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I Adultery

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 359 People

    Never Thought I Would

    Never in a million years did I ever think that I would commit "adultery". But then it just happened. It was something that I was to find that I needed. As a result of my finding that I could actually go ahead and commit adultery and not feel a sense of guilt so to speak, was...
    fernsflapjack fernsflapjack
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Oct 5, 2010

    I have been married for 16 years,

    married him straight out of high school and we have two beautiful sons 11 and 9yo together. I assumed everything was fine I did everything a wife should do. Cooked, cleaned, took care of the kids, worked, any and everything we as woman are told to do to keep our men happy. 3...
    scurnel scurnel
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2014

    Affairs

    I did pretty well in my first affair keeping my wits about me.  More so than my partner.  We both agreed from the start our relationship would be all about sex, nothing more.  As we became more and more intimate he finally overstepped the line and fell in love with...
    StephieBbow StephieBbow
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 12, 2010

    I'M A Serial Adulterer

    I don't have many vices: I don't smoke, only drink moderately, I don't take drugs but my vice is women. I can't resist a gorgeous woman. I've been married for nearly twenty years and have had several affairs and numerous one-offs. The first time was a few years after we...
    6 Responses Feb 2, 2013

    Telling Your Spouse

    I am ready to leave my wife of 10 years for the love of my life. I won't get into details, but I would like some input on how others have broken this devastating news to thier spouse. Should I admit the affair and just move on? Or should I just say that I'm not happy and wait it...
    readytostartover readytostartover
    36-40
    8 Responses Apr 3, 2012

    Worst Night Of My Life

    I was at a neighborhood reunion with my wife of 10 years. These were mostly my friends from childhood but my wife knew a few of them through me About an hour into the party my wife told me she wanted to leave and go visit her sister for a little while. I felt bad for...
    Zappge00 Zappge00
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 25, 2012

    Can I Trust Her?

    Recently, my Fiancée invited her friend, Fred over to our house for dinner.   After diner and drinks, the three of us decided to take a bottle of wine down to the Jacuzzi behind the house.  As the night advanced, we all ended up naked in the spa and talked...
    russlwrnc russlwrnc
    46-50
    16 Responses May 16, 2010

    My Sister's Husband

    I used to live in a Middle Eastern country with my husband Darren an engineer in a oil drilling company. He use to take two/three day trips to the capital once or twice a month. We had just married and were in the process of settling down, my husband is a good looking man and...
    Jesspur Jesspur
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 25, 2011

    Oh So Weary!!!! :-/

    Good day...well sort of. I'm sitting here thinking about the past again. Thinking about him. A lil while back I called myself accidentally falling in love with another man. I'm a married woman, and he is married as well. We haven't spoken in a lil while. Which is cool. BC we've...
    loddyda loddyda
    26-30
    Oct 11, 2012

    That Was When My Life Really Began

    When I was 20 I moved into a apartment in a high rise in the big city. I had a good job and everything finally I had more so what I wanted in life. This apartment had a gym at the top of it. I used to go there and work out all the time. I met a guy that also would work out...
    tiggerbutt tiggerbutt
    31-35
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2012

    After 42 years together.

    .. Dear Husband, I am not forever the fool you you take me for. I guess I am approaching the threshold where you and your victims, normally depart. I have taken the longest to arrive here. Our talk last night, su*ked. The biggest reason, is because it made me realize (Wow, how...
    Noondox Noondox
    56-60
    Jan 17, 2015

    My Dad Is A Liar

    I'm a 23 year old female. My parents are in their 50's, have been married for over 25 years. My dad cheated on my mom when I was kid, and they worked through it. And tonight my mom and I found out that he's still cheating. My mom has been suspecting this for years.... she found...
    indieglasses indieglasses
    22-25
    1 Response Dec 26, 2011

    Never Say Never

    Like most here I never felt I would have an affair or be unfaithful to my husband in any manner.  What can I say?  The right guy came along and I was very vulnerable.  I gave in and we quickly became an item.  My first affair lasted approximately five months...
    Fraidekat16 Fraidekat16
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

    My Husbands Affair...saved Our Marriage. How Can You Survive..and Fall In Love Again?

