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I Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 116 People

    Beating Louder, Seeing Clearer

    My husband and I are currently getting a divorce. Our 4 year marriage was tumultuous with violent and physical fights and altercations. He had deployed twice and I got pregnant 4 months after meeting him. We didn't have the most solid foundation. This last year has been most...
    ospylac ospylac
    26-30, F
    Jun 24, 2013

    Affair With Married Man

    I Have been married for 23 years and with 3 kids.My husband has never been faithful.He had affairs with a few women.Only after my third child about 12 years ago he stopped his affairs.But he controls me.He does not allow me anywhere on my own.I work with him so allkmy movements...
    Amara17 Amara17
    41-45, F
    Apr 8, 2012

    I Want To Talk To You

    I never thought I'd be in the place I am.. But here I am! I'm here, and I plan I plan to be for a while. I am in love with my best friends husband. We meet and text and talk whenever we can.. But we are trying to slow down a little.. Talking weekly instead of daily because...
    LanaRae LanaRae
    31-35, F
    8 Responses May 19, 2013

    Affair With My Manager

    I was working in the same building as my old manager for a few months. After my job at another company came to an end at the end of the summer I was approached by him in June I hand in a resume and come in for an interview in the morning. I was so confused as to why he wanted me...
    013Screwedup 013Screwedup
    22-25, F
    Oct 21, 2013

    Free at Last Well, your faith was strong

    but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew ya And she tied you to the kitchen chair She broke your throne and cut your hair And from your lips she drew, “Hallelujah” Hallelujah, Hallelujah Hallelujah, Hallelujah - K.D...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Jan 7, 2014

    Three Months of Heaven

    for Justin John Kinsella: Is this heaven? Ray Kinsella: It's Iowa. John Kinsella: Iowa? I could have sworn this was heaven. [John starts to walk away] Ray Kinsella: Is there a heaven? John Kinsella: Oh yeah. It's the place where dreams come true. - Field of Dreams On...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Dec 9, 2013

    I Am The Mm

    I have been there twice, I am the MM! My marriage on both occasions was non loving in the physical part. I needed a womans touch and confided in a woman at work about what was going on at home. She is the one who lead me to the decision that was made. We had a short affair of...
    toogood61 toogood61
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 2, 2012

    Im In Love With Two Women

    So I use to know this girl who I use to like in high school we use to talk I asked her to the movies one as friends I wasn't sure she liked me but she was a cool girl I found out from her best friend that she didn't like me so I just gave up and stopped talking to her... Now 7...
    LeoMar2089 LeoMar2089
    26-30, M
    Sep 16, 2013

    Married And Alone !

    I've seen similar stories on here and feel the need to share . Would appreciate any honest advice ... I've been married for 8 yrs to a man who's the complete opposite when it comes to intimacy ... Cuddles , kisses , hugs . I adore it and he doesn't which I was able to live...
    CSA2013 CSA2013
    1 Response Apr 1, 2013

    Well it's been 3 months

    since I posted I believe. 3 months of intense emotional mental and physical drain. My MM has changed. Shifted. He has kissed me. He tries to meet he told me he is completely over his head in this. I tried a no contact he was so devestated (as was I) that we do text. He comes...
    Titziana Titziana
    Apr 26, 2014

    Ive got emotional problems due to abandonment

    as a teenager by my parents. In my first marriage, my husband cheated on me. This time round, I tried the right thing. When I realised I was getting closer to my best male friend than I should, I told him I was attracted to him and that we should stop seeing/talking to...
    KateHarrison86 KateHarrison86
    26-30, F
    May 16, 2014

    Lucky Or Not?!

    I was going to say "I'm the luckiest guy" but then I thought to myself 'maybe not' If my wife of 15 years actually wanted to make love to me once in a while, then I would be lucky. I have tried everything to get my wife to show me some affection but all she does is...
    Freido Freido
    66-70, M
    Apr 20, 2013

    My First Affair

    Roughly a month ago I started to see someone. It all started out seemingly innocent (if we want to call it that), through an ad posting on Craigslist. Yes, it was for casual encounters. I was that desperate. I had been suffering a dry spell and withheld from having any sexual...
    that1there that1there
    22-25, F
    Jul 12, 2012

    An Affair

    The pool guy is in the back yard husband is 2000 miles away this an affair?
    Leiza350 Leiza350
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Apr 2, 2013

    I Am The Other Woman

    I have known this man all of my life; we grew up together & our families are familiar with each other. We have been on and off since our teens but he ended up serving time in prison; during that time, we were both in separate relationships. We hooked back up in 1997 after he...
    CocoTee CocoTee
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 17, 2012

    The 35 Yr Old Virgin

    I'm a 35 male virgin and has a fantasy of having an affair with a married woman or a married pregnant woman so i can lose my virginity. I think it would be safer with someone that is married... any advice?
    jkang429 jkang429
    May 18, 2013

    What She Doesn't Know...

    Is that her career minded child is having an outrageous affair with a married man who much older than her. Even though he is nice and generous but it seems that he is falling in love with me every time we're together. He has a wonderful "marriage'' while I am young and carefree...
    cuvycutiepie225 cuvycutiepie225
    22-25, F
    Jul 19, 2013

    I Want To Be A Pearl Again

    I Want to Be a Pearl Again She could be a statue of liberty She could be a Joan of Arc But he's scared of the light that's inside of her So he keeps her in the dark Oh, she used to be a pearl...Ohh Yeah, she used to rule the world...Ohh Can't believe she's become a shell of...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    Nov 11, 2013

    Big John

    Big John Every morning at the mine you could see him arrive He stood six-foot-six and weighed two-forty-five Kinda broad at the shoulder and narrow at the hip Everybody knew you didn't give no lip to Big John - Johnny Cash, Big John One of the plights of the male when it...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 4, 2013

    Shall I Come Clean??

    I've been thinking a lot lately about coming clean to my husband About my secret affair, but I'm afraid that I'll lose everything for nothing What should I do??
    Confusedchick83 Confusedchick83
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2012

    Help Me! Affair, just sex

    I am in a loveless marriage, we are married 13 yrs and have two kids, I do love my husband , but am not in love with him! He is a wonderful father, hard worker, but he has no time to work on our lives! And to be honest I done care. I won't want to hurt him or our kids. I have a...
    Headwreaked Headwreaked
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2013


    I don't know why I'm doing this, I guess I have no one to talk about. I had an affair for over 5 years, I'm married (15 yrs) and he is too (30), My husband is the best and we have a really nice family, but something is mising I guess you are never happy with what you...
    lost575 lost575
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2009

    My Affair

    We had known each other for several years. We discussed our failing marriages - I was already separated. He asked me out and I turned him down. Three years later me met up again, he told me his marriage was over he was just waiting for the 'right' time and place to leave as he...
    mylifetoday mylifetoday
    41-45, F
    Jun 18, 2013

    The Things That **** Me Off The Most!

    I am feeling so disgusted right now. He wasn't at work yesterday because he was up all night arguing with his wife, so he says. So although when I first found out he called in I was upset, the day got better; I actually had a good day yesterday and today so far. Until about 20...
    LuckyCharm79 LuckyCharm79
    31-35, F
    Nov 19, 2013
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