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    Cheating Wife

    I had a experience on tat too two years ago. But I wasn't aware tat the girl was married until we are on the bed & she confess to be abt it. She told me tat her marriage was a impusive decision she made during her time. So am I in the wrong? Pls advise.
    Johnjohnkang Johnjohnkang 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 16, 2012

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    Pounding My Boss Wife

    it happened a few months back...i was working in a govt. enterprise, having a very good relation with my boss and his wife. few months back, i got transferred but was in touch with my boss wife, who had ample time to gossip. we got involved in intimate chatting. last month, she...
    rockyliar rockyliar 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    My Sister's Husband

    I used to live in a Middle Eastern country with my husband Darren an engineer in a oil drilling company. He use to take two/three day trips to the capital once or twice a month. We had just married and were in the process of settling down, my husband is a good looking man and...
    Jesspur Jesspur 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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    here is something about being with someone you

    never meet before. A glance is exchanged, a little flirting and their hands are all over you. Just before I am taken and am laying there vulnerable and open I think am I really doing this I don't ever know their name.. groan.
    SouthernJoy SouthernJoy 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 10

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    Untitled

    Hello EP... its been a few months now. Well I'm at a place in life where nothing matters to me BUT God. Family of course but I'm realizing Gods order is best. Growing up I struggled with a lot of things, love being one, depression being the main. I'm proud to say I'm an overcomer...
    loddyda loddyda 26-30 Oct 8, 2012

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    How Do I Learn To Forgive Myself?

    I was in a relationship for over six years. Everyone was sure we were going to get married, including the two of us. We bought a home together and lived a relatively peaceful life. We had some major issues though. I did not like his family, and he was a very family oriented guy...
    artoopotato artoopotato 26-30 7 Responses Jul 4, 2010

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    I Fell For A Liar

    I had been in love with my friend for 11 years. One day out of the blue he called and asked if he could come to my place for a visit. I said of course and he came by. Our visits soon turned romantic even though he was married he told me he was seperating. One day after a year and...
    neversawitcoming neversawitcoming 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    Work Relationship.. </3

    I don't know what to do.. My good friend is now engaged to an older man who she started seeing while he was married and she was engaged with her long term boyfriend. My other friend, (five years ago) fell in love with an older man at work who was married. She didn't act on it...
    Hustling Hustling 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2011

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    I Want To Stop, But Can't...

    I married my soul mate, the love of my life, my bestfriend and did the unthinkable, I cheated. It was a gradual breakdown really. It started with just innocent flirting with people, then I was texting inappropriate messages to people, then sending inappropriate photos via email...
    foreveraddicted foreveraddicted 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    I Never Knew...

    On February 9 in New Orleans, I met the most incredible man. He was kind, gentle, and he saw me...not my face, my chest, or anything physical...he saw me, my heart and soul. We spent the next 5 hours together, unable to stop talking, dancing, touching, and kissing. I had to leave...
    wphall123 wphall123 41-45, F 3 Responses May 17, 2013

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    Its Not Me

    I met this guy about 1 year ago.  No feelings on my side.  Got together through friends and nothing further.  One night in the pub we meet up and low and  behold we were all over each other.  How low can you go. Me, I knew he was married but noooo...
    bluepolo bluepolo 41-45, F 12 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I have been married for 16 years,

    married him straight out of high school and we have two beautiful sons 11 and 9yo together. I assumed everything was fine I did everything a wife should do. Cooked, cleaned, took care of the kids, worked, any and everything we as woman are told to do to keep our men happy. 3...
    scurnel scurnel 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Never Thought I Would

    Never in a million years did I ever think that I would commit "adultery". But then it just happened. It was something that I was to find that I needed. As a result of my finding that I could actually go ahead and commit adultery and not feel a sense of guilt so to speak, was...
    fernsflapjack fernsflapjack 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2010

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    A Time To Heal

    I committed adultery with a co-worker, I lost my PT job and my friends (the other man and a friend that worked there). It just became too difficult to break off the relationship with the constant reminders. However my husband forgave me. In me confessing my cheating he also...
    nappyheadd75 nappyheadd75 36-40 1 Response Dec 27, 2011

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    Confused

    Hi. I'm a 28 year old guy, married for two years but together with my wife for seven. In April of 2008, I found out that she was having an affair with one of my friends. It was devistating to me at the time, but I've since pretty much dealt with it. We've been through...
    EW817 EW817 26-30 12 Responses Aug 11, 2009