    It is not easy but it is possible.....to forgive and love him again.I have written a small book of how we made it.Please contact me if you wish to have the information.Or go to Amazon.com and search for the book...His Affair Saved Our Marriage.I truly pray it can help someone.
    nyhomes2003 nyhomes2003
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2012

    Confused

    Hi. I'm a 28 year old guy, married for two years but together with my wife for seven. In April of 2008, I found out that she was having an affair with one of my friends. It was devistating to me at the time, but I've since pretty much dealt with it. We've been through...
    EW817 EW817
    26-30
    12 Responses Aug 11, 2009

    Cheated, Confessed, Forgiven But Torn

    I am a strong believer in Christian values and what the good book says. I fell in love young. Although I wasn't my husbands 1st like he was mine, he repeatedly admitted that I was the first woman he ever confessed his love to and that I was the 1st he felt true deep love for. We...
    Makeda32 Makeda32
    22-25
    Nov 16, 2012

    After 42 years together.

    .. Dear Husband, I am not forever the fool you you take me for. I guess I am approaching the threshold where you and your victims, normally depart. I have taken the longest to arrive here. Our talk last night, su*ked. The biggest reason, is because it made me realize (Wow, how...
    Noondox Noondox
    56-60
    Jan 17, 2015

    I Never Knew...

    On February 9 in New Orleans, I met the most incredible man. He was kind, gentle, and he saw me...not my face, my chest, or anything physical...he saw me, my heart and soul. We spent the next 5 hours together, unable to stop talking, dancing, touching, and kissing. I had to leave...
    wphall123 wphall123
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2013

    I Fell For A Liar

    I had been in love with my friend for 11 years. One day out of the blue he called and asked if he could come to my place for a visit. I said of course and he came by. Our visits soon turned romantic even though he was married he told me he was seperating. One day after a year and...
    neversawitcoming neversawitcoming
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2011

    Does Confession Ease The Soul?

    I am here for the first time. Last night was a very very difficult night, and one of the reasons I lived through it was because I felt that finding some way to confess my problem would help me find the resources inside and from above to "do the right thing". I already know what...
    KomaGawa KomaGawa
    56-60
    11 Responses Aug 8, 2010

    I Got Married Too Young, and Now I Regret It.

    I am 23 years old, almost 24, and I've been married for a little over five years and we have a three year old son together.  For the last few years or so I've felt like there has been something wrong and I'm just now realizing that I want more from life that I can't have...
    Marriedtooyoung Marriedtooyoung
    22-25
    3 Responses Jul 15, 2009

    Educate Your Man

    To me adultery sounds a lot of effort! It is my belief that most men can be cuckolded given time, and gentle handling. My husband is fantastic. He gets so turned on by me having sex with other guys that he buys me sexy clothes, dresses me for an evening out, helps select my...
    bazzerooni bazzerooni
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

    An Old Friend.

    On my 5th anniversary to my husband I was at a ski resort I used to work at. An old friend came up to me whom I hadn't seen in nearly 7 years. He was thin and ill looking. I learned that he had recently gone through a bitter divorce. He told us his story and at the end of the...
    shylen shylen
    26-30
    5 Responses May 27, 2011

    More.... I Just Wanted More.

    I never, ever thought that I would be the kind of woman to commit adultery. I have to admit, I always felt it was wrong. Perhaps, to a small extent I even do today. I have been married for 15 years to my high school sweetheart. I was so young I had not a clue what I was looking...
    juliewantsmore juliewantsmore
    31-35
    11 Responses Oct 11, 2008

    Pounding My Boss Wife

    it happened a few months back...i was working in a govt. enterprise, having a very good relation with my boss and his wife. few months back, i got transferred but was in touch with my boss wife, who had ample time to gossip. we got involved in intimate chatting. last month, she...
    rockyliar rockyliar
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

    Sinlge Males And Married Women

    I was in my 20s when I first meet this lady who was in her 50s. She was very pretty and she had a boyfriend but the boyfriend treated her like ****! So very slowly we became lovers and we were lovers for 6 years! I feel bad about cheating because I was raised with rules and you...
    robin12 robin12
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2010

    exactly one year after I got married to my

    husband, I met this guy, I was running an errand for my husband and I took his taxi. when he reached a stop light he asked me if he could take an alternate route, because traffic was on the original one, so I told him it was okay. I guess when he turned around to talk to me he...
    shelland shelland
    26-30, F
    Mar 18

    After 42 years together.

