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I Aint the Cheating Kind

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    Cheat Or Not To Cheat...?

    I have never been one to cheat, and goodness knows i have had plenty of opportunity, but low and behold my conscience won't permit it, and i know i wouldn't want it done to me, yes i'm human, an attractive woman who constantly knocks back men's advances towards me simply because...
    Kittygalore23 Kittygalore23 26-30, F 5 Responses May 13, 2013

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    Soooo Many Opportunities

    I've been with my husband for 9 years now, we've only been married for 2 years and I 've had many opportunities to cheat on him and by that I mean offers, men have approached me knowing I am married and they really don't care. Our marriage is like most we have our awesome times...
    drkiris drkiris 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 17, 2010

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    Jaymaxey Jaymaxey 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    Discouraged

    I have several friends right now going through divorce because of cheating spouses.  cheating is so distructive these people have destroyed their families and their relationships with their kids.  In all the cases the kids now want nothing to do with the cheating parents...
    likeliness likeliness 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    It's betraying your partner

    when you told them that you loved them and trust them..I do not respect people who cheat on their partners, no matter what their excuse is. I hate the whole fact of cheating on your love, I would never do anything so much as that to hurt someone. I fell in love with a person who...
    SarahBear907 SarahBear907 16-17, F Feb 21

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    I've never been on either side of this situation

    and hope to never be! I think if you're unhappy with who you are with, at least have to balls to be honest and tell them. I have seen this a lot through friends of mine and could never do this to another, just not in me. Simple as that.
    Goodbadladywoman Goodbadladywoman 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Nor The Other Woman

    I won't play that game. If you lie, saying you are single and i discover otherwise.... goodbye. Or tell me you live in a sexless marriage.... then get out, cause i still won't play. Even matters of the heart, i won't cross that line if you are "suppose" to be in love with...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 11, 2011

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    “When someone loves you,

    the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth.” the quote looks good , isnt it?? but guess what things aren't as good as it seems to be. so go out, and get a life, before life comes and effs u hard...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You Can Not

    Unbreak someone's heart. Best to tap out.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I would never cheat. Cheating hurts people,

    and makes that someone think what did they do wrong. If your unhappy just end it. I would rather be dumped then cheated on any day!
    kaytiexgurlxoxo kaytiexgurlxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    If your really in love with someone then you

    wouldn't feel the need to cheat cause all you want is them
    Promisesarebullshit Promisesarebullshit 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    Naw

    I've never actually cheated in a relationship. It wouldn't feel right, so I wouldn't do it.
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T 2 Responses Aug 4, 2013

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    I Don't Believe In Cheating

    I am single, and I am not ready to be in a relationship again. I am focused on my education and getting my Ged diploma and focusing on my future. That's what I want before I get into a relationship. I've seen people cheat on their spouses and I find it unnecessary and stupid. I...
    itsjustbrit itsjustbrit 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    i dont believe in cheating

    and i believe the ones who cheat are heartless and have no sense of guilt :( it is sucha shame that so many people cheat nowdays. Cheating is one of the worst form of betrayal,The worst thing a person can do to the other person he once loved/loves. I dont think anyone would ever...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    Never have and can say I never will!

    I've been cheated on myself, and it's the most hurtful thing someone can do to you. You trust who you're with, you'd do anything for them, so how can they go behind your back for the sake of 5mins of pleasure? I'll never understand that! If the cheater isn't happy in the...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M Jan 31

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    Ive never been good at constant lying

    and cheating, my conscience would be eaten up with guilt. I recently just removed myself from a relationship that was so baffling to me. Looking back, I really think the person has a lot of deeper issues, things they really need to work out to know any kind of happiness, but are...
    LadyHawke68 LadyHawke68 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    Nope, nope, nope, NEVER.

    .I think loyalty is extremely important, if you're not happy..then leave, don't just hurt someone else because you "aren't feeling the same" anymore..will he or she be upset if you left? Of course, but cheating? it's just not a fun thing to deal with..it's not a fun thing at all...
    YoursTrulyLina YoursTrulyLina 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I don't understand cheaters

    if you want to sleep around just be single and sleep around don't waste someones valuable time and toy with their heart because you want to be a **** muffin.
    Hachimalachi Hachimalachi 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I hate all the "I'm the other woman" "I have

    been unfaithful" experiences. What's the point in being with someone if you are going to cheat with someone else..if you know your partner does not want an open relationship and you do then give them the respect and walk away. There are a lot of men and women who love to swing...
    Irishlady20 Irishlady20 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    I take issue with cheating!

    There is nothing more painful than to find out the person you trusted was not protecting your relationship. That they were able to fall into ugly lure of lust and give up a tie that binds to lovers to someone else. Yes I was not born yesterday and I understand people are unhappy...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I never will cheat. My first boyfriend cheated

    on me, and it hurt me so much that I never want someone else to go through that. I was once accused of being the homewrecker in a cheating couple. Unfortunately, I was a good friend of the guy cheating on his girlfriend. He was cheating with someone else, but we were such good...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F Jan 5

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    Any way you sugarcoat it no one's forced to

    cheat. It's a choice. You have two options if you simply must get your freak on: Do it deceptively or break it off with your current. Nothing's stopping you from ending things and having whatever fun or release you crave the legit way. If you cheat you're just being selfish...
    WeBePeasants WeBePeasants 22-25 1 Response Jan 5

