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I Allways Worry What People Think of Me

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28, 2014

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    I Want To Be Free From It.

    I cant say that I always worry about it, but it is a pain when i do. It stops me from being myself. I get too easily influenced by other peoples body languages and tones, even the very subtle stuff...sometimes i think i see things that are not there. I do have phases where i am...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    had a eating disorder for a while in the street people stare at me i always wonder what there thinking when they look at me eww gross shes ugly?along that lines this is why i dont try get friends:(
    xkity123x xkity123x 18-21, T Dec 13, 2010

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    The Pressure Is Abhorrent!

    Will I lose my friend if I don't pick up my relationship with my ex?(She is his brothers gf). What will my ex do if I tell him I don't know if I want to be in a relationship? I don't know how I feel about him! I worry about what my dad thinks, but he doesn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Always, Not Allways

    I do wonder what people would say if they saw me now, dressed as I am at 9pm in a dressing gown, scarf, sunglasses and flip flops, eating rice out of a plastic pot. But then that is why as you can tell by now I am a social recluse. It's better for us all this way, believe me.
    newmurderer newmurderer 66-70 Apr 26, 2010

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    I Need to Stop Worrying, People Like Me.

    i have fans on EP even after only sharing a few stories. People seem to like me based on a general impression I give them. They don't pick-out certain things that made them want to click the "favourite" button, when I ask them. They say that they got a general...
    demonizd demonizd 31-35, M 5 Responses Feb 20, 2009

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    I Hate It

    I have always worried about what people think of me..ever since I was a kid. I was picked on to an extent for my weight..though I wasn't THAT big back then. If my hair wasn't right, if I didn't have the right clothes, etc. I worried about what others were thinking of me. I was...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2012

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    More Than I Want

    I am always looking for approval. Or reassurance of something. I thought i had changed. cause im really trying to be one of those say-whatever-is-on-my-mind-be-me-goofy-and-all-and-not- give-a-sh%^*-about-wat-others-think... but i guess not. i still do. worry. People's opinions...
    21butterfly 21butterfly 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    Why Do I Care?

    I don't know why, but I have always cared what people thought of me. If I'm doing something, I'll stop and think if I look stupid doing it. It doesn't matter if I am having fun doing it, it just matters what I look like doing it and what people might be thinking. If they...
    Krysta Krysta 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    Annoyed At Myself For This

    Even here on EP it's like that sometimes. After typing something I suddenly get self-conscious, thinking isn't this too blunt, too cheesy, too smart-alecky or whatever. Then I say to myself: "Wtf, just post it already!!!" and then "I can't believe I just posted that..." then I'm...
    NekoGummy NekoGummy 36-40, F 11 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I can't help it, I want to take every body's

    opinions and take them to heart so I can change. But it's hard for me because I'm also to sensitive. Someone please help
    CaddellAlexis14 CaddellAlexis14 16-17, F 1 Response May 17, 2014

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    Could Be Medical

    I've never been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder or anything. I just feel so self-consciences and I crave people's approval. If I don't get it, I feel like a failure and that I should just immediately give up, go home, crawl under the covers and cry. I'm...
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    I Wish I Didn't

    But its hard for me. I guess around other people that I don't really know, I get this sinking feeling and that's why I don't talk all that much. I choose very carefully what I want to wear in the morning because if its something that's just....out there, I guess, I know people...
    stripesANDsunshine stripesANDsunshine 18-21, F Jan 18, 2009

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    Little Worries

    I don't why I am this way but I always worry I'm not good enough for people, I mean I guess really deep down I believe I'm equal but my mind isn't letting me accept that. You could be the worse to me and though my mouth is saying I'm fed up, my mind is saying "I just want you to...
    darkdestiny921 darkdestiny921 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    I honestly don't give a sh*t what people think of me. I don't care if I don't have any friends besides imaginary ones, because people don't agree with what I say. :) I am sure...
    ImaginaryBFF ImaginaryBFF 16-17, F Mar 12

