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I Allways Worry What People Think of Me

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    had a eating disorder for a while in the street people stare at me i always wonder what there thinking when they look at me eww gross shes ugly?along that lines this is why i dont try get friends:(
    xkity123x xkity123x 18-21, T Dec 13, 2010

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    Always, Not Allways

    I do wonder what people would say if they saw me now, dressed as I am at 9pm in a dressing gown, scarf, sunglasses and flip flops, eating rice out of a plastic pot. But then that is why as you can tell by now I am a social recluse. It's better for us all this way, believe me.
    newmurderer newmurderer 70+ Apr 26, 2010

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    I Need to Stop Worrying, People Like Me.

    i have fans on EP even after only sharing a few stories. People seem to like me based on a general impression I give them. They don't pick-out certain things that made them want to click the "favourite" button, when I ask them. They say that they got a general...
    demonizd demonizd 31-35, M 5 Responses Feb 20, 2009

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    I Wish I Didn't

    But its hard for me. I guess around other people that I don't really know, I get this sinking feeling and that's why I don't talk all that much. I choose very carefully what I want to wear in the morning because if its something that's just....out there, I guess, I know people...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F Jan 18, 2009

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    Could Be Medical

    I've never been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder or anything. I just feel so self-consciences and I crave people's approval. If I don't get it, I feel like a failure and that I should just immediately give up, go home, crawl under the covers and cry. I'm...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    I Hate It

    I have always worried about what people think of me..ever since I was a kid. I was picked on to an extent for my weight..though I wasn't THAT big back then. If my hair wasn't right, if I didn't have the right clothes, etc. I worried about what others were thinking of me. I was...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    I Want To Be Free From It.

    I cant say that I always worry about it, but it is a pain when i do. It stops me from being myself. I get too easily influenced by other peoples body languages and tones, even the very subtle stuff...sometimes i think i see things that are not there. I do have phases where i am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    I can't help it, I want to take every body's

    opinions and take them to heart so I can change. But it's hard for me because I'm also to sensitive. Someone please help
    CaddellAlexis14 CaddellAlexis14 13-15, F 1 Response May 17

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    Annoyed At Myself For This

    Even here on EP it's like that sometimes. After typing something I suddenly get self-conscious, thinking isn't this too blunt, too cheesy, too smart-alecky or whatever. Then I say to myself: "Wtf, just post it already!!!" and then "I can't believe I just posted that..." then I'm...
    NekoGummy NekoGummy 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Why Do I Care?

    I don't know why, but I have always cared what people thought of me. If I'm doing something, I'll stop and think if I look stupid doing it. It doesn't matter if I am having fun doing it, it just matters what I look like doing it and what people might be thinking. If they...
    Krysta Krysta 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    Little Worries

    I don't why I am this way but I always worry I'm not good enough for people, I mean I guess really deep down I believe I'm equal but my mind isn't letting me accept that. You could be the worse to me and though my mouth is saying I'm fed up, my mind is saying "I just want you to...
    darkdestiny921 darkdestiny921 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    More Than I Want

    I am always looking for approval. Or reassurance of something. I thought i had changed. cause im really trying to be one of those say-whatever-is-on-my-mind-be-me-goofy-and-all-and-not- give-a-sh%^*-about-wat-others-think... but i guess not. i still do. worry. People's opinions...
    21butterfly 21butterfly 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    The Pressure Is Abhorrent!

    Will I lose my friend if I don't pick up my relationship with my ex?(She is his brothers gf). What will my ex do if I tell him I don't know if I want to be in a relationship? I don't know how I feel about him! I worry about what my dad thinks, but he doesn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    I'm curious of what others think about me. If you saw me in high-school what would your first impression of me be?
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    I wonder what my first impression on people . If you were to actually meet me in person what would you think of me?? what would you do?? would you try and change me or would you...
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    A lot of people get butt hurt or want to fight others in school for what they said about them, but it's not worth it in the end they are not the ones who are going to contribute to...
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    I believe that sometimes you become what your parents feared. My parents have always shown a dislike for the wild-haired, dark-clothed, strong-willed type people who work at the...
    LaurenHarris LaurenHarris 13-15, F Jun 28