    .. Dear Husband, I am not forever the fool you you take me for. I guess I am approaching the threshold where you and your victims, normally depart. I have taken the longest to arrive here. Our talk last night, su*ked. The biggest reason, is because it made me realize (Wow, how...
    Noondox Noondox
    56-60
    Jan 17, 2015

    It Can Work

    I have been seeing a married woman for three years. We see each other about twice a month on our own (hotel rooms, my condo). I have never met her husband or her family. She tells me she loves her husband and family life and has no desire to leave them but that there is no sex or...
    big88guy88 big88guy88
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Sep 30, 2012

    I Didn'T Expect To Feel So Guilty

    My girlfriend of many years went away for the long weekend and I went out and picked up another girl. We had sex, and hung out for an entire night. I didn't tell her I was already attached, and I even gave her my phone number. For the next few days I got text messages and missed...
    xxxdoom xxxdoom
    36-40, M
    1 Response Mar 30, 2013

    I just found out that my loving husband sought

    out a young girl on one of those online sites; he chose a 19 y/o. And since that time has met up with her on the other side of the state over the past two years for sex and a relationship. So, he basically had a girlfriend, and I was totally clueless. Because we talked about...
    Notsogreat Notsogreat
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    Untitled

    Hello EP... its been a few months now. Well I'm at a place in life where nothing matters to me BUT God. Family of course but I'm realizing Gods order is best. Growing up I struggled with a lot of things, love being one, depression being the main. I'm proud to say I'm an overcomer...
    loddyda loddyda
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 8, 2012

    here is something about being with someone you

    never meet before. A glance is exchanged, a little flirting and their hands are all over you. Just before I am taken and am laying there vulnerable and open I think am I really doing this I don't ever know their name.. groan.
    SouthernJoy SouthernJoy
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jun 10, 2014

    Cheating Wife

    I had a experience on tat too two years ago. But I wasn't aware tat the girl was married until we are on the bed & she confess to be abt it. She told me tat her marriage was a impusive decision she made during her time. So am I in the wrong? Pls advise.
    Johnjohnkang Johnjohnkang
    26-30, M
    Feb 16, 2012

    I am also into this thing.

    In fact I am nursing my lovers child. Its such a complicated thing to think though but I did not regretd any decision I made. I love my husband and my lover as well. Its just that my lover got the project- the baby. Everything is but discreet, my lover is also a married man. I...
    Flong206 Flong206
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015

    After 42 years together.

    .. Dear Husband, I am not forever the fool you you take me for. I guess I am approaching the threshold where you and your victims, normally depart. I have taken the longest to arrive here. Our talk last night, su*ked. The biggest reason, is because it made me realize (Wow, how...
    Noondox Noondox
    56-60
    Jan 17, 2015

    A Time To Heal

    I committed adultery with a co-worker, I lost my PT job and my friends (the other man and a friend that worked there). It just became too difficult to break off the relationship with the constant reminders. However my husband forgave me. In me confessing my cheating he also...
    nappyheadd75 nappyheadd75
    36-40
    1 Response Dec 27, 2011

    Feeling Hopeless...

    My husband and I have been married for 5 years, and recently I have ended a 6 month affair with a guy 4 years younger than I. My husband knows about the affair, but doesn't know many details. (For example, he thinks I only talked to this other guy for 2 months and slept with...
    kj14 kj14
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 28, 2013

    After 42 years together.

    .. Dear Husband, I am not forever the fool you you take me for. I guess I am approaching the threshold where you and your victims, normally depart. I have taken the longest to arrive here. Our talk last night, su*ked. The biggest reason, is because it made me realize (Wow, how...
    Noondox Noondox
    56-60
    Jan 17, 2015

    I Want To Stop, But Can't...

    I married my soul mate, the love of my life, my bestfriend and did the unthinkable, I cheated. It was a gradual breakdown really. It started with just innocent flirting with people, then I was texting inappropriate messages to people, then sending inappropriate photos via email...
    foreveraddicted foreveraddicted
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 7, 2011

    Married And Carrying My Lover's Baby

    About a week ago I just discovered that I am carrying my lover's child. About two years ago, I asked my husband to have a vasectomy because I didn't want to have any more children. Since then our marriage has really gone downhill. Well last August I decided to go back to...
    trackstar112581 trackstar112581
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    How Do I Learn To Forgive Myself?

    I was in a relationship for over six years. Everyone was sure we were going to get married, including the two of us. We bought a home together and lived a relatively peaceful life. We had some major issues though. I did not like his family, and he was a very family oriented guy...
    artoopotato artoopotato
    26-30
    7 Responses Jul 4, 2010
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