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    Mhm

    Cheater Cheater pumpkin eater. Its not so nice to betray somebody. If ya wanna do stuff with other people say so and be like see ya don't be all mean and try and have your cake and eat it too. Which is a weird way to say what its trying to say cause when you hear that its like...
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    just because you are not happy with the one

    your with does not mean you should lie to , betray and hurt the one your with. think through how they would feel or the things that you have been through I know me personally have been hurt by many exs because they have cheated I would never cheat . I would hope no one else...
    canyouhandleme canyouhandleme 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    I don't believe in cheating I am monogamous

    till the end and in fact I feel like the type of person to mate for life. Although I understand that circumstances could change those plans.
    BrittanyAP07 BrittanyAP07 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Moving Forward

    So he cheated and right now I want to be alone. Well...not alone, but I want to be away from him. I have to move on or this will consume me. I can only imagine what I sound like; it has been all can think about or talk about. It has controlled how I react, it has stollen my...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2012

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    Let Me Tell You About The Man I Live With

    I HATE HIM HE IS A **** ADDICT I WOKE UP TO HIM LOOKING AT WOMEN' S PRIVATES Please guys if you love your wife and she is against you doing this, honor her request. Mine doesn't love me or he wouldn't hurt me. Please if you are going to slander me don't post anything i have had...
    kimintheclouds kimintheclouds 36-40, F 17 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    I think that cheating is like the worst I mean

    if you stopped loving your bf or gf or you just want to go after someone else,then just break with them and go for whoever you like. What's the point to cheat and then let the person who loves you discover it and feel bad about it?
    miserableamy miserableamy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Why have a dirty £3 kebab

    when you can have a Tenderloin Steak every night? <3 <3 <3
    InsectWarfare InsectWarfare 31-35, M Feb 24

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    i aint cheating kind i have never cheated

    anyone in my whole life and i never will because cheating is not in my blood i hate when people cheat anyone i have never cheated my girlfriend i have never cheated my friends i have never cheated relatives i dont know why people have such a bad habit i want to thank god because...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M Jan 31

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    I aint the cheating kind.

    I could never cheat on someone that I am involved with, because I know what it is like to be cheated on, and its a pain that I'd never want to inflict upon anyone. I rather break up with someone, and hurt them that way, than to cheat on them, and have them feel betrayed that way...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    When I found out my husband cheated,

    I had an immediate urge to get back at him, but couldn't do it. I am a serial monogamist.... maybe even to a fault. The one move I made to quell my vindictiveness was naughty chat with one person only. Revenge just isn't worth the toll it takes on my soul.
    LittleLilly7 LittleLilly7 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    What kills relationships these days is online

    dating .. I hear it's easy to get laid just by the make of a profile. Lmfao you (and you know who u are) are pathetic and I found your profile just now .. On and crakin
    imjustagirl81 imjustagirl81 31-35, F Mar 15

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    I think one of the biggest factors in a

    relationship is trust. If you can't trust your partner, how can you expect them to trust you? Dating two people or having an affair in your marriage isn't right. Your suppose to be with one person. If your having an affair and your trying to decided which one you want to be...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 13-15, F Dec 17, 2013

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    I could never ever cheat on someone

    that I love. Imo its the most horrible thing you can do to that person. And I would expect my partner to think the same.
    Dannylove90 Dannylove90 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 4

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    I ain't the cheating kind.

    .. Because I know how it feels to be cheated on. It hurts. It really does.
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    If we are together or talking,

    I will never cheat on you. It's just how I was raised. It's just how I am. So get over it. :P
    HopelesslyInLoveWithHer HopelesslyInLoveWithHer 16-17, F Mar 27

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    I am married and would not cheat on my husband

    because not only would I be cheating on him, I would be cheating on my son. I would never do anything to destroy my son's world, his family.
    belugagirl70 belugagirl70 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    If I'm there I'm there.

    Anything else would just be a waste of time and I REALLY ain't the wasting time kind.
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I never would have been in the first place.

    .. but after seeing my dear aunt and her experiences with cheating, my views have been further cemented.My aunt is the sweetest lady in the world. She is a 70-year-old British white woman, and she is adorable, kindhearted, and sweet.  The first time I ever met her, I was at my...
    Boulier Boulier 16-17, F Jan 2

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    i cant bear anymore ,

    all this hearts and flowers ****... i have been through lot of negativity all my life... racist attacks, abuse, physical torture, smoke, drink... u name it and i had it... covering all those blocks i get to live, yeah pretty stuck life, but still above all those **** that...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    fullofhope123 fullofhope123 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2013

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    babydoll711 babydoll711 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Ok. So I'm worried that my fiancé might cheat on me again. We are in the military. He was on duty and I was at home. I started thinking about a lot of things. I always think when...
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    So I have a boyfriend and I met this guy who he is friends with. His friend is kinda the player type but he likes me and I like him and like if I cheat on my boyfriend it's not...
    darleny2219 darleny2219 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F Apr 10

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    just broke up with my girlfriend of fifteen years and was heartbroken when I was thrown out of the house. I found out I was being cheated on while I was still with her. It's about...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    My boyfriend of three years ,cheated on me at the start of the year, i only found out by looking on Facebook and on his profile it had got in a relationship with another woman...
    olivias12345 olivias12345 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 9

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    it's been 3 year i am with my fiancer! couple of months ago i got this guy who was one of is good friend write me on fb saying that my fiancer is cheating on me! at work since he...
    alexee10 alexee10 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have a hard time standing up for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband is cheating on me. He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing...
    charl28 charl28 22-25, F Mar 31

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