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I Adore Smart Men

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    The "ideal" Man

    Yesterday evening a friend asked me what is ideal man. Uhm, I'm not the best person to write about it, because I can only speak for myself. But I dare to say that for me, the ideal man would be the one who takes initiative, able to have an open and diverse conversation, and the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    Smart men... They're

    so much better than dumb men... And if they're attractive too... Hubba-hubba ding-ding!
    MrAwesomeKyle MrAwesomeKyle 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Needle Me

    Needle me with your scintillating words, and leave me wet slowly begging....
    lookingwindow lookingwindow 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    Define intelligence. It is something more

    than knowledge. Something including wisdom...
    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    It's so strange how I'm attracted to them.

    Nerdy ones? Cute ones? The all not so attractive ones... I love their ways of thinking!
    curious4102 curious4102 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Intelligence Is a Huge Turn On.

    Men who have a good sense of who they are and can discuss any topic with an open mind really get me going.  I love intelligent humor in a man but also love it when I can get silly with them and share laughter.  Men who have a quest for knowledge are fascinating. ...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2009

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    Smart But Not Too Cocky

    I adore smart men, especially those into arts, music and humanities. It revs me just nicely....long discussions into the night over alcohol or tea in the bath and natural highs. Mmmm. It arouses all six senses, they are a true erotic and intellectual Heaven. I just don't like...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 25, 2008

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    i really dont care about the looks,

    as long as i find him smart he will automatically look good for me. lol
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    A Seasoned Gardener....

    A seasoned gardener knows things A seasoned gardener knows when to plant A seasoned gardener knows where to plant A seasoned gardener tills the ground till it's quality is prime. A seasoned gardener knows his seed A seasoned gardener knows when to weed A seasoned gardener is...
    openwindows openwindows 41-45, F Jan 17, 2013

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    Admirable

    I admire them by simply saying the right words They are so deep, intense, always make sense I won't stop reading their minds. They make me see vivid colors They are like shopping stores Where I can buy free life lessons They give good reasons Most of the time they are men...
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    And mine is extreme intelligent

    and has my adoration.
    Littlebikiechick Littlebikiechick 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 30

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    Fuddy Duddy Charmers

    A man who knows a lot about everyday things..how to do this and that. A jack of all trades.He's trustworthy and dependable as far as my experiences go.Men like that are fun to talk to.I don't care if they're fuddy duddy or not, I love the personality of a down to earth smart man...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Always Have, Always Will

    They say when a girl is attracted to a guy it’s because he reminds her subconsciously of her father. Well, *blush-blush* I think all intelligent guys should veer clear of me! =P I love learning new things, discovering and understanding. I learn from a guy better than I...
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 27 Responses Mar 15, 2010

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    In The Mind ...

    It all starts in the mind afterall ... a smart man is half way there ... I love someone who can use clever words to seduce me ... spoken or written lol ... I'm not fussy. It's a kind of sport afterall ... a game where you both know you'll both win in the end ... the best kind...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 7 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    Good Night, My Love

    Good Night, My Love I’ve lived my life as a miser --- you know: “He loves only Gold”. However, when I heard Gloria Estefan’s interpretation of: “Good Night, My love” ---- What beautiful music and lyrics --- and the best interpretation I’ve ever heard. I’ve...
    jim3130 jim3130 56-60 May 8, 2012

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    because i like the challenge.

    .. and because brains are sexy.
    villagevixen villagevixen 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    Since I Haven't Been Able To Find You, Soul Mate, I Have Decided To Write You A Letter.

    Dear Soul Mate, Forgive me for not using your actual name. It's not that I'm being impersonal or forgetful; I simply have no idea what it is. You see, we haven't met yet. Tell you what -- how ‘bout I just refer to you as Julie? I've always liked that name and I wouldn't...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    Few Things Are Sexier

    than a man with a well-endowed brain.  He becomes even more enchanting when he is committed to using his abilities to contribute to helping improve humanity, the enviornment, science, or global resources. 
    Intangible Intangible 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 21, 2009

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    Give me a smart man to talk to any day over

    some pretty face and body. The time you spend with an intelligent man is so much more rewarding than hearing someone just talk about themselves.
    wantsumluvn wantsumluvn 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I even fell inlove with one.

    A Wall Street lawyer who said no woman had ever tickled his brain like the way I did, mentioning that I had an agile mind. There's no dull moment neither dead air. We laughed, we joked, we became mushy while talking about the mundane and all until he said we're soulmates. I did...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Guy

    What makes him the cutest is matching wits!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2013

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    Smart Men

    Smart men,I adore 'em,You should too.
    storywriter2 storywriter2 46-50 Sep 1, 2012

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    Wherefore Needest the Faerie?

