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I Allways Worry What People Think of Me

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    The Pressure Is Abhorrent!

    Will I lose my friend if I don't pick up my relationship with my ex?(She is his brothers gf). What will my ex do if I tell him I don't know if I want to be in a relationship? I don't know how I feel about him! I worry about what my dad thinks, but he doesn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Always, Not Allways

    I do wonder what people would say if they saw me now, dressed as I am at 9pm in a dressing gown, scarf, sunglasses and flip flops, eating rice out of a plastic pot. But then that is why as you can tell by now I am a social recluse. It's better for us all this way, believe me.
    newmurderer newmurderer 70+ Apr 26, 2010

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    Little Worries

    I don't why I am this way but I always worry I'm not good enough for people, I mean I guess really deep down I believe I'm equal but my mind isn't letting me accept that. You could be the worse to me and though my mouth is saying I'm fed up, my mind is saying "I just want you to...
    darkdestiny921 darkdestiny921 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    I Need to Stop Worrying, People Like Me.

    i have fans on EP even after only sharing a few stories. People seem to like me based on a general impression I give them. They don't pick-out certain things that made them want to click the "favourite" button, when I ask them. They say that they got a general...
    demonizd demonizd 31-35, M 5 Responses Feb 20, 2009

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    I Wish I Didn't

    But its hard for me. I guess around other people that I don't really know, I get this sinking feeling and that's why I don't talk all that much. I choose very carefully what I want to wear in the morning because if its something that's just....out there, I guess, I know people...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F Jan 18, 2009

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    More Than I Want

    I am always looking for approval. Or reassurance of something. I thought i had changed. cause im really trying to be one of those say-whatever-is-on-my-mind-be-me-goofy-and-all-and-not- give-a-sh%^*-about-wat-others-think... but i guess not. i still do. worry. People's opinions...
    21butterfly 21butterfly 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Annoyed At Myself For This

    Even here on EP it's like that sometimes. After typing something I suddenly get self-conscious, thinking isn't this too blunt, too cheesy, too smart-alecky or whatever. Then I say to myself: "Wtf, just post it already!!!" and then "I can't believe I just posted that..." then I'm...
    NekoGummy NekoGummy 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Could Be Medical

    I've never been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder or anything. I just feel so self-consciences and I crave people's approval. If I don't get it, I feel like a failure and that I should just immediately give up, go home, crawl under the covers and cry. I'm...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    I can't help it, I want to take every body's

    opinions and take them to heart so I can change. But it's hard for me because I'm also to sensitive. Someone please help
    CaddellAlexis14 CaddellAlexis14 13-15, F 1 Response May 17

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    I Hate It

    I have always worried about what people think of me..ever since I was a kid. I was picked on to an extent for my weight..though I wasn't THAT big back then. If my hair wasn't right, if I didn't have the right clothes, etc. I worried about what others were thinking of me. I was...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    I Want To Be Free From It.

    I cant say that I always worry about it, but it is a pain when i do. It stops me from being myself. I get too easily influenced by other peoples body languages and tones, even the very subtle stuff...sometimes i think i see things that are not there. I do have phases where i am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    had a eating disorder for a while in the street people stare at me i always wonder what there thinking when they look at me eww gross shes ugly?along that lines this is why i dont try get friends:(
    xkity123x xkity123x 18-21, T Dec 13, 2010

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    Why Do I Care?

    I don't know why, but I have always cared what people thought of me. If I'm doing something, I'll stop and think if I look stupid doing it. It doesn't matter if I am having fun doing it, it just matters what I look like doing it and what people might be thinking. If they...
    Krysta Krysta 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    I left my husband about 2 and 1/2 years ago. We were together for 7 years and we have 3 beautiful children together, but our marriage was toxic. He was extremely emotionally...
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    I'm not as smart or in control of my life as people think I am. I mean I have a lot of cool accomplishments that make me seem like I have my life together. I'm only 17 and I've...
    iciwu28 iciwu28 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I'm crazy weird funny smart cute adorable nice sweet but honestly idgaf what u think!!!!! Yes I may sing and dance randomly make weird faces and noises but who cares !? I stand out...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    How comes gay people always hit oh me?? I don't have anything against gay people, they really are the nicest. Thing is though, I'm not attractive to girls but I'm attractive to gay...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    based on my account, what do you think of me?
    IamGods IamGods 13-15, F a week ago

