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I Aint the Cheating Kind

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    SAVEtheHER0 SAVEtheHER0 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Cheat Or Not To Cheat...?

    I have never been one to cheat, and goodness knows i have had plenty of opportunity, but low and behold my conscience won't permit it, and i know i wouldn't want it done to me, yes i'm human, an attractive woman who constantly knocks back men's advances towards me simply because...
    Kittygalore23 Kittygalore23 26-30, F 6 Responses May 13, 2013

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    I ain't the cheating kind.

    .. Because I know how it feels to be cheated on. It hurts. It really does.
    xJesuslivesx xJesuslivesx 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Cheat on me and just find out what happens to

    you. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Keep that in mind guys.
    keishajo keishajo 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Jaymaxey Jaymaxey 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    You Can Not

    Unbreak someone's heart. Best to tap out.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    If I'm there I'm there.

    Anything else would just be a waste of time and I REALLY ain't the wasting time kind.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Yeah most of the guys only say this

    but i mean it. I am not a cheating kind of guy.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I would never cheat. Cheating hurts people,

    and makes that someone think what did they do wrong. If your unhappy just end it. I would rather be dumped then cheated on any day!
    kaytiexgurlxoxo kaytiexgurlxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Mhm

    Cheater Cheater pumpkin eater. Its not so nice to betray somebody. If ya wanna do stuff with other people say so and be like see ya don't be all mean and try and have your cake and eat it too. Which is a weird way to say what its trying to say cause when you hear that its like...
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I think that cheating is like the worst I mean

    if you stopped loving your bf or gf or you just want to go after someone else,then just break with them and go for whoever you like. What's the point to cheat and then let the person who loves you discover it and feel bad about it?
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Discouraged

    I have several friends right now going through divorce because of cheating spouses.  cheating is so distructive these people have destroyed their families and their relationships with their kids.  In all the cases the kids now want nothing to do with the cheating parents...
    likeliness likeliness 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    cheating is cheating,

    if u hide it whether it's emotional or sexual....it is cheating.......
    CBreed69 CBreed69 41-45, M Mar 22

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    “When someone loves you,

    the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth.” the quote looks good , isnt it?? but guess what things aren't as good as it seems to be. so go out, and get a life, before life comes and effs u hard...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19

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    I am married and would not cheat on my husband

    because not only would I be cheating on him, I would be cheating on my son. I would never do anything to destroy my son's world, his family.
    belugagirl70 belugagirl70 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    What kills relationships these days is online

    dating .. I hear it's easy to get laid just by the make of a profile. Lmfao you (and you know who u are) are pathetic and I found your profile just now .. On and crakin
    imjustagirl81 imjustagirl81 31-35, F Mar 15

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    When I found out my husband cheated,

    I had an immediate urge to get back at him, but couldn't do it. I am a serial monogamist.... maybe even to a fault. The one move I made to quell my vindictiveness was naughty chat with one person only. Revenge just isn't worth the toll it takes on my soul.
    truthandbeauty truthandbeauty 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    Either were together,

    or were not. No 2 boyfriends at a time. -_- no.
    itsthisgirlagain itsthisgirlagain 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    Cheat goes far beyond sex.

    ..a lie is a cheat,hiding something is a cheat,missleading is cheating. I hate cheaters...gamers not able to speak up what really is in their mind throwing out lies or silence full of doubts and swallowed words...leading you to nowhere.
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 20

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    I've never been on either side of this situation

    and hope to never be! I think if you're unhappy with who you are with, at least have to balls to be honest and tell them. I have seen this a lot through friends of mine and could never do this to another, just not in me. Simple as that.
    Goodbadladywoman Goodbadladywoman 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I mean to me it's hard to find one boyfriend,

    now finding another while in a relationship is way too hard. Plus it's just wrong, and I know what it's like to be cheated on, and I don't want to give those feelings that are so horrible to others. So no cheating for me. Ever. :)
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    I can't even keep a friendship =_= Let's just

    say my lack of relationship skills kills every chance of that damn romance? Like that's ever gonna happen, anyhow I have my books, my parents, sister and dogs that's enough for now. I understand why people cheat though it's just that I'm not like that :P
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I think one of the biggest factors in a

    relationship is trust. If you can't trust your partner, how can you expect them to trust you? Dating two people or having an affair in your marriage isn't right. Your suppose to be with one person. If your having an affair and your trying to decided which one you want to be...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 16-17, F Dec 17, 2013

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    I could never ever cheat on someone

    that I love. Imo its the most horrible thing you can do to that person. And I would expect my partner to think the same.
    Dannylove90 Dannylove90 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 4

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    I have never cheated in a relationship,

    but usually end up being cheated on. I will however cheat in a board game ;) mwahaha. like monopoly.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    Never have and can say I never will!

    I've been cheated on myself, and it's the most hurtful thing someone can do to you. You trust who you're with, you'd do anything for them, so how can they go behind your back for the sake of 5mins of pleasure? I'll never understand that! If the cheater isn't happy in the...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M Jan 31

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    Hard enough to keep one relationship going.

