I Aint the Cheating Kind

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    nah....what for? I'm much older now

    and more mature. I don't need to resort to cowardly childish ways! i jus aint the cheating kind!
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    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    Having been two-timed before,

    I know how it feels to be cheated on. No way I could put someone else through the same crap. :/
    mhenson144 mhenson144
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 7, 2014

    My old supervisor invited me

    for drinks last night at his place, but I declined because not only is that unprofessional but also drinking can sometimes lead to other things and with my husband deployed he's been hitting on me more often. I think I've watched Tyler Perry's Temptations enough times to know...
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    2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    i cant bear anymore ,

    all this hearts and flowers ****... i have been through lot of negativity all my life... racist attacks, abuse, physical torture, smoke, drink... u name it and i had it... covering all those blocks i get to live, yeah pretty stuck life, but still above all those **** that...
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    1 Response Apr 5, 2014

    I aint the cheating kind.

    I could never cheat on someone that I am involved with, because I know what it is like to be cheated on, and its a pain that I'd never want to inflict upon anyone. I rather break up with someone, and hurt them that way, than to cheat on them, and have them feel betrayed that way...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2014
    Jaymaxey Jaymaxey
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    I don't believe in cheating full stop,

    as ive already stated in my previous posts, I'm too kind and caring that i like to focus on the one I have ;) you know who you are lol, but seriously why should I look to someone elsewhere when i can spend my time in different ways keeping you happy
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    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    I Don't Believe In Cheating

    I am single, and I am not ready to be in a relationship again. I am focused on my education and getting my Ged diploma and focusing on my future. That's what I want before I get into a relationship. I've seen people cheat on their spouses and I find it unnecessary and stupid. I...
    itsjustbrit itsjustbrit
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2013

    Anyone that cheats, should not be in a

    relationship. That is a plain as day for me, that's how I feel personally. If a relationship is not going great, take a break, say something.. Do something that involves you speaking to your other half about it, cheating never solves anything. Good at the time?, probably is for...
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    1 Response Jul 4, 2014

    Cheating is wrong on

    so many levels. Ive been cheated on and it killed me. Nobody deserves that turmoil
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    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    I can't even keep a friendship =_= Let's just

    say my lack of relationship skills kills every chance of that damn romance? Like that's ever gonna happen, anyhow I have my books, my parents, sister and dogs that's enough for now. I understand why people cheat though it's just that I'm not like that :P
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    1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    When I found out my husband cheated,

    I had an immediate urge to get back at him, but couldn't do it. I am a serial monogamist.... maybe even to a fault. The one move I made to quell my vindictiveness was naughty chat with one person only. Revenge just isn't worth the toll it takes on my soul.
    truthandbeauty truthandbeauty
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 18, 2014

    Let Me Tell You About The Man I Live With

    I HATE HIM HE IS A **** ADDICT I WOKE UP TO HIM LOOKING AT WOMEN' S PRIVATES Please guys if you love your wife and she is against you doing this, honor her request. Mine doesn't love me or he wouldn't hurt me. Please if you are going to slander me don't post anything i have had...
    kimintheclouds kimintheclouds
    36-40, F
    11 Responses Mar 17, 2012

    To me cheating is wrong.

    I've been on the other end of it a couple of times and so I know how messed up it can be. There's no way in the world I would do that to someone else. It's just wrong.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I am married and would not cheat on my husband

    because not only would I be cheating on him, I would be cheating on my son. I would never do anything to destroy my son's world, his family.
    belugagirl70 belugagirl70
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jan 27, 2014
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    2 Responses Jun 13, 2014

    Never have and can say I never will!

    I've been cheated on myself, and it's the most hurtful thing someone can do to you. You trust who you're with, you'd do anything for them, so how can they go behind your back for the sake of 5mins of pleasure? I'll never understand that! If the cheater isn't happy in the...
    Mick672 Mick672
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2014
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 5, 2014

    My bf is scard that I would cheat in him

    but I won't I don't treat guys like there nothing like some girls do
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    1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    feistccaa feistccaa
    26-30, F
    Jun 10, 2015

    I would NEVER cheat! I have been cheated on

    before and trust me, I wouldn't want to be on the other side x
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    1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    i dont believe in cheating

    and i believe the ones who cheat are heartless and have no sense of guilt :( it is sucha shame that so many people cheat nowdays. Cheating is one of the worst form of betrayal,The worst thing a person can do to the other person he once loved/loves. I dont think anyone would ever...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2014

    I think the feeling of getting cheated on is

    the worst feeling ever!! It's like someone is opening you up and pulling everything out of you slowly. I like to be a faithful person and not the cheating kind!
    penatomas penatomas
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2014

    I think one of the biggest factors in a

    relationship is trust. If you can't trust your partner, how can you expect them to trust you? Dating two people or having an affair in your marriage isn't right. Your suppose to be with one person. If your having an affair and your trying to decided which one you want to be...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 17, 2013

    Why should people cheat it's stupid don't they

    remember the words "I love you"and the other persons feelings if you cheated I hate you even though I don't know you
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    3 Responses May 15, 2015
    fullofhope123 fullofhope123
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

    Either were together,

    or were not. No 2 boyfriends at a time. -_- no.
    itsthisgirlagain itsthisgirlagain
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    I would never cheat. Cheating hurts people,

    and makes that someone think what did they do wrong. If your unhappy just end it. I would rather be dumped then cheated on any day!
    kaytiexgurlxoxo kaytiexgurlxoxo
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    If i'm with you, i'm with you only.