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    If don't like something you see then shut the **** up. No one cares about your opinion so why would I
    raul6 raul6 16-17, M Jul 21

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    I'm always awake so I'll talk anytime.. I'm 13 14 in January and I hate my life...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm starting to care less and less everyday
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I have a bf who is 10years older then me. The thing is I love him am I want to be with him the rest of like life. We know that we will have to wait to be together together till am...
    stuff950 stuff950 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Today I was talking with one of my EP friends about how a guy on here ignored me for no apparent reason. No matter what I tried to say to him, he wouldn't respond.. I don't believe...
    Tazzu Tazzu 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I also wonder what people think when they see me. What do you think?
    ollie27 ollie27 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everyone i know pretty much allways goes " what r u wearing!!" Or like "dont dance in public youre crazy" but whatever 😄✌️
    ep1093 ep1093 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    People think I'm weird . I do admit I can be weird sometimes . But it's mostly on my views on politics , gay marriage , legalizing marijuana , or homosexuals. I'll give anyone...
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F Jul 22

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    Today I woke up the day after reading an article about not caring what other people think and for the first time in quite a long while I feel free. 1. people are ALWAYS judging...
    Badtimanonymous Badtimanonymous 31-35, M Jul 27

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    I wonder what people really see.. When I look in the mirror I see nothing special but I can't help but wonder what other people see in me. I wonder if a stranger looks at me and...
    Missprincessgabby Missprincessgabby 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I know that the only time we are truly ourselves is not when we look into the mirror or smile for photos, but I'm still curious as to who I am perceived as. Do people see me as I...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I am not gonna care anymore whatever my cousins or other people think of me.
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    I am as smart as people think I am , lol I'm being super cocky eh? XD Nah, I an smart but sometimes people assume too much and point blank ask me to help them. I mean I'm smart...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    I wonder if people think I'm attractive, but I highly doubt it. I mean I don't even think I look attractive. I honestly hate the way I look.
    nathanieljlaw nathanieljlaw 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    People think i have a pretty face..? Well its too bad my body doesnt match it. Im "butch" i have wide shoulders, a huge ribcage but im short as ****. Im self conscious but how do...
    OverWorkedWoman OverWorkedWoman 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ever since i was young i've tried looking the best playing the part after time i saw that people only thought of me as fake and a wanna be, after that people started pushing me...
    DCK1309 DCK1309 13-15, M 4 Responses Jul 25

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    And don't lie please. I just really want to know how people think I look.
    dontcallmekaikai dontcallmekaikai 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I am a quiet person but it doesn't mean that i'm weak. I'm stronger than people think because i don't show, I don't exhib my strength
    Enjoyyourlife Enjoyyourlife 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    So I went to go see my grandma today. She has always been a massive part of my life. The family matriarch. Well she turns 80 in October. What she did today kind of depressed me...
    HeyIThappens HeyIThappens 18-21 Jul 30

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    i am me. thats all i know how to be and your ******* opinion is not needed i really don't want to hear what you think about me or what i should do. **** off and stay out my bidnez
    piercethemack piercethemack 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    Once you stop caring what others think of you, you take a huge step to what is called freedom.
    3dogmatt 3dogmatt 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It matters not what others think, it matters what I know.
    3dogmatt 3dogmatt 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    Tell me what you think!!(:
    KingJones97 KingJones97 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    Don't you hate it when you're caught between two things and you don't know what to think?!?! It sucks....
    AMB97 AMB97 16-17, F Jul 30

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    When people look at me I wonder if they see things all the same as each other or differently. I'm "Anny" to my friends (2) who accept my really big and obvious problems. I like...
    Andwen Andwen 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Them: "So what race are you? You look white but then Asian so what are you?" Me:"I'm Mexican ." What I should say: I'm human. That's what I am. My heritage, ancestry, history...
    jest04 jest04 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Idk willy Wht they are thinking some people are thinking sex,boys,life or about any thing really
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F Jul 22

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    People must think kindness means your weak and stupid or else why would they use it against you to screw u up while getting what they want....
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Everyday, we fall. Sometimes it is because we jump, or we slip. Or it because we are pushed, perhaps taken by desire and lust and passion. Maybe we're alone and maybe we are not...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M Aug 6

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