...

    It all starts in the mind afterall ... a smart man is half way there ... I love someone who can use clever words to seduce me ... spoken or written lol ... I'm not fussy. It's a kind of sport afterall ... a game where you both know you'll both win in the end ... the best kind...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    I Love Smart Men

    Not just love, but adore them. Something about a smart man is very amazing. I do not like when a man simply abdicate a lesson at all. But when they give the full detail of an astonishing lecture, or even a simple story with the utter most detail, it is great. Fantastic even!. I...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    It's so strange how I'm attracted to them.

    Nerdy ones? Cute ones? The all not so attractive ones... I love their ways of thinking!
    curious4102 curious4102 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Smart men are the best.

    Who wants to sit around looking at someone pretty who is dumb as a bag of rocks! LOL
    formermartin81 formermartin81 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I Value Your Mind, Let Me See What's On The Inside.

    I value intelligence in general. I am a very smart woman. I am inquisitive and well spoken and I am proud of that, and so I look for that in a lover. I do however think it is misleading to say I find only intelligence in a raw state attractive. I find knowing about things like...
    RoselynnMagnolia RoselynnMagnolia 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    I even fell inlove with one.

    A Wall Street lawyer who said no woman had ever tickled his brain like the way I did, mentioning that I had an agile mind. There's no dull moment neither dead air. We laughed, we joked, we became mushy while talking about the mundane and all until he said we're soulmates. I did...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Wherefore Needest the Faerie?

    Because they are... Fashionably intense. Vigorously quick. Practically shrewd. Calculatingly crafty. Unusually original. Brilliantly interesting. Sagaciously cunning. Animatedly clever. Amusingly witty...   And because... They simply make the faerie's heart melt. Oh... where art...
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 16 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 4

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    Smart Is Sexy

    I have dated enough good looking empty headed men to know that looks alone are not a turn on . Countless times I have sat there looking into a pair of handsome brown eyes or a perfect five o clock shadow and just have been bored to tears . I would find my mind wandering ,as...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 50 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    I surround myself around very smart men

    and women because I am a very smart or intellectual woman. Intellectual persons intrigue me and my mental abilities just keep flowing when talking to them. I love wit and a person with the ability to think on their feet because I do the same.
    heatherandbarbara heatherandbarbara 36-40, F 1 Response May 3

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    laubrown1 laubrown1 18-21, F May 5

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    I really want to talk to someone smart

    and kind on here. Intelligence is sexy.
    Pandacchi Pandacchi 18-21, M Dec 27, 2013

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    No You Don't

    The admiration of intelligent men is, for the most part, conditional. You may like intelligent men, but you probably like them more because women prefer controlling, emotionally distant, manipulative users. The difference between intelligent men and the regular, ignorant...
    FallaciesAppease FallaciesAppease 26-30, M 51 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Particularly if they are rich

    and well hung. :-)
    BarbarBabcox BarbarBabcox 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    because i like the challenge.

    .. and because brains are sexy.
    villagevixen villagevixen 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    I really do adore a guy

    who knows basic knowledge. A guy who likes science , math , a history buff , someone who reads and someone who had proper grammar. I like men who aren't immature , & stupid. Those are the guys who would have my attention!
    CrushOnPhilBrooks CrushOnPhilBrooks 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Admirable

    I admire them by simply saying the right words They are so deep, intense, always make sense I won't stop reading their minds. They make me see vivid colors They are like shopping stores Where I can buy free life lessons They give good reasons Most of the time they are men...
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    i really dont care about the looks,

    as long as i find him smart he will automatically look good for me. lol
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    And mine is extreme intelligent

    and has my adoration.
    Littlebikiechick Littlebikiechick 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    htheart htheart 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    The "ideal" Man

    Yesterday evening a friend asked me what is ideal man. Uhm, I'm not the best person to write about it, because I can only speak for myself. But I dare to say that for me, the ideal man would be the one who takes initiative, able to have an open and diverse conversation, and the...
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    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Jun 20

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    Give me a smart man to talk to any day over

    some pretty face and body. The time you spend with an intelligent man is so much more rewarding than hearing someone just talk about themselves.
    wantsumluvn wantsumluvn 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I want a guy that I can talk to

    and there are very few things that I can and like to talk about other than intellectual things
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F Jun 7

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    Wise, but not a smartass.

    Intelligent, but not proud. Smart, yet still humble. That is a man worth adoring ♥
    MaydenV MaydenV 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Fuddy Duddy Charmers

    A man who knows a lot about everyday things..how to do this and that. A jack of all trades.He's trustworthy and dependable as far as my experiences go.Men like that are fun to talk to.I don't care if they're fuddy duddy or not, I love the personality of a down to earth smart man...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Define intelligence. It is something more

    than knowledge. Something including wisdom...
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Meeting Of The Minds

    I am usually, let’s be totally honest and say always, attracted to lovers who have a HUGE brain. This comes in handy when I want to discuss some literary find or we get together with friends to play Trivial Pursuit.  I think I hang around with smart men sometimes in...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 95 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Since I Haven't Been Able To Find You, Soul Mate, I Have Decided To Write You A Letter.

    Dear Soul Mate, Forgive me for not using your actual name. It's not that I'm being impersonal or forgetful; I simply have no idea what it is. You see, we haven't met yet. Tell you what -- how ‘bout I just refer to you as Julie? I've always liked that name and I wouldn't...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Few Things Are Sexier

    than a man with a well-endowed brain.  He becomes even more enchanting when he is committed to using his abilities to contribute to helping improve humanity, the enviornment, science, or global resources. 
    Intangible Intangible 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    I always seem to be a smartass to everyone, if someone asks "what's up?" I reply with "the sky". Do you get me?
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