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    This is bs , societal paradigm requires that one cares what others think in order to fit in with others no matter where you are within the social strata , you need friends...
    missreeedy missreeedy 31-35, F 9 Responses Feb 27

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    Why should worry or care about other people opinion. Not caring I know that I can't get hurt
    grgbyce978 grgbyce978 56-60, M 1 hr ago

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    I am annoyed at vain people. I am the first person you'd find smirking at someone who always have a mirror/camera on hand so that they can take a good look at their "perfect" self...
    nve09 nve09 18-21, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This is famous fable : A MAN and his son were once going with their Donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them and said: “You fools, what...
    om2013 om2013 22-25, M Mar 8

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    Until they learn me. Too bad that aint a law.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 10

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    I hate feeling scared to walk in the class room late because I feel that all the kids there are judging me that's why I'm always early
    Black15Camdy Black15Camdy 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    But am learning to only care for pals. Pals stay. Pals listen. Pals cherrish. Pals advise lovingly. Not monstrously.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 15

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    Yayyy black hair finally!! :D
    jbnichole jbnichole 18-21, F Mar 18

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    Sometimes I wonder what people think of when they see me, I look different and dress different then the majority of people I usually am around. I've gotten better with self image...
    JakeTheSlenderMan JakeTheSlenderMan 13-15, M Feb 28

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    it doesnt matter what people think about us what matters is what we think about our own self........
    anantbohra anantbohra 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    The whole looking glass self concept intrigues me. I know who I am and who I want to be but sometimes I wonder what people think when they see me. They say first impressions are...
    amculater amculater 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Have you ever been asked the question, "What Super-Power would you want to have?" I always chose mind-reading because I wanted to know what others thought about me. However, I...
    sheepysleepy sheepysleepy 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    Why do I do anything I do? Is it because it makes me happy? Is it because it makes me a better person? Is it because I want people to THINK that I'm happy and that I've got all my...
    shannonymous shannonymous 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    I have personal confidence issues with my body and wonder what other people would think if they had the chance to see it. I only get a biased opinion from those around me i know...
    colby21 colby21 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    What is life all about? I would say experiencing everything it has to offer right? Experiencing loving relationships, connecting with others, giving, finding joy, appreciating the...
    toniyl toniyl 36-40, F 13 hrs ago

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    This pic was taken today before I went to work. Don't be mean I know it is dumb to ask people their opinion of yourself but I just wanted to see what people have to say.
    Melanie15 Melanie15 16-17, F 32 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hide it well I think most of the time but yeah I'm definitely not as innocent as people think
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Feb 28

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    Dont Understand Why People Think Pitbulls Are Bad Dogs
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Dont Understand Why People Think Pitbulls Are Bad Dogs
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    For all of my close friends on here: Ev, Koda, Cody, Mark, Cosmic, Anu, Andres, and everyone else on here. I want you to tell the truth about me. I want to know exactly what you...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    Not caring what others think is freedom
    grgbyce978 grgbyce978 56-60, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    People (teenagers) who think they got it bad, or that they're depressed, so they cut or take pills and try to OD. ******* really? You have no idea what life is. Lemme give you a...
    GreenManley GreenManley 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 11

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    Most people would probably be concerned if they knew what I actually think about.. Everyone thinks I'm this quiet shy girl That's what I want them to believe
    DesireLovexx DesireLovexx 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Well, I've spoken to my director today about changing my roommate. And she told me that if four people are willing to do it, that isnt a big problem. Then, my roommate was sent to...
    candicexd123 candicexd123 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    in my opinion one should not think about sucide. if you even think about it you are coward. you are just running away from your problems, your mistakesor from this world because...
    divyam18 divyam18 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 2

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    I understand most of people in the world as I am able to think and feel keeping myself into their shoes.. And when I do that I realize that whatever someone has gone through, it's...
    xRohit xRohit 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 15

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    At my school everyone thinks I clean and everything but when they say that I just think Okay I don't like when people cuss and I don't cuss in front of people. but they think that...
    pinkhappysparkle pinkhappysparkle 13-15, F Mar 18

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