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    For a long time I lived in the unrealistic fantasy that everyone liked me and I was never talked about, so I was always shocked when someone would tell me other people were talking...
    weallknowhowitfeels weallknowhowitfeels 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I don't know if I am at all lovable or remotly handsom.. but id value your opinion. Be it kind or venomous.
    silverthewulf silverthewulf 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I'd love to be my friend! Because I'm so damn cool! 💯 ¥_•
    SammySnm SammySnm 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    If don't like something you see then shut the **** up. No one cares about your opinion so why would I
    raul6 raul6 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I gave this up a long time ago. I do not care any more what people think of me. I am who I am and if one does not like that, well sorry, I will not change. I can make compromises...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jul 15

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    I know this is getting a bit boring for some people when they see another person asking about their looks haha. But I've got some more comments recently and was just wondering what...
    LFCno1 LFCno1 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just like to know what people think of me and I like details so I always want to know 😁
    daisyjane17 daisyjane17 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    People think I'm weird . I do admit I can be weird sometimes . But it's mostly on my views on politics , gay marriage , legalizing marijuana , or homosexuals. I'll give anyone...
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    People think I'm innocent in the roles I take. They think I'm a good girl. It's why I came on here so I can say what I think without getting in trouble. I an in the closet bisexual...
    cutenerdette cutenerdette 31-35, F 14 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't bet people think I'm weird, I KNOW people think on weird, Honestly, Sometimes I think I'm weird, But, I laugh at myself so it's okay and besides, you don't needa be normal...
    StayingSaneWithoutYou StayingSaneWithoutYou 13-15, F Jul 11

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    I'm not going to waste my energy caring what others think, though I don't really hear what other people say since I usually wear headphones after my shift/class is over.
    CloakedStranger CloakedStranger 22-25, M Jun 29

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    I KNOW people think I'm weird. But I'm not going to apologize for my weirdness. When I was in middle school and elementary school my weirdness was the only thing I had. I know...
    ToBeAnOtaku101 ToBeAnOtaku101 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Most people think I'm stuck up when they first meet me. Once they get to know me they see that I'm down to earth and a good person to have in their corner.
    lovinlife27 lovinlife27 26-30, F Jul 10

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    And neither should you. Cyber hate is a thing now too apparently. Listen, they are all random people, as am I. Why care about what they think? Even in real life. You're just you...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F Jul 15

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    Sadly no. Haha people think I'm the straight A student that tries her hardest and respects everyone. Which I am don't get me wrong. I also love to sneak out, I lie a lot, and I...
    weyheyitstori weyheyitstori 13-15, F Jul 3

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    Ever since i was young i've tried looking the best playing the part after time i saw that people only thought of me as fake and a wanna be, after that people started pushing me...
    Dck101 Dck101 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm never what people expect. When I was younger it bothered me. Now I revel in the fact that I'm completely unexpected and hard to pin down. Being average is definitely not my...
    sunny875 sunny875 36-40, F Jun 27

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    yeah i have written my experiences in every experience i said me too..i wanna know what u think of me ..wanna know which type of a person i am ,being anonymous wanna know how many...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    *UPDATE* On the "I Want To Stay Strong Against Temptation" Well he started calling me to tell me that he misses me, wants to see me, all this stuff and he called me babe and...
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F Jun 29

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    Spent the first half of my life trying to fit in with trends or music or other kid stuff like that. But then one day you wake up and say..."NO! I WILL NOT FOLLOW TRENDS AND PRETEND...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I often wonder what people say about me .. I try my best to ignore it all.. & when sum1 infos me about it I play the part as if i could give a crapp what any1 says my nephews dumb...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F Jul 13

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    Tell me what you think!!(:
    KingJones97 KingJones97 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    People don't believe GOD exist for these reasons: 1- they are more into science 2- things happen in their life and they lost faith (basically weak in faith) 3-they are more of...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I've been thinking about this lately as I've been meeting many new people and at the same time following necessary routines that take up all of my time, where I'm with these...
    LEMONkinks LEMONkinks 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I can’t stop thinking about suicide it literally consumes every ounce of my being and I can’t stop thinking about all the ways to do it and all the relief i’ll feel and the...
    Aliceasdfghjkl Aliceasdfghjkl 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    All the time i just hear people calling me talented and gorgeous and competent and special, but i don't know if it is because they actually think i am, or they feel sorry for me...
    ChlaraX ChlaraX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    The story of the donkey (why you can never please everyone) There once was a man with a donkey. He had to go to the market with his son, so he put his son to ride on the donkey...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Idk willy Wht they are thinking some people are thinking sex,boys,life or about any thing really
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    i wonder why everyone is just the buyer of looks why no one looks into ur soul..why there is no onw who can comletely understand u,if there is nothing like this existed in the...
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5