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I Adore Smart Men

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    I have always enjoyed being around smart men;

    not an arrogant, wise-***, know-it-all, but a man with intelligence, common sense and wisdom. A man who can hold an intelligent conversation and stimulate my mind is attractive in my book. ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    What a man wants is a lady by day.

    .. and a sexual goddess by night.
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 21

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    Rockstar0125 Rockstar0125 26-30, F 59 Responses Mar 27

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    because i like the challenge.

    .. and because brains are sexy.
    villagevixen villagevixen 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2014

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    My EX boyfriend is a smart guy

    who nows study in a well known university. I broke up with him telling him I dont feel the same way but the real reason is because I want him to pursue more in his passion and also that he will not have limits in his opportunities because of me.
    ellaxperience ellaxperience 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 12

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    Particularly if they are rich

    and well hung. :-)
    BarbarBabcox BarbarBabcox 36-40, F 18 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    Being intelligent and having the skills to hold

    an intelligent conversation is more important than looks will ever be. Intelligence will always trump vanity
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Intelligence is so sexy.

    I'd rather hear a man create with his mouth rather than with his hands.
    RelayedDeaction RelayedDeaction 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    drmery drmery 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 15

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    One of my biggest turn ons is

    when I can have an intelligent conversation with a guy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 1

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    While looks catch the attention it is the mind

    that holds it. Nothing is sexier than a person with a mind of their own who can hold a good/deep conversation. But thats just me :D
    thatonegirl360 thatonegirl360 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I can't stand people

    that can't speak properly or just are generally unintelligent. I'm a very smart person and I like to talk to a guy that's going to be on the same level or close to it. If the conversation isn't at least a bit challenging it won't hold my attention and I'll get bored.
    LifeIsAChoice LifeIsAChoice 16-17, F Oct 23, 2014

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    Write about your experience sadly my dear boy,

    You aren't very... You say you aren't avoiding me but how might I think otherwise' ? I'm no fool, I have eyes and I'm quite overboard with the observant factor btw. I am the FBI,so,.... Yes, I know of your new profile, and it doesn't matter how quiet and careful you sneak...
    sofuckenbrokennow sofuckenbrokennow 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I do adore smart men-sans ego.

    I don't tolerate ego's well. I have found men with ego's tend to lack empathy or compassion. Just my two cents.
    H3al3d H3al3d 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    cmia7 cmia7 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2014

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    It is seriously so attractive

    for a guy to talk to me, and tell me things I never knew. Whether it's random facts, or things they know how to do in general. It's kinda hot.
    lovedownunder lovedownunder 18-21, F Jan 1

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    Wise, but not a smartass.

    Intelligent, but not proud. Smart, yet still humble. That is a man worth adoring ♥
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Thinking before you speak,

    really pondering, tantalizing people with your thoughts, your mind. Someone who plays your conversation like a game of cat and mouse. Those are only the beginning perks of truly smart men.
    Yeahbaybey Yeahbaybey 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I even fell inlove with one.

    A Wall Street lawyer who said no woman had ever tickled his brain like the way I did, mentioning that I had an agile mind. There's no dull moment neither dead air. We laughed, we joked, we became mushy while talking about the mundane and all until he said we're soulmates. I did...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Meeting Of The Minds

    I am usually, let’s be totally honest and say always, attracted to lovers who have a HUGE brain. This comes in handy when I want to discuss some literary find or we get together with friends to play Trivial Pursuit.  I think I hang around with smart men sometimes in...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 95 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💋💋💋💋💋💋❤️❤️
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I Love Smart Men

    Not just love, but adore them. Something about a smart man is very amazing. I do not like when a man simply abdicate a lesson at all. But when they give the full detail of an astonishing lecture, or even a simple story with the utter most detail, it is great. Fantastic even!. I...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    BambooChic BambooChic 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    No You Don't

    The admiration of intelligent men is, for the most part, conditional. You may like intelligent men, but you probably like them more because women prefer controlling, emotionally distant, manipulative users. The difference between intelligent men and the regular, ignorant...
    FallaciesAppease FallaciesAppease 26-30, M 51 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    that I do! a man who can challenge my mind has

    the keys to everything about me. ;)
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I simply want to meet a man

    that I won't get tired of no matter what. Someone I would love to argue with for the rest of my life. #JustSaying
    cocolov3 cocolov3 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    I would love to chat with

    and get to know a handsome 40-50yr old who is smart, driven and handsome. Are you out there?
    ladybell1 ladybell1 36-40, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I'm attracted to the intellect of a smart man.

    I just wish I could find one that I could learn from. I think that is what is missing from my life. I've been craving a deep conversation. One that makes me really think.
    H3lt3rSk3lt3r H3lt3rSk3lt3r 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I hate the way a guy will hold a conversation

    with a girl only to try to get into her pants. If the only thing you have on your mind is sex,then you are not capable of thinking much further. Start a conversation,make it meaningful and you will get more out of a girl.
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    Smart men know when to flip you over,

    when to use 2 fingers, and not to get any in your hair. Who DOESNT love a smart man??
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    A smart man is like a cake.

    One layer or two layers of the best ingredients. Intelligence, communication, wit, insight, and caring. Then comes the icing. Sometimes it’s not perfect looking but it doesn’t matter. It’s still going to taste good. Decorations, whipped cream, fruit…all nice extras but...
    Ravenwind43 Ravenwind43 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 19

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    Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll Asdfghjklasdfghjklllllll 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 4, 2014

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    I absolutely love it

    when they are eager to share knowledge that is useful to me.
    fla0range fla0range 31-35, F Jun 11

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    Men who know how sensitive

    and fragile women are... are so ADORABLE. :-)
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 3 Responses May 23

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    Smart Is Sexy

    I have dated enough good looking empty headed men to know that looks alone are not a turn on . Countless times I have sat there looking into a pair of handsome brown eyes or a perfect five o clock shadow and just have been bored to tears . I would find my mind wandering ,as...
    softkitti softkitti 22-25, F 49 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    mostly I like the guy very kind,

    humble simple and responsible person
    gloryglory1984 gloryglory1984 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Someone who can not only stimulate me physically

    but mentally, that's something a girl can only dream of!
    EsmereldaWentz EsmereldaWentz 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    I like talking with men

    who can make meaningful conversation and from whom I can learn a thing or two. It's such a big turn on. :)
    ladybug1234 ladybug1234 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 24, 2014

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    They give me more ideas about this world we

    live in. They make me laugh. They can even criticize me (constructively). They introduce me to films, music, books, places, things I have never seen before.
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F Dec 10, 2014

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    The way you think catches my attention more

    than the way you look....and it holds it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 27

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    I would prefer the title to be 'I adore

    *intelligent* men'. It sounds more mature, more intelligent. But I do adore men who challenge everything they are told instead of blindly accepting it. Those who think abstractly, and prefer deep conversations over small, meaningless chit-chat. They are so hard to come by. But...
    AnonymouslyAnna AnonymouslyAnna 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I've found an amazing,

    smart, and sweet man. We are both getting a second chance at love. He's accomplished in his field because he looks at things and says "Wait. I can do that better!" And he does. Some girls would probably be bored with him- he wants the periodic table as a shower curtain, and is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 27

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    OH MY GOD!!! Smart men are the sexist men ever.

    It's the fact that these men spend their time to be successful and they educate themselves it's such an admiring and attractive attribute. When a guy tells me how he wants to go into politics, physics, astrology, or become a mathematician or even be a teacher I just admire their...
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