    If I accept us being together, I accept talking to you, even when i'm angry, being there for you when you have no one else, your **** becomes my ****. After i'm with you, you better believe you will be the only one, until you decide you don't want me around. You can sleep...
    Nicki617 Nicki617
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    I could never ever cheat on someone

    that I love. Imo its the most horrible thing you can do to that person. And I would expect my partner to think the same.
    Dannylove90 Dannylove90
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2014

    I've been on the otherside of

    that coin and I can honestly say that I couldn't cheat on someone i was seeing - if i wasn't happy I would hope to be man (or woman) enough to be honest, to try and work things out together or to end things - but to have your cake and eat it by cheating.... not for me thank you...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jul 4, 2014

    I don't believe in cheating I am monogamous

    till the end and in fact I feel like the type of person to mate for life. Although I understand that circumstances could change those plans.
    BrittanyAP07 BrittanyAP07
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2014

    just because you are not happy with the one

    your with does not mean you should lie to , betray and hurt the one your with. think through how they would feel or the things that you have been through I know me personally have been hurt by many exs because they have cheated I would never cheat . I would hope no one else...
    canyouhandleme canyouhandleme
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2013


    4BlackForest 4BlackForest
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 27, 2015

    '' pfftt! I don't play games with animals like

    cheetas. You almost never know what you get yourself into. I've been in a relationship for a long time. What I have learned is that you need to be open with your partner about your darkside (if you have one. i.e doing kinky things with more than one person) People have a...
    WinterSunShine WinterSunShine
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 24, 2015

    Nope, nope, nope, NEVER.

    .I think loyalty is extremely important, if you're not happy..then leave, don't just hurt someone else because you "aren't feeling the same" anymore..will he or she be upset if you left? Of course, but cheating? it's just not a fun thing to deal with..it's not a fun thing at all...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2014

    Last year, I started dating my college friend,

    he was a nice guy, hot, I was attracted to him...but I wasn't in love with him,and I was honest with him about it. He really did like me, but he would still hangout with his ex. I never told him off on that cause I was too still hungover my ex. However, me and my ex were in a...
    mysteryhistory08 mysteryhistory08
    22-25, F
    Feb 1, 2016
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015
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    Aug 29, 2015

    I've been cheated on before,

    and let me tell you, it doesn't feel good. No way could I ever do that to someone. Nor could I knowingly be with another guy's girl.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    If I would have a partner,

    I would never cheat. The only thing I'm cheating in are some video games (and only the single player ones). But in everything else I would never do that.
    BiNiceBoy BiNiceBoy
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 27, 2015

    A kiss isn't cheating,

    if it is then I've cheated on my man with my family... O.O
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2014

    Anyone seen the Ashley Madison advert?

    ?? I'm looking for someone other than my wife other than my wife!! lol crazy world!
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2014

    Recently I disconnected my internet connection

    and my last bill was a rip of by my telecom with faulty readings Inspite of giving proof and thousands of explanations they didnt understand me and I paid a ransom amount and I thought of it as my karma But yesterday one thing happened I got a call from my A/C service provider...
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    Feb 11, 2015

    I've been married for almost 30 years now.

    For the most part, I am happy and content, but then there is this dark side of me that only a couple of people that have gotten close enough to me know that I struggle with a needs, wants, and fantasies that I am not getting in my marriage. At times I just want to see a...
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    10 Responses Feb 28, 2014


    I have several friends right now going through divorce because of cheating spouses.  cheating is so distructive these people have destroyed their families and their relationships with their kids.  In all the cases the kids now want nothing to do with the cheating parents...
    likeliness likeliness
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2012

    how do u fix a relationship

    after being cheated on?
    ChangingLife2015 ChangingLife2015
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    Cheat on me and just find out what happens to

    you. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Keep that in mind guys.
    keishajo keishajo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    I ain't the cheating kind.

    .. Because I know how it feels to be cheated on. It hurts. It really does.
    xJesuslivesx xJesuslivesx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    Having been cheated on twice,

    I couldn't do it and live with myself. Guilt would engulf every happiness knowing how incredibly hurtful it is. Deep, deep wounds. Just end it honorably and with integrity or get to counseling. I think that people's feelings are more important than cheap pleasure.
    Becface112 Becface112
    41-45, F
    Sep 30, 2015

    Cheat goes far beyond sex.

    ..a lie is a cheat,hiding something is a cheat,missleading is cheating. I hate cheaters...gamers not able to speak up what really is in their mind throwing out lies or silence full of doubts and swallowed words...leading you to nowhere.
    4biandu 4biandu
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014


    Cheater Cheater pumpkin eater. Its not so nice to betray somebody. If ya wanna do stuff with other people say so and be like see ya don't be all mean and try and have your cake and eat it too. Which is a weird way to say what its trying to say cause when you hear that its like...
    pipsqeek pipsqeek
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Oct 19, 2013
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