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    I'M A Serial Adulterer

    I don't have many vices: I don't smoke, only drink moderately, I don't take drugs but my vice is women. I can't resist a gorgeous woman. I've been married for nearly twenty years and have had several affairs and numerous one-offs. The first time was a few years after we...
    6 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    I Didn'T Expect To Feel So Guilty

    My girlfriend of many years went away for the long weekend and I went out and picked up another girl. We had sex, and hung out for an entire night. I didn't tell her I was already attached, and I even gave her my phone number. For the next few days I got text messages and missed...
    xxxdoom xxxdoom 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 30, 2013

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    New England

    or close by. looking for a sexy girl fwb situation. any takers?
    sparky694ume sparky694ume 41-45, M Dec 29, 2010

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    Yes, I Did Cheat

    I'm divorcing after 20 years together and raising 3 kids.  his reason? I cheated and confessed to the affair.  The affair itself lasted for about 5 months and he would have never known if I hadn't told him in the confines of a marriage counseling session. I planned how...
    joyce31996 joyce31996 46-50, F 15 Responses Oct 30, 2010

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    That Was When My Life Really Began

    When I was 20 I moved into a apartment in a high rise in the big city. I had a good job and everything finally I had more so what I wanted in life. This apartment had a gym at the top of it. I used to go there and work out all the time. I met a guy that also would work out...
    tiggerbutt tiggerbutt 31-35 3 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    Feeling Hopeless...

    My husband and I have been married for 5 years, and recently I have ended a 6 month affair with a guy 4 years younger than I. My husband knows about the affair, but doesn't know many details. (For example, he thinks I only talked to this other guy for 2 months and slept with...
    kj14 kj14 26-30, F 2 Responses May 28, 2013

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    An Old Friend.

    On my 5th anniversary to my husband I was at a ski resort I used to work at. An old friend came up to me whom I hadn't seen in nearly 7 years. He was thin and ill looking. I learned that he had recently gone through a bitter divorce. He told us his story and at the end of the...
    shylen shylen 26-30 6 Responses May 27, 2011

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    More.... I Just Wanted More.

    I never, ever thought that I would be the kind of woman to commit adultery. I have to admit, I always felt it was wrong. Perhaps, to a small extent I even do today. I have been married for 15 years to my high school sweetheart. I was so young I had not a clue what I was looking...
    juliewantsmore juliewantsmore 31-35 12 Responses Oct 11, 2008

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    Can I Trust Her?

    Recently, my Fiancée invited her friend, Fred over to our house for dinner.   After diner and drinks, the three of us decided to take a bottle of wine down to the Jacuzzi behind the house.  As the night advanced, we all ended up naked in the spa and talked...
    russlwrnc russlwrnc 46-50 15 Responses May 16, 2010

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    Educate Your Man

    To me adultery sounds a lot of effort! It is my belief that most men can be cuckolded given time, and gentle handling. My husband is fantastic. He gets so turned on by me having sex with other guys that he buys me sexy clothes, dresses me for an evening out, helps select my...
    bazzerooni bazzerooni 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Cheated, Confessed, Forgiven But Torn

    I am a strong believer in Christian values and what the good book says. I fell in love young. Although I wasn't my husbands 1st like he was mine, he repeatedly admitted that I was the first woman he ever confessed his love to and that I was the 1st he felt true deep love for. We...
    Makeda32 Makeda32 22-25 1 Response Nov 16, 2012

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    Does Confession Ease The Soul?

    I am here for the first time. Last night was a very very difficult night, and one of the reasons I lived through it was because I felt that finding some way to confess my problem would help me find the resources inside and from above to "do the right thing". I already know what...
    KomaGawa KomaGawa 56-60 11 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    Sinlge Males And Married Women

    I was in my 20s when I first meet this lady who was in her 50s. She was very pretty and she had a boyfriend but the boyfriend treated her like ****! So very slowly we became lovers and we were lovers for 6 years! I feel bad about cheating because I was raised with rules and you...
    robin12 robin12 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    My Dad Is A Liar

    I'm a 23 year old female. My parents are in their 50's, have been married for over 25 years. My dad cheated on my mom when I was kid, and they worked through it. And tonight my mom and I found out that he's still cheating. My mom has been suspecting this for years.... she found...
    indieglasses indieglasses 22-25 1 Response Dec 26, 2011

