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I Aint the Cheating Kind

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    What kills relationships these days is online dating .. I hear it's easy to get laid just by the make of a profile. Lmfao you (and you know who u are) are pathetic and I found your...
    imjustagirl81 imjustagirl81 31-35, F Mar 15

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    Nope, nope, nope, NEVER..I think loyalty is extremely important, if you're not happy..then leave, don't just hurt someone else because you "aren't feeling the same" anymore..will...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Why cheat when you have the absolute best?
    Jaymaxey Jaymaxey 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    If your going to cheat then don't be in a relationship...
    babydoll711 babydoll711 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    i aint cheating kind i have never cheated anyone in my whole life and i never will because cheating is not in my blood i hate when people cheat anyone i have never cheated my...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Jan 31

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    Nor The Other Woman - I won't play that game. If you lie, saying you are single and i discover otherwise.... goodbye. Or tell me you live in a sexless marriage.... then get out...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2011

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    I never will cheat. My first boyfriend cheated on me, and it hurt me so much that I never want someone else to go through that. I was once accused of being the homewrecker in a...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F Jan 5

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    I think one of the biggest factors in a relationship is trust. If you can't trust your partner, how can you expect them to trust you? Dating two people or having an affair in your...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 13-15, F Dec 17, 2013

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    Never have and can say I never will! I've been cheated on myself, and it's the most hurtful thing someone can do to you. You trust who you're with, you'd do anything for them, so...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M Jan 31

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    I hate all the "I'm the other woman" "I have been unfaithful" experiences. What's the point in being with someone if you are going to cheat with someone else..if you know your...
    Irishlady20 Irishlady20 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    I am married and would not cheat on my husband because not only would I be cheating on him, I would be cheating on my son. I would never do anything to destroy my son's world, his...
    belugagirl70 belugagirl70 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I've never been on either side of this situation and hope to never be! I think if you're unhappy with who you are with, at least have to balls to be honest and tell them. I have...
    Goodbadladywoman Goodbadladywoman 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I don't understand cheaters if you want to sleep around just be single and sleep around don't waste someones valuable time and toy with their heart because you want to be a...
    Hachimalachi Hachimalachi 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I Don't Believe In Cheating - I am single, and I am not ready to be in a relationship again. I am focused on my education and getting my Ged diploma and focusing on my future. That...
    itsjustbrit itsjustbrit 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    I don't believe in cheating I am monogamous till the end and in fact I feel like the type of person to mate for life. Although I understand that circumstances could change those...
    BrittanyAP07 BrittanyAP07 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I ain't the cheating kind... Because I know how it feels to be cheated on. It hurts. It really does.
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i dont believe in cheating and i believe the ones who cheat are heartless and have no sense of guilt :( it is sucha shame that so many people cheat nowdays. Cheating is one of the...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    Any way you sugarcoat it no one's forced to cheat. It's a choice. You have two options if you simply must get your freak on: Do it deceptively or break it off with your current...
    avessel avessel 22-25 1 Response Jan 5

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    I aint the cheating kind. I could never cheat on someone that I am involved with, because I know what it is like to be cheated on, and its a pain that I'd never want to inflict...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    I would never cheat. Cheating hurts people, and makes that someone think what did they do wrong. If your unhappy just end it. I would rather be dumped then cheated on any day!
    kaytiexgurlxoxo kaytiexgurlxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I think that cheating is like the worst I mean if you stopped loving your bf or gf or you just want to go after someone else,then just break with them and go for whoever you like...
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    just because you are not happy with the one your with does not mean you should lie to , betray and hurt the one your with. think through how they would feel or the things that you...
    canyouhandleme canyouhandleme 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I take issue with cheating! There is nothing more painful than to find out the person you trusted was not protecting your relationship. That they were able to fall into ugly lure...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 3 Responses a week ago

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    If we are together or talking, I will never cheat on you. It's just how I was raised. It's just how I am. So get over it. :P
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F Mar 27

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    Why have a dirty £3 kebab when you can have a Tenderloin Steak every night? <3 <3 <3
    InsectWarfare InsectWarfare 31-35, M Feb 24

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    Discouraged - I have several friends right now going through divorce because of cheating spouses.  cheating is so distructive these people have destroyed their families and their...
    likeliness likeliness 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    I'm the faithful and loyal kind :)
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    Soooo Many Opportunities - I've been with my husband for 9 years now, we've only been married for 2 years and I 've had many opportunities to cheat on him and by that I mean...
    drkiris drkiris 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    If I'm there I'm there. Anything else would just be a waste of time and I REALLY ain't the wasting time kind.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I never would have been in the first place... but after seeing my dear aunt and her experiences with cheating, my views have been further cemented.My aunt is the sweetest lady in...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F Jan 2

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    You Can Not - Unbreak someone's heart. Best to tap out.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    When I found out my husband cheated, I had an immediate urge to get back at him, but couldn't do it. I am a serial monogamist.... maybe even to a fault. The one move I made to...
    LittleLilly7 LittleLilly7 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Naw - I've never actually cheated in a relationship. It wouldn't feel right, so I wouldn't do it.
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T 2 Responses Aug 4, 2013

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    If your really in love with someone then you wouldn't feel the need to cheat cause all you want is them
    Promisesarebullshit Promisesarebullshit 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    Ive never been good at constant lying and cheating, my conscience would be eaten up with guilt. I recently just removed myself from a relationship that was so baffling to me...
    LadyHawke68 LadyHawke68 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    Cheat Or Not To Cheat...? - I have never been one to cheat, and goodness knows i have had plenty of opportunity, but low and behold my conscience won't permit it, and i know i...
    Kittygalore23 Kittygalore23 26-30, F 5 Responses May 13, 2013

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    Let Me Tell You About The Man I Live With - I HATE HIM HE IS A **** ADDICT I WOKE UP TO HIM LOOKING AT WOMEN' S PRIVATES Please guys if you love your wife and she is against you...
    kimintheclouds kimintheclouds 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Mhm - Cheater Cheater pumpkin eater. Its not so nice to betray somebody. If ya wanna do stuff with other people say so and be like see ya don't be all mean and try and have your...
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Trust it everything to me. I have a rule if you fall in love with someone tell me don't cheat. It's better to get hurt than to get hurt knowing it's been going one for soo long.
    hime1998 hime1998 16-17, F Dec 31, 2013

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    i cant bear anymore , all this hearts and flowers ****... i have been through lot of negativity all my life... racist attacks, abuse, physical torture, smoke, drink... u name it...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Moving Forward - So he cheated and right now I want to be alone. Well...not alone, but I want to be away from him. I have to move on or this will consume me. I can only imagine...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    It's betraying your partner when you told them that you loved them and trust them..I do not respect people who cheat on their partners, no matter what their excuse is. I hate the...
    SarahBear907 SarahBear907 16-17, F Feb 21

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    I could never ever cheat on someone that I love. Imo its the most horrible thing you can do to that person. And I would expect my partner to think the same.
    Dannylove90 Dannylove90 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 4

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    How is cheating alright? Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on...
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    just broke up with my girlfriend of fifteen years and was heartbroken when I was thrown out of the house. I found out I was being cheated on while I was still with her. It's about...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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