    Because they are... Fashionably intense. Vigorously quick. Practically shrewd. Calculatingly crafty. Unusually original. Brilliantly interesting. Sagaciously cunning. Animatedly clever. Amusingly witty...   And because... They simply make the faerie's heart melt. Oh... where art...
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 16 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    Mister Smarty Pants

    Yes I do adore smart and wise men, for example great minds like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, and even Jim Morrison. Because we all know Jim Morrison was a Rock and Roll genius, yep indeed.And this was my story
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Feb 1, 2013

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    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Jun 20

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    I want a guy that I can talk to

    and there are very few things that I can and like to talk about other than intellectual things
    Rachlm214 Rachlm214 16-17, F Jun 7

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    Smart men are the best.

    Who wants to sit around looking at someone pretty who is dumb as a bag of rocks! LOL
    formermartin81 formermartin81 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    Nothing Sexier Than Wit And Charisma

    Nothing melts my heart quicker than a man who has a liberal dose of both these traits... don't get me wrong, I like men I find physically appealing on some level too but I could never love a handsome man who wasn't intellectually capable enough to hold his own in a discussion or...
    ForgottenMuse ForgottenMuse 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I really do adore a guy

    who knows basic knowledge. A guy who likes science , math , a history buff , someone who reads and someone who had proper grammar. I like men who aren't immature , & stupid. Those are the guys who would have my attention!
    CrushOnPhilBrooks CrushOnPhilBrooks 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    cmia7 cmia7 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    piSAYERSmp piSAYERSmp 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    No You Don't

    The admiration of intelligent men is, for the most part, conditional. You may like intelligent men, but you probably like them more because women prefer controlling, emotionally distant, manipulative users. The difference between intelligent men and the regular, ignorant...
    FallaciesAppease FallaciesAppease 26-30, M 51 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Smart is what Smart does.

    When there Action is Smart. Not selfish or Biased. Not very many men could go beyond themselves and ACT without being Judged, Biased or Self Interest. I despise Clever or FOX Personality Men.
    paradisequeen paradisequeen 41-45, F 50 mins ago

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    I Value Your Mind, Let Me See What's On The Inside.

    I value intelligence in general. I am a very smart woman. I am inquisitive and well spoken and I am proud of that, and so I look for that in a lover. I do however think it is misleading to say I find only intelligence in a raw state attractive. I find knowing about things like...
    RoselynnMagnolia RoselynnMagnolia 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 5, 2013

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    I really want to talk to someone smart

    and kind on here. Intelligence is sexy.
    Pandacchi Pandacchi 18-21, M Dec 27, 2013

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    I Love Smart Men

    Not just love, but adore them. Something about a smart man is very amazing. I do not like when a man simply abdicate a lesson at all. But when they give the full detail of an astonishing lecture, or even a simple story with the utter most detail, it is great. Fantastic even!. I...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    Smart men know when to flip you over,

    when to use 2 fingers, and not to get any in your hair. Who DOESNT love a smart man??
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I would like to talk to single men my age.

    26-32 range. I tend to get along better with men than I woman. I'm a little too relaxed for some gals.
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F Jul 7

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    I surround myself around very smart men

    and women because I am a very smart or intellectual woman. Intellectual persons intrigue me and my mental abilities just keep flowing when talking to them. I love wit and a person with the ability to think on their feet because I do the same.
    heatherandbarbara heatherandbarbara 36-40, F 1 Response May 3

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    laubrown1 laubrown1 16-17, F May 5

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    Smart Is Sexy

    I have dated enough good looking empty headed men to know that looks alone are not a turn on . Countless times I have sat there looking into a pair of handsome brown eyes or a perfect five o clock shadow and just have been bored to tears . I would find my mind wandering ,as...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 49 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    undrayaaa undrayaaa 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 4

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    I Love Talking To Smart Men...

    Give me a man who can sex me up from the neck up...and baby I'm yours! There are few things that turn me on like a man who doesn't have to prove his intelligence because it shows in his conversation. I am a smart, confident woman, but I will gaze adoringly at any man who takes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 18, 2011

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    Meeting Of The Minds

    I am usually, let’s be totally honest and say always, attracted to lovers who have a HUGE brain. This comes in handy when I want to discuss some literary find or we get together with friends to play Trivial Pursuit.  I think I hang around with smart men sometimes in...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 96 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    lujocin lujocin 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 17

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    My husband is really smart i really admire him
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Irish men are irresistible haha
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    I find smart men very sexy. I am attracted to intelligence more than looks.But it should be combined with humbleness because nobody likes an arrogant know-it-all. A combination of...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I am a very dominant, very type A woman myself, but adore meeting men that are even more particular than myself. Men that are always looking for and expecting the very best, but...
    Islndgirl Islndgirl 36-40, F Jun 28

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    Even thought it was almost 10 years ago, I vividly remember seeing him from across the bar. Don't roll your eyes; this isn't what you think it is. He was handsome and brawny, and I...
    MiscMela MiscMela 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Perhaps I am not the "Ideal" person in Todays Overly Politically Correct Society , and am far too concise and blunt for most peoples taste nowadays , Nor am I rich , dashing...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M 16 hrs ago

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    I started chatting to s guy on ep on my now deleted account. Were would chat for hours about silly things to serious things. Even though there were pics on our profiles we never...