    But two? Or more??? Forget it!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response May 12

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    Never, I think that if you like someone

    or are dating them. The it's ONLY them. And if you want to be with someone else tell them, it won't hurt them as much as cheating will...
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F Apr 27

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    What's the point of having someone else invest

    their time and feelings into you and you're over there messing around?
    S33BS S33BS 18-21, F Jun 12

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    I've been on the otherside of

    that coin and I can honestly say that I couldn't cheat on someone i was seeing - if i wasn't happy I would hope to be man (or woman) enough to be honest, to try and work things out together or to end things - but to have your cake and eat it by cheating.... not for me thank you...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Let Me Tell You About The Man I Live With

    I HATE HIM HE IS A **** ADDICT I WOKE UP TO HIM LOOKING AT WOMEN' S PRIVATES Please guys if you love your wife and she is against you doing this, honor her request. Mine doesn't love me or he wouldn't hurt me. Please if you are going to slander me don't post anything i have had...
    kimintheclouds kimintheclouds 36-40, F 13 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Soooo Many Opportunities

    I've been with my husband for 9 years now, we've only been married for 2 years and I 've had many opportunities to cheat on him and by that I mean offers, men have approached me knowing I am married and they really don't care. Our marriage is like most we have our awesome times...
    drkiris drkiris 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    i dont believe in cheating

    and i believe the ones who cheat are heartless and have no sense of guilt :( it is sucha shame that so many people cheat nowdays. Cheating is one of the worst form of betrayal,The worst thing a person can do to the other person he once loved/loves. I dont think anyone would ever...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    Anyone that cheats, should not be in a

    relationship. That is a plain as day for me, that's how I feel personally. If a relationship is not going great, take a break, say something.. Do something that involves you speaking to your other half about it, cheating never solves anything. Good at the time?, probably is for...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    just because you are not happy with the one

    your with does not mean you should lie to , betray and hurt the one your with. think through how they would feel or the things that you have been through I know me personally have been hurt by many exs because they have cheated I would never cheat . I would hope no one else...
    canyouhandleme canyouhandleme 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    i cant bear anymore ,

    all this hearts and flowers ****... i have been through lot of negativity all my life... racist attacks, abuse, physical torture, smoke, drink... u name it and i had it... covering all those blocks i get to live, yeah pretty stuck life, but still above all those **** that...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F Apr 5

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    I would NEVER cheat! I have been cheated on

    before and trust me, I wouldn't want to be on the other side x
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F Apr 27

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    I Don't Believe In Cheating

    I am single, and I am not ready to be in a relationship again. I am focused on my education and getting my Ged diploma and focusing on my future. That's what I want before I get into a relationship. I've seen people cheat on their spouses and I find it unnecessary and stupid. I...
    itsjustbrit itsjustbrit 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    Nope, nope, nope, NEVER.

    .I think loyalty is extremely important, if you're not happy..then leave, don't just hurt someone else because you "aren't feeling the same" anymore..will he or she be upset if you left? Of course, but cheating? it's just not a fun thing to deal with..it's not a fun thing at all...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I aint the cheating kind.

    I could never cheat on someone that I am involved with, because I know what it is like to be cheated on, and its a pain that I'd never want to inflict upon anyone. I rather break up with someone, and hurt them that way, than to cheat on them, and have them feel betrayed that way...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Mar 11

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    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    I take issue with cheating!

    There is nothing more painful than to find out the person you trusted was not protecting your relationship. That they were able to fall into ugly lure of lust and give up a tie that binds to lovers to someone else. Yes I was not born yesterday and I understand people are unhappy...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I would never cheat, not

    even if I was in a pretty bad relationship. I would never cheat on anyone. Always end it before searching, becuase if your girlfriend finds out, she'll lose trust in you, and lack of trust in relationship, don't work to well.
    4EverBlissful 4EverBlissful 22-25, F Jun 6

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    I don't believe in cheating I am monogamous

    till the end and in fact I feel like the type of person to mate for life. Although I understand that circumstances could change those plans.
    BrittanyAP07 BrittanyAP07 26-30, F Jan 4

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    If we are together or talking,

    I will never cheat on you. It's just how I was raised. It's just how I am. So get over it. :P
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F Mar 27

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    I've been married for almost 30 years now.

    For the most part, I am happy and content, but then there is this dark side of me that only a couple of people that have gotten close enough to me know that I struggle with a needs, wants, and fantasies that I am not getting in my marriage. At times I just want to see a...
    Chrissy1961 Chrissy1961 51-55, F 10 Responses Feb 28

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    i dont agree with it in any form.

    ...i believe that flirting is a form of cheatin its like a gateway to cheating and i dont feel comfortable with it. If a married man or a man with a steady girlfriend even tries to flirt with me i disapprove of it and i make it clear to them and that i am not there for that...
    figmentoftheirimagination figmentoftheirimagination 26-30, F 1 Response May 31

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