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    Married And Carrying My Lover's Baby

    About a week ago I just discovered that I am carrying my lover's child. About two years ago, I asked my husband to have a vasectomy because I didn't want to have any more children. Since then our marriage has really gone downhill. Well last August I decided to go back to...
    trackstar112581 trackstar112581 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    Never Say Never

    Like most here I never felt I would have an affair or be unfaithful to my husband in any manner.  What can I say?  The right guy came along and I was very vulnerable.  I gave in and we quickly became an item.  My first affair lasted approximately five months...
    Fraidekat16 Fraidekat16 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    Worst Night Of My Life

    I was at a neighborhood reunion with my wife of 10 years. These were mostly my friends from childhood but my wife knew a few of them through me About an hour into the party my wife told me she wanted to leave and go visit her sister for a little while. I felt bad for...
    Zappge00 Zappge00 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Affairs

    I did pretty well in my first affair keeping my wits about me.  More so than my partner.  We both agreed from the start our relationship would be all about sex, nothing more.  As we became more and more intimate he finally overstepped the line and fell in love with...
    StephieBbow StephieBbow 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2010

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    Oh So Weary!!!! :-/

    Good day...well sort of. I'm sitting here thinking about the past again. Thinking about him. A lil while back I called myself accidentally falling in love with another man. I'm a married woman, and he is married as well. We haven't spoken in a lil while. Which is cool. BC we've...
    loddyda loddyda 26-30 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    College Professor

    I was (still am) a late bloomer and when i attended college I was 4 years older than my peers. One of the classes I took was taught by an older woman, about 38 years old, and I was 23 at the time. I went to her for extra help a number of times as the subject matter didn't come...
    petes478 petes478 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    It's Happening Again...

    I know I am wrong but I still love him, still want him, still need him, still hate him and still miss him so much. My first love. I met him 9 years and 1 day ago. He swept me off my feet. I was young and he was running free still. I never even realised he had another women until...
    halfpintscorpio halfpintscorpio 26-30 6 Responses Nov 10, 2010

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    Putting Her First

    Putting Your Female Partner First     There are women who will continually seek the person who will give them that elusive ******. Someone who will make their ***** shout in glee and cause those ! convulsions that only happens when they use...
    GentlemanJim GentlemanJim 66-70, M 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

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    Telling Your Spouse

    I am ready to leave my wife of 10 years for the love of my life. I won't get into details, but I would like some input on how others have broken this devastating news to thier spouse. Should I admit the affair and just move on? Or should I just say that I'm not happy and wait it...
    readytostartover readytostartover 36-40 8 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    My Husbands Affair...saved Our Marriage. How Can You Survive..and Fall In Love Again?

    It is not easy but it is possible.....to forgive and love him again.I have written a small book of how we made it.Please contact me if you wish to have the information.Or go to Amazon.com and search for the book...His Affair Saved Our Marriage.I truly pray it can help someone.
    nyhomes2003 nyhomes2003 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2012

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    It Can Work

    I have been seeing a married woman for three years. We see each other about twice a month on our own (hotel rooms, my condo). I have never met her husband or her family. She tells me she loves her husband and family life and has no desire to leave them but that there is no sex or...
    big88guy88 big88guy88 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    There's this old priest who got sick of all the people in his parish who kept confessing to adultery. One Sunday, at the pulpit, he said, "If I hear one more person confess to...
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    the following is a list of over 100 contradictions in the bible: 1. God is satisfied with his works Gen 1:31 God is dissatisfied with his works...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 1 Response Aug 25

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    TRANSLATION OF HAZRAT MAULANA ABDUS SATTAR DA'MAT BARAKATUHUM'S SPIRITUAL DISCOURSEIN THE NAME OF LOVEAllah has revealed Islam as a complete and perfect religion. Thus accordingly...
    AN1991 AN1991 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    Eveline1062z Eveline1062z 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    My relationship with my father stalled because of my mothers constant adultery, with his friends! I hardly saw him at all between ages eight and when I moved in with him at...
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    What are the partner's legal rights In case the spouse has been dishonest? In Arizona, If your wife is requesting the divorce - plus the spouse can show that she has long been...
    Eveline1062z Eveline1062z 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    And rough sex. And bondage. And swingers